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By *neeyedpirate OP   Man
over a year ago

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You chat you have a laugh, you then send a face pic and boom...... Silence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens to us all.

Take take it to heart.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It happens to us all.

Take take it to heart.

"

Don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It happens to us all.

Take take it to heart.

"

Harsh!

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By *neeyedpirate OP   Man
over a year ago

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Oh I don't. I alway reply saying sorry but I don't think your my type if I don't find someone attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It happens to us all.

Take take it to heart.

"

Mic drop!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You chat you have a laugh, you then send a face pic and boom...... Silence.

"

I like to think they are so taken back and amazed how good looking I am that they are lost for words

My glass is half full

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with your face !!

Everyone has different tastes so don't worry about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps they knew you in the real world.

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By *neeyedpirate OP   Man
over a year ago

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"Nothing wrong with your face !!

Everyone has different tastes so don't worry about it "

Your so nice miss :*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You chat you have a laugh, you then send a face pic and boom...... Silence.

"

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By *neeyedpirate OP   Man
over a year ago

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"Perhaps they knew you in the real world. "

If they did I didn't know them. Maybe it's my glasses are to sexy

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Welcome to the world of fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone has that tumble moment

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By *neeyedpirate OP   Man
over a year ago

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"Welcome to the world of fab "

You have no problems miss your a hottie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ooh i'm listening to this, seems fitting: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ywfs07VFdpM

yeah, ashamed to say i have done this to a guy. just the once though and i quickly learned not to talk to guys without face pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It happens to us all.

Take take it to heart.

Harsh! "

Honest typo.

I think the op knows that.

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By *neeyedpirate OP   Man
over a year ago

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Hey that's fair enough. I just like my Pivacy and always swap pics if mutual swapping is there

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By *neeyedpirate OP   Man
over a year ago

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"It happens to us all.

Take take it to heart.

Harsh!

Honest typo.

I think the op knows that.

"

No I feel bullied by you and now crying while trying to type

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey that's fair enough. I just like my Pivacy and always swap pics if mutual swapping is there "

If you press reply and quote, it'll show what you're responding to in quotations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even worse when the reply is 3weeks later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey that's fair enough. I just like my Pivacy and always swap pics if mutual swapping is there

If you press reply and quote, it'll show what you're responding to in quotations. "

Oh you know. Sorry c

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey that's fair enough. I just like my Pivacy and always swap pics if mutual swapping is there "

And when you don't like the pic they send ?

A polite no thanks ? It's simple really but some people can't take rejection well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It happens to us all.

Take take it to heart.

Harsh!

Honest typo.

I think the op knows that.

No I feel bullied by you and now crying while trying to type "

You'll get over it.

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By *neeyedpirate OP   Man
over a year ago

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"It happens to us all.

Take take it to heart.

Harsh!

Honest typo.

I think the op knows that.

No I feel bullied by you and now crying while trying to type

You'll get over it. "

Sure will I am strong like bull

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

[Removed by poster at 03/05/16 22:04:49]

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By *neeyedpirate OP   Man
over a year ago

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"Hey that's fair enough. I just like my Pivacy and always swap pics if mutual swapping is there

If you press reply and quote, it'll show what you're responding to in quotations. "

Like this??

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"Welcome to the world of fab

You have no problems miss your a hottie "

We are a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey that's fair enough. I just like my Pivacy and always swap pics if mutual swapping is there

If you press reply and quote, it'll show what you're responding to in quotations.

Like this??"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Welcome to the world of fab

You have no problems miss your a hottie

We are a couple "

He probably doesn't fancy Dick, though

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By *neeyedpirate OP   Man
over a year ago

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"Welcome to the world of fab

You have no problems miss your a hottie

We are a couple

He probably doesn't fancy Dick, though "

Can't say not tried it yet.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It happens to us all.

Take take it to heart.

Harsh!

Honest typo.

I think the op knows that.

"

Yes, I think so too, just joshing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You chat you have a laugh, you then send a face pic and boom...... Silence.

"

If you do what I do and put a face pic in your public profile you don't get an awkward silence....

....just silence.

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By *neeyedpirate OP   Man
over a year ago

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"You chat you have a laugh, you then send a face pic and boom...... Silence.

If you do what I do and put a face pic in your public profile you don't get an awkward silence....

....just silence. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eh, the silence after sending a face pic just means one less message in our inbox. *shrug*

.....

I'm just kidding - it's soul crushing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish everybody replied

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By *neeyedpirate OP   Man
over a year ago

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"Eh, the silence after sending a face pic just means one less message in our inbox. *shrug*

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I'm just kidding - it's soul crushing

"

I am sure not many people aren't attracted to you two......and sure your inbox has a nice steady flow lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens to me all the time. You get used to it

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By *neeyedpirate OP   Man
over a year ago

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Do you not think it's rude though. A simple sorry your not my type then block would be nicer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey that's fair enough. I just like my Pivacy and always swap pics if mutual swapping is there

And when you don't like the pic they send ?

