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Alarm bells before a meet?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What sort of things make you think twice before meeting?

I've just had someone who only has one face pic, and this is on kik!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Cessation of contact, unread confirmation message, not logging in to fab, asking if they can bring a friend or if a couple just one of them now available...to name but a few.

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By *tephenBunChowMan
over a year ago

Haywards heath/Waterlooville

Sounds like alarm bells to me. Naturally if you were to meet no harm in exchanging more photos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust your gut, it's usually not far wrong. Your brain picks up on things subconsciously and let's you know that 'something' isn't right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeh go with your gut instinct. If it doesn't feel right.. dont go there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got blocked by the person on the day of meet, is that an alarm ?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I got blocked by the person on the day of meet, is that an alarm ? "

Lol it's a blooming great sledgehammer. People can be so daft can't they, why not just say "I changed my mind"?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

It could be anything, the tiniest little doubt and i wouldnt continue

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I got blocked by the person on the day of meet, is that an alarm ? "

Oh bless ya. Yeah that's not an alarm.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It could be anything, the tiniest little doubt and i wouldnt continue"

I get like that. And then I wonder if I'm sabotaging meets deliberately?

Or maybe I'm just picky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My alarm bell rung over the weekend by getting no response hence now why I'm still sat at home and didn't bother making the journey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always go Jethro Gibvs style... "trust your gut"

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By *icplshropsCouple
over a year ago

Rock

If they go quiet several days before a meet, when you've been exchanging messages everyday up until then. They don't respond to a 'confirmation' text on the day, even though they've been online. If the messages that have been exchanged are highly sexual in nature, but really nothing else.

Although the above may have innocent reasons, if more than one 'red flag' flags up, then it's highly likely that they'll be a no show!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What sort of things make you think twice before meeting?

I've just had someone who only has one face pic, and this is on kik!"

The 'only got a face pic on kik because I refuse to upload a face pic to fab' is one of the alarm bells. Been there done that with those types.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People that write one line messages,

People that ask for a meet after two seconds,

People that describe what they are looking for as 'fun' or 'dirty fun'

Those are a few hints that the person is probably a single guy with no partner, jacking off into his mother's panties

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

Anyone with the word crazy somewhere in their profile

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By *eKoopleCouple
over a year ago

Germany / Manchester


"Trust your gut, it's usually not far wrong. Your brain picks up on things subconsciously and let's you know that 'something' isn't right.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Anyone with the word crazy somewhere in their profile"

Hey, at least I warn people up front!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It could be anything, the tiniest little doubt and i wouldnt continue

I get like that. And then I wonder if I'm sabotaging meets deliberately?

Or maybe I'm just picky."

We are very much like this. The slightest thing can turn us off someone.

The one we really don't like is the people who strop because we haven't answered a mail in a time that is satisfactory to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What sort of things make you think twice before meeting?

I've just had someone who only has one face pic, and this is on kik!"
Go with your gut feelings if it don't feel right its a no go for me.

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By *ormalguy71Man
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells

I have got to the point now where I am suspicious of everyone until proven wrong.

Had 1 lady recently telling me she knocked on my door when you can't even access my building without a fob or a code. Why some people mess you about even saying they have been to your address when it's clear they have not is beyond me

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By *ormalguy71Man
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells


"What sort of things make you think twice before meeting?

I've just had someone who only has one face pic, and this is on kik!"

Cone n chat with me on kik I have more than 1 pic lol

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