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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Open for advice, profile text/pics seem to push people away on here (had more luck at pubs/clubs in the flesh)

Any thoughts on my profile? Will prepare myself for a barrage of criticism lol

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

Sorry to say OP, but I blocked your profile quite a while back due to some of your tasteless forum comments.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry to say OP, but I blocked your profile quite a while back due to some of your tasteless forum comments. "

Apology accepted, no hard feelings

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

And they say chivalry is dead .....

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Looks ok to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's a common feeling for us men. And there's no woe just realisation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's not anything wrong with it. It just doesn't stand out. Perhaps injecting a little more humour into your profile text, and adding a couple of more pictures. Hopefully then you'll draw more interest for potential meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry to say OP, but I blocked your profile quite a while back due to some of your tasteless forum comments. "

Not related but I've noticed two peeps in my loacal area have blocked me. Funny thing is that I haven't even had contact with them and the majority of my posts on the forums are either complimentary or passive. Not really bothered just puzzled anyway moan over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry to say OP, but I blocked your profile quite a while back due to some of your tasteless forum comments.

Not related but I've noticed two peeps in my loacal area have blocked me. Funny thing is that I haven't even had contact with them and the majority of my posts on the forums are either complimentary or passive. Not really bothered just puzzled anyway moan over "

Maybe they recognise you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile seems sound to me OP if any criticism maybe a few more public pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry to say OP, but I blocked your profile quite a while back due to some of your tasteless forum comments.

Not related but I've noticed two peeps in my loacal area have blocked me. Funny thing is that I haven't even had contact with them and the majority of my posts on the forums are either complimentary or passive. Not really bothered just puzzled anyway moan over

Maybe they recognise you "

If that was the case they should have said hello. I only bite occasionally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry to say OP, but I blocked your profile quite a while back due to some of your tasteless forum comments.

Not related but I've noticed two peeps in my loacal area have blocked me. Funny thing is that I haven't even had contact with them and the majority of my posts on the forums are either complimentary or passive. Not really bothered just puzzled anyway moan over

Maybe they recognise you

If that was the case they should have said hello. I only bite occasionally "

Haha that depends on how they knew you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry to say OP, but I blocked your profile quite a while back due to some of your tasteless forum comments.

Not related but I've noticed two peeps in my loacal area have blocked me. Funny thing is that I haven't even had contact with them and the majority of my posts on the forums are either complimentary or passive. Not really bothered just puzzled anyway moan over "

Just read your profile. Maybe it's because you're married?

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place


"Sorry to say OP, but I blocked your profile quite a while back due to some of your tasteless forum comments.

Not related but I've noticed two peeps in my loacal area have blocked me. Funny thing is that I haven't even had contact with them and the majority of my posts on the forums are either complimentary or passive. Not really bothered just puzzled anyway moan over

Just read your profile. Maybe it's because you're married?"

So are you!

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Sorry to say OP, but I blocked your profile quite a while back due to some of your tasteless forum comments.

Not related but I've noticed two peeps in my loacal area have blocked me. Funny thing is that I haven't even had contact with them and the majority of my posts on the forums are either complimentary or passive. Not really bothered just puzzled anyway moan over

Just read your profile. Maybe it's because you're married?"

Is he? I'm not being picky I just can't see where it says that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP I think your profile reads well. Your photos are nice perhaps a few more public wouldn't hurt.

You've Benn specific about your preference for BBW which will deter other body types from contacting you.

Have fun.

Knitter

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By *awtyFrankleMan
over a year ago

Camden

Why do you think it would 'deter other body types'?

People aren't a body type, they're people.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Why do you think it would 'deter other body types'?

People aren't a body type, they're people."

Of course their people,but I agree,if I see that on someone's profile I know they're probably not going to like my body shape.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry to say OP, but I blocked your profile quite a while back due to some of your tasteless forum comments.

Not related but I've noticed two peeps in my loacal area have blocked me. Funny thing is that I haven't even had contact with them and the majority of my posts on the forums are either complimentary or passive. Not really bothered just puzzled anyway moan over

Just read your profile. Maybe it's because you're married?

Is he? I'm not being picky I just can't see where it says that "

Yep, says he's happily married but likes swinging. Doesn't mention that his wife knows about his profile. I'm just thinking that would put a percentage of people off (not all).

And Vine, yep, well done. Very observant of you. Have a medal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP I think your profile reads well. Your photos are nice perhaps a few more public wouldn't hurt.

You've Benn specific about your preference for BBW which will deter other body types from contacting you.

Have fun.

Knitter "

I thought the same actually. By stating a preference for bigger ladies, you might deter other body sizes a little x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do you think it would 'deter other body types'?

People aren't a body type, they're people."

My apologies it wasn't intended to offend and of course everyone is an individual and I'm not suggesting defined by their body type.

It would deter me from contacting theOP

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place


"Sorry to say OP, but I blocked your profile quite a while back due to some of your tasteless forum comments.

Not related but I've noticed two peeps in my loacal area have blocked me. Funny thing is that I haven't even had contact with them and the majority of my posts on the forums are either complimentary or passive. Not really bothered just puzzled anyway moan over

Just read your profile. Maybe it's because you're married?

