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By *ammyking OP   Man
over a year ago

Lisburn

Quick question, even given the nature of this site, do you lot prefer to get to know someone before you fuck or do you prefer the anonymity of a one off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

get to know them,, i have to make sure there is compatibility. you turn my mind on,, then your pretty much there :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer one offs, but sometimes it is nice to know them a little bit more

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By *ammyking OP   Man
over a year ago

Lisburn

Personally prefer talking to someone first it feels less awkward when you meet them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it easier to have fun with someone when I know them a little.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

One off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"get to know them,, i have to make sure there is compatibility. you turn my mind on,, then your pretty much there :D "

This. Either through social meets or chatting here. Preferably both.

I've done the one off thing a few times and the sex has never been good. And on one occasion, a bit scary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer one offs, but sometimes it is nice to know them a little bit more "

Stop wearing so many layers then...

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

We like the anonymity of the club....don't even need to speak.

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By *ammyking OP   Man
over a year ago

Lisburn


"get to know them,, i have to make sure there is compatibility. you turn my mind on,, then your pretty much there :D

This. Either through social meets or chatting here. Preferably both.

I've done the one off thing a few times and the sex has never been good. And on one occasion, a bit scary."

You have no idea who your meeting if you just go straight into a meet

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

I don;t need to know every detail about the person - I need a connection though and that (usually) happens through some form of prior communication.

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By *cjoyCouple
over a year ago

Galway

Depends on the mood. Sometimes the anonymity is great for meets with single guys, but for couples meets we like to get to know each other a bit better.

Miss Mcjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer one offs, but sometimes it is nice to know them a little bit more

Stop wearing so many layers then..."
Yes, it is quite cold at nights, but been nice and warm today

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"get to know them,, i have to make sure there is compatibility. you turn my mind on,, then your pretty much there :D "

^ This, you do remember that you offered to cook me a Sunday diner about 4 years ago

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By *ammyking OP   Man
over a year ago

Lisburn


"get to know them,, i have to make sure there is compatibility. you turn my mind on,, then your pretty much there :D

^ This, you do remember that you offered to cook me a Sunday diner about 4 years ago "

Sounds like you guys had a fun time

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

Well I like to get to know someone for enough time to at least develop some chemistry. Sometimes it could be a few minutes combined with the thrill of the moment, other times a few weeks of messaging and flirting is a nice build up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quick question, even given the nature of this site, do you lot prefer to get to know someone before you fuck or do you prefer the anonymity of a one off?"

Prefer a social "getting to know you" meet initially - I prefer to have at least some sort of a 'spark' or connection with anyone I meet - Often seem to end up as friends, usually with benefits....!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One offs, I don't like to disappointed the same person twice.

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By *ammyking OP   Man
over a year ago

Lisburn


"One offs, I don't like to disappointed the same person twice. "

What if you don't disappoint them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on my mood

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By *ammyking OP   Man
over a year ago

Lisburn


"Depends on my mood"

what you mean?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I like one offs and regulars but always with sufficient advance familiarisation and screening.

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