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how hard it is to find one regular fb!!

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By *egular-fwb-wanted OP   Man
over a year ago

bangor

Jesus I've all but given up!

Wanted! One sensible woman for regular meet no strings no fuss just nsa, 35-50ish good figure good sense of humour and lives in or within an hour of North Wales!

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By *rishman75Man
over a year ago

Chessington/epsom

Dude your photos are private that doesn't help !

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By *egular-fwb-wanted OP   Man
over a year ago

bangor

Always attach photos to messages sent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's harder than you think

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By *rishman75Man
over a year ago

Chessington/epsom

Most people want to see the goods first before contacting you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aint that hard at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It us quite hard

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

The more niche your requirements the longer you'll have to search.

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By *egular-fwb-wanted OP   Man
over a year ago

bangor

Well I think a female aged between 35-50ish with reasonable figure is quite a wide target! I may change to upright female with pulse lol see what I find

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The more niche your requirements the longer you'll have to search.

"

Sadly this is very true, especially when you don't wish to compromise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most females are inundated with messages due to the male female ratio on here I say patience is a virtue However it is frustrating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got one thanks......had a few in the past too. I reckon I'm nothing special so on that basis it must be quite easy? One previously even introduced me to the then lady mayor of Droitwich as..."this is Chris, he's my fuck buddy!" So it was official lol!

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

I'm struggling finding a long term one - but I struggle to keep up with the messages I already get (filtered to the eyeballs most of the time) so I can't really change my criteria

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh god i think im to old ! Most females age restriction seems to be up to 45 Oh well you never know Any older guy lovers ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's nothing more attractive than a man desperate for a cum bucket.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's nothing more attractive than a man desperate for a cum bucket. "

What exactly did you think they were here for?

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I'm not keen on the term fuck buddy, if we're putting it out there though..

I'd like to find a lady to see on a regular basis for fun laughs and frolics... Not sure what you'd call itst a bit more than a.... friend with benefits..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dude your photos are private that doesn't help ! "

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

They key I'd having a connection as friends and sex that good that you want to keep going back for more

I've got 2 long term FWBs

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

For a man it's really hard. For a woman it will be easier. It's all about the ratios, 15:1 women to men.

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

Many in here don't want any FB/FWB: they want one offs with absolutely no further involvement; so that's over half the " candidates" out of the picture.

And true FWB/FB se difficult to find; whatever you think, depending what you mean by "NSA" also; it will be a " relationship, so to find someone who has exactly the same _iew, and has an " availability" that suits you both, and interests ( sexual and non sexual) that are compatible is not easy.

Plus, you have to have some sort of " spark" and attraction between you. But be stable enough that you don't get over involved, and be sane enough to not have jealousy raise its head when they are off with others.

Some of us on here are lucky enough to have this; but it takes time to find them - and of my FWBs, only one came from here , I met the others elsewhere ( in " real life")

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By *egular-fwb-wanted OP   Man
over a year ago

bangor

Not after a cum bucket but a fun bucket with benefits be great!

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By *egular-fwb-wanted OP   Man
over a year ago

bangor


"There's nothing more attractive than a man desperate for a cum bucket. "

A fun bucket be better! Few laughs always helps

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"For a man it's really hard. For a woman it will be easier. It's all about the ratios, 15:1 women to men. "

Maybe, but finding a QUALITY man is harder..... One who is local anyway

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By *egular-fwb-wanted OP   Man
over a year ago

bangor


"For a man it's really hard. For a woman it will be easier. It's all about the ratios, 15:1 women to men.

Maybe, but finding a QUALITY man is harder..... One who is local anyway "

Just as tough finding a woman who wants quality not quantity! ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not after a cum bucket but a fun bucket with benefits be great!"

I like that!! x

Fun bucket. My favourite new term.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You may be on the wrong site for what you're looking for.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"For a man it's really hard. For a woman it will be easier. It's all about the ratios, 15:1 women to men.

Maybe, but finding a QUALITY man is harder..... One who is local anyway

Just as tough finding a woman who wants quality not quantity! ??"

Well it's what I want but long term quality ain't appearing for me - they can't keep up with me!

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"You may be on the wrong site for what you're looking for."

How so? This is a swinging site so surely it's the perfect place to find a long term swinging partner/fb/fwb?

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By *egular-fwb-wanted OP   Man
over a year ago

bangor


"For a man it's really hard. For a woman it will be easier. It's all about the ratios, 15:1 women to men.

