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"I've done this before, quite a few times. I do it if I'm not attracted to the person! I'm not going to send pics to a person I have no interest in! ![]() If I make a promise to exchange a face pic I will even if I don't find them attractive because I don't go back on my word. | |||
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"Usually a ' no reply' means they are not interested. All woman on here arm bombarded with mail, some of my meets get up to 400 messages a day, so responding to everyone isn't going to happen. They should reply but it says a lot about a person of they can't be arsed to send a pic " Yes I understand all that and it could be due to the amount of messages etc. I'm talking about the minority who lie there ass off just to get a peak at a face pic. Gladly it doesn't happen often but enough to make me very wary of people. | |||
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"I don't have many pet hates but one of them really bugs me on fab. When a woman asks to exchange face pics then doesn't keep her side of the bargain. It hasn't happened that many times but when it does it really gets my blood boiling. Why do people do this? " We often send face pictures first. We would find it strange if someone did not fancy us but nevertheless chose to send us a face picture back. | |||
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"I don't have many pet hates but one of them really bugs me on fab. When a woman asks to exchange face pics then doesn't keep her side of the bargain. It hasn't happened that many times but when it does it really gets my blood boiling. Why do people do this? We often send face pictures first. We would find it strange if someone did not fancy us but nevertheless chose to send us a face picture back." It's called common courtesy. | |||
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"You have to accept because there are many more men on here than women that they have to power to ask for a face pic and not send one in return. It just means they are not interested so move on. It's never really bothered me, but then it doesn't happen very often as I like to build up a rapport first as if they are only after looks then they probably aren't the right person for me to swing with. " I believe it means they're pig ugly ![]() | |||
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"You have to accept because there are many more men on here than women that they have to power to ask for a face pic and not send one in return. It just means they are not interested so move on. It's never really bothered me, but then it doesn't happen very often as I like to build up a rapport first as if they are only after looks then they probably aren't the right person for me to swing with. I believe it means they're pig ugly ![]() That's an ugly statement. If I asked for one I would return but if someone sends me one unsolicited I am under no obligation. | |||
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"You have to accept because there are many more men on here than women that they have to power to ask for a face pic and not send one in return. It just means they are not interested so move on. It's never really bothered me, but then it doesn't happen very often as I like to build up a rapport first as if they are only after looks then they probably aren't the right person for me to swing with. " ladies can ask for this or that , it doesn't mean you have to follow the request. I know my own worth .I've always thought if I send the first message I'll send the first picture, likewise if the lady has contacted me I hope they'll do the same, if they don't, I'm ok with them moving on to someone else ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I've done this before, quite a few times. I do it if I'm not attracted to the person! I'm not going to send pics to a person I have no interest in! ![]() Yep me too...I say "thank you but not for me". I never promise anything so why should I send a face pic back? It's pointless when I've just told the guy I'm not interested ![]() | |||
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"Usually a ' no reply' means they are not interested. All woman on here arm bombarded with mail, some of my meets get up to 400 messages a day, so responding to everyone isn't going to happen. They should reply but it says a lot about a person of they can't be arsed to send a pic " I don't know where this myth comes from that some women 'get up to 400 messages a day'!! I can honestly say that the only time I ever received upwards of that amount of mail was when I was completely new to the site, didn't know how to set my filters or age limits etc but I soon learned!! If a woman tells you that it's her way of saying you are way down on her list of priorities and don't be expecting a reply any time soon.... ![]() | |||
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"Usually a ' no reply' means they are not interested. All woman on here arm bombarded with mail, some of my meets get up to 400 messages a day, so responding to everyone isn't going to happen. They should reply but it says a lot about a person of they can't be arsed to send a pic I don't know where this myth comes from that some women 'get up to 400 messages a day'!! I can honestly say that the only time I ever received upwards of that amount of mail was when I was completely new to the site, didn't know how to set my filters or age limits etc but I soon learned!! If a woman tells you that it's her way of saying you are way down on her list of priorities and don't be expecting a reply any time soon.... ![]() I agree with this, either that or Mrs l is a right munter and men aren't interested, We get maybe 10 a day, nowhere near this mythical 400 | |||
