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Dressing up for play and lap dances etc. Not my cuppa tea

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Obviously dressing up for sexy times is a big part in a lot of people's sexual play along with some erotic dancing etc.

For me a woman in tasteful underwear as I undress her is far more of a turn on for me. A freshly bathed woman with just a shirt on or a soft dressing gown is what I prefer.

This dressing up for play in various outfits and pole dancing/lap dancing just has no appeal for me personally.

How about you ?

Is dressing up a big part of your sexy times or are you like me and not really that interested in it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a fat woman,with plenty of saggy fat on my stomach,I feel like mutton dressed as lamb in skimpy clothing. Stockings,suspenders or hold ups feel uncomfortable and slip down. So no,I don't like dressing up for sex. I wear a nice bra and knickers set,straighten my hair and put on a little make up. Oh and I can't wear heels because of my arthritis.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As a fat woman,with plenty of saggy fat on my stomach,I feel like mutton dressed as lamb in skimpy clothing. Stockings,suspenders or hold ups feel uncomfortable and slip down. So no,I don't like dressing up for sex. I wear a nice bra and knickers set,straighten my hair and put on a little make up. Oh and I can't wear heels because of my arthritis. "

That's enough for me It's the person that turns me on not what play outfit they have got dressed up in .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see the point of dressing up prior to sex when it's all going to come off anyway

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

My partner has absolutly no interest in sexy underwear. I got him in victoria secrets and he picked up the most plain boring set ive ever seen. A lost cause all he wants in his words is a warm naked woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love dressing up for Lee, he has a thing for stockings and fishnet, it gives me pleasure to give him pleasure.

Anyone else will have to make do with what I've decided to wear for a meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My partner has absolutly no interest in sexy underwear. I got him in victoria secrets and he picked up the most plain boring set ive ever seen. A lost cause all he wants in his words is a warm naked woman"

There's nothing more sexy for me than a freshly bathed nude women who I obviously fancy. Not interested in the wrapping

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see the point of dressing up prior to sex when it's all going to come off anyway "

Said the lady who has put considerable effort into dressing and looking sexy for her pictures

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't see the point of dressing up prior to sex when it's all going to come off anyway

Said the lady who has put considerable effort into dressing and looking sexy for her pictures "

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if i had an awesome body i think i would enjoy it ..

as i am.. id fuck wearing a body bag with the lights out if possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to see a woman all dressed up plus it's always fun removing the lingerie to see what's under it.

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

I believe in the ferengi philosophy

Female partners should be naked at all times

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"if i had an awesome body i think i would enjoy it ..

as i am.. id fuck wearing a body bag with the lights out if possible "

That's not good if that's how you feel about yourself but i think you've got a nice figure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have some nice outfits for going to clubs and parties. But, as much as I like to put the effort into wearing something fun when I meet Number One Chap, I'm never entirely sure my endeavours have registered with him as a) he rarely comments and b) they rarely stay on for more than five minutes!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if i had an awesome body i think i would enjoy it ..

as i am.. id fuck wearing a body bag with the lights out if possible

That's not good if that's how you feel about yourself but i think you've got a nice figure "

im very slowly getting there but ive not had any form of intimacy for 3 years now .. guess its just a case of 'the less you get the less you care'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like dressing up, it makes me feel sexy. I need all the help I can get in that department!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

love it,its fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

CFNM always. I don't do naked. Ever.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"CFNM always. I don't do naked. Ever. "

I'd expect you to keep your steel heels on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask any of my past meets what I've worn to meet them and they'll all say the same thing. Standard outfit, leggings and trainers with a hoody or zip top I've even worn pyjamas and slippers, a friend wanted me to come over I said I'd just got out the shower and not dressed he said he doesn't care just come over as he was hung over and needed a cwtch. I arrived in pj bottoms and top with damp hair and he stripped me off anyway to get in bed for a snuggle! I don't own a matching bra set, most of my knickers are full brief granny pants and I have a few thongs.

When I dress up for a meet I have one of my sisters old beauty therapist tunics which is long enough to just cover my bottom and I wear them with knickers, that's my beauty therapist outfit for when I bend the guys over to remove their arse pubes or put face masks on them or cut their toenails and paint them with clear nail polish. I have shorts and t shirt with knee high socks and trainers for when I pretend to be a sports physiotherapist that sucks my clients off and fingers their arse hole and licks them out. I have a pencil skirt and a white shirt for when I pretend to be a counsellor or a psychiatrist and I have guys lay on my sofa and tell me their problems then if they get upset I'll suck them off.

