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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

is sex better when there are feelings involved or doesnt it matter?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex is better with Mrs P than with strangers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"is sex better when there are feelings involved or doesnt it matter?"

You might as well have a wank or use a rubber doll

I like to like the person I'm having sex with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sex is better with Mrs P than with strangers. "

I mean from my point of view, others may not think she's that good.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sex is better with Mrs P than with strangers.

I mean from my point of view, others may not think she's that good. "

im sure its your opinion that counts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

I vote rock and roll

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Short term sex for the sake of it can be satisfying initially, but a long term relationship can build trust and knowing which buttons to press and how far to push your partner's limits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think you feel more comfortable experimenting when you know someone. personally i think love is not needed for good sex overall though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i think you feel more comfortable experimenting when you know someone. personally i think love is not needed for good sex overall though."
but is love needed for the best sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I vote rock and roll"

Im with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to admit mostly I've had sex with partners after a lengthy relationship sex only gets better because once you've reached those limits you have that trust between one another to explore it even further and be more daring. As someone mentioned above you know which buttons to push and I was able to just help myself with my partner at anytime during the day on our days off. Morning noon and night. I'd have my ex getting in the shower and I'd climb in have my wicked way and then soap her up or shed wake up and I'm already inside her because she found that a huge turn on

When you know someone you can have sex whenever and not even think about it because there's trust and respect there. When it's with someone you don't know it's more guess work and kind of hoping for the best when you have sex.

Of course that's my opinion and I'm not saying I'm right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had better sex with strangers than one person I loved. My current relationship is the most sexually fulfilling one I've had, but I doubt it'd be a relationship if it wasn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i think you feel more comfortable experimenting when you know someone. personally i think love is not needed for good sex overall though.

but is love needed for the best sex "

no it isn't needed for me.

imo, the best sex is where the person makes you feel safe enough to 'let go', cares about your sexual needs, and their needs are compatible with yours so that you enjoy the same things.

sometimes you just fancy each other physically and can't get enough of each other.

i think lust is what makes sex amazing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i think you feel more comfortable experimenting when you know someone. personally i think love is not needed for good sex overall though.

but is love needed for the best sex

no it isn't needed for me.

imo, the best sex is where the person makes you feel safe enough to 'let go', cares about your sexual needs, and their needs are compatible with yours so that you enjoy the same things.

sometimes you just fancy each other physically and can't get enough of each other.

i think lust is what makes sex amazing.

"
i think you just answered my question

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"i think you feel more comfortable experimenting when you know someone. personally i think love is not needed for good sex overall though.

but is love needed for the best sex

no it isn't needed for me.

imo, the best sex is where the person makes you feel safe enough to 'let go', cares about your sexual needs, and their needs are compatible with yours so that you enjoy the same things.

sometimes you just fancy each other physically and can't get enough of each other.

i think lust is what makes sex amazing.

i think you just answered my question "

Depends what you want. In my opinion you can have very hot sex without feelings, but the more feeling the more fulfilling it is to me, therefore the better. I prefer depth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i think you feel more comfortable experimenting when you know someone. personally i think love is not needed for good sex overall though.

but is love needed for the best sex

no it isn't needed for me.

imo, the best sex is where the person makes you feel safe enough to 'let go', cares about your sexual needs, and their needs are compatible with yours so that you enjoy the same things.

sometimes you just fancy each other physically and can't get enough of each other.

i think lust is what makes sex amazing.

i think you just answered my question "

maybe?

love's pretty complicated really, you can love people and not want to fuck them.

you have the infatuation stage where you're gonna look forward to seeing that person...if you're fucking them then you're gonna look forward to fucking them as well. more someone casual i reckon.

at times you don't even want to fuck someone you love because they hurt you and you want to withhold intimacy while you figure out your feelings.

and other stuff i haven't thought of.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i think you feel more comfortable experimenting when you know someone. personally i think love is not needed for good sex overall though.

but is love needed for the best sex

no it isn't needed for me.

imo, the best sex is where the person makes you feel safe enough to 'let go', cares about your sexual needs, and their needs are compatible with yours so that you enjoy the same things.