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"I've done this before, quite a few times. I do it if I'm not attracted to the person! I'm not going to send pics to a person I have no interest in! ![]() This applies to me to x | |||
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"It's not about mutual attraction and it's not about sending unsolicited face pics and expecting one in return. This about common courtesy and honesty, two personal traits I'd hope most decent people have. This is about two people agreeing to exchange face pics then one bottling out for whatever reason. It's not right no matter what your excuses. " And if the person who receives the picture first does not fancy the other, what would be the point? Not going anywhere, is it? It is polite to open the door for someone. Do you spend all day outside your local department store opening the door for everyone? | |||
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"If someone asks for face pictures and doesn't include theirs they don't get one from us, if we ask for face pictures we include ours with the message, it seems rude that someone would say do you want to swap face pictures and then not include theirs, even ruder to ask for face pics and not include yours and then not respond with yours when you get a reply because you don't like them" Exactly this. This is what my OP was referring to. | |||
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"It's not about mutual attraction and it's not about sending unsolicited face pics and expecting one in return. This about common courtesy and honesty, two personal traits I'd hope most decent people have. This is about two people agreeing to exchange face pics then one bottling out for whatever reason. It's not right no matter what your excuses. And if the person who receives the picture first does not fancy the other, what would be the point? Not going anywhere, is it? It is polite to open the door for someone. Do you spend all day outside your local department store opening the door for everyone?" If I do open a door for someone I don't slam it in their face if I don't like them. | |||
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"It's not about mutual attraction and it's not about sending unsolicited face pics and expecting one in return. This about common courtesy and honesty, two personal traits I'd hope most decent people have. This is about two people agreeing to exchange face pics then one bottling out for whatever reason. It's not right no matter what your excuses. And if the person who receives the picture first does not fancy the other, what would be the point? Not going anywhere, is it? It is polite to open the door for someone. Do you spend all day outside your local department store opening the door for everyone? If I do open a door for someone I don't slam it in their face if I don't like them. " Whereas I am polite, I don't run around town greeting and thanking everyone I see. Maybe you do? | |||
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"It's not about mutual attraction and it's not about sending unsolicited face pics and expecting one in return. This about common courtesy and honesty, two personal traits I'd hope most decent people have. This is about two people agreeing to exchange face pics then one bottling out for whatever reason. It's not right no matter what your excuses. " If you have sent me a face pic (of i had them set as priv) and I didn't fancy you plus I didn't want to be recognised by joe public. Why would/should I send one back. | |||
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"You have to accept because there are many more men on here than women that they have to power to ask for a face pic and not send one in return. It just means they are not interested so move on. It's never really bothered me, but then it doesn't happen very often as I like to build up a rapport first as if they are only after looks then they probably aren't the right person for me to swing with. I believe it means they're pig ugly ![]() I can see how that goes. You send a face pic, you're not there type. They send you a message saying they're not interested 'but here's my face pic regardless'. You can then reply 'you're ugly anyway'. I can see no other reason you'd want pics of someone who doesn't fancy you and never wants to meet. | |||
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"It's not about mutual attraction and it's not about sending unsolicited face pics and expecting one in return. This about common courtesy and honesty, two personal traits I'd hope most decent people have. This is about two people agreeing to exchange face pics then one bottling out for whatever reason. It's not right no matter what your excuses. And if the person who receives the picture first does not fancy the other, what would be the point? Not going anywhere, is it? It is polite to open the door for someone. Do you spend all day outside your local department store opening the door for everyone? If I do open a door for someone I don't slam it in their face if I don't like them. Whereas I am polite, I don't run around town greeting and thanking everyone I see. Maybe you do?" Ha ha no I don't fella. | |||
