FabSwingers.com forum: Single guys a wast of time

By *arbie and ken 2010 OP Couple
over a year ago

braintree

Well been talking to a single guy for over a year finaly agrred to play with him tomorow but suprise suprise he has not sent over his address and not been on line for 14hrs

Think its time to block him and forget single guys.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Well been talking to a single guy for over a year finaly agrred to play with him tomorow but suprise suprise he has not sent over his address and not been on line for 14hrs

Think its time to block him and forget single guys."

Christ. I'd have given up yonks ago.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Well been talking to a single guy for over a year finaly agrred to play with him tomorow but suprise suprise he has not sent over his address and not been on line for 14hrs

Think its time to block him and forget single guys.

Christ. I'd have given up yonks ago."

Me too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why have you invested everything into one man? It seems silly to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well been talking to a single guy for over a year finaly agrred to play with him tomorow but suprise suprise he has not sent over his address and not been on line for 14hrs

Think its time to block him and forget single guys."

I've had lots of last minute cancellations and disappearances after a meet's been arranged - but then I've also had loads of outstanding meets and overall the best sex of my life on fab by far - mostly thanks to single guys!

Like everyone else on here - I take the rough with the smooth And hope for the best! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why have you invested everything into one man? It seems silly to me. "

Exactly this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over a year!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well been talking to a single guy for over a year finaly agrred to play with him tomorow but suprise suprise he has not sent over his address and not been on line for 14hrs

Think its time to block him and forget single guys."

A year just lining up a meet?!

Fine if chatting as friends, but a year

Lol

Time wasting in general is a pain in the ass. Messaging to build tension, awesome. Wasting time, exactly that. Move on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Come on really? Life does get in the way sometimes, not everyone is a time waster or should be labelled as such.

If I was speaking to a couple for a year without meeting then I'd consider that maybe it was them wasting my time...nothing is so black and white ...think about that and mabye see what he says next time he is online before going in huffs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We single guys are a waste of time... Oh wait, is that not what I'm meant to say?

lol

Let me try that again...

As is with most walks of life, it's working out who is worth your time and who isn't. And not to attempt to cover all with one blanket.

For every one of this chap, there will be many more (who are just as suitable) who would not do as he did.

Happy Hunting

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By *arbie and ken 2010 OP Couple
over a year ago

braintree

Well we dont very often meet single guys and looking back think he was just useing the conversations we had as wank materal insted of meeting up tomorow for the real deal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why have you invested everything into one man? It seems silly to me.

Exactly this!"

Lovely bum boldgirl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would like to name the female equivalent of a "white knight" a "shield maiden" in honour of Lagerther from viking mythology..

,,,will end shield maidens step forward and defend the single men?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

should probably be spelt Lagertha (but you know, its Norwegian, I am free-styling)

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By *tillup4funMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why have you invested everything into one man? It seems silly to me.

Exactly this!

Lovely bum boldgirl

Thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A year!...beggars belief

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Flip side of it could be the other guy just got fed up waiting... in saying that. A year?!

Ok you have not mentioned if discussions were general chit chat ie more friend chat over the year or if anyone at some point mentioned meeting at any point or not. But am sure more people would soon get bored with this setup.

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By *tillup4funMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

"Well been talking to a single guy for over a year finaly agrred to play with him tomorow but suprise suprise he has not sent over his address and not been on line for 14hrs

Think its time to block him and forget single guys."

Why did it take a year to arrange a meet? Seems a bit strange you would have waited that long

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By *arbie and ken 2010 OP Couple
over a year ago

braintree

"[Removed by poster at 25/04/16 00:26:14]"

Because we both have lives outside fab and he works in a pub 6/7 days a week and we have jobs & tranagers at home so not so easy nowdays to play,

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

Not all single guys are time wasters. I was exchanging messages with a couple for a few weeks and arranged a day to meet, but when I asked where and what time - suddenly they're not replying and go quiet!!! Now removed from my friends list and I've moved on.

Oh and I've been told some single women do the same to guys.

Moral of the story, it's not just single men xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You talked to one guy, that is not all single guys lol.

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

"Not all single guys are time wasters. I was exchanging messages with a couple for a few weeks and arranged a day to meet, but when I asked where and what time - suddenly they're not replying and go quiet!!! Now removed from my friends list and I've moved on.

Oh and I've been told some single women do the same to guys.

Moral of the story, it's not just single men xx"

Morally good response

As an outsider I dont think there was plans to meet from either side.. couple called the single guys bluff and he didnt bite.. now all off a sudden all single men are the same

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

"[Removed by poster at 25/04/16 00:26:14]

Because we both have lives outside fab and he works in a pub 6/7 days a week and we have jobs & tranagers at home so not so easy nowdays to play,"

So he could just be at work and busy maybe?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well been talking to a single guy for over a year finaly agrred to play with him tomorow but suprise suprise he has not sent over his address and not been on line for 14hrs

Think its time to block him and forget single guys."