Maybe, but finding a QUALITY man is harder..... One who is local anyway

Just as tough finding a woman who wants quality not quantity! ??

Well it's what I want but long term quality ain't appearing for me - they can't keep up with me! "

I have jump leads and durable batteries fitted ohh and solar panel as back up lol

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I've had regular fbs, going to almost 10 years with one - many of us do it.

But op, many will search profiles looking for someone that they think matches their needs: they will be 99.99999999999999% certain to never message you, due to no pics - as others state.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is difficult to find a fb...especially if, like me, you live out in the country. Would so love to have some outdoor fun now the weather is improving

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I know that feeling I need someone regular

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Jesus I've all but given up!

Wanted! One sensible woman for regular meet no strings no fuss just nsa, 35-50ish good figure good sense of humour and lives in or within an hour of North Wales! "

What is it that YOU have got as the 'only' chocolate in the box to stop any 'sensible' woman for opting for Pick n Mix....... ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jesus I've all but given up!

Wanted! One sensible woman for regular meet no strings no fuss just nsa, 35-50ish good figure good sense of humour and lives in or within an hour of North Wales! "

Same here buddy.. im really starting to lose hope. I lost my reg fwb of 5yrs, about a year ago. Cant get another one at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love a FB but its hard finding one

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I'm not keen on the term fuck buddy, if we're putting it out there though..

I'd like to find a lady to see on a regular basis for fun laughs and frolics... Not sure what you'd call itst a bit more than a.... friend with benefits.. "

I'm in total agreeance with you. The simple fact that women and men like each others company and need sex occassionally and don't want committment is no need to label it with the vulgar terms that sites like this offer....

I don't think i'd ever call myself someone's fuck buddy. Even when I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive been trying to find a fwb/fb/swinging partner but I haven't had any luck either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone gets lots of messages from single guys. Those with no pics are a instant NO.

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By *laqgrapeMan
over a year ago

Sanderstead

Variety is the spice of life,attend more parties and I don't think you'd want a regular fb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"For a man it's really hard. For a woman it will be easier. It's all about the ratios, 15:1 women to men.

Maybe, but finding a QUALITY man is harder..... One who is local anyway

Just as tough finding a woman who wants quality not quantity! ??

Well it's what I want but long term quality ain't appearing for me - they can't keep up with me!

I have jump leads and durable batteries fitted ohh and solar panel as back up lol"

But no public pics other than a tiny avatar!

(you spotted a theme yet!?)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There was a young man from Bangor

Who wanted to a fuck bud to bang her

He sent thousands of messages a day

In the hope of a lay

More often than the sun shines in Stavanger

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

In Bangor a Middle Aged man

Looked as hard as any man can

For a woman for sex

But it made him perplexed

As they weren't hurtling at him like runaway trains.

Who said it had to scan ?

Im in a bloody vanguard of one !

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By *epper123Woman
over a year ago

London

Problem for me has always been that the males involved try to take over and expect too much ... too regular. I don't think finding someone is a problem, but finding someone who knows the limits of the 'relationship' is much harder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone gets lots of messages from single guys. Those with no pics are a instant NO. "

I disagree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In Bangor a Middle Aged man

Looked as hard as any man can

For a woman for sex

But it made him perplexed

As they weren't hurtling at him like runaway trains.

Who said it had to scan ?

Im in a bloody vanguard of one !

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By *ali 69Man
over a year ago

jersey


"Well I think a female aged between 35-50ish with reasonable figure is quite a wide target! I may change to upright female with pulse lol see what I find "
A pulse ? !! Cor , you want jam on it you do mate !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here the third fuck bud has decided it not for him. Ave posted a new one now to TRY and find one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even with the ratio, it's not easy for a woman to find, not if looking for a quality guy

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By *exySocksAndCoCouple
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM


"Even with the ratio, it's not easy for a woman to find, not if looking for a quality guy "

totally agree. A reliable quality fun buddy is not that easy to find.

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France


"Problem for me has always been that the males involved try to take over and expect too much ... too regular. I don't think finding someone is a problem, but finding someone who knows the limits of the 'relationship' is much harder."

That's the big sticking point; often one half of the pair (usually the man) ends up wanting more; and also ( usually the man again) gets possessive, wants an exclusive arrangement.

That's why it is not easy to find the "perfect" "FWB", as you both need to have exactly the same expectations of each other.

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By *illo0069Man
over a year ago

litherland


"Jesus I've all but given up!