sometimes you just fancy each other physically and can't get enough of each other.

i think lust is what makes sex amazing.

i think you just answered my question

maybe?

love's pretty complicated really, you can love people and not want to fuck them.

you have the infatuation stage where you're gonna look forward to seeing that person...if you're fucking them then you're gonna look forward to fucking them as well. more someone casual i reckon.

at times you don't even want to fuck someone you love because they hurt you and you want to withhold intimacy while you figure out your feelings.

and other stuff i haven't thought of."
ha i think lust was a good word that creates great sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i think you feel more comfortable experimenting when you know someone. personally i think love is not needed for good sex overall though.

but is love needed for the best sex

no it isn't needed for me.

imo, the best sex is where the person makes you feel safe enough to 'let go', cares about your sexual needs, and their needs are compatible with yours so that you enjoy the same things.

sometimes you just fancy each other physically and can't get enough of each other.

i think lust is what makes sex amazing.

i think you just answered my question

maybe?

love's pretty complicated really, you can love people and not want to fuck them.

you have the infatuation stage where you're gonna look forward to seeing that person...if you're fucking them then you're gonna look forward to fucking them as well. more someone casual i reckon.

at times you don't even want to fuck someone you love because they hurt you and you want to withhold intimacy while you figure out your feelings.

and other stuff i haven't thought of.

ha i think lust was a good word that creates great sex "

yeah...i'll shut up now.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

You can have brilliant sex with someone you hardly know. You can have even better sex the more you know someone. Even with no emotional feelings but sex with love is different

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You can have brilliant sex with someone you hardly know. You can have even better sex the more you know someone. Even with no emotional feelings but sex with love is different"
please explain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can have brilliant sex with someone you hardly know. You can have even better sex the more you know someone. Even with no emotional feelings but sex with love is different please explain "

It's like an episode of "Star Trek"

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By *awtynNiceCouple
over a year ago

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It's better X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You can have brilliant sex with someone you hardly know. You can have even better sex the more you know someone. Even with no emotional feelings but sex with love is different please explain

It's like an episode of "Star Trek" "
ha ha too boldly go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"is sex better when there are feelings involved or doesnt it matter?"

It's way better.

C

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

all the couples on one side interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"all the couples on one side interesting

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But surely not that surprising?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"all the couples on one side interesting

But surely not that surprising?"

i find it surprising actually, especially on a swinger site because the main point of swinging is to enhance their sex life i would have thought?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me there needs to be both trust and understanding on a high level. But with that level of connection there is a somewhat fine line between it just being a wonderful meeting of the mind,body & soul and/or a deeper loving bond being formed.

For me the fine line is a little blurred of late.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Sorry but the question is a non starter.

There are as many types of sex as there are moods.... people... places etc.

At times a quickie with a beast at times sensual with someone you love.....

You don't HAVE to choose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i think you feel more comfortable experimenting when you know someone. personally i think love is not needed for good sex overall though."

This....I have a friend whom I'm very comfortable with. We know we can experiment and push boundaries. I know things about her past that even her ex hubby didn't know. I'm the only person she has ever allowed to fist her in the past 20yrs. We are very good friends....but we are not in love....that wouldn't work for us!

Knowing each other well, building trust...that definitely improves sex....love? Maybe for some, but not required for others, certainly not for all!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For me there needs to be both trust and understanding on a high level. But with that level of connection there is a somewhat fine line between it just being a wonderful meeting of the mind,body & soul and/or a deeper loving bond being formed.

For me the fine line is a little blurred of late. "
ha thats my nemesis and i realised im too soft ha gettin wiser

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry but the question is a non starter.

There are as many types of sex as there are moods.... people... places etc.

At times a quickie with a beast at times sensual with someone you love.....

You don't HAVE to choose. "
think you misinterpreted the question was sex with love better?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"all the couples on one side interesting

But surely not that surprising?

i find it surprising actually, especially on a swinger site because the main point of swinging is to enhance their sex life i would have thought? "
thstd what i thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"all the couples on one side interesting

But surely not that surprising?

i find it surprising actually, especially on a swinger site because the main point of swinging is to enhance their sex life i would have thought? "

It's to provide different experiences, not "better" per se. The depth of emotion experienced having sex with someone you love - there is nothing to compare with it...for me anyway. That is not something that could be bettered by sex with someone else.

