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By *reakShow90 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax

Maybe just me but had my 1st play and might just of been nerves or somthing but I felt I was not on par with every one else just hoping it's 1st time jitters just worry it may put the same people off playing with me again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't worry about it.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Maybe they all felt the same. As above, don't worry about it.

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Sometimes the first time with a partner isn't the greatest, nerves or just getting to know them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not on a par "with everyone else"? From that can we assume it was a gangbang or similar?

Maybe that was not the best introduction for a new player......perhaps the other guys were more experienced etc? But remember. They were newbies too at some time! I'm sure your confidence, and performance, will improve with experience.

Perhaps it's why so many women go for older guys lol?

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By *reakShow90 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax

Thanks every one and yes it was was gangbang and the ages was about the same guess it was just my nerves sure I will do better next time thanks guys always good to let my feelings out here get some really good advice

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

You'll know next time when you're introduced to the other studs as 'mr floppy'

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By *reakShow90 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax


"You'll know next time when you're introduced to the other studs as 'mr floppy' "
oh thanks lol dickkkkkk loll

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

A gangbang is a bit of a way to break your cherry, they are a little impersonal. Some are good if the woman is keen, others are just a bore if there are too many guys, too many stood around or the woman isn't active. In a gangbang you don't get to show your A game, as the woman wants cock not you fucking for half an hour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel your pain op. Had a meet recently with a stunner. But i let myself down. Never happened to me before and its hit me for six.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks every one and yes it was was gangbang and the ages was about the same guess it was just my nerves sure I will do better next time thanks guys always good to let my feelings out here get some really good advice "

Hey, at least you turned up. If you can handle them, gangbangs can be a good way to make contact either with the lady or other guys who might have something else lined up. And before you know it, you are seen as 'Mr Reliable'!

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By *ittenandthepirateCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

The first meet we had C had issues due to nerves and we've been other couple's first meets where the same has happened to the guy. I think it's quite common and you'll be fine once you've had a couple more meets

It's just an unfortunate of life that a guy's nerves are much more visible than a girl's!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha my first meet of this ywar back in january was hilariously bad performance wise not sure what was going on with me that weekend, not even sure it could be classed as sex.

Where as ive had other meets that have been absolutely great with lots of varied sex but couldnt cum at all.

I think a lot of it is mental if youre not in the right place for it your body just isn't willing to cooperate.

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By *obka3Couple
over a year ago

bournemouth

I am sure there isnt one man that hasnt had problems when swinging at some point, often see it happen, it gets easier the more you get used the situation

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

You gotta Zone out the other guys in your mind, I had it when playing in an open room with an audience watching. I had to position myself to face the wall to stop my peripheral vision killing my hard on. I just get in 'the zone' now as athletes call it and I'm fine

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