FabSwingers.com mobile

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to The Lounge

Getting Winks in real life.?

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have just been on holiday in the sun and got a lot of winks from the staff at dinner most nice looking young men .. Now what is a winks saying.? Hello I could not ask as most never new English . Do you wink and if so why.? I know you can wink here but its not the same as in life.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have just been on holiday in the sun and got a lot of winks from the staff at dinner most nice looking young men .. Now what is a winks saying.? Hello I could not ask as most never new English . Do you wink and if so why.? I know you can wink here but its not the same as in life. "

They're saying:-

Hello.... I want to fuck you

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"They're saying:-

Hello.... I want to fuck you "

Yes - it's nice when that happens

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have just been on holiday in the sun and got a lot of winks from the staff at dinner most nice looking young men .. Now what is a winks saying.? Hello I could not ask as most never new English . Do you wink and if so why.? I know you can wink here but its not the same as in life.

They're saying:-

Hello.... I want to fuck you "

really I could not make out why they was winking . Is it a thing they do more over seas this winking . lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's for when they can't get close enough to pinch your bum.

So x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *reakShow90Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax


"I have just been on holiday in the sun and got a lot of winks from the staff at dinner most nice looking young men .. Now what is a winks saying.? Hello I could not ask as most never new English . Do you wink and if so why.? I know you can wink here but its not the same as in life. "
I use a wing for sayi hello some times or to a female friend to make sure they are ok eg in clubs and such but never been winked at so don't know the feeling

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *reakShow90Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax


"I have just been on holiday in the sun and got a lot of winks from the staff at dinner most nice looking young men .. Now what is a winks saying.? Hello I could not ask as most never new English . Do you wink and if so why.? I know you can wink here but its not the same as in life. "
sorry to be rude but I can see why they would wink at you

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had that once with a girl working at Waitrose. She kept winking at me from behind the counter. I thought my luck was in!

Turns out she had a facial tic . Blinkin' hell

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have just been on holiday in the sun and got a lot of winks from the staff at dinner most nice looking young men .. Now what is a winks saying.? Hello I could not ask as most never new English . Do you wink and if so why.? I know you can wink here but its not the same as in life. I use a wing for sayi hello some times or to a female friend to make sure they are ok eg in clubs and such but never been winked at so don't know the feeling "
Well it was a New lovely hotel not English end of Fuerteventura so maybe its there thing winking.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have just been on holiday in the sun and got a lot of winks from the staff at dinner most nice looking young men .. Now what is a winks saying.? Hello I could not ask as most never new English . Do you wink and if so why.? I know you can wink here but its not the same as in life.

They're saying:-

Hello.... I want to fuck you really I could not make out why they was winking . Is it a thing they do more over seas this winking . lol "

We do it the world over...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *reakShow90Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax


"I have just been on holiday in the sun and got a lot of winks from the staff at dinner most nice looking young men .. Now what is a winks saying.? Hello I could not ask as most never new English . Do you wink and if so why.? I know you can wink here but its not the same as in life. I use a wing for sayi hello some times or to a female friend to make sure they are ok eg in clubs and such but never been winked at so don't know the feeling Well it was a New lovely hotel not English end of Fuerteventura so maybe its there thing winking. "
Ooo do like fuerteventura very nice place and maybe so

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I had that once with a girl working at Waitrose. She kept winking at me from behind the counter. I thought my luck was in!

Turns out she had a facial tic . Blinkin' hell"

lol I was getting 4 or 5 winks a night different men .. maybe same thing . made me smile maybe you should start winking at woman.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had that once with a girl working at Waitrose. She kept winking at me from behind the counter. I thought my luck was in!

Turns out she had a facial tic . Blinkin' hell"

You missed out "She was called Ella", so the punchline didn't work so well.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

Yeah I'm a serial winker it's a definite compliment I wink if making eye contact from a distance with a woman I fancy in a nightclub or bar.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock


"I have just been on holiday in the sun and got a lot of winks from the staff at dinner most nice looking young men .. Now what is a winks saying.? Hello I could not ask as most never new English . Do you wink and if so why.? I know you can wink here but its not the same as in life.

They're saying:-

Hello.... I want to fuck you really I could not make out why they was winking . Is it a thing they do more over seas this winking . lol

We do it the world over... "

Yep just a more subtle way of flirting and it breaks all language barriers, not sure if winking could be offensive in some parts of the world though? Different cultures have some strange meanings for things we would consider innocent.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had that once with a girl working at Waitrose. She kept winking at me from behind the counter. I thought my luck was in!

Turns out she had a facial tic . Blinkin' hell lol I was getting 4 or 5 winks a night different men .. maybe same thing . made me smile maybe you should start winking at woman."

Sulphur in the air babe

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It could be pretty innocuous. I wink quite alot, I often throw one in during greeting. I do it to men and women too.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I never wink in real life ... its weird I think over seas maybe its a thing some places do a lot maybe . Did we wink a lot more years ago here in the uk.?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they thought you was on the game possibly?

You get that alot in hotels don't you .

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I can see why they winked at you but then I noticed how good looking you was ages ago

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe they thought you was on the game possibly?

You get that alot in hotels don't you ."

