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By *hor Thumb OP   Man
over a year ago

bristol

I think ive sussed out that the more you say no single straight guys, the more they post to you. I think the word no is like a bright light to a moth. Well come on in little bug and get zapped with the block button. Some people just have no dignity or respect for other peoples wishes or is it a devolved mentality. I feel sorry for the decent single guys on here, because they have to wade through the cock zombies to be heard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you feel so sorry for the "decent single guys" why are you posting a thread that effectively makes it harder for ALL single guys (regardless of whether they are decent or not...)

Sorry... don't get it. It's not like "decent single guys" get a different font...

Anyway, open forum and all that...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have just posted on another thread about this, the profiles that have angry rants and raves on are a result of this and it does make looking really challenged.

To be fair though from a single guys point unless its not on your heading or statement men will look but should retreat as soon as you see what your looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think ive sussed out that the more you say no single straight guys, the more they post to you. I think the word no is like a bright light to a moth. Well come on in little bug and get zapped with the block button. Some people just have no dignity or respect for other peoples wishes or is it a devolved mentality. I feel sorry for the decent single guys on here, because they have to wade through the cock zombies to be heard."

Now you know how I feel!. Even I get blocked

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Tbf, some men will fuck anything

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By *hats_in_a_usernameMan
over a year ago

Southampton

Cock zombies, brilliant phrase

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look at it from the opposite side...the cockwombles make the decent guys stand out all the more

That has been my experience anyway

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Gave up mailing anyone on here some years ago unless it's forum related. Some of us have plenty of self respect and refuse to be a typical cock shot single male. Fuck that.

Anyone fancy a Fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gave up mailing anyone on here some years ago unless it's forum related. Some of us have plenty of self respect and refuse to be a typical cock shot single male. Fuck that.

Anyone fancy a Fuck "

Mad isn't it? I don't message first either... seems like the best way (as tumble rattles through his inbox).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's why I never bother.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think ive sussed out that the more you say no single straight guys, the more they post to you. I think the word no is like a bright light to a moth. Well come on in little bug and get zapped with the block button. Some people just have no dignity or respect for other peoples wishes or is it a devolved mentality. I feel sorry for the decent single guys on here, because they have to wade through the cock zombies to be heard."

Just a fact of fab though surely. If you don't block all single guys, you'll get lots of shit messages I imagine, but some good guys may appear in your inbox, so to speak, from time to time.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Gave up mailing anyone on here some years ago unless it's forum related. Some of us have plenty of self respect and refuse to be a typical cock shot single male. Fuck that.

Anyone fancy a Fuck

Mad isn't it? I don't message first either... seems like the best way (as tumble rattles through his inbox).

"

Got yourself to some socials and clubs be a tumble no more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gave up mailing anyone on here some years ago unless it's forum related. Some of us have plenty of self respect and refuse to be a typical cock shot single male. Fuck that.

Anyone fancy a Fuck

Mad isn't it? I don't message first either... seems like the best way (as tumble rattles through his inbox).

Got yourself to some socials and clubs be a tumble no more "

I do alright but I must make it to a club one day... so many people seem to want to punch me and I feel I am denying them...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get a few idiotic messages but happy to say that the nicer messages out weigh them as they are either complimentary ones or ones from men who read profiles. I certainly don't tar all the single males with the same brush, it's like everything in life there's always going a minority that gives the rest a bad name.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

If it wasn't for the single men I wouldn't be here, or go to clubs.

All hail the single man (as long as he's gorgeous, fit, and reliable of course )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it wasn't for the single men I wouldn't be here, or go to clubs.

All hail the single man (as long as he's gorgeous, fit, and reliable of course )"

Ahemcough.....

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

The more desperate the man is, the more they will do to get sex. Par for the course. It's a good use of the block button

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By *roggMan
over a year ago

haverfordwest


"I get a few idiotic messages but happy to say that the nicer messages out weigh them as they are either complimentary ones or ones from men who read profiles. I certainly don't tar all the single males with the same brush, it's like everything in life there's always going a minority that gives the rest a bad name. "
that is nice to hear and a sensible approach

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By *ertsguy2000Man
over a year ago

hertford


"I look at it from the opposite side...the cockwombles make the decent guys stand out all the more

That has been my experience anyway "

Well that's kinda my theory, but I must say it is difficult to adhere too. I really like the wink option in this site, if there is a lady I like the look of, and gentle wink I feel is good way to say 'Hi, I like your profile, fancy a chat?', it gives the option to the lady to have a look at me and decide if she would like to chat or not. The whole 'wow your fu@£img lovely, come suck my dick' messages are kinda sad I feel. That said I'm not exactly drowning in offers lol.

