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By *fricanMann2077 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stoke On Trent

How do I know if a married lady is a swinger; I work in a care home and there is this lady I normally work with during my shifts, God she is busty. In her late 30's but I'd prefer her to any 18 year old any day.

She told me she's happily married and her husband bought a mug which she can take to work that says 'Sexy'.

When we enter the rooms to help the residents during our night shifts she always tend to bend over right in front of me(my standing spot) and she must have noticed that I stare at her ass during the shift.. I have a feeling she'd agree to do me because I've been trying to seduce her at work and I feel its working. But I don't want her to cheat and I'm not 100% sure she's into me as she always mentions how young i am (I'm 22!)

Sometimes when we are in the rooms I honestly feel like just grabbing her butt and deal with the consequences later. Its that tempting. Like you can see her pants showing and her boobs coming out. She's a friendly lady and one of the oldest staff at work.

I don't know whether to ask her if she's a swinger or not. If I do and she turns me down, it will be weird working nights with her.

But if she doesn't turn me down then I have a regular swinging buddy.

What do I do guys?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

stay well clear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" stay well clear "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do I know if a married lady is a swinger; I work in a care home and there is this lady I normally work with during my shifts, God she is busty. In her late 30's but I'd prefer her to any 18 year old any day.

She told me she's happily married and her husband bought a mug which she can take to work that says 'Sexy'.

When we enter the rooms to help the residents during our night shifts she always tend to bend over right in front of me(my standing spot) and she must have noticed that I stare at her ass during the shift.. I have a feeling she'd agree to do me because I've been trying to seduce her at work and I feel its working. But I don't want her to cheat and I'm not 100% sure she's into me as she always mentions how young i am (I'm 22!)

Sometimes when we are in the rooms I honestly feel like just grabbing her butt and deal with the consequences later. Its that tempting. Like you can see her pants showing and her boobs coming out. She's a friendly lady and one of the oldest staff at work.

I don't know whether to ask her if she's a swinger or not. If I do and she turns me down, it will be weird working nights with her.

But if she doesn't turn me down then I have a regular swinging buddy.

What do I do guys?"

Don't shit on your own doorstep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She says she's happily married. Respect her wishes and move on. Also, you need to mature a little and realise people mean what they say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally would keep work and sex separate...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think grabbing her bum could lead to a sexual harassment case against you and an angry husband

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By *fricanMann2077 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stoke On Trent


"She says she's happily married. Respect her wishes and move on. Also, you need to mature a little and realise people mean what they say. "

I have not asked whether or not she's a swinger. I don't know.

She might be or she might not be. She hasn't told me anything yet.

That's the Dilemma

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By *idsAndyMan
over a year ago

Worcestershire

Get a grip mate, not in your residents rooms ffs!

But..... Flirt, tell her if you weren't in a residents from you'd pinch her bum. Boom, it's flirty gives her the chance to reply and sounds innocent enough if she doesn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you want to keep your job and not face sexual harassment charges I'd keep your shit moving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally would keep work and sex separate..."

This

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By *fricanMann2077 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stoke On Trent


"Get a grip mate, not in your residents rooms ffs!

But..... Flirt, tell her if you weren't in a residents from you'd pinch her bum. Boom, it's flirty gives her the chance to reply and sounds innocent enough if she doesn't. "

Thank I'll try that.

Thanks a lot. I'll see what she saya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She says she's happily married. Respect her wishes and move on. Also, you need to mature a little and realise people mean what they say.

I have not asked whether or not she's a swinger. I don't know.

She might be or she might not be. She hasn't told me anything yet.

That's the Dilemma"

It's not a dilemma. She's married. Move on. Find someone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get a grip mate, not in your residents rooms ffs!

But..... Flirt, tell her if you weren't in a residents from you'd pinch her bum. Boom, it's flirty gives her the chance to reply and sounds innocent enough if she doesn't. "

And get reported for sexual harassment. Great advice

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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle

Avoid...avoid...avoid!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go for it....! You are only young once and whats the worst that can happen...

1. You could get fired

2. Her husband kicks the crap out of you

3. You are up on a sexual harassment charge

4. You get on put on a deviant list...whoops there goes the future.....

5. She says yes and she wants you to run away to the midlands....

Having said all that... GO FOR IT !!!

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By *fricanMann2077 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stoke On Trent


"She says she's happily married. Respect her wishes and move on. Also, you need to mature a little and realise people mean what they say.

I have not asked whether or not she's a swinger. I don't know.

She might be or she might not be. She hasn't told me anything yet.

That's the Dilemma

It's not a dilemma. She's married. Move on. Find someone else. "

There are so many women here who are married. So you are saying I should just move on just because they are married. That's what swinging is all about love.