A polite no thanks ? It's simple really but some people can't take rejection well"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You get messages wtf u lucky b'stard my single profile only gets the thankyou for for your gold membership subscription -male half of couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel your pain I'm the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you not think it's rude though. A simple sorry your not my type then block would be nicer "

Nah, not rude. No reply is fine. Just take it as a not interested and move on.

Rude would be insults.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you not think it's rude though. A simple sorry your not my type then block would be nicer "

If they delete your message... that's enough; walk away. There are lots of people on the site if they don't delete your message; don't pressure, you did what was asked.

Either way I would say "send it and forget it" if it comes back, great, if it doesn't, no biggie eh?

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By *neeyedpirate OP   Man
over a year ago

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I always reply never send a second message if no rely. It's a massive rule of mine. You have to be polite and don't chase it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always reply never send a second message if no rely. It's a massive rule of mine. You have to be polite and don't chase it. "

If you're doing this, make sure there's something to reply to in the message. I've let several conversations die as there was no question or statement to respond to. Also some people block those who don't reply, maybe just add a note to their profile in case they do eventually reply. Better late than never.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always reply never send a second message if no rely. It's a massive rule of mine. You have to be polite and don't chase it. "

Then don't be disappointed by a no-reply. This is the one area that we all need to have thick skin to be honest. Rejection is crap; it is inevitable. Politeness (for any given value) is subjective; good grace and acceptance, that's the key.

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By *neeyedpirate OP   Man
over a year ago

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"I always reply never send a second message if no rely. It's a massive rule of mine. You have to be polite and don't chase it.

If you're doing this, make sure there's something to reply to in the message. I've let several conversations die as there was no question or statement to respond to. Also some people block those who don't reply, maybe just add a note to their profile in case they do eventually reply. Better late than never. "

Oh I do like to think I can hold a decent conversation if there is conversation to be had..... Maybe I should chose a different face pic not my usual one I send

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Eh, the silence after sending a face pic just means one less message in our inbox. *shrug*

.....

I'm just kidding - it's soul crushing

I am sure not many people aren't attracted to you two......and sure your inbox has a nice steady flow lol"

You just say that cuz you haven't seen our faces

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always reply never send a second message if no rely. It's a massive rule of mine. You have to be polite and don't chase it.

If you're doing this, make sure there's something to reply to in the message. I've let several conversations die as there was no question or statement to respond to. Also some people block those who don't reply, maybe just add a note to their profile in case they do eventually reply. Better late than never.

Oh I do like to think I can hold a decent conversation if there is conversation to be had..... Maybe I should chose a different face pic not my usual one I send "

If you learn the secret of smiling in a face pic; let me know. I am unable to master the knack!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get used to it. Luckily I have thick skin and am not easily offended

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always reply never send a second message if no rely. It's a massive rule of mine. You have to be polite and don't chase it.

If you're doing this, make sure there's something to reply to in the message. I've let several conversations die as there was no question or statement to respond to. Also some people block those who don't reply, maybe just add a note to their profile in case they do eventually reply. Better late than never.

Oh I do like to think I can hold a decent conversation if there is conversation to be had..... Maybe I should chose a different face pic not my usual one I send "

Your picture was fine, but maybe a candid one from when you're out may be good as well. Multiple photos is a good idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe I should chose a different face pic not my usual one I send"

I only have a couple of face pics and they are not the best, I can't/don't do selfies so end up waiting until I appear in group pictures and edit them

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By *neeyedpirate OP   Man
over a year ago

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"I always reply never send a second message if no rely. It's a massive rule of mine. You have to be polite and don't chase it.

If you're doing this, make sure there's something to reply to in the message. I've let several conversations die as there was no question or statement to respond to. Also some people block those who don't reply, maybe just add a note to their profile in case they do eventually reply. Better late than never.

Oh I do like to think I can hold a decent conversation if there is conversation to be had..... Maybe I should chose a different face pic not my usual one I send

Your picture was fine, but maybe a candid one from when you're out may be good as well. Multiple photos is a good idea. "

Wel now you've seen both my face pics you can tell me which is best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone has that tumble moment"

This don't let it get to you

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By *neeyedpirate OP   Man
over a year ago

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"Everyone has that tumble moment

This don't let it get to you "

Oh I don't but sure you don't have that problem!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone has that tumble moment

This don't let it get to you

Oh I don't but sure you don't have that problem!!! "

Of course I do. I'm sure everyone does at some point

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Cast your net wide, don't expect so much.

And just take stuff one step at a time.

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