FabSwingers.com forum: How do i introduce my wife into swinging

By *ackformoresoldier OP Man
over a year ago

Blandford forum

Ive been a swinger for years before i started dating my wife and havent stopped but id love her to join me but scared incase she hates the idea but dont know how to bring it up. Also how do i do it without her ever finding out i have been swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive been a swinger for years before i started dating my wife and havent stopped but id love her to join me but scared incase she hates the idea but dont know how to bring it up. Also how do i do it without her ever finding out i have been swinging"

She'd probably do it at gun point...

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By *ackformoresoldier OP Man
over a year ago

Blandford forum

She'd probably do it at gun point... "

Dont think i need to take it that far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you stopped to think about this you already know the answers.

They just aren't what you want to hear so you thought asking a bunch of strangers on an Internet forum might absolve you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh, lord, surely you know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She'd probably do it at gun point...

Dont think i need to take it that far"

Have it as a backup option then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you never got round to mentioning it before you tied the knot. Tut tut....

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By *parkly MittensWoman
over a year ago

My own little world

"If you stopped to think about this you already know the answers.

They just aren't what you want to hear so you thought asking a bunch of strangers on an Internet forum might absolve you."

^^^^^^ this!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So you never got round to mentioning it before you tied the knot. Tut tut...."

It's hard to surprise your life partner after you've been together a while so best to keep some surprises in your back pocket

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Why didn't you stop when you started dating and then married your wife?

You didn't want to tell her because it might jeopardise your relationship so what has changed?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"So you never got round to mentioning it before you tied the knot. Tut tut....

It's hard to surprise your life partner after you've been together a while so best to keep some surprises in your back pocket"

Well, she's already seen the gun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The Jeremy Kyle Show is thataway brother! ----

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

You don't.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

let me try an analogy you might understand.... using keys words, not nessarilly in the right order.... you fill in the rest...

the clue is "this is what you are trying to do!

door

horse

bolted

after

stable

shut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"let me try an analogy you might understand.... using keys words, not nessarilly in the right order.... you fill in the rest...

the clue is "this is what you are trying to do!

door

horse

bolted

after

stable

shut"

Ha ha love it. Here's my attempt:

Use

the

Fucking

Forum seach

Function

So we don't have the same threads over and over again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wife meet swinging.

Swinging meet wife.

See how that goes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why you keeping secrets from someone you love?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest if that's you in your profile picture....I'm surprised you have not been spotted on here by someone who knows your wife.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a very interesting book called Sex at Dawn by Christopher Ryan. An interesting take on human sexuality, both of you read it and then discuss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I couldn't be faithful to one person, up to the point of getting married, and had no intentions of ever being monogamous. Why get married and declare complete commitment to another person ?

Not criticising the OP, I just genuinely don't get it

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