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By *ephistoCouple
over a year ago

torrance

Don't grab her ass! Don't do shit on the job! That could bring you some legal problems. Perhaps you can ask if she'd like a drink during non work hours. Meeting in a more informal setting could make her feel more comfortable. She's a more mature woman. I bet she has a good head on her shoulders. If she wants to hook up or reveal she's a swinger, she'll let you know. Otherwise, you've made a new friend.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

I'm not an married woman but a liberated woman, I still don't want guys hitting on me at work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She says she's happily married. Respect her wishes and move on. Also, you need to mature a little and realise people mean what they say.

I have not asked whether or not she's a swinger. I don't know.

She might be or she might not be. She hasn't told me anything yet.

That's the Dilemma

It's not a dilemma. She's married. Move on. Find someone else.

There are so many women here who are married. So you are saying I should just move on just because they are married. That's what swinging is all about love. "

you have a lot to learn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She says she's happily married. Respect her wishes and move on. Also, you need to mature a little and realise people mean what they say.

I have not asked whether or not she's a swinger. I don't know.

She might be or she might not be. She hasn't told me anything yet.

That's the Dilemma

It's not a dilemma. She's married. Move on. Find someone else.

There are so many women here who are married. So you are saying I should just move on just because they are married. That's what swinging is all about love. "

Lol, okay I take back my advice. Go for it, she's clearly up for it, I mean she has a mug and everything

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By *fricanMann2077 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stoke On Trent


"Don't grab her ass! Don't do shit on the job! That could bring you some legal problems. Perhaps you can ask if she'd like a drink during non work hours. Meeting in a more informal setting could make her feel more comfortable. She's a more mature woman. I bet she has a good head on her shoulders. If she wants to hook up or reveal she's a swinger, she'll let you know. Otherwise, you've made a new friend. "

Interesting

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By *ehind blue eyes38Man
over a year ago

Hunstanton


"How do I know if a married lady is a swinger; I work in a care home and there is this lady I normally work with during my shifts, God she is busty. In her late 30's but I'd prefer her to any 18 year old any day.

She told me she's happily married and her husband bought a mug which she can take to work that says 'Sexy'.

When we enter the rooms to help the residents during our night shifts she always tend to bend over right in front of me(my standing spot) and she must have noticed that I stare at her ass during the shift.. I have a feeling she'd agree to do me because I've been trying to seduce her at work and I feel its working. But I don't want her to cheat and I'm not 100% sure she's into me as she always mentions how young i am (I'm 22!)

Sometimes when we are in the rooms I honestly feel like just grabbing her butt and deal with the consequences later. Its that tempting. Like you can see her pants showing and her boobs coming out. She's a friendly lady and one of the oldest staff at work.

I don't know whether to ask her if she's a swinger or not. If I do and she turns me down, it will be weird working nights with her.

But if she doesn't turn me down then I have a regular swinging buddy.

What do I do guys?"

Keep dick in pants and walk.away from the busy beauty.

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By *ehind blue eyes38Man
over a year ago

Hunstanton


"How do I know if a married lady is a swinger; I work in a care home and there is this lady I normally work with during my shifts, God she is busty. In her late 30's but I'd prefer her to any 18 year old any day.

She told me she's happily married and her husband bought a mug which she can take to work that says 'Sexy'.

When we enter the rooms to help the residents during our night shifts she always tend to bend over right in front of me(my standing spot) and she must have noticed that I stare at her ass during the shift.. I have a feeling she'd agree to do me because I've been trying to seduce her at work and I feel its working. But I don't want her to cheat and I'm not 100% sure she's into me as she always mentions how young i am (I'm 22!)

Sometimes when we are in the rooms I honestly feel like just grabbing her butt and deal with the consequences later. Its that tempting. Like you can see her pants showing and her boobs coming out. She's a friendly lady and one of the oldest staff at work.

I don't know whether to ask her if she's a swinger or not. If I do and she turns me down, it will be weird working nights with her.

But if she doesn't turn me down then I have a regular swinging buddy.

What do I do guys?

Keep dick in pants and walk.away from the busy beauty. "

Busty not busy, feck predictive text

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't grab her ass! Don't do shit on the job! That could bring you some legal problems. Perhaps you can ask if she'd like a drink during non work hours. Meeting in a more informal setting could make her feel more comfortable. She's a more mature woman. I bet she has a good head on her shoulders. If she wants to hook up or reveal she's a swinger, she'll let you know. Otherwise, you've made a new friend. "

He doesn't need to be at work for it to be counted as harassment. Out of hours social events count too.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"She says she's happily married. Respect her wishes and move on. Also, you need to mature a little and realise people mean what they say.

I have not asked whether or not she's a swinger. I don't know.

She might be or she might not be. She hasn't told me anything yet.

That's the Dilemma

It's not a dilemma. She's married. Move on. Find someone else.

There are so many women here who are married. So you are saying I should just move on just because they are married. That's what swinging is all about love.

