FabSwingers.com forum: Being called the club bike

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just found out ive been referd to as the club bike by a guy who's on here now I find it quite rude and judgmental especially ftom someone who is after meeting anyone to me it seems he's a little jelous this is the guy who I had to report to the police for stalking me he's called me a druggie and most hurtfully calling me for having Depression this guy seemed ok at first just shows how spiteful some guys can be when they don't get what they want hes just a bully who knows nothing about me thought I'd share this as I do find it hurtful yet wierd that after months he still seems obsessed with me quite worrying really anyone else had similar experience on here

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Your having issues and have informed the police. Not sure if the forums can help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not had a stalker who slagged me off no, but have had a guy who wanted to meet me slag me off to other people.

i do think you have be careful about who you meet unfortunately (not just on here but anywhere), because there are a lot of fake, two faced idiots in existence who have no problem making other people feel like shit to boost themselves up and they need to validate themselves by just treating other people as less than themselves...wish they would fuck off tbh and all move to their own planet which revolves around themselves and leave everyone else to it.

eeh it is rant thursday.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lesson learnt well im sure what goes round cums round and I didn't expect any help on the forum just find it helps to have a moan on here as I can't talk to anyone In my private life about it x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Lesson learnt well im sure what goes round cums round and I didn't expect any help on the forum just find it helps to have a moan on here as I can't talk to anyone In my private life about it x"
what about your partner?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol, you could fuck him back and start saying the things he's saying are true but he was the one who brought round the drugs and you hadn't tried them before and wante to give them a go.

best way to shut someone up is to pin their rumours back on themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we used to visit clubs , there were a few disrespectful comments from people we chose not to play with .

We were very active but still maintained our own standards and it does piss off those we chose not to play with .

Firtunately we haven't had any stalkers , but there are people local to us who make nasty comments about us to others . We don't see them as they are blocked , but we do hear about them . It sucks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best thing is to start a rumour that u did fuck him and he was shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just ignore

when you ignore they give up and go away

react and there winning

its not true so why worry about it init

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple of years back

I met a guy for a social during my lunch break but decided not to take it further.

He asked me for money. When I declined he got nasty with messages and phone calls. I blocked his number and didn't think anymore

Anyway he ended up finding where I worked and printed my fab screen shots and sending them to my company. Thankfully the post lady opened and returned them to me

Didn't hear anything else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems quite a common and very ironic kind of logic for idiots......

What,you mean you're not gonna put out?!......Slaaaag!

Some folk are just cupid stunts eh!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Didn't meet in club met on here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When we used to visit clubs , there were a few disrespectful comments from people we chose not to play with .

We were very active but still maintained our own standards and it does piss off those we chose not to play with .

Firtunately we haven't had any stalkers , but there are people local to us who make nasty comments about us to others . We don't see them as they are blocked , but we do hear about them . It sucks

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funny how this can happen. I've been called a slut at a greedy girl night before

Op best thing to do is ignore it... although I look at it if someone is talking about me they are leaving some other poor sod alone x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A couple of years back

I met a guy for a social during my lunch break but decided not to take it further.

He asked me for money. When I declined he got nasty with messages and phone calls. I blocked his number and didn't think anymore

Anyway he ended up finding where I worked and printed my fab screen shots and sending them to my company. Thankfully the post lady opened and returned them to me

Didn't hear anything else "

Jesus that's awful. I hope you reported him for that as its harassment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some seriously messed up people about unfortunately. I'm guessing he's the sort of guy that can't pull in the his normal life. Then as soon as someone actually gives him time of day he clings to it with both hands (and teeth, tie wraps) and gets all weird and possessive.

Sorry your having to deal with his shit.

A square knee to the wedding vegetables wouldn't go amiss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A couple of years back

I met a guy for a social during my lunch break but decided not to take it further.

He asked me for money. When I declined he got nasty with messages and phone calls. I blocked his number and didn't think anymore

Anyway he ended up finding where I worked and printed my fab screen shots and sending them to my company. Thankfully the post lady opened and returned them to me

Didn't hear anything else "

Omg

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By *iercedItMan
over a year ago

North West

This reminds me of a joke I heard, which in all liklihood applies to this guy. I don't mean to make light of your situation but the joke is kinda accurate.

What's the difference between a bitch and a slut ? A slut sleeps with everyone at the party, and a bitch sleeps with everyone except you.

Poor babys ego is probably bruised

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Didn't meet in club met on here x"

Is he still on here?

Will he read your thread?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a friend on here a few years ago who was majorly harassed by someone they met for a social.

My friend said this person accessed the FB account and threatened to contact parents and friends etc ...

My friend is a man so just goes to show that women can be just as vindictive

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Block and report.

Then keep records and give it as evidence to the police

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a lot of theses posts go to show that you should be careful on here.

Also some people have no disregard for others and think that everyone they message will be up for a fuck.

Gives the good people on this site a hard time.

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