He's either busy or changed his mind. Maybe he figured you wouldn't take rejection well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he hasn't been online then he's probably just busy... people do do other things outside of fab.

I took a year to meet a guy it was one of the best meets ever. So it does happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it took a year before you deciced you wanted to meet him then i,d say its probably worked out well for you

ps it is not just single men who do this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well been talking to a single guy for over a year "

"... and not been on line for 14hrs

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I'm lost for words!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps it's because you haven't posted enough disclaimers on you profile he had a change of heart?

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Yep dead loss the lot of us

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By *ali 69Man
over a year ago

jersey

One woman sent me 74 messages arranging to meet . Most of conversation early hours of the morning . We swapped phone numbers , and at the last minute she backed out . I wasn't pleased ....but I certainly don't blame all single women for the actions of one . So your logic is quite bizarre . Maybe you are doing all us single guys a huge favour by posting this .

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

I like how you are soooooooooooo busy and don't have time yet he's not logged on for 14 hours and he's a time waster

Maybe he's busy and his life doesn't revolve around here too!

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By *r Man.Man
over a year ago

London

"Well been talking to a single guy for over a year finaly agrred to play with him tomorow but suprise suprise he has not sent over his address and not been on line for 14hrs

Think its time to block him and forget single guys."

Your so right, the amount of time I've been given the runaround by couples and single woman, and because I'm a man of principle, I too am going to block them.

Shite! What have I done

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I wouldn't have solely relied upon using Fab as the messaging system to get the full details of the meet finalised.

I'd have wanted to speak on the phone to ascertain whether we got on as live interactive people and sense the reality of the proposition.

If someone could or would not provide a phone number it would be cause for concern and suggest that they weren't fully as described. A cheap sim card means the family home number does not have to be divulged.

People who are not single often have inability to talk out of business hours and the ops contact may have been deceitful. It's also common that someone changes their relationship status over the course of a year.

But overall I really think you need to speak, before confirming a meet with someone. I turn down meets where they won't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always find it strange which category gets blamed for a perceived flaw after a bad experience. A single guy turned out to be a turd therefore all single guys are turds. A married guy said he had permission and didn't therefore all married men lie about permission. Maybe both guys wore glasses or had tattoos, drank tea with two sugars and that's what is to blame.

In this case this couple are clearly a sandwich short of a picni . Typical of all couples?

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

"Well been talking to a single guy for over a year finaly agrred to play with him tomorow but suprise suprise he has not sent over his address and not been on line for 14hrs

Think its time to block him and forget single guys."

and the winner of this weeks earliest single guy knocking thread

Why not text him, I'm guessing after the length of time you've been chatting you've exchanged phone numbers ??

I don't know what time you were due to meet the guy today ..maybe he'll send the address this morning, either way block move on or don't your choice.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Ok, I went to a gathering some time ago and the lady organising it had been chatting to a single guy who agreed to come over but then couldn't find the address. It was a house, clearly marked with a house number...I found it, the postman found it, the person who lives there finds it every day....just weird that the house couldn't be found.

He obviously didn't want to meet but here would have been a better way of saying it than saying he couldn't find the house.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've just said he works 6/7 days a week in a pub.

Now let me see if I can work out when pubs are busiest.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

14 hours ?

Have you filed a missing persons report with the local police ?

Sometimes (just sometimes) I can be off fab for that long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"14 hours ?

Have you filed a missing persons report with the local police ?

Sometimes (just sometimes) I can be off fab for that long

Go away, you're a waste of time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well been talking to a single guy for over a year finaly agrred to play with him tomorow but suprise suprise he has not sent over his address and not been on line for 14hrs

Think its time to block him and forget single guys."

If I've not got the meet inside a week I give up. It's a hook up site not bloody facebook

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are hundreds of successful meets with single guys off here weekly. The same applies to single women and couples etc. Posts like this only show the the frustration of a small percentage of people.

Posts like this are not a true reflection of the majority of people on FAB who are meeting successfully without any problems.

Of course it's not nice for anyone to be let down or messed around but thankfully these occurrences are in the minority and not the majority of planned meets.

Forget it move on and look forward to your next successful meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"14 hours ?

Have you filed a missing persons report with the local police ?

Sometimes (just sometimes) I can be off fab for that long

Go away, you're a waste of time!

Shuffles off quietly into the corner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"14 hours ?

Have you filed a missing persons report with the local police ?

Sometimes (just sometimes) I can be off fab for that long

Go away, you're a waste of time!

Shuffles off quietly into the corner

*quietly* lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly he possibly got greater sexual gratification from the chat and setting you up for a fall than he would have from the actual meeting and any potential fun. Block and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well been talking to a single guy for over a year finaly agrred to play with him tomorow but suprise suprise he has not sent over his address and not been on line for 14hrs

Think its time to block him and forget single guys."

So let's get this straight you spend a year talking to someone, are surprised that on the face of it mot going to show and somehow conclude that all single men are the same without considering if maybe you could have done something different?

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