Lol, okay I take back my advice. Go for it, she's clearly up for it, I mean she has no a mug and everything "

Oh but a mug that says sexy, because sexy automatically means swinger, not just that her hubby loves her so funds her sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

do you know what - if i worked with you and you made a move you would so regret it - keep your mind on the people you are caring for instead of thinking with your cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She says she's happily married. Respect her wishes and move on. Also, you need to mature a little and realise people mean what they say.

I have not asked whether or not she's a swinger. I don't know.

She might be or she might not be. She hasn't told me anything yet.

That's the Dilemma

It's not a dilemma. She's married. Move on. Find someone else.

There are so many women here who are married. So you are saying I should just move on just because they are married. That's what swinging is all about love.

Lol, okay I take back my advice. Go for it, she's clearly up for it, I mean she has no a mug and everything

Oh but a mug that says sexy, because sexy automatically means swinger, not just that her hubby loves her so funds her sexy "

What a slut.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She says she's happily married. Respect her wishes and move on. Also, you need to mature a little and realise people mean what they say.

I have not asked whether or not she's a swinger. I don't know.

She might be or she might not be. She hasn't told me anything yet.

That's the Dilemma

It's not a dilemma. She's married. Move on. Find someone else.

There are so many women here who are married. So you are saying I should just move on just because they are married. That's what swinging is all about love.

Lol, okay I take back my advice. Go for it, she's clearly up for it, I mean she has no a mug and everything

Oh but a mug that says sexy, because sexy automatically means swinger, not just that her hubby loves her so funds her sexy

What a slut. "

((hides his "sexy" mug)) -- look someone bought it for me, honest...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She told you she's happily married what more information do you require ?

A very small percentage of the population are swingers so why would you think she's a swinger ?

You sound very immature just leave her alone to do the job you are both paid to do, would be my very good advice.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Don't grab her ass! Don't do shit on the job! That could bring you some legal problems. Perhaps you can ask if she'd like a drink during non work hours. Meeting in a more informal setting could make her feel more comfortable. She's a more mature woman. I bet she has a good head on her shoulders. If she wants to hook up or reveal she's a swinger, she'll let you know. Otherwise, you've made a new friend.

He doesn't need to be at work for it to be counted as harassment. Out of hours social events count too. "

veru few people realise it counts it why a lot end up in hot water, the amount of times you read in statements "but I didn't do it while at work" doesn't matter he/she is a colleague

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford


"How do I know if a married lady is a swinger; I work in a care home and there is this lady I normally work with during my shifts, God she is busty. In her late 30's but I'd prefer her to any 18 year old any day.

She told me she's happily married and her husband bought a mug which she can take to work that says 'Sexy'.

When we enter the rooms to help the residents during our night shifts she always tend to bend over right in front of me(my standing spot) and she must have noticed that I stare at her ass during the shift.. I have a feeling she'd agree to do me because I've been trying to seduce her at work and I feel its working. But I don't want her to cheat and I'm not 100% sure she's into me as she always mentions how young i am (I'm 22!)

Sometimes when we are in the rooms I honestly feel like just grabbing her butt and deal with the consequences later. Its that tempting. Like you can see her pants showing and her boobs coming out. She's a friendly lady and one of the oldest staff at work.

I don't know whether to ask her if she's a swinger or not. If I do and she turns me down, it will be weird working nights with her.

But if she doesn't turn me down then I have a regular swinging buddy.

What do I do guys?"

. It would be best if this just remains a fantasy . Work is work and why would she want to reveal to anyone at work that she was a swinger . Real swingers are not going to tell work colleagues what they get up to in private .

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I'm constantly amazed at how many guys on here think that the women they work with are just begging for it. Is there nowhere we can go to get away from guys coming on to us?

But then, she does have a mug with 'Sexy' on it, bought for her by her husband. I take it all back - she's obviously gagging for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She says she's happily married. Respect her wishes and move on. Also, you need to mature a little and realise people mean what they say.

I have not asked whether or not she's a swinger. I don't know.

She might be or she might not be. She hasn't told me anything yet.

That's the Dilemma

It's not a dilemma. She's married. Move on. Find someone else.

There are so many women here who are married. So you are saying I should just move on just because they are married. That's what swinging is all about love.

Lol, okay I take back my advice. Go for it, she's clearly up for it, I mean she has no a mug and everything

Oh but a mug that says sexy, because sexy automatically means swinger, not just that her hubby loves her so funds her sexy

What a slut.

((hides his "sexy" mug)) -- look someone bought it for me, honest..."

Perhaps he's right, you're a swinger and you have a sexy mug. It must be a calling card of swingers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do I know if a married lady is a swinger; I work in a care home and there is this lady I normally work with during my shifts, God she is busty. In her late 30's but I'd prefer her to any 18 year old any day.

She told me she's happily married and her husband bought a mug which she can take to work that says 'Sexy'.

When we enter the rooms to help the

residents during our night shifts she always tend to bend over right in front of me(my standing spot) and she must have noticed that I stare at her ass during the shift.. I have a feeling she'd agree to do me because I've been trying to seduce her at work and I feel its working. But I don't want her to cheat and I'm not 100% sure she's into me as she always mentions how young i am (I'm 22!)

