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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok, this might be one for the ladies only.

What is it about a guys profile that gets your attention and ultimately your knickers off?

I ask the question as there are a whole raft of different cultures, classes and attitudes on here with the guys, so how do you pick the wheat from the chaff?

Thing is I could ask the same question of the guys and say what grabs them about a ladies profile, but we all know us guys are less choosy eh!

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I tend not to read profiles tbh - I just make assessments based on the forums or PMs.

Interesting, tasteful, sexy pics are good tho'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I heard they like torso pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok, this might be one for the ladies only.

What is it about a guys profile that gets your attention and ultimately your knickers off?

I ask the question as there are a whole raft of different cultures, classes and attitudes on here with the guys, so how do you pick the wheat from the chaff?

Thing is I could ask the same question of the guys and say what grabs them about a ladies profile, but we all know us guys are less choosy eh!"

There's all types of men but us women are all the same and think the same?!

Think people's opinions will be as diverse as the men and women on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A nice bum.

A positive outlook.

A sense of humour.

Not a load of cock pics.

Someone who knows what they're looking for, rather than "ask me."

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Horses for courses 'n all that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are attracted by fun, lively and informative profiles.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Like your answer. I did wonder if it was just you ladies liked the 'cheeky choppy builder type with a nice torso etc'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit tits nice juicy arse and pussy...think that covers it,oh and lucious red lips ta

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Height, smoking status (non being my preference), being unattached, polite.

Lastly, being literate...I don't expect perfection. I'm certainly not perfect, but if I have to decipher every message...no cheers.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ha

I did say us guys are less choosy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the profile is only the tip of the iceberg...

and 9 times out of 10 it is down to how we communicate via messages on here that seals the deal for me...

flirting via messages is a dying art but if done well it works every time for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ha

I did say us guys are less choosy!"

By which I understand you to mean that you are less choosey.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Bit tits nice juicy arse and pussy...think that covers it,oh and lucious red lips ta"

I can put some lippy on for ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Firstly the pics , especially the face and body / cock pic .

Secondly compatability on preferences .

Thirdly their enthusiasm to meet .

If they want to exchange loads of messages , flirt etc..... It's a big no .

We are here to meet up , have fun and go .

Flirting and getting to know all the ins and outs of a person is the last thing we are interested in .

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Ok, this might be one for the ladies only.

What is it about a guys profile that gets your attention and ultimately your knickers off?

I ask the question as there are a whole raft of different cultures, classes and attitudes on here with the guys, so how do you pick the wheat from the chaff?

Thing is I could ask the same question of the guys and say what grabs them about a ladies profile, but we all know us guys are less choosy eh!"

Men less choosy? Pfft! Mr B is far more choosy than me, he's the one that says no to profiles alot of the time.

Main thing that grabs my attention is photos. If they're not enticing then I rarely read the profile, unless I'm just being nosey.

Then it's about how they come across in messages /forum posts. If they aren't on our wavelength or easy/interesting to talk to, that's usually the end of it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Think you need to put your foot down with Mr B lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Think some guys tread a thin line between being flirty and just being pornographic from some of the status messages I've read lately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good height can accommodate as its more likely they don't have a wife/girlfriend, handsome face and a large penis on display.

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Depends on how much credit I have on my plastic

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By *olly RogererMan
over a year ago

Braintree

I think its a great question and the replies can be informative. We all know that single guys on here get a rough time on the whole, and that may be down to a number of reasons.

Myself I always look for a female or couple who's profile doesnt start with "Im not looking for this that and the other" and "you must do this that and the other". I find those profiles more like job applications and I figure not really my type of people.

I also dislike the really long winded profiles and the o es without pictures that state "must send face picture" as I think that is a bit like they are expecting a load of deaperate guys to message them and they dont have to make an effort.

I do like profiles that clearly outline there wants and needs from fab, be it social, fun or regular meetings. I like a profile thats humerous, articulate, sensual and accurate. Failing that I like a profile that has a picture of big tits!

Ive tried my best with my profile and I am happy with it, but other may agree or disagree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm attracted to them from their pictures. If not i don't even read the profile.....unless they have given me another good reason to...but it's mainly physical attraction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't matter if they have no pics and no text or 150 pics and loads of text. I don't care about profiles, I meet the person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Intelligence and wit, combined with basic cop-on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think some guys tread a thin line between being flirty and just being pornographic from some of the status messages I've read lately."

status messages don't count ...

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I met the regular squeeze on here two years ago. He had (and still has) a one sentence profile and no pics whatsoever. A cracker of a flurry of first messages and then meeting him and everything just clicking into place was what it took.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask pooch he is the chap every one wants to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me there has to be an attraction so if i like the pictures mainly face/ body then i read the profile and go from there.

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By *tretchygirl and tintinWoman
over a year ago

Dartford

A nice arse and lovely chest pics.

A flirty message or three lol and...

A man who talks to me like I'm a person not just a pair of boobs. Nothing worse than ott initial messages.

In the flesh, being funny and bonkers helps!

Not much I know

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


" It doesn't matter if they have no pics and no text or 150 pics and loads of text. I don't care about profiles, I meet the person. "

Exactly Ms Steel Heels, whatever their personality might come across on here could be absolutely different when you meet them face to face

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By *llie RoseWoman
over a year ago

By the seaside

A profile is just the wrapper on the packet, it tells me if I would be interested in finding more about the contents inside.

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By *awtynNiceCouple
over a year ago

…

Initially some great photos will catch our attention followed by a well written profile, but after that it's all down to the chatting and chemistry, a social only meet is always key X

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"A nice arse and lovely chest pics.

A flirty message or three lol and...

A man who talks to me like I'm a person not just a pair of boobs. Nothing worse than ott initial messages.

In the flesh, being funny and bonkers helps!

Not much I know "

Fussy bitch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok, this might be one for the ladies only.

What is it about a guys profile that gets your attention and ultimately your knickers off?

I ask the question as there are a whole raft of different cultures, classes and attitudes on here with the guys, so how do you pick the wheat from the chaff?

Thing is I could ask the same question of the guys and say what grabs them about a ladies profile, but we all know us guys are less choosy eh!"

A guys profile alone would never get my knickers off. They have to work harder than that.

I would give you a list of stuff I look for, but I often go off-list and break most of my own rules, because, when a guy is sexy as fuck, who am I to argue?

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By *tretchygirl and tintinWoman
over a year ago

Dartford


"A nice arse and lovely chest pics.

A flirty message or three lol and...

A man who talks to me like I'm a person not just a pair of boobs. Nothing worse than ott initial messages.

In the flesh, being funny and bonkers helps!

Not much I know

Fussy bitch "

I am what I am xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all about the message for me I could have looked at them before and the profile didn't stand out so....I love a giggle so that gets my attention ... But good pics sent with message as well !!!

And by no means does that mean cock pictures haha !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok, this might be one for the ladies only.

What is it about a guys profile that (a) gets your attention and (b) ultimately your knickers off?"
a. It gets my attention if I can see he's a regular club goer, but that counts for posts, veris, and club reviews too, not only profile texts.

b. Once I'm in a club, they easily come off! Then we'll see who's there too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" It doesn't matter if they have no pics and no text or 150 pics and loads of text. I don't care about profiles, I meet the person.

Exactly Ms Steel Heels, whatever their personality might come across on here could be absolutely different when you meet them face to face "

In a good way or a bad way?

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