PS we're not all here because we're bored to tears with shagging the same person for years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"is sex better when there are feelings involved or doesnt it matter?

You might as well have a wank or use a rubber doll

I like to like the person I'm having sex with "

Without mutual.passion and the ability to have a chuckle together its not spiffing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"all the couples on one side interesting

But surely not that surprising?

i find it surprising actually, especially on a swinger site because the main point of swinging is to enhance their sex life i would have thought?

It's to provide different experiences, not "better" per se. The depth of emotion experienced having sex with someone you love - there is nothing to compare with it...for me anyway. That is not something that could be bettered by sex with someone else.

PS we're not all here because we're bored to tears with shagging the same person for years "

i probably should've mentioned i don't get swinging anyway.

i get that people still want to fuck their partner and are probably having good/great sex, just i figured the swinging would have been the better sex. in a way where you get something special or do something different from the norm and this can make something more enjoyable.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Sorry but the question is a non starter.

There are as many types of sex as there are moods.... people... places etc.

At times a quickie with a beast at times sensual with someone you love.....

You don't HAVE to choose. think you misinterpreted the question was sex with love better?"

I read and comprehended the question perfectly.

Perhaps you'd like to understand my perfectly formed answer.

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By *iforfun999Man
over a year ago

Haverfordwest

You can love someone without sex and have sex with someone without love, but having sex with someone you love, just pushes it to another level completely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me there needs to be both trust and understanding on a high level. But with that level of connection there is a somewhat fine line between it just being a wonderful meeting of the mind,body & soul and/or a deeper loving bond being formed.

For me the fine line is a little blurred of late. ha thats my nemesis and i realised im too soft ha gettin wiser "

I don't see it as a bad thing as such,as we are both single people. Didn't join this site with the intention of finding a long-term partner. But I've realised I'm not totally against having a relationship with a likeminded person. Someone that is open about all things sexual but also has a caring loving side as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"all the couples on one side interesting

But surely not that surprising?

i find it surprising actually, especially on a swinger site because the main point of swinging is to enhance their sex life i would have thought?

It's to provide different experiences, not "better" per se. The depth of emotion experienced having sex with someone you love - there is nothing to compare with it...for me anyway. That is not something that could be bettered by sex with someone else.

PS we're not all here because we're bored to tears with shagging the same person for years

i probably should've mentioned i don't get swinging anyway.

i get that people still want to fuck their partner and are probably having good/great sex, just i figured the swinging would have been the better sex. in a way where you get something special or do something different from the norm and this can make something more enjoyable."

We only do mfm, so neither of us is having one-on-one with an outsider, it's something we do for fun together which clearly couldn't be achieved without the extra male. It's fun and kinky, something for an occasional kick, no more. It's not more enjoyable than making love with Lee, that involves emotions which give a depth and meaning far beyond fucking someone else.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry but the question is a non starter.

There are as many types of sex as there are moods.... people... places etc.

At times a quickie with a beast at times sensual with someone you love.....

You don't HAVE to choose. think you misinterpreted the question was sex with love better?

I read and comprehended the question perfectly.

Perhaps you'd like to understand my perfectly formed answer. "
choose what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can love someone without sex and have sex with someone without love, but having sex with someone you love, just pushes it to another level completely. "

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Sorry but the question is a non starter.

There are as many types of sex as there are moods.... people... places etc.

At times a quickie with a beast at times sensual with someone you love.....

You don't HAVE to choose. think you misinterpreted the question was sex with love better?

I read and comprehended the question perfectly.

Perhaps you'd like to understand my perfectly formed answer. choose what?"

What i'm saying isssssssssssss

You can't say which is better. Sex with love or sex without love.

They are both fantastic.

At times you want one and at times you want the other.

I'd never be satisfied with one ...... I like having BOTH

So I can't choose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure I would say better... More different. I've had one guy I met regularly for a couple of months, solely because he was epic in bed, with no romantic feelings on my end. I've also had sex with someone I loved... Equally as epic.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry but the question is a non starter.