Sometimes when we are in the rooms I honestly feel like just grabbing her butt and deal with the consequences later. Its that tempting. Like you can see her pants showing and her boobs coming out. She's a friendly lady and one of the oldest staff at work.

I don't know whether to ask her if she's a swinger or not. If I do and she turns me down, it will be weird working nights with her.

But if she doesn't turn me down then I have a regular swinging buddy.

What do I do guys?"

Dunno but that made me pretty hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Like you can see her pants showing and her boobs coming out. She's a friendly lady and one of the oldest staff at work. "

What the hell's the uniform in your care home?

Pants showing, boobs coming out?

You make it sound more like she's working in a brothal, how is she allowed to go to work in a care home dressed like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Like you can see her pants showing and her boobs coming out. She's a friendly lady and one of the oldest staff at work.

What the hell's the uniform in your care home?

Pants showing, boobs coming out?

You make it sound more like she's working in a brothal, how is she allowed to go to work in a care home dressed like that "

i thought that - we wear navy scrubs pants and nurse tunic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She says she's happily married. Respect her wishes and move on. Also, you need to mature a little and realise people mean what they say.

I have not asked whether or not she's a swinger. I don't know.

She might be or she might not be. She hasn't told me anything yet.

That's the Dilemma

It's not a dilemma. She's married. Move on. Find someone else.

There are so many women here who are married. So you are saying I should just move on just because they are married. That's what swinging is all about love.

Lol, okay I take back my advice. Go for it, she's clearly up for it, I mean she has no a mug and everything

Oh but a mug that says sexy, because sexy automatically means swinger, not just that her hubby loves her so funds her sexy

What a slut.

((hides his "sexy" mug)) -- look someone bought it for me, honest...

Perhaps he's right, you're a swinger and you have a sexy mug. It must be a calling card of swingers. "

I beg your pardon!! I AM NOT!!! I am a researcher for whosegotthetinnies university... how very dare you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

leave well alone....it will all end in tears if you dont dude....plenty of other women out there

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over a year ago

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

OP, your opener says you're 22 yet your profile says you're 25. You actually sound like a horny 16 year old that can't control himself.

Have a word with yourself and grow up.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


" Like you can see her pants showing and her boobs coming out. She's a friendly lady and one of the oldest staff at work.

What the hell's the uniform in your care home?

Pants showing, boobs coming out?

You make it sound more like she's working in a brothal, how is she allowed to go to work in a care home dressed like that

i thought that - we wear navy scrubs pants and nurse tunic "

Standard dress code for carers are scrubs they aren't the most flattering outfits especially in the the areas the OP mentioned because they're design with professionalism in mind

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By *fricanMann2077 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stoke On Trent

The night staff are allowed to dress in mufty.

Its not because of the mug.

There is a Vibe I get off her that tells me she's or have the potential of been a swinger.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"OP, your opener says you're 22 yet your profile says you're 25. You actually sound like a horny 16 year old that can't control himself.

Have a word with yourself and grow up."

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By *ehind blue eyes38Man
over a year ago

Hunstanton


"OP, your opener says you're 22 yet your profile says you're 25. You actually sound like a horny 16 year old that can't control himself.

Have a word with yourself and grow up."

and clearly doesn't understand what happily married means

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"The night staff are allowed to dress in mufty.

Its not because of the mug.

There is a Vibe I get off her that tells me she's or have the potential of been a swinger.

"

Most swingers are discrete they don't give off "vibes"

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By *fricanMann2077 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stoke On Trent


"OP, your opener says you're 22 yet your profile says you're 25. You actually sound like a horny 16 year old that can't control himself.

Have a word with yourself and grow up."

Finally here comes the rude comment.was waiting for that.

Wondered were the rude ones went. Lol

Now its normal. Cheers mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The night staff are allowed to dress in mufty.

Its not because of the mug.

There is a Vibe I get off her that tells me she's or have the potential of been a swinger.

"

Do you honestly think anybody is going to advise you to maul one of your work colleagues on the off-chance that a) she is a swinger and b) she is a swinger that would meet you?

I thought I was mad....

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

Just keep in her in your "Wank Bank" and nothing more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you need to take a deep breath and start to think with the brain instead of your cock.

The woman is at work, in a care home, physical work, you need to bend to do it, I expect that's why she's bending, not as an intention to turn you on.

Your statement of 'i might just touch her and deal with the consequences after' is rather troubling isn't it. The correct term for what you are proposing is sexual assault.

You should be just getting on with your work rather than inappropriate fantasy. The woman is no doubt merely doing her job. Why would you even come to the conclusion she was a swinger. And even if she was, doesn't mean she has to show interest in you does it.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Get a grip mate, not in your residents rooms ffs!

