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How long do you wait for the elusive lady!?

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By *ambon2015 OP   Couple
over a year ago

sheffield

We have been on now for about 6 months and only had one social meet. (which we enjoyed & made us certain we want to take it further) I know we are after the holy grail but we are starting to think that it will never happen and it's all ready lost some of its appeal! We are after all looking for a bit fun & excitement. Do we just relax, stop getting frustrated and keep looking or just call it time? x

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By *othingButCocoChanelWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"We have been on now for about 6 months and only had one social meet. (which we enjoyed & made us certain we want to take it further) I know we are after the holy grail but we are starting to think that it will never happen and it's all ready lost some of its appeal! We are after all looking for a bit fun & excitement. Do we just relax, stop getting frustrated and keep looking or just call it time? x "

Upto yous lol

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Relax and enjoy the site.

We ideally wanted to just meet ladies but have had great fun with couples.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't know if you're actively looking but I think it helps if you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive been waiting my whole life for that elusive lady

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By *horehouseCouple
over a year ago

dissatisfied


"We have been on now for about 6 months and only had one social meet. (which we enjoyed & made us certain we want to take it further) I know we are after the holy grail but we are starting to think that it will never happen and it's all ready lost some of its appeal! We are after all looking for a bit fun & excitement. Do we just relax, stop getting frustrated and keep looking or just call it time? x "
knock it on the head if you're just looking for females ..that's way to specific on a male dominated site .

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By *rightonfranceMan
over a year ago

brighton - chalais france

I think you summed it up by saying holy grail.. Theres literally thousands of us looking for single females.. If you go its one lesson the list..

You pays yer money and you takes your choice

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By *ngeluk69Woman
over a year ago

Near enough


"We have been on now for about 6 months and only had one social meet. (which we enjoyed & made us certain we want to take it further) I know we are after the holy grail but we are starting to think that it will never happen and it's all ready lost some of its appeal! We are after all looking for a bit fun & excitement. Do we just relax, stop getting frustrated and keep looking or just call it time? x "

6/7 months is NOTHING on here really

You've limited yourselves right from the off and put pressure on yourselves to find a woman, not easy on here.

You say it's already 'lost some of its appeal', so that's not very encouraging to someone reading this thread.

I say relax, go to a club, get chatting to people, maybe elaborate on your profile what you might be looking for, what you enjoy, what you'd like to try etc etc

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"ive been waiting my whole life for that elusive lady "

I find that the less elusive ones are loads more fun....

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By *edallionMan
over a year ago

manchester

Try going to a club. Do read reviews on here as some clubs do have not so good reviews for first timers.

Happy swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have been on now for about 6 months and only had one social meet. (which we enjoyed & made us certain we want to take it further) "

Did she not feel the same way then?

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By *ambon2015 OP   Couple
over a year ago

sheffield


"We have been on now for about 6 months and only had one social meet. (which we enjoyed & made us certain we want to take it further)

Did she not feel the same way then?"

she says she was and still is, but she's in no rush (she's been there done that!) she's like fab royalty! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have been on now for about 6 months and only had one social meet. (which we enjoyed & made us certain we want to take it further)

Did she not feel the same way then?

she says she was and still is, but she's in no rush (she's been there done that!) she's like fab royalty! Lol "

So she doesn't want to meet you?

I'm admitedly confused why not just message her and set a date if you both want to meet.

Fab royalty sounds uttetly bizzare

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By *ambon2015 OP   Couple
over a year ago

sheffield


"I don't know if you're actively looking but I think it helps if you are "
it almost took over our lives 6 months ago! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like someone said

6..7 months aint that long

just browse the forums have a laugh and you just may catch someones attention

good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fair play to these women that can meet couples alone, bet that's daunting as hell, you're not on an even keel sort of thing, the single female will be nervous but the couple are established and already have each other and have a bond.

If I were ever to meet a couple (I wouldn't) but if I did the couple profile would have to make me feel safe, relaxed and welcome. I'm assuming a single female that would meet a couple would be bi so I'd say something about how the female half of the couple would meet first (alone) for some drinks or some food (and mention something like) where I'd be happy to show you plenty of pics of him, cos once the single fem knows the female half of the couple half the battles done and I believe it wouldn't be so daunting. I'd also say something like how the two females would play together and share your hubby (male half or whatever you call him) If it sounds like the single fem joining would be there for her own pleasure and not just for the entertainment of the couple then that would have more chance of making me want to join.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As someone who does meet couples (alone and on my single fem profile) I would want to see photos of both of you, then meet for a coffee to see the dynamics of your relationship. Too many 'couples' where it is really the man just wanting to fuck another fem. Just not for me. There has to be mutual attraction all round and no power games. The problems can often start after you meet tho as not all couples are that blissful picture of happiness that they try to project to the swinging community. That's why it's so hard for single fems to meet ideal couples too. Just too much bloody drama at times.

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By *awtynNiceCouple
over a year ago

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I would suggest try getting yourself invited to a party as when we held them there was always plenty of everything going on including ff play. The club scene is good also, especially Xtasia or chameleons. Hope you find your fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined the site to see if I could find a new regular partner and to meet couples to have sex with both of them. I found the former,the latter was knocked on the head quickly. I only spoke to one couple where both would be involved with me and not soft swing. I would have met them for a drink if they weren't too far from me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stay and enjoy fabs and as others have mentioned clubs are a great way of meeting like minded people X

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

They're like busses ..nothing for ages.. Then three turn up at once

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"As someone who does meet couples (alone and on my single fem profile) I would want to see photos of both of you, then meet for a coffee to see the dynamics of your relationship. Too many 'couples' where it is really the man just wanting to fuck another fem. Just not for me. There has to be mutual attraction all round and no power games. The problems can often start after you meet tho as not all couples are that blissful picture of happiness that they try to project to the swinging community. That's why it's so hard for single fems to meet ideal couples too. Just too much bloody drama at times."
this

and i dont like ambiguity about what they want either..if they dont know, its often a minefield of asking what their limits are etc..the more i know, the better time we all will have,its like entering an established world view. through this process i find out whether they suit me or not..

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By *laskan lovers 1984Couple
over a year ago

West midlands

It's called patience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP - I would never meet a couple on my own. Try meeting couples (there are a few of them on here) and let the men sit out for a while for the girl play.

Or are you worried about the Mrs getting another cock?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have great fun with couples and Mrs spice can have just as much fun with a lovely lady of a sexy couple as a single lady. She is Bisexual so gets a double wammy so to speak with the male of a couple too. The men have been known to get chased out of the bedroom on occasions so the girls can have sexy time alone lol.

However we would also love the company of a single Bisexual female in our play time, so we are open to offers

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By *ambon2015 OP   Couple
over a year ago

sheffield

Wow, I thought this thread had fizzled out. Many of valued opinions, so thanks. Just to clear things up we have changed our profile up a number of times trying to provoke intrest and other than just a few message here & there. We are a couple that are only interested in a female joining us & we are interested in what they want to get out of it too. Note, my partner is unsure that he would want to have full sex with another woman but he and we do enjoy the soft play we have done up to now. So summing up its more about me lol.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"We have been on now for about 6 months and only had one social meet. (which we enjoyed & made us certain we want to take it further) I know we are after the holy grail but we are starting to think that it will never happen and it's all ready lost some of its appeal! We are after all looking for a bit fun & excitement. Do we just relax, stop getting frustrated and keep looking or just call it time? x "

Did you know that half off all fm couples are ladies. ..

Cal

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