There are as many types of sex as there are moods.... people... places etc.

At times a quickie with a beast at times sensual with someone you love.....

You don't HAVE to choose. think you misinterpreted the question was sex with love better?

I read and comprehended the question perfectly.

Perhaps you'd like to understand my perfectly formed answer. choose what?

What i'm saying isssssssssssss

You can't say which is better. Sex with love or sex without love.

They are both fantastic.

At times you want one and at times you want the other.

I'd never be satisfied with one ...... I like having BOTH

So I can't choose. "
o ok i get that sorry you did get the question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best sex I've ever had was with 2 people. The first was my ex and father of my child that I was with for 9 years and obviously there was love and trust and we knew each other inside out.

The second was a guy that I'd known for 18 months from a fitness forum I was on, first time I met him was when we all met in London for a social with other members and I somehow ended up sharing a room with him and shagging him. Second time he came to wales and stayed with me for a weekend and even though it was the second time with a new person the sex was awesome I even squirted a tiny little one from penetrative sex something I've never done before and haven't done since. The 3rd time went back to London again for a long weekend and that's the guy who had me bent over the sink whilst he douched my ares hole and then stood by the door asking how I take my tea whislt arse juice was dribbling out of me and he didn't even flinch. I'd never felt more comfortable with anyone before which was strange as he was still technically a new person I didn't know that much about.

So I've experienced two ends of the scale, amazing sex with someone I loved and amazing sex with someone I didn't know that well.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Best sex I've ever had was with 2 people. The first was my ex and father of my child that I was with for 9 years and obviously there was love and trust and we knew each other inside out.

The second was a guy that I'd known for 18 months from a fitness forum I was on, first time I met him was when we all met in London for a social with other members and I somehow ended up sharing a room with him and shagging him. Second time he came to wales and stayed with me for a weekend and even though it was the second time with a new person the sex was awesome I even squirted a tiny little one from penetrative sex something I've never done before and haven't done since. The 3rd time went back to London again for a long weekend and that's the guy who had me bent over the sink whilst he douched my ares hole and then stood by the door asking how I take my tea whislt arse juice was dribbling out of me and he didn't even flinch. I'd never felt more comfortable with anyone before which was strange as he was still technically a new person I didn't know that much about.

So I've experienced two ends of the scale, amazing sex with someone I loved and amazing sex with someone I didn't know that well. "
so you couldnt choose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"all the couples on one side interesting

But surely not that surprising?

i find it surprising actually, especially on a swinger site because the main point of swinging is to enhance their sex life i would have thought?

It's to provide different experiences, not "better" per se. The depth of emotion experienced having sex with someone you love - there is nothing to compare with it...for me anyway. That is not something that could be bettered by sex with someone else.

PS we're not all here because we're bored to tears with shagging the same person for years

i probably should've mentioned i don't get swinging anyway.

i get that people still want to fuck their partner and are probably having good/great sex, just i figured the swinging would have been the better sex. in a way where you get something special or do something different from the norm and this can make something more enjoyable.

We only do mfm, so neither of us is having one-on-one with an outsider, it's something we do for fun together which clearly couldn't be achieved without the extra male. It's fun and kinky, something for an occasional kick, no more. It's not more enjoyable than making love with Lee, that involves emotions which give a depth and meaning far beyond fucking someone else."

you're getting something special with 1 on 1 sex with him, so i get what you mean if i think about it that way. i do think your reply is deeper than i can understand right now though.

and, just to contradict myself, i would always say 3sums are better than 1 on 1 sex for me personally.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"all the couples on one side interesting

But surely not that surprising?

i find it surprising actually, especially on a swinger site because the main point of swinging is to enhance their sex life i would have thought?

It's to provide different experiences, not "better" per se. The depth of emotion experienced having sex with someone you love - there is nothing to compare with it...for me anyway. That is not something that could be bettered by sex with someone else.

PS we're not all here because we're bored to tears with shagging the same person for years

i probably should've mentioned i don't get swinging anyway.

i get that people still want to fuck their partner and are probably having good/great sex, just i figured the swinging would have been the better sex. in a way where you get something special or do something different from the norm and this can make something more enjoyable.