But..... Flirt, tell her if you weren't in a residents from you'd pinch her bum. Boom, it's flirty gives her the chance to reply and sounds innocent enough if she doesn't. "

Actually , the dilemma is you. You have no respect for this woman or her marriage you just want a fuck.

Find someone who is available to fuck.

What scares me is .... She bends over to see to patients and you see it as a come on and she want's fucking by you.

e.g. She was gagging for it officer.

Grow up and move on.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"The night staff are allowed to dress in mufty.

Its not because of the mug.

There is a Vibe I get off her that tells me she's or have the potential of been a swinger.

"

Yeah, you're not going to listen are you?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"She says she's happily married. Respect her wishes and move on. Also, you need to mature a little and realise people mean what they say.

I have not asked whether or not she's a swinger. I don't know.

She might be or she might not be. She hasn't told me anything yet.

That's the Dilemma"

The only dilemma you'll face is how you'll get your next job after losing this one!

You need to grow up and recognise that being friendly doesn't equate to "I'll do you!" Believe it or not the whole world is not obsessed with sex and it certainly doesn't mean every object of your desire wants to have sex with you.

Stop being a creep.

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By *fricanMann2077 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stoke On Trent


"Get a grip mate, not in your residents rooms ffs!

But..... Flirt, tell her if you weren't in a residents from you'd pinch her bum. Boom, it's flirty gives her the chance to reply and sounds innocent enough if she doesn't.

Actually , the dilemma is you. You have no respect for this woman or her marriage you just want a fuck.

Find someone who is available to fuck.

What scares me is .... She bends over to see to patients and you see it as a come on and she want's fucking by you.

e.g. She was gagging for it officer.

Grow up and move on."

Hmm

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By *fricanMann2077 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stoke On Trent


"She says she's happily married. Respect her wishes and move on. Also, you need to mature a little and realise people mean what they say.

I have not asked whether or not she's a swinger. I don't know.

She might be or she might not be. She hasn't told me anything yet.

That's the Dilemma

The only dilemma you'll face is how you'll get your next job after losing this one!

You need to grow up and recognise that being friendly doesn't equate to "I'll do you!" Believe it or not the whole world is not obsessed with sex and it certainly doesn't mean every object of your desire wants to have sex with you.

Stop being a creep."

Rude2

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"She says she's happily married. Respect her wishes and move on. Also, you need to mature a little and realise people mean what they say.

I have not asked whether or not she's a swinger. I don't know.

She might be or she might not be. She hasn't told me anything yet.

That's the Dilemma

It's not a dilemma. She's married. Move on. Find someone else.

There are so many women here who are married. So you are saying I should just move on just because they are married. That's what swinging is all about love. "

Patronising love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, she probably isn't 98% or more of the general population are not swingers. Even if she is then probably only as a couple in the right space and time as agreed with her husband. Which almost defiantly doesn't include while t work.

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By *fricanMann2077 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stoke On Trent


"I think you need to take a deep breath and start to think with the brain instead of your cock.

The woman is at work, in a care home, physical work, you need to bend to do it, I expect that's why she's bending, not as an intention to turn you on.

Your statement of 'i might just touch her and deal with the consequences after' is rather troubling isn't it. The correct term for what you are proposing is sexual assault.

You should be just getting on with your work rather than inappropriate fantasy. The woman is no doubt merely doing her job. Why would you even come to the conclusion she was a swinger. And even if she was, doesn't mean she has to show interest in you does it.

"

Well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't believe everything you see on a mug! I'm not really the queen!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She says she's happily married. Respect her wishes and move on. Also, you need to mature a little and realise people mean what they say.

I have not asked whether or not she's a swinger. I don't know.

She might be or she might not be. She hasn't told me anything yet.

That's the Dilemma

The only dilemma you'll face is how you'll get your next job after losing this one!

You need to grow up and recognise that being friendly doesn't equate to "I'll do you!" Believe it or not the whole world is not obsessed with sex and it certainly doesn't mean every object of your desire wants to have sex with you.

Stop being a creep.

Rude2"

The condescending way you replied to me was also rude, you shouldn't have double standards.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Get a grip mate, not in your residents rooms ffs!

But..... Flirt, tell her if you weren't in a residents from you'd pinch her bum. Boom, it's flirty gives her the chance to reply and sounds innocent enough if she doesn't.

Thank I'll try that.

Thanks a lot. I'll see what she saya"

I wouldn't follow that idiots advice, unless you want a potential sexual harassment complaint against you. Have you read your companies dignity at work policy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do love drama on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like she's flirting with you in a fun way. That's not a come on. I'd be very careful. Flirting does not mean she's a swinger. She could get very upset if you say that to her and you could get hurt (physically) by her hubby. I think u just have a little infatuation about her.

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By *fricanMann2077 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stoke On Trent

Please read and understand the original forum comment carefully before commenting

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"How do I know if a married lady is a swinger; I work in a care home and there is this lady I normally work with during my shifts, God she is busty. In her late 30's but I'd prefer her to any 18 year old any day.