At dinner with my other half in a 5 star hotel . lol yer was weird it would make me smile. I was thinking maybe there way of saying hello.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I can see why they winked at you but then I noticed how good looking you was ages ago "
lol well I am so brown white bits . I was told a lot go nude over there I did not see no one nude at hotel or tops off so felt I could not do it . On the beach more but not alot

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I can see why they winked at you but then I noticed how good looking you was ages ago lol well I am so brown white bits . I was told a lot go nude over there I did not see no one nude at hotel or tops off so felt I could not do it . On the beach more but not alot "

Dot to dot anyone

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have just been on holiday in the sun and got a lot of winks from the staff at dinner most nice looking young men .. Now what is a winks saying.? Hello I could not ask as most never new English . Do you wink and if so why.? I know you can wink here but its not the same as in life. "

Its saying that John is a lucky man! Enjoy Lovely Jojo xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have just been on holiday in the sun and got a lot of winks from the staff at dinner most nice looking young men .. Now what is a winks saying.? Hello I could not ask as most never new English . Do you wink and if so why.? I know you can wink here but its not the same as in life.

Its saying that John is a lucky man! Enjoy Lovely Jojo xx"

Made him smile . lol now if it was a swinging hotel I maybe could have made a move on one or two . lol xxx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I was on a bus in London one time with my other half. We get on and sit upstairs at the front, adjacent to two men; a quick assessment finds them both doable.

We're going on the route and I notice that the guy nearest me is looking at me.

Never one to pass up a challenge, I stare at him.

He smiles, I wink.

We're silently flirting, next to our partners, for the rest of the journey.

Nothing happened, clearly, but I did enjoy that.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was on a bus in London one time with my other half. We get on and sit upstairs at the front, adjacent to two men; a quick assessment finds them both doable.

We're going on the route and I notice that the guy nearest me is looking at me.

Never one to pass up a challenge, I stare at him.

He smiles, I wink.

We're silently flirting, next to our partners, for the rest of the journey.

Nothing happened, clearly, but I did enjoy that.

"

well you made that sound very erotic I am thinking what was on your minds.. xxx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I'd realise if I was being winked at...

I would probably assume the other person had something in their eye

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can see why they winked at you but then I noticed how good looking you was ages ago lol well I am so brown white bits . I was told a lot go nude over there I did not see no one nude at hotel or tops off so felt I could not do it . On the beach more but not alot "

Where in Fuerteventura were you?

The nudism is more prevalent on certain beaches or in certain areas.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In Latin cultures winking is often a signal of sexual interest.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And finally yes I wink. If I do it, it is normally to show the person I winking at that what I am saying isn't true or is a joke. I also wink to show I understand what someone has said without saying it as I don't necessarily want everyone to know.

I haven't used winking to flirt as far as I can remember.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I can see why they winked at you but then I noticed how good looking you was ages ago lol well I am so brown white bits . I was told a lot go nude over there I did not see no one nude at hotel or tops off so felt I could not do it . On the beach more but not alot

Where in Fuerteventura were you?

The nudism is more prevalent on certain beaches or in certain areas. "

Royal Palm

in Jandia, Fuerteventura. It was really fab I loved it and will go back . Never been on holiday to that part Spain .. I was thinking I would be seeing more nude around but not a lot only on the beach.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *hadow_MoonMan
over a year ago

St Columb Major, Cornwall

If I see a good looking lady and she makes eye contact I'll smile and wink...it's just a way of hello 'Hi I like you'

I'd definitely be winking at you hehe x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can see why they winked at you but then I noticed how good looking you was ages ago lol well I am so brown white bits . I was told a lot go nude over there I did not see no one nude at hotel or tops off so felt I could not do it . On the beach more but not alot

Where in Fuerteventura were you?

The nudism is more prevalent on certain beaches or in certain areas. Royal Palm

in Jandia, Fuerteventura. It was really fab I loved it and will go back . Never been on holiday to that part Spain .. I was thinking I would be seeing more nude around but not a lot only on the beach.

"

Jandia beach is a naturist beach but because there is no segregation nudity is interspersed amongst those wearing clothing. The hotels unless specifically naturist, tend to be less likely to have topless sunbathing than there was during the eighties and nineties. It seems to be less 'fashionable' now. There are some areas that are more heavily populated with naturists but hey tend to be more secluded, than the main beaches like Jandia and Sotovento. That said last time I was there, there was considerably more nudity on the Fuerteventura beaches than other places I've visited. However my last time was 9 years ago.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *edMan
over a year ago

cambridgeshire

I think a wink is an invitation to share something fun, and not always sex.

I recall my Grandad would tease my Grandma till she would be fit to snap. And he's wink at us grandchildren before doing it...

It was his antidote to being nagged lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think a wink is an invitation to share something fun, and not always sex.

I recall my Grandad would tease my Grandma till she would be fit to snap. And he's wink at us grandchildren before doing it...

It was his antidote to being nagged lol"

I don't think people wink a lot in the uk now .. I like a wink ...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *edMan
over a year ago

cambridgeshire


"I think a wink is an invitation to share something fun, and not always sex.

I recall my Grandad would tease my Grandma till she would be fit to snap. And he's wink at us grandchildren before doing it...

It was his antidote to being nagged lolI don't think people wink a lot in the uk now .. I like a wink ... "

I'm winking now...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a wink is an invitation to share something fun, and not always sex.

I recall my Grandad would tease my Grandma till she would be fit to snap. And he's wink at us grandchildren before doing it...

It was his antidote to being nagged lolI don't think people wink a lot in the uk now .. I like a wink ... "

Xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *uxom _edCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I get a lot of winks at work normally by boys aged 15 or 16.. I blame hormones

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always winking at people. It's turned into a bad habit

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By *edMan
over a year ago

cambridgeshire


"I'm always winking at people. It's turned into a bad habit "

I don't think it's a bad habit

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top