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Social meets to provide Verifications.

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By *ullbackbutt OP   Man
over a year ago

Purton

I have seen a few people recently who have posted they would be around at a certain time for a social and then provide a verification after the meet. What are peoples thoughts on this?

I prefer Starbucks by the way.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It's a kind offer. Well done to them.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I've done it in the past, when I go on Fab tour, but I don't like coffee shops.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm doing this tomorrow lol xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very generous of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would happily meet somebody for a drink and chat if I was in their area anyway, I wouldn't go out of my way for this kind of meet but if we were close and I was out anyway I see no harm in having a coffee stop to help a newbie along

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done this before. But not too much, as 90% of the time I have a shit profile and I figure a verification from me would be even worse than them having none!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was going to offer to do this myself next week...

ill be putting a thread up at some point..

I'm going anyway and I always have a coffee whilst out so may as well help someone out with a verification if I can

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I generously offer my presence for meets when I go down to London. I don't assume it will end in a shag, but I will always verify.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I've done this before. But not too much, as 90% of the time I have a shit profile and I figure a verification from me would be even worse than them having none! "

There is that aspect. I've had feedback that a verification from me can put other meets in jeopardy. I've taken the stance of telling them to just use the tick and not post the verification.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'm going to be in Weston-Super-Mare in Somerset tomorrow so I'll offer to verify someone in a Costa cos I don't like Starbucks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've done this before. But not too much, as 90% of the time I have a shit profile and I figure a verification from me would be even worse than them having none!

There is that aspect. I've had feedback that a verification from me can put other meets in jeopardy. I've taken the stance of telling them to just use the tick and not post the verification. "

Gerraway

People have actually said that to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've done this before. But not too much, as 90% of the time I have a shit profile and I figure a verification from me would be even worse than them having none!

There is that aspect. I've had feedback that a verification from me can put other meets in jeopardy. I've taken the stance of telling them to just use the tick and not post the verification. "

People have done that with mine too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A verification is just that. It verifies that the person or people as in couple really do exist. There's too many that are on as couples (we've had a few contact us) but when you dig deeper you find they're single men. Even a quick meet up at a coffee shop will verify genuine couples. They are not necessarily there to give out a mark out of ten for a sexual act.

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By *ackett1962Man
over a year ago

harrow

Anyone in North London fancy a social meet to help get verified . And I mean a social only!!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I've done this before. But not too much, as 90% of the time I have a shit profile and I figure a verification from me would be even worse than them having none!

There is that aspect. I've had feedback that a verification from me can put other meets in jeopardy. I've taken the stance of telling them to just use the tick and not post the verification.

Gerraway

People have actually said that to you "

Absolutely, and not just once. I assume it's because I like Marmite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone in North London fancy a social meet to help get verified . And I mean a social only!!"

You are verified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've done this before. But not too much, as 90% of the time I have a shit profile and I figure a verification from me would be even worse than them having none!

There is that aspect. I've had feedback that a verification from me can put other meets in jeopardy. I've taken the stance of telling them to just use the tick and not post the verification.

Gerraway

People have actually said that to you

Absolutely, and not just once. I assume it's because I like Marmite. "

Well that's me fucked them I put Marmite on everything

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular


"I've done this before. But not too much, as 90% of the time I have a shit profile and I figure a verification from me would be even worse than them having none! "

Your profile is the best I have ever seen at the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone in North London fancy a social meet to help get verified . And I mean a social only!!"

and we are all verified too....

you need to start your own post....and don't forget to ask for a face pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me.....I look nothing like my profile when I'm out for a coffee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've done this before. But not too much, as 90% of the time I have a shit profile and I figure a verification from me would be even worse than them having none!

Your profile is the best I have ever seen at the moment"

Ta. x

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular


"Not for me.....I look nothing like my profile when I'm out for a coffee "

Thought I recognised you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not for me.....I look nothing like my profile when I'm out for a coffee "

I usually wear more clothes too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here....but minus the long hair too

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By *ackett1962Man
over a year ago

harrow

I actually meant to help other people get verified.

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By *ackett1962Man
over a year ago

harrow

Do I have to bring my own marmite??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would offer a social coffee meet to help those

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

The reason i started it because wherever i go i stop and have coffe it also means i decide to go to more different places and get out more and ive met some nice decent people and one was a lady so i dont just do it for the men

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"I would happily meet somebody for a drink and chat if I was in their area anyway, I wouldn't go out of my way for this kind of meet but if we were close and I was out anyway I see no harm in having a coffee stop to help a newbie along "

this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't see the problem with this at all.

After all - they turn out to be a real person, you might have a laugh.