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"You have to accept because there are many more men on here than women that they have to power to ask for a face pic and not send one in return. It just means they are not interested so move on. It's never really bothered me, but then it doesn't happen very often as I like to build up a rapport first as if they are only after looks then they probably aren't the right person for me to swing with. I believe it means they're pig ugly ![]() Read the other posts which might clarify things for you. | |||
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"I've done this before, quite a few times. I do it if I'm not attracted to the person! I'm not going to send pics to a person I have no interest in! ![]() I can't imagine anyone not finding you attractive OP ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I've done this before, quite a few times. I do it if I'm not attracted to the person! I'm not going to send pics to a person I have no interest in! ![]() ![]() ![]() Ha ha thanks but it's not about finding people attractive or not. It's about common courtesy and honesty x | |||
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"It's not about mutual attraction and it's not about sending unsolicited face pics and expecting one in return. This about common courtesy and honesty, two personal traits I'd hope most decent people have. This is about two people agreeing to exchange face pics then one bottling out for whatever reason. It's not right no matter what your excuses. And if the person who receives the picture first does not fancy the other, what would be the point? Not going anywhere, is it? It is polite to open the door for someone. Do you spend all day outside your local department store opening the door for everyone? If I do open a door for someone I don't slam it in their face if I don't like them. Whereas I am polite, I don't run around town greeting and thanking everyone I see. Maybe you do? Ha ha no I don't fella. " But surely it would be polite to do so? | |||
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"It's not about mutual attraction and it's not about sending unsolicited face pics and expecting one in return. This about common courtesy and honesty, two personal traits I'd hope most decent people have. This is about two people agreeing to exchange face pics then one bottling out for whatever reason. It's not right no matter what your excuses. " ![]() | |||
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"It's not about mutual attraction and it's not about sending unsolicited face pics and expecting one in return. This about common courtesy and honesty, two personal traits I'd hope most decent people have. This is about two people agreeing to exchange face pics then one bottling out for whatever reason. It's not right no matter what your excuses. And if the person who receives the picture first does not fancy the other, what would be the point? Not going anywhere, is it? It is polite to open the door for someone. Do you spend all day outside your local department store opening the door for everyone? If I do open a door for someone I don't slam it in their face if I don't like them. Whereas I am polite, I don't run around town greeting and thanking everyone I see. Maybe you do? Ha ha no I don't fella. But surely it would be polite to do so?" Read the other posts for clarification fella | |||
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"It's not about mutual attraction and it's not about sending unsolicited face pics and expecting one in return. This about common courtesy and honesty, two personal traits I'd hope most decent people have. This is about two people agreeing to exchange face pics then one bottling out for whatever reason. It's not right no matter what your excuses. And if the person who receives the picture first does not fancy the other, what would be the point? Not going anywhere, is it? It is polite to open the door for someone. Do you spend all day outside your local department store opening the door for everyone? If I do open a door for someone I don't slam it in their face if I don't like them. Whereas I am polite, I don't run around town greeting and thanking everyone I see. Maybe you do? Ha ha no I don't fella. But surely it would be polite to do so? Read the other posts for clarification fella " I did - and responded to some. You are taking politeness to an extreme. If you send a face picture to someone that you do not know properly, to expect one returned is silly, if not rude in itself. | |||
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"It's not about mutual attraction and it's not about sending unsolicited face pics and expecting one in return. This about common courtesy and honesty, two personal traits I'd hope most decent people have. This is about two people agreeing to exchange face pics then one bottling out for whatever reason. It's not right no matter what your excuses. And if the person who receives the picture first does not fancy the other, what would be the point? Not going anywhere, is it? It is polite to open the door for someone. Do you spend all day outside your local department store opening the door for everyone? If I do open a door for someone I don't slam it in their face if I don't like them. Whereas I am polite, I don't run around town greeting and thanking everyone I see. Maybe you do? Ha ha no I don't fella. But surely it would be polite to do so? Read the other posts for clarification fella I did - and responded to some. You are taking politeness to an extreme. If you send a face picture to someone that you do not know properly, to expect one returned is silly, if not rude in itself." But the point of his post is they asked for the face picture, it wasn't unsolicited they requested to swap and then never sent theirs | |||