Wanted! One sensible woman for regular meet no strings no fuss just nsa, 35-50ish good figure good sense of humour and lives in or within an hour of North Wales! "

Your right it is hard but we have to remember that us mere men are only guests in this womens playground

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By *illo0069Man
over a year ago

litherland


"Same here the third fuck bud has decided it not for him. Ave posted a new one now to TRY and find one "

Wow Denise you have now broke your 3rd lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's harder than you think "

'tisnt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jesus I've all but given up!

Wanted! One sensible woman for regular meet no strings no fuss just nsa, 35-50ish good figure good sense of humour and lives in or within an hour of North Wales! "

well you have had 2 meets...were they not sensible enough for you?

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By *illo0069Man
over a year ago

litherland


"Jesus I've all but given up!

Wanted! One sensible woman for regular meet no strings no fuss just nsa, 35-50ish good figure good sense of humour and lives in or within an hour of North Wales!

well you have had 2 meets...were they not sensible enough for you?

"

great sexy prof its a pity your age preference is outside mine to message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same here the third fuck bud has decided it not for him. Ave posted a new one now to TRY and find one

Wow Denise you have now broke your 3rd lol "
and counting lol

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

couldn't think of anything worse....

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By *erdita Von TeaseWoman
over a year ago

nottingham


"For a man it's really hard. For a woman it will be easier. It's all about the ratios, 15:1 women to men.

Maybe, but finding a QUALITY man is harder..... One who is local anyway "

This

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By *egular-fwb-wanted OP   Man
over a year ago

bangor


"Jesus I've all but given up!

Wanted! One sensible woman for regular meet no strings no fuss just nsa, 35-50ish good figure good sense of humour and lives in or within an hour of North Wales!

well you have had 2

meets...were they not sensible enough for you?

"

The two meets not quite truthfully with their past on here! The term quality and quantity is confusing for some lol ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have always wanted one, but it is too hard to get one, so I have given up on that idea lol.

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By *mojeeCouple
over a year ago

Dunfermline

We've been trying to find one for Em for more than I care to remember. We've been thinking it'll never happen

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By *illo0069Man
over a year ago

litherland


"Same here the third fuck bud has decided it not for him. Ave posted a new one now to TRY and find one

Wow Denise you have now broke your 3rd lol and counting lol"

Hey Leanne you wearing em out too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same here the third fuck bud has decided it not for him. Ave posted a new one now to TRY and find one

Wow Denise you have now broke your 3rd lol and counting lol

Hey Leanne you wearing em out too "
lol no ive just got the one and very happy with him too. no complaints here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nigh on impossible I'm guessing

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Jesus I've all but given up!

Wanted! One sensible woman for regular meet no strings no fuss just nsa, 35-50ish good figure good sense of humour and lives in or within an hour of North Wales! "

I've been looking for over 7 years! Gave up long ago!

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By *egular-fwb-wanted OP   Man
over a year ago

bangor


"Jesus I've all but given up!

Wanted! One sensible woman for regular meet no strings no fuss just nsa, 35-50ish good figure good sense of humour and lives in or within an hour of North Wales!

I've been looking for over 7 years! Gave up long ago! "

Well 7 years of loss for scottsmen! Move to Wales lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still looking for a regular fwb, can't wait to find him though

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By *egular-fwb-wanted OP   Man
over a year ago

bangor


"Still looking for a regular fwb, can't wait to find him though "

Ummmm hello lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The secret is to keep them coming back for more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The secret is to keep them coming back for more "
it sure is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been seeing my fab for 3 years; few times a month, but that's all you need.

Have gotten into all sorts of trouble.

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"Jesus I've all but given up!

Wanted! One sensible woman for regular meet no strings no fuss just nsa, 35-50ish good figure good sense of humour and lives in or within an hour of North Wales! "

Honest answer - very difficult. I've been fortunate im finding a FWB on here when i was south and finding one off here when i moved north again. Tricky and not easy but best of luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd settle for someone that wants to sleep with me once.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I've got three. I'd offer you one of mine but they're all keepers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm struggling. Tried somewhere else before rejoining here... Not easy at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm struggling. Tried somewhere else before rejoining here... Not easy at all "

I'd be your dog!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To answer the original question. ..impossible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably more chance winning the lottery!

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"The secret is to keep them coming back for more "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it's hard.... I actually think it's impossible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm struggling. Tried somewhere else before rejoining here... Not easy at all

I'd be your dog! "

Oooh now there's a thought!!

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