We only do mfm, so neither of us is having one-on-one with an outsider, it's something we do for fun together which clearly couldn't be achieved without the extra male. It's fun and kinky, something for an occasional kick, no more. It's not more enjoyable than making love with Lee, that involves emotions which give a depth and meaning far beyond fucking someone else.

you're getting something special with 1 on 1 sex with him, so i get what you mean if i think about it that way. i do think your reply is deeper than i can understand right now though.

and, just to contradict myself, i would always say 3sums are better than 1 on 1 sex for me personally. "
your funny Feir you have a nice honesty

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm not sure I would say better... More different. I've had one guy I met regularly for a couple of months, solely because he was epic in bed, with no romantic feelings on my end. I've also had sex with someone I loved... Equally as epic. "
so couldnt choose?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"all the couples on one side interesting

But surely not that surprising?

i find it surprising actually, especially on a swinger site because the main point of swinging is to enhance their sex life i would have thought?

It's to provide different experiences, not "better" per se. The depth of emotion experienced having sex with someone you love - there is nothing to compare with it...for me anyway. That is not something that could be bettered by sex with someone else.

PS we're not all here because we're bored to tears with shagging the same person for years

i probably should've mentioned i don't get swinging anyway.

i get that people still want to fuck their partner and are probably having good/great sex, just i figured the swinging would have been the better sex. in a way where you get something special or do something different from the norm and this can make something more enjoyable.

We only do mfm, so neither of us is having one-on-one with an outsider, it's something we do for fun together which clearly couldn't be achieved without the extra male. It's fun and kinky, something for an occasional kick, no more. It's not more enjoyable than making love with Lee, that involves emotions which give a depth and meaning far beyond fucking someone else.

you're getting something special with 1 on 1 sex with him, so i get what you mean if i think about it that way. i do think your reply is deeper than i can understand right now though.

and, just to contradict myself, i would always say 3sums are better than 1 on 1 sex for me personally.

your funny Feir you have a nice honesty "

thanks.

well i've been in relationships myself and although i was genuinely happy being in love and had great sex with people i love, the sex was never romantic or anything, it was very lustful sex. i separate sex from loving feelings for some reason and always have.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

gettin confused thought was better with feelins now im gettin swayed like it doesnt matter if it hits the right button and love feelings are secondary to passion and lust hmmmm

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Errrmmmm... the best sex I've ever had with anyone has consistently been with my woman. No contest.

But.

It's not enough...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For me there needs to be both trust and understanding on a high level. But with that level of connection there is a somewhat fine line between it just being a wonderful meeting of the mind,body & soul and/or a deeper loving bond being formed.

For me the fine line is a little blurred of late. ha thats my nemesis and i realised im too soft ha gettin wiser

I don't see it as a bad thing as such,as we are both single people. Didn't join this site with the intention of finding a long-term partner. But I've realised I'm not totally against having a relationship with a likeminded person. Someone that is open about all things sexual but also has a caring loving side as well."
and why not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me there needs to be both trust and understanding on a high level. But with that level of connection there is a somewhat fine line between it just being a wonderful meeting of the mind,body & soul and/or a deeper loving bond being formed.

For me the fine line is a little blurred of late. ha thats my nemesis and i realised im too soft ha gettin wiser

I don't see it as a bad thing as such,as we are both single people. Didn't join this site with the intention of finding a long-term partner. But I've realised I'm not totally against having a relationship with a likeminded person. Someone that is open about all things sexual but also has a caring loving side as well. and why not "

That is how Lee and I met

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me there needs to be both trust and understanding on a high level. But with that level of connection there is a somewhat fine line between it just being a wonderful meeting of the mind,body & soul and/or a deeper loving bond being formed.

For me the fine line is a little blurred of late. ha thats my nemesis and i realised im too soft ha gettin wiser

I don't see it as a bad thing as such,as we are both single people. Didn't join this site with the intention of finding a long-term partner. But I've realised I'm not totally against having a relationship with a likeminded person. Someone that is open about all things sexual but also has a caring loving side as well. and why not

That is how Lee and I met "

Oops wrong emoticon

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