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"You have to accept because there are many more men on here than women that they have to power to ask for a face pic and not send one in return. It just means they are not interested so move on. It's never really bothered me, but then it doesn't happen very often as I like to build up a rapport first as if they are only after looks then they probably aren't the right person for me to swing with. I believe it means they're pig ugly ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"It's not about mutual attraction and it's not about sending unsolicited face pics and expecting one in return. This about common courtesy and honesty, two personal traits I'd hope most decent people have. This is about two people agreeing to exchange face pics then one bottling out for whatever reason. It's not right no matter what your excuses. " if someone asks to exchange a face pic with me I always reciprocate ![]() | |||
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"I don't have many pet hates but one of them really bugs me on fab. When a woman asks to exchange face pics then doesn't keep her side of the bargain. It hasn't happened that many times but when it does it really gets my blood boiling. Why do people do this? " Must confess we ask for face pics but don't return ours if we're not interested . Fabs a game we all play it how we want to there's no right or wrong | |||
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"It's not about mutual attraction and it's not about sending unsolicited face pics and expecting one in return. This about common courtesy and honesty, two personal traits I'd hope most decent people have. This is about two people agreeing to exchange face pics then one bottling out for whatever reason. It's not right no matter what your excuses. " But what's the point in sending them a face pic if you didn't like what they sent you and have no interest in meeting ? | |||
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"It's not about mutual attraction and it's not about sending unsolicited face pics and expecting one in return. This about common courtesy and honesty, two personal traits I'd hope most decent people have. This is about two people agreeing to exchange face pics then one bottling out for whatever reason. It's not right no matter what your excuses. But what's the point in sending them a face pic if you didn't like what they sent you and have no interest in meeting ?" It's common courtesy and honesty. Nothing to do with mutual attraction. It's all in the thread but you're forgiven as it's getting quite long. | |||
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"OP, in your first post, you asked why people do this... and several of us have told you that we wouldn't send a face-pic with a 'thanks for your face pic but you're not my type' message. And yet you're still insisting that this is rude. So can YOU explain why you want a face pic from someone who isn't interested in you? Do you just like to torture yourself with pictures of people you can't meet? Or does it make you feel better to be able to say "I don't fancy you either". Either way, you're evidently not going to change your mind (despite asking why people do this), and other people aren't going to change their behaviour just to suit you. So I would suggest that you bring yourself less angst by NOT agreeing to exchange face-pics. Good luck with all your blind meets, in future." Ha ha ha! You're reading far too much into it. | |||
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"I am just wondering what message the picture recipient should send back. "Erm, thank you, but I am sorry. I really don't fancy you but here is my picture. Please do print it out and pin it up on your fridge."" Chill brother. Just have a little integrity and send them a face pic back if that's what you promised them. It's no big deal. | |||
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"I think that respect should always be shown to everyone: it's something that's diminishing a bit around the globe today. But the context here is that Fab is quite a bit different to many sites - it has the rule that no reply means not interested. It's generally right to follow through with what you've agreed: I'd be very annoyed out there if friends didn't. But I think the bigger picture here is that single men, from all I've seen of you in the years I've been here, have things a little against them, by volume of them vs the rest of us. It means that guys must have a thick skin, in order to weather what will probably be a tough ride. You will send more 1st messages to others, compared to us: I'm assuming. You will get more rejections and seemingly the raw deal sometimes. Probably requests will come in that are somewhat unbalanced - some will be unreasonable. It's important for you to only do what you think is right for you. If someone's too pushy or very unreasonable, then I'd probably not continue dialogue. Find your own level. But if continued experiences like this will leave you drained and unhappy, then balance pursuits here with other avenues, such as clubs and socials. People are different face to face of course." I like this response. Very well put. | |||