You might have more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do I have to bring my own marmite?? "

I understood what you meant...

but its not blind date is it?

you have to know who you're going to be verifying...hence the face pic request

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done this also a few weeks ago, if I'm out and about I stop for coffee so why not help get someone verified if they are available and want to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see nothing wrong with this type of meet, it's very good of those to offer it.

If anyone in my area is willing to offer it I'd gladly meet for a coffee as I can't believe how difficult it is for me to get verified this time round!

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By *reakShow90Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax


"I have seen a few people recently who have posted they would be around at a certain time for a social and then provide a verification after the meet. What are peoples thoughts on this?

I prefer Starbucks by the way."
Iam not sur a clp offered to do one for me but I felt they was just been nice I would like one from some one who likes me and would be happy to meet again not just get one out of pity (or how it feels to me)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have seen a few people recently who have posted they would be around at a certain time for a social and then provide a verification after the meet. What are peoples thoughts on this?

I prefer Starbucks by the way.Iam not sur a clp offered to do one for me but I felt they was just been nice I would like one from some one who likes me and would be happy to meet again not just get one out of pity (or how it feels to me)"

Should have just taken it....you don't have to publish it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have mixed feelings about them to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I too would be grateful of this type of verification

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have seen a few people recently who have posted they would be around at a certain time for a social and then provide a verification after the meet. What are peoples thoughts on this?

I prefer Starbucks by the way.Iam not sur a clp offered to do one for me but I felt they was just been nice I would like one from some one who likes me and would be happy to meet again not just get one out of pity (or how it feels to me)"

I wouldn't say it was out of pity..

It's the same as any organised social where there is nothing expected but to meet, have a coffee and a chat and get verified off someone who is already verified, with no hidden agenda...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't ever done it or anot organised social but I don't see the harm in it.

When I've seen some of the lovely forum ladies offer I've always thought it was a sweet lovely offer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I offered a guy just this on Saturday, I had a status up saying where I was going, he messaged saying he was, he had been in 2 weeks, I offered to have a chat with him and verify his account. He never got back to me, but then after the event asked if I enjoyed it.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I've done this before. But not too much, as 90% of the time I have a shit profile and I figure a verification from me would be even worse than them having none!

There is that aspect. I've had feedback that a verification from me can put other meets in jeopardy. I've taken the stance of telling them to just use the tick and not post the verification.

Gerraway

People have actually said that to you

Absolutely, and not just once. I assume it's because I like Marmite. "

Do you know I'm actually shocked!

I think verifications are pointless and give a somewhat false sense of security, however, I recognise others think differently. Therefore, for someone to seek a verification and turn around and say "thanks, but I won't display it as you'll put people off meeting me!" beggars belief and has left my flabber simply gasted!

Wow!!!

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular


"I've done this before. But not too much, as 90% of the time I have a shit profile and I figure a verification from me would be even worse than them having none!

There is that aspect. I've had feedback that a verification from me can put other meets in jeopardy. I've taken the stance of telling them to just use the tick and not post the verification.

Gerraway

People have actually said that to you

Absolutely, and not just once. I assume it's because I like Marmite.

Do you know I'm actually shocked!

I think verifications are pointless and give a somewhat false sense of security, however, I recognise others think differently. Therefore, for someone to seek a verification and turn around and say "thanks, but I won't display it as you'll put people off meeting me!" beggars belief and has left my flabber simply gasted!

Wow!!! "
the expression tongue in cheek comes to mind

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By *awtynNiceCouple
over a year ago

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I'm a little split on this as on the one hand I can see the benefit in getting folks on the first step of their journey, however I also think that verification should be an indication that people are willing and able to meet and play. Anyway each to their own and hope everyone has fun X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I've said previously I've got mixed feelings about them. If I veri someone it's because I like them & have got to know them not because I 'speed veri'd' in Starbucks.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I've done this before. But not too much, as 90% of the time I have a shit profile and I figure a verification from me would be even worse than them having none!

There is that aspect. I've had feedback that a verification from me can put other meets in jeopardy. I've taken the stance of telling them to just use the tick and not post the verification.

Gerraway

People have actually said that to you

Absolutely, and not just once. I assume it's because I like Marmite.

Do you know I'm actually shocked!

I think verifications are pointless and give a somewhat false sense of security, however, I recognise others think differently. Therefore, for someone to seek a verification and turn around and say "thanks, but I won't display it as you'll put people off meeting me!" beggars belief and has left my flabber simply gasted!

Wow!!! the expression tongue in cheek comes to mind "

I'd love to be wrong on this.

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"I have seen a few people recently who have posted they would be around at a certain time for a social and then provide a verification after the meet. What are peoples thoughts on this?

I prefer Starbucks by the way."

Costa for me. All my best socials are there

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As I've said previously I've got mixed feelings about them. If I veri someone it's because I like them & have got to know them not because I 'speed veri'd' in Starbucks."

^^^ this

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