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I love dressing up. However that's more for my benefit than the other person's. I like having something to hide behind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have some nice outfits for going to clubs and parties. But, as much as I like to put the effort into wearing something fun when I meet Number One Chap, I'm never entirely sure my endeavours have registered with him as a) he rarely comments and b) they rarely stay on for more than five minutes!! "

Excuse me! Everything stayed on last time. Then again you did answer the door in just your boots.

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By *awtynNiceCouple
over a year ago

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Always love to dress up as its part of the excitement for both of us; don't do any dancing though x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm going to the considerable effort and discomfort of getting dressed up you better believe I am staying dressed up for a very long time, if you want me naked within the hour, you'd need to be happy with me turning up in yoga pants and a hoody!

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have some nice outfits for going to clubs and parties. But, as much as I like to put the effort into wearing something fun when I meet Number One Chap, I'm never entirely sure my endeavours have registered with him as a) he rarely comments and b) they rarely stay on for more than five minutes!!

Excuse me! Everything stayed on last time. Then again you did answer the door in just your boots. "

Busted!!

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow


"I have some nice outfits for going to clubs and parties. But, as much as I like to put the effort into wearing something fun when I meet Number One Chap, I'm never entirely sure my endeavours have registered with him as a) he rarely comments and b) they rarely stay on for more than five minutes!!

Excuse me! Everything stayed on last time. Then again you did answer the door in just your boots.

Busted!! "

Also I remember the cat suit at amours

Mmmmmmmmm

Goes off to find a wank emoji

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By *xplorecpl25Couple
over a year ago

manchester


"I love dressing up for Lee, he has a thing for stockings and fishnet, it gives me pleasure to give him pleasure.

Anyone else will have to make do with what I've decided to wear for a meet. "

We're the same,my husband loves stocking and anything see through and i love him taking it all off....win win!! I do love skin on skin tho!! Xx

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I don't dress up for anyone else. I dress up for me. And my version of dressing up involves tasteful underwear (tasteful in my opinion anyway). Since I have never had a first meet where someone turns up to mine or my hotel room without me meeting them somewhere public first I'm never naked or in a bath robe. If it's someone I regularly meet then that scenario is far more likely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"CFNM always. I don't do naked. Ever.

I'd expect you to keep your steel heels on "

Absolutely!! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ask any of my past meets what I've worn to meet them and they'll all say the same thing. Standard outfit, leggings and trainers with a hoody or zip top I've even worn pyjamas and slippers, a friend wanted me to come over I said I'd just got out the shower and not dressed he said he doesn't care just come over as he was hung over and needed a cwtch. I arrived in pj bottoms and top with damp hair and he stripped me off anyway to get in bed for a snuggle! I don't own a matching bra set, most of my knickers are full brief granny pants and I have a few thongs.

When I dress up for a meet I have one of my sisters old beauty therapist tunics which is long enough to just cover my bottom and I wear them with knickers, that's my beauty therapist outfit for when I bend the guys over to remove their arse pubes or put face masks on them or cut their toenails and paint them with clear nail polish. I have shorts and t shirt with knee high socks and trainers for when I pretend to be a sports physiotherapist that sucks my clients off and fingers their arse hole and licks them out. I have a pencil skirt and a white shirt for when I pretend to be a counsellor or a psychiatrist and I have guys lay on my sofa and tell me their problems then if they get upset I'll suck them off. "

That's so hot!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't dress up for anyone else. I dress up for me. And my version of dressing up involves tasteful underwear (tasteful in my opinion anyway). Since I have never had a first meet where someone turns up to mine or my hotel room without me meeting them somewhere public first I'm never naked or in a bath robe. If it's someone I regularly meet then that scenario is far more likely."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes only as far as lingerie though. The expression "sexy times" makes me cringe...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ask any of my past meets what I've worn to meet them and they'll all say the same thing. Standard outfit, leggings and trainers with a hoody or zip top I've even worn pyjamas and slippers, a friend wanted me to come over I said I'd just got out the shower and not dressed he said he doesn't care just come over as he was hung over and needed a cwtch. I arrived in pj bottoms and top with damp hair and he stripped me off anyway to get in bed for a snuggle! I don't own a matching bra set, most of my knickers are full brief granny pants and I have a few thongs.

When I dress up for a meet I have one of my sisters old beauty therapist tunics which is long enough to just cover my bottom and I wear them with knickers, that's my beauty therapist outfit for when I bend the guys over to remove their arse pubes or put face masks on them or cut their toenails and paint them with clear nail polish. I have shorts and t shirt with knee high socks and trainers for when I pretend to be a sports physiotherapist that sucks my clients off and fingers their arse hole and licks them out. I have a pencil skirt and a white shirt for when I pretend to be a counsellor or a psychiatrist and I have guys lay on my sofa and tell me their problems then if they get upset I'll suck them off. "

Anyone else, find themselves turned on by this?

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