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"I think that respect should always be shown to everyone: it's something that's diminishing a bit around the globe today. But the context here is that Fab is quite a bit different to many sites - it has the rule that no reply means not interested. It's generally right to follow through with what you've agreed: I'd be very annoyed out there if friends didn't. But I think the bigger picture here is that single men, from all I've seen of you in the years I've been here, have things a little against them, by volume of them vs the rest of us. It means that guys must have a thick skin, in order to weather what will probably be a tough ride. You will send more 1st messages to others, compared to us: I'm assuming. You will get more rejections and seemingly the raw deal sometimes. Probably requests will come in that are somewhat unbalanced - some will be unreasonable. It's important for you to only do what you think is right for you. If someone's too pushy or very unreasonable, then I'd probably not continue dialogue. Find your own level. But if continued experiences like this will leave you drained and unhappy, then balance pursuits here with other avenues, such as clubs and socials. People are different face to face of course. I like this response. Very well put." ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"It's not about mutual attraction and it's not about sending unsolicited face pics and expecting one in return. This about common courtesy and honesty, two personal traits I'd hope most decent people have. This is about two people agreeing to exchange face pics then one bottling out for whatever reason. It's not right no matter what your excuses. And if the person who receives the picture first does not fancy the other, what would be the point? Not going anywhere, is it? It is polite to open the door for someone. Do you spend all day outside your local department store opening the door for everyone? If I do open a door for someone I don't slam it in their face if I don't like them. Whereas I am polite, I don't run around town greeting and thanking everyone I see. Maybe you do? Ha ha no I don't fella. But surely it would be polite to do so? Read the other posts for clarification fella I did - and responded to some. You are taking politeness to an extreme. If you send a face picture to someone that you do not know properly, to expect one returned is silly, if not rude in itself. But the point of his post is they asked for the face picture, it wasn't unsolicited they requested to swap and then never sent theirs" Amen! | |||
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"It's not about mutual attraction and it's not about sending unsolicited face pics and expecting one in return. This about common courtesy and honesty, two personal traits I'd hope most decent people have. This is about two people agreeing to exchange face pics then one bottling out for whatever reason. It's not right no matter what your excuses. But what's the point in sending them a face pic if you didn't like what they sent you and have no interest in meeting ? It's common courtesy and honesty. Nothing to do with mutual attraction. It's all in the thread but you're forgiven as it's getting quite long." I've read the whole thread !!! If someone sends me their face pic and i have no interest in meeting them once i have seen it then there is no way i would send ours. Its pointless ! That's me me being honest and showing common courtesy rather than just ignoring them and blocking them lol What do you do with photos of people who don't want to meet you ? From now on i will make it clear that i will only return with our photo if i like the look of them ... lol | |||
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"It's not about mutual attraction and it's not about sending unsolicited face pics and expecting one in return. This about common courtesy and honesty, two personal traits I'd hope most decent people have. This is about two people agreeing to exchange face pics then one bottling out for whatever reason. It's not right no matter what your excuses. And if the person who receives the picture first does not fancy the other, what would be the point? Not going anywhere, is it? It is polite to open the door for someone. Do you spend all day outside your local department store opening the door for everyone? If I do open a door for someone I don't slam it in their face if I don't like them. Whereas I am polite, I don't run around town greeting and thanking everyone I see. Maybe you do? Ha ha no I don't fella. But surely it would be polite to do so? Read the other posts for clarification fella I did - and responded to some. You are taking politeness to an extreme. If you send a face picture to someone that you do not know properly, to expect one returned is silly, if not rude in itself." You're either lookin for an argument or just not reading posts fully before replying. Some great replies in this thread. ..have a read. | |||
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"It's not about mutual attraction and it's not about sending unsolicited face pics and expecting one in return. This about common courtesy and honesty, two personal traits I'd hope most decent people have. This is about two people agreeing to exchange face pics then one bottling out for whatever reason. It's not right no matter what your excuses. But what's the point in sending them a face pic if you didn't like what they sent you and have no interest in meeting ? It's common courtesy and honesty. Nothing to do with mutual attraction. It's all in the thread but you're forgiven as it's getting quite long. I've read the whole thread !!! If someone sends me their face pic and i have no interest in meeting them once i have seen it then there is no way i would send ours. Its pointless ! That's me me being honest and showing common courtesy rather than just ignoring them and blocking them lol What do you do with photos of people who don't want to meet you ? From now on i will make it clear that i will only return with our photo if i like the look of them ... lol" Throw darts at them ![]() ![]() | |||