She told me she's happily married and her husband bought a mug which she can take to work that says 'Sexy'.

When we enter the rooms to help the residents during our night shifts she always tend to bend over right in front of me(my standing spot) and she must have noticed that I stare at her ass during the shift.. I have a feeling she'd agree to do me because I've been trying to seduce her at work and I feel its working. But I don't want her to cheat and I'm not 100% sure she's into me as she always mentions how young i am (I'm 22!)

Sometimes when we are in the rooms I honestly feel like just grabbing her butt and deal with the consequences later. Its that tempting. Like you can see her pants showing and her boobs coming out. She's a friendly lady and one of the oldest staff at work.

I don't know whether to ask her if she's a swinger or not. If I do and she turns me down, it will be weird working nights with her.

But if she doesn't turn me down then I have a regular swinging buddy.

What do I do guys?"

What you do is concentrate on the people you are caring for!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't believe everything you see on a mug! I'm not really the queen!"

What! you mean I don't have to play the fanfare everytime you enter the forum?

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"OP, your opener says you're 22 yet your profile says you're 25. You actually sound like a horny 16 year old that can't control himself.

Have a word with yourself and grow up.

Finally here comes the rude comment.was waiting for that.

Wondered were the rude ones went. Lol

Now its normal. Cheers mate"

The word you're actually looking for is 'accurate'

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Don't grab her ass! Don't do shit on the job! That could bring you some legal problems. Perhaps you can ask if she'd like a drink during non work hours. Meeting in a more informal setting could make her feel more comfortable. She's a more mature woman. I bet she has a good head on her shoulders. If she wants to hook up or reveal she's a swinger, she'll let you know. Otherwise, you've made a new friend. "

He's not interested in her for a friend. She's a married slapper who's gagging for his young cock don't you know!

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By *fricanMann2077 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stoke On Trent


"Sounds like she's flirting with you in a fun way. That's not a come on. I'd be very careful. Flirting does not mean she's a swinger. She could get very upset if you say that to her and you could get hurt (physically) by her hubby. I think u just have a little infatuation about her."

I agree I might be infatuated and even wrong she may not even be a Swinger

But what if there is that one chance she is and is interested.

Scientifically speaking; I can't prove she is not a swinger and is not interested because there is No physical prove that she's not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP, your opener says you're 22 yet your profile says you're 25. You actually sound like a horny 16 year old that can't control himself.

Have a word with yourself and grow up."

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By *fricanMann2077 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stoke On Trent

I actually love my job and I'm good at it just can't shake that feeling off.

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By *ehind blue eyes38Man
over a year ago

Hunstanton

OP just go right in and grope her, clearly you won't listen to the advice people are giving you so sure go for gold. Please let us know. When you've lost your job and got a legal case on you're hands.

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By *ordweaver2018Man
over a year ago

Carlisle

Stop feeding the troll. He is a cretin - only after the advice he wants rather than what people think.

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By *fricanMann2077 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stoke On Trent

Cheers all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sounds like she's flirting with you in a fun way. That's not a come on. I'd be very careful. Flirting does not mean she's a swinger. She could get very upset if you say that to her and you could get hurt (physically) by her hubby. I think u just have a little infatuation about her.

I agree I might be infatuated and even wrong she may not even be a Swinger

But what if there is that one chance she is and is interested.

Scientifically speaking; I can't prove she is not a swinger and is not interested because there is No physical prove that she's not."

then carry on flirting and let nature do its course. Que sera sera.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews


"Sounds like she's flirting with you in a fun way. That's not a come on. I'd be very careful. Flirting does not mean she's a swinger. She could get very upset if you say that to her and you could get hurt (physically) by her hubby. I think u just have a little infatuation about her.

I agree I might be infatuated and even wrong she may not even be a Swinger

But what if there is that one chance she is and is interested.

Scientifically speaking; I can't prove she is not a swinger and is not interested because there is No physical prove that she's not."

So you're willing to sexually assault her to find out? You're an idiot, and a dangerous one at that. You do understand that victims of sexual assault have to live with that for the rest of their lives, right? They don't just shrug it off.

If you touched me without any provocation or invite, I'd break you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I actually love my job and I'm good at it just can't shake that feeling off."

you might be good at your job but you could be even better if you focussed on the reason you are there for in the first place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I actually love my job and I'm good at it just can't shake that feeling off."

You're proving the point as to why women on here won't meet young males. You're a fucking Muppet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sounds like she's flirting with you in a fun way. That's not a come on. I'd be very careful. Flirting does not mean she's a swinger. She could get very upset if you say that to her and you could get hurt (physically) by her hubby. I think u just have a little infatuation about her.

I agree I might be infatuated and even wrong she may not even be a Swinger

But what if there is that one chance she is and is interested.

Scientifically speaking; I can't prove she is not a swinger and is not interested because there is No physical prove that she's not."

