FabSwingers.com forum: Being nice for a reason

By *azzyx OP Man
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

Has any one else ever noticed some people are only nice / talk to you when they want something?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Yes, all the time I avoid them

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By *erdita Von TeaseWoman
over a year ago

nottingham

I think everyone on the forums are lovely delightful wonderful beautiful people....now who has cake?

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

What you know my kids

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think everyone on the forums are lovely delightful wonderful beautiful people....now who has cake?"

Cath - one hot piece of cake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think everyone on the forums are lovely delightful wonderful beautiful people....now who has cake?"

I have cake. I don't like the taste of cake, so I always give my share of the cake, to whoever wants cake.

Don't touch my snickers choc ices though, I'll bite yer legs off...

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

My 15yr old son is legend for it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not to me as I'm anti social

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"Has any one else ever noticed some people are only nice / talk to you when they want something? "

On here, not something that bothers us too much. If we dont talk/exchange messages with people for a while, no big deal.

In 'normal' life, yes! It bugs me and I tend to avoid people like that. I've cut out a few friends like that over the years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you mean as in...I love you all...

now fab my pics?

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"you mean as in...I love you all...

now fab my pics?

Done

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"you mean as in...I love you all...

now fab my pics?

No. Say please and I might think about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"you mean as in...I love you all...

now fab my pics?

Done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"you mean as in...I love you all...

now fab my pics?

No. Say please and I might think about it.

well it was just an example obviously but if I get something out of it...

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

It's called family in my house, I don't have friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My 15yr old son is legend for it!

So is my 16 year old

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"My 15yr old son is legend for it!

So is my 16 year old

Mines still at it at 28

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"It's called family in my house, I don't have friends "

Well with that hat why does that not surprise me

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"I think everyone on the forums are lovely delightful wonderful beautiful people....now who has cake?

I have cake. I don't like the taste of cake, so I always give my share of the cake, to whoever wants cake.

Don't touch my snickers choc ices though, I'll bite yer legs off..."

I make a mean snickers cake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My son just texts me now from the next room, rather than talking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The best way to stop people being nice to you when they want something is not to have anything they want. I have nothing so when people are nice to me ,its cause they like me . And no other reason works a treat

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I think everyone on the forums are lovely delightful wonderful beautiful people....now who has cake?"

I have those little caramelly biscuits that are posh to go with your coffee.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My son just texts me now from the next room, rather than talking.

my son uses skype, from upstairs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes for panties down usually

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"I think everyone on the forums are lovely delightful wonderful beautiful people....now who has cake?

I have those little caramelly biscuits that are posh to go with your coffee."

Would you be good enough to leave some of them on my boudoir bedside cabinet though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has any one else ever noticed some people are only nice / talk to you when they want something? "

yes i have numerous time but thats just the way that some people are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah. getting bored of them on here now.

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By *erdita Von TeaseWoman
over a year ago

nottingham

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. It's annoying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My son just texts me now from the next room, rather than talking.

my son uses skype, from upstairs

Video?

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Has any one else ever noticed some people are only nice / talk to you when they want something? "

Yes, I have and I can usually spot it easily. Sometimes it makes me chuckle and I go along with it. Other times I might cut the conversation short, not rudely.. just make my "excuses" as I don't want to engage in what Eric Berne called "games people play".

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Yes

One is my ex the others are my kids

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What you know my kids

Haha mine r the same. Wee shite lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've tried being a bastard when I want something but it's less effective.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the time in work, I find a quick fuck off normally works quite well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes but you dont often realise until they get what they want or something else comes along and then they 'forget' you - had this recently with a girl at work - i was best buddy til another came along - hey ho - lesson learnt again haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All the time in work, I find a quick fuck off normally works quite well."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has any one else ever noticed some people are only nice / talk to you when they want something? "

On fab? I assume that it's always the case, why else would they talk to us?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has any one else ever noticed some people are only nice / talk to you when they want something? "

That's just human nature. Everybody does it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the past I have, not so much now but then again I try to stop people taking advantage of me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's called conditioning lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's called conditioning lol"

What's hair care got to do with it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's in some peoples genetic make up - they're best avoided.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think everyone on the forums are lovely delightful wonderful beautiful people....now who has cake?"

Cookie?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has any one else ever noticed some people are only nice / talk to you when they want something? "

My landlady...she is the devil's spawn!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm at the age now where I say what is actually in my head at the time. Please or offend. I try to be polite but sometimes I just cannot help myself from just saying the truth.

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