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"It's not about mutual attraction and it's not about sending unsolicited face pics and expecting one in return. This about common courtesy and honesty, two personal traits I'd hope most decent people have. This is about two people agreeing to exchange face pics then one bottling out for whatever reason. It's not right no matter what your excuses. But what's the point in sending them a face pic if you didn't like what they sent you and have no interest in meeting ? It's common courtesy and honesty. Nothing to do with mutual attraction. It's all in the thread but you're forgiven as it's getting quite long. I've read the whole thread !!! If someone sends me their face pic and i have no interest in meeting them once i have seen it then there is no way i would send ours. Its pointless ! That's me me being honest and showing common courtesy rather than just ignoring them and blocking them lol What do you do with photos of people who don't want to meet you ? From now on i will make it clear that i will only return with our photo if i like the look of them ... lol Throw darts at them ![]() ![]() Maybe that's what they are doing with yours lol | |||
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"It's not about mutual attraction and it's not about sending unsolicited face pics and expecting one in return. This about common courtesy and honesty, two personal traits I'd hope most decent people have. This is about two people agreeing to exchange face pics then one bottling out for whatever reason. It's not right no matter what your excuses. And if the person who receives the picture first does not fancy the other, what would be the point? Not going anywhere, is it? It is polite to open the door for someone. Do you spend all day outside your local department store opening the door for everyone? If I do open a door for someone I don't slam it in their face if I don't like them. Whereas I am polite, I don't run around town greeting and thanking everyone I see. Maybe you do? Ha ha no I don't fella. But surely it would be polite to do so? Read the other posts for clarification fella I did - and responded to some. You are taking politeness to an extreme. If you send a face picture to someone that you do not know properly, to expect one returned is silly, if not rude in itself. You're either lookin for an argument or just not reading posts fully before replying. Some great replies in this thread. ..have a read." Ah, you mean the replies agreeing with you? | |||
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"It's not about mutual attraction and it's not about sending unsolicited face pics and expecting one in return. This about common courtesy and honesty, two personal traits I'd hope most decent people have. This is about two people agreeing to exchange face pics then one bottling out for whatever reason. It's not right no matter what your excuses. But what's the point in sending them a face pic if you didn't like what they sent you and have no interest in meeting ? It's common courtesy and honesty. Nothing to do with mutual attraction. It's all in the thread but you're forgiven as it's getting quite long. I've read the whole thread !!! If someone sends me their face pic and i have no interest in meeting them once i have seen it then there is no way i would send ours. Its pointless ! That's me me being honest and showing common courtesy rather than just ignoring them and blocking them lol What do you do with photos of people who don't want to meet you ? From now on i will make it clear that i will only return with our photo if i like the look of them ... lol Throw darts at them ![]() ![]() Ha ha I never thought of that ![]() | |||
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"I've done this before, quite a few times. I do it if I'm not attracted to the person! I'm not going to send pics to a person I have no interest in! ![]() This! What's the point sending a photo to someone your not interested in. I'd just send a polite no thanks and delete there message. | |||
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"It's not about mutual attraction and it's not about sending unsolicited face pics and expecting one in return. This about common courtesy and honesty, two personal traits I'd hope most decent people have. This is about two people agreeing to exchange face pics then one bottling out for whatever reason. It's not right no matter what your excuses. But what's the point in sending them a face pic if you didn't like what they sent you and have no interest in meeting ? It's common courtesy and honesty. Nothing to do with mutual attraction. It's all in the thread but you're forgiven as it's getting quite long. I've read the whole thread !!! If someone sends me their face pic and i have no interest in meeting them once i have seen it then there is no way i would send ours. Its pointless ! That's me me being honest and showing common courtesy rather than just ignoring them and blocking them lol What do you do with photos of people who don't want to meet you ? From now on i will make it clear that i will only return with our photo if i like the look of them ... lol Throw darts at them ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"If some asks me to send a face pic I always say you send me one first, If they don't I wont send mine" ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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