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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How important is having a face picture on my profile just out of interest ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the person I guess. For me, I only message guys with public face pics, attaching mine in the first message.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Depends on the person I guess. For me, I only message guys with public face pics, attaching mine in the first message. "

That's fair enough !

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By *parkly MittensWoman
over a year ago

My own little world

I don't mind if you don't have a public one. But I like to see one within a couple of messages x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't mind if you don't have a public one. But I like to see one within a couple of messages x"

See I can understand that completely because you might want discretion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since there's so many guys on here its certainly not gonna hurt your chances having a public one. We'd never message a guy first without one on his profile that's for sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How important is having a face picture on my profile just out of interest ?"

It is not required on public but essential as a private pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't sweat it hunny. Display what you want but don't display one just because you think it will attract more interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on the person I guess. For me, I only message guys with public face pics, attaching mine in the first message. "

This

I have my single male filter on & I won't message any who don't have a face photo on their profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't sweat it hunny. Display what you want but don't display one just because you think it will attract more interest."

That's the thing though I've had literally no interest ahah so you can see why I'm contemplating it as a public image

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Depends on the person I guess. For me, I only message guys with public face pics, attaching mine in the first message.

This

I have my single male filter on & I won't message any who don't have a face photo on their profile."

Does it matter to you if it's public or private ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't sweat it hunny. Display what you want but don't display one just because you think it will attract more interest.

That's the thing though I've had literally no interest ahah so you can see why I'm contemplating it as a public image "

That might not be because you have no public face pic my lovely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't sweat it hunny. Display what you want but don't display one just because you think it will attract more interest.

That's the thing though I've had literally no interest ahah so you can see why I'm contemplating it as a public image "

It's because you're a single male not because of your lack of face pic. I don't think any of the guys I've met have public face pics.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't sweat it hunny. Display what you want but don't display one just because you think it will attract more interest.

That's the thing though I've had literally no interest ahah so you can see why I'm contemplating it as a public image

That might not be because you have no public face pic my lovely."

I get that but I just want a level of discretion for my own peice of mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on the person I guess. For me, I only message guys with public face pics, attaching mine in the first message.

This

I have my single male filter on & I won't message any who don't have a face photo on their profile.

Does it matter to you if it's public or private ?"

Well it'd have to be public for me to see it if I'm messaging them first

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't sweat it hunny. Display what you want but don't display one just because you think it will attract more interest.

That's the thing though I've had literally no interest ahah so you can see why I'm contemplating it as a public image

It's because you're a single male not because of your lack of face pic. I don't think any of the guys I've met have public face pics."

Oh right so would you only have a private one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the end of the day if you're happy to display then do it and see what difference it makes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't sweat it hunny. Display what you want but don't display one just because you think it will attract more interest.

That's the thing though I've had literally no interest ahah so you can see why I'm contemplating it as a public image

That might not be because you have no public face pic my lovely.

I get that but I just want a level of discretion for my own peice of mind "

I mean that there are other reasons that you might not be getting much interest but as you haven't asked for profile advice I can't say hun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we dont mind if people have no pics on public show as long as they have some to send us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't sweat it hunny. Display what you want but don't display one just because you think it will attract more interest.

That's the thing though I've had literally no interest ahah so you can see why I'm contemplating it as a public image

It's because you're a single male not because of your lack of face pic. I don't think any of the guys I've met have public face pics.

Oh right so would you only have a private one? "

Yep. Plenty of guys only have private ones. Do what you are comfortable with. You aren't missing out if you don't display.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Advice in general would be really helpful as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Up to you if you want to put it public, I wouldn't.

As a male you're highly likely to be making first contact anyway, include a clear face pic in your first message, or within a few. Or even repeat for the first few messages to remind her who you are.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Okay taken on board

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Have one in private if you are afraid of showing your ugly mug to your adoring public.

It works wonders for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How important is having a face picture on my profile just out of interest ?"

In my experience it's very important. It means the difference between being rejected for not having a photo and being rejected due to not being their type and being rejected anyway.

..oops.. cynicism creeping in there..lol.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Having it public is your choice. I'm not too fussed but my face pics are public (when my profile isn't hidden because I'm taking a break from meeting) so I expect to see one in return even if by pm only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Advice in general would be really helpful as well "

If you want profile criticism, you will have to ask for it. Otherwise we get a spell on the naughty step.

You might want to think twice though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't mind advice however brutal you may think it is, advice is advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as you have a clear face pic in private to send with a message just show whatever you're comfortable with on your profile.

I like to see a good selection of recent quality photos, and I also show the same despite having none on public display x

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"How important is having a face picture on my profile just out of interest ?"

Don't put a face pic public unless YOU want to and feel comfortable doing so.

It's not important to us as long as people have them to send privately.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As long as you have a clear face pic in private to send with a message just show whatever you're comfortable with on your profile.

I like to see a good selection of recent quality photos, and I also show the same despite having none on public display x

Understood

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How important is having a face picture on my profile just out of interest ?

Don't put a face pic public unless YOU want to and feel comfortable doing so.

It's not important to us as long as people have them to send privately.

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I don't have a problem with it being private

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could also build on your profile - a bit more about yourself, what you're looking for and what you have to offer. Try to let your personality show.

Also you'll probably be quizzed on how you expect to meet if you can't accommodate or travel, so details of that?

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"As long as you have a clear face pic in private to send with a message just show whatever you're comfortable with on your profile.

I like to see a good selection of recent quality photos, and I also show the same despite having none on public display x

"

Your profile is too long and I'd like to see your lips around my cock

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You could also build on your profile - a bit more about yourself, what you're looking for and what you have to offer. Try to let your personality show.

Also you'll probably be quizzed on how you expect to meet if you can't accommodate or travel, so details of that? "

I swear I have I can travel???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You could also build on your profile - a bit more about yourself, what you're looking for and what you have to offer. Try to let your personality show.

Also you'll probably be quizzed on how you expect to meet if you can't accommodate or travel, so details of that?

I swear I have I can travel???"

Sorry I read it wrong!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

AhhAh no worries

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