Now this is brilliant.... I was conducting a scientific experiment officer...

...here goes, real simple piece of advice. Grab her arse, get put on the sex offenders register...ruin your life... oh and of course emotionally damage the woman for life, probably causing her to quit her job....

..if this is troll, good troll, if this is real, you probably need help, and someone should warn your employer....

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By *fricanMann2077 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stoke On Trent


"Sounds like she's flirting with you in a fun way. That's not a come on. I'd be very careful. Flirting does not mean she's a swinger. She could get very upset if you say that to her and you could get hurt (physically) by her hubby. I think u just have a little infatuation about her.

I agree I might be infatuated and even wrong she may not even be a Swinger

But what if there is that one chance she is and is interested.

Scientifically speaking; I can't prove she is not a swinger and is not interested because there is No physical prove that she's not.

Now this is brilliant.... I was conducting a scientific experiment officer...

...here goes, real simple piece of advice. Grab her arse, get put on the sex offenders register...ruin your life... oh and of course emotionally damage the woman for life, probably causing her to quit her job....

..if this is troll, good troll, if this is real, you probably need help, and someone should warn your employer...."

Well done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I work in a similar profession as you & if every guy I bent down in front of, next to etc had to 'do me' well, I wouldn't be blahhhdy walking after a 10 hr shift!

I'll put this down to your age & maturity level as I certainly wouldn't want the idea that you're contemplating getting sexual gratification whilst looking after your patients!!!!!!!

And people wonder why care homes have such a bad reputation

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By *fricanMann2077 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stoke On Trent


"I actually love my job and I'm good at it just can't shake that feeling off.

You're proving the point as to why women on here won't meet young males. You're a fucking Muppet."

Rude 3

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Okay O.P. Here's my best advie.

Two possible scenarios.

1. She is NOT a swinger. You make your move. It destroys your working relationship at the very least.

2. She IS a swinger. You make your move. It destroys your working relationship at the very least.

And if it helps you understand.... ALL women have tits. ALL women have asses. NOT all women want you to fuck them just because you can see the curves.

Try wanking excessively before a work shift.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Glad you're enjoying this OP, because assault is not a laughing matter. Let's hope you're never a victim, can't imagine you'd be laughing then.

And if you are just trolling, it's not something to joke about either. Regardless of which it is, you're disgusting.

And I'll happily take a forum ban for saying so.

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By *enuinedannyMan
over a year ago

walsall

You've been given excellent advice by most. Leave well enough alone I hope you are sensible enough to see that taking any step towards what you propose will only ruin your life and severly affect hers gd luck with it

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By *ehind blue eyes38Man
over a year ago

Hunstanton


"I actually love my job and I'm good at it just can't shake that feeling off.

You're proving the point as to why women on here won't meet young males. You're a fucking Muppet.

Rude 3"

Can't handle the heat then get out of the kitchen. You are clearly not a professional if your cock is controlling your thoughts at work. Please touch her so we can laugh when you lose ya job.

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By *fricanMann2077 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stoke On Trent


"Okay O.P. Here's my best advie.

Two possible scenarios.

1. She is NOT a swinger. You make your move. It destroys your working relationship at the very least.

2. She IS a swinger. You make your move. It destroys your working relationship at the very least.

And if it helps you understand.... ALL women have tits. ALL women have asses. NOT all women want you to fuck them just because you can see the curves.

Try wanking excessively before a work shift."

Nice Advice. You just spoke my mind. I dont think all women wanna fuck me. If I did I wouldn't put this on here.

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By *fricanMann2077 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stoke On Trent


"You've been given excellent advice by most. Leave well enough alone I hope you are sensible enough to see that taking any step towards what you propose will only ruin your life and severly affect hers gd luck with it "

I don't argue that mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the thinking that female swingers will fuck anyone cos they're swingers with a sexy mug.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Okay O.P. Here's my best advie.

Two possible scenarios.

1. She is NOT a swinger. You make your move. It destroys your working relationship at the very least.

2. She IS a swinger. You make your move. It destroys your working relationship at the very least.

And if it helps you understand.... ALL women have tits. ALL women have asses. NOT all women want you to fuck them just because you can see the curves.

Try wanking excessively before a work shift."

More eruditely put than me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The night staff are allowed to dress in mufty.

Its not because of the mug.

There is a Vibe I get off her that tells me she's or have the potential of been a swinger.

"

You are at work. Be professional and leave well alone. She mentioned she is married. Walk away.. no matter what she is wearing.. The fantasy and the reality in this situation is miles apart.. and a fuck buddy is not worth getting fired from your job or a serious kicking off the husband.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Okay O.P. Here's my best advie.

Two possible scenarios.

1. She is NOT a swinger. You make your move. It destroys your working relationship at the very least.

2. She IS a swinger. You make your move. It destroys your working relationship at the very least.

And if it helps you understand.... ALL women have tits. ALL women have asses. NOT all women want you to fuck them just because you can see the curves.

Try wanking excessively before a work shift.

Nice Advice. You just spoke my mind. I dont think all women wanna fuck me. If I did I wouldn't put this on here. "

Well stop being a naughty boy. It's late.

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By *enuinedannyMan
over a year ago

walsall


"You've been given excellent advice by most. Leave well enough alone I hope you are sensible enough to see that taking any step towards what you propose will only ruin your life and severly affect hers gd luck with it

Gd your life and future is worth more than any fun not worth the risk I will add if I had put this post up I would of expected a lot more rude comments I think people have been very nice

I don't argue that mate."

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By *ehind blue eyes38Man
over a year ago

Hunstanton

What rattles me is you know she has told you she is happily married yet you've no respect about that fact. She's sexy and she knows it and so does her hubby hence the mug. You should respect that as a work mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and the point of this thread is now?

For those of you interested I will be listening to a live recording of Agnes Obel Aventine.... I appreciate its not to everyones tastes, but I am willing to share one EarPod

I will of course require you to clean said EarPod with surgical spirit after use...

..don't feed the troll

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"and the point of this thread is now?

For those of you interested I will be listening to a live recording of Agnes Obel Aventine.... I appreciate its not to everyones tastes, but I am willing to share one EarPod

I will of course require you to clean said EarPod with surgical spirit after use...

..don't feed the troll"

Most times the Trolls are nicer than the regulars.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and the point of this thread is now?

For those of you interested I will be listening to a live recording of Agnes Obel Aventine.... I appreciate its not to everyones tastes, but I am willing to share one EarPod

I will of course require you to clean said EarPod with surgical spirit after use...

..don't feed the troll

Most times the Trolls are nicer than the regulars. "

aww granny if you don't like me, I wish you would just come out and say it...... xx

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"and the point of this thread is now?

For those of you interested I will be listening to a live recording of Agnes Obel Aventine.... I appreciate its not to everyones tastes, but I am willing to share one EarPod

I will of course require you to clean said EarPod with surgical spirit after use...

..don't feed the troll

Most times the Trolls are nicer than the regulars.

aww granny if you don't like me, I wish you would just come out and say it...... xx"

Don't be silly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and the point of this thread is now?

For those of you interested I will be listening to a live recording of Agnes Obel Aventine.... I appreciate its not to everyones tastes, but I am willing to share one EarPod

I will of course require you to clean said EarPod with surgical spirit after use...

..don't feed the troll

Most times the Trolls are nicer than the regulars.

aww granny if you don't like me, I wish you would just come out and say it...... xx

Don't be silly. "

Knob pic in your inbox... couldn't resist, I heard you had a "sexy" mug

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"and the point of this thread is now?

For those of you interested I will be listening to a live recording of Agnes Obel Aventine.... I appreciate its not to everyones tastes, but I am willing to share one EarPod

I will of course require you to clean said EarPod with surgical spirit after use...

..don't feed the troll

Most times the Trolls are nicer than the regulars.

aww granny if you don't like me, I wish you would just come out and say it...... xx

Don't be silly.

Knob pic in your inbox... couldn't resist, I heard you had a "sexy" mug "

Yes but not one with desperate on it.

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By *ehind blue eyes38Man
over a year ago

Hunstanton


"and the point of this thread is now?

For those of you interested I will be listening to a live recording of Agnes Obel Aventine.... I appreciate its not to everyones tastes, but I am willing to share one EarPod

I will of course require you to clean said EarPod with surgical spirit after use...

..don't feed the troll

Most times the Trolls are nicer than the regulars.

aww granny if you don't like me, I wish you would just come out and say it...... xx

Don't be silly.

Knob pic in your inbox... couldn't resist, I heard you had a "sexy" mug

Yes but not one with desperate on it."

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

this is a youre kidding thread..right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep us updated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and the point of this thread is now?

For those of you interested I will be listening to a live recording of Agnes Obel Aventine.... I appreciate its not to everyones tastes, but I am willing to share one EarPod

I will of course require you to clean said EarPod with surgical spirit after use...

..don't feed the troll

Most times the Trolls are nicer than the regulars.

aww granny if you don't like me, I wish you would just come out and say it...... xx

Don't be silly.

Knob pic in your inbox... couldn't resist, I heard you had a "sexy" mug

Yes but not one with desperate on it."

savage lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and the point of this thread is now?

For those of you interested I will be listening to a live recording of Agnes Obel Aventine.... I appreciate its not to everyones tastes, but I am willing to share one EarPod

I will of course require you to clean said EarPod with surgical spirit after use...

..don't feed the troll

Most times the Trolls are nicer than the regulars.

aww granny if you don't like me, I wish you would just come out and say it...... xx

Don't be silly.

Knob pic in your inbox... couldn't resist, I heard you had a "sexy" mug

Yes but not one with desperate on it."