Is he? I'm not being picky I just can't see where it says that

Yep, says he's happily married but likes swinging. Doesn't mention that his wife knows about his profile. I'm just thinking that would put a percentage of people off (not all).

And Vine, yep, well done. Very observant of you. Have a medal. "

I'd prefer a blow job

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Sorry to say OP, but I blocked your profile quite a while back due to some of your tasteless forum comments.

Not related but I've noticed two peeps in my loacal area have blocked me. Funny thing is that I haven't even had contact with them and the majority of my posts on the forums are either complimentary or passive. Not really bothered just puzzled anyway moan over "

We block anyone within a certain radius, we will never be meeting them so we save them and ourselves the trouble

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By *cduck and Blue eyesCouple
over a year ago

nr chester


"Sorry to say OP, but I blocked your profile quite a while back due to some of your tasteless forum comments.

Not related but I've noticed two peeps in my loacal area have blocked me. Funny thing is that I haven't even had contact with them and the majority of my posts on the forums are either complimentary or passive. Not really bothered just puzzled anyway moan over

Just read your profile. Maybe it's because you're married?

Is he? I'm not being picky I just can't see where it says that

Yep, says he's happily married but likes swinging. Doesn't mention that his wife knows about his profile. I'm just thinking that would put a percentage of people off (not all).

And Vine, yep, well done. Very observant of you. Have a medal. "
. I think there are crossed wires here, crazy hot wife was talking about soulhound who is married, and vine was thought she was talking about naughty biker , who may be married but he doesn't say so, sorry for butting in, but that's the way I read the posts, hope this helps Mrs blue eyes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm not married, if I was I don't think I'd be here.

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By *retty FolliesCouple (FF)
over a year ago

south


"Sorry to say OP, but I blocked your profile quite a while back due to some of your tasteless forum comments.

Not related but I've noticed two peeps in my loacal area have blocked me. Funny thing is that I haven't even had contact with them and the majority of my posts on the forums are either complimentary or passive. Not really bothered just puzzled anyway moan over

Just read your profile. Maybe it's because you're married?

So are you! "

So are you Married Vine!!!, you just choose to not put it on your profile....you just meet in hotels when you are away from home, behind your wifes back!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you for the advice/support all.

Was expecting harshness, however you've been great.

See you soon

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village

Just say who you are and try not to give any illusions or be something you are not

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Sorry to say OP, but I blocked your profile quite a while back due to some of your tasteless forum comments.

Not related but I've noticed two peeps in my loacal area have blocked me. Funny thing is that I haven't even had contact with them and the majority of my posts on the forums are either complimentary or passive. Not really bothered just puzzled anyway moan over

Just read your profile. Maybe it's because you're married?

Is he? I'm not being picky I just can't see where it says that

Yep, says he's happily married but likes swinging. Doesn't mention that his wife knows about his profile. I'm just thinking that would put a percentage of people off (not all).

And Vine, yep, well done. Very observant of you. Have a medal. "

Oh right I can't see any mention of that anywhere. Sorry non of my business just makes me extra vigilant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do you think it would 'deter other body types'?

People aren't a body type, they're people.

Of course their people,but I agree,if I see that on someone's profile I know they're probably not going to like my body shape."

I agree... I know if someone said they loved the slim/ athletic frame, I would never consider messaging that person.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Sorry to say OP, but I blocked your profile quite a while back due to some of your tasteless forum comments.

Not related but I've noticed two peeps in my loacal area have blocked me. Funny thing is that I haven't even had contact with them and the majority of my posts on the forums are either complimentary or passive. Not really bothered just puzzled anyway moan over

Just read your profile. Maybe it's because you're married?

Is he? I'm not being picky I just can't see where it says that

Yep, says he's happily married but likes swinging. Doesn't mention that his wife knows about his profile. I'm just thinking that would put a percentage of people off (not all).

And Vine, yep, well done. Very observant of you. Have a medal. . I think there are crossed wires here, crazy hot wife was talking about soulhound who is married, and vine was thought she was talking about naughty biker , who may be married but he doesn't say so, sorry for butting in, but that's the way I read the posts, hope this helps Mrs blue eyes "

Yep I'm confused

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

The only "negative" for me is the "pleasing beautiful women" bit. If a woman lacks confidence this will put them off.

As you can't please everyone, it won't put the confident off.

Like the rest of us: win some, lose some.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Why do you think it would 'deter other body types'?

People aren't a body type, they're people.

My apologies it wasn't intended to offend and of course everyone is an individual and I'm not suggesting defined by their body type.

It would deter me from contacting theOP"

I know what you meant and thought that too, along with his "beautiful women" comment.

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

maybe the bit about driving at insane speeds puts them off they may wonder if your actually going to turn up for the meet.. or will they be visiting you in the A And E

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


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Open for advice, profile text/pics seem to push people away on here (had more luck at pubs/clubs in the flesh)

Any thoughts on my profile? Will prepare myself for a barrage of criticism lol

"

It's an OK profile, but not one that would stand out to me, if browsing.

Not enough public photos and there isnt anything that grabs & intrigues me to want to know more in the text.

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