Happy balance somewhere I suppose ?

HG

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think ive sussed out that the more you say no single straight guys, the more they post to you. I think the word no is like a bright light to a moth. Well come on in little bug and get zapped with the block button. Some people just have no dignity or respect for other peoples wishes or is it a devolved mentality. I feel sorry for the decent single guys on here, because they have to wade through the cock zombies to be heard."

Instead of complaining about it why not set your filters.. And then you can do the messaging! It's not rocket science

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you feel so sorry for the "decent single guys" why are you posting a thread that effectively makes it harder for ALL single guys (regardless of whether they are decent or not...)

Sorry... don't get it. It's not like "decent single guys" get a different font...

Anyway, open forum and all that... "

Did you come out tops in the school of logic? Great point lol

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By *roggMan
over a year ago

haverfordwest


"If you feel so sorry for the "decent single guys" why are you posting a thread that effectively makes it harder for ALL single guys (regardless of whether they are decent or not...)

Sorry... don't get it. It's not like "decent single guys" get a different font...

Anyway, open forum and all that... "
probably because they are only interested in meeting bi guys not straight ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think ive sussed out that the more you say no single straight guys, the more they post to you. I think the word no is like a bright light to a moth. Well come on in little bug and get zapped with the block button. Some people just have no dignity or respect for other peoples wishes or is it a devolved mentality. I feel sorry for the decent single guys on here, because they have to wade through the cock zombies to be heard.

Instead of complaining about it why not set your filters.. And then you can do the messaging! It's not rocket science "

Ditto. Always tell this to women who complain about men messaging them with one liners.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think ive sussed out that the more you say no single straight guys, the more they post to you. I think the word no is like a bright light to a moth. Well come on in little bug and get zapped with the block button. Some people just have no dignity or respect for other peoples wishes or is it a devolved mentality. I feel sorry for the decent single guys on here, because they have to wade through the cock zombies to be heard.

Instead of complaining about it why not set your filters.. And then you can do the messaging! It's not rocket science "

This is pretty much the solution; instead of trying to change the world, try to change yourself...

...of course this means that you will have to instigate contact and do the chasing...the onus is then on you...

Good luck.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"I think ive sussed out that the more you say no single straight guys, the more they post to you. I think the word no is like a bright light to a moth. Well come on in little bug and get zapped with the block button. Some people just have no dignity or respect for other peoples wishes or is it a devolved mentality. I feel sorry for the decent single guys on here, because they have to wade through the cock zombies to be heard.

Instead of complaining about it why not set your filters.. And then you can do the messaging! It's not rocket science "

There's a search option for bi or bi curious as well..

I dropped my filters ages ago and if I got that much mail from guys tv's ts that it bothered me filters back on. As yet no need.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Gave up mailing anyone on here some years ago unless it's forum related. Some of us have plenty of self respect and refuse to be a typical cock shot single male. Fuck that.

Anyone fancy a Fuck

Mad isn't it? I don't message first either... seems like the best way (as tumble rattles through his inbox).

Got yourself to some socials and clubs be a tumble no more

I do alright but I must make it to a club one day... so many people seem to want to punch me and I feel I am denying them... "

It's only fair I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think ive sussed out that the more you say no single straight guys, the more they post to you. I think the word no is like a bright light to a moth. Well come on in little bug and get zapped with the block button. Some people just have no dignity or respect for other peoples wishes or is it a devolved mentality. I feel sorry for the decent single guys on here, because they have to wade through the cock zombies to be heard.

Instead of complaining about it why not set your filters.. And then you can do the messaging! It's not rocket science

There's a search option for bi or bi curious as well..

I dropped my filters ages ago and if I got that much mail from guys tv's ts that it bothered me filters back on. As yet no need. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gave up mailing anyone on here some years ago unless it's forum related. Some of us have plenty of self respect and refuse to be a typical cock shot single male. Fuck that.

Anyone fancy a Fuck

Mad isn't it? I don't message first either... seems like the best way (as tumble rattles through his inbox).

Got yourself to some socials and clubs be a tumble no more

I do alright but I must make it to a club one day... so many people seem to want to punch me and I feel I am denying them...

It's only fair I think "

I will put it on my bucket list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From my experience some couples are just as bad. I've been messaged to meet couples and replied I don't meet couples. Then they usually say it will only be the female playing and the male watching. Even though their profiles state "we don't play alone". But at least I have never received a rude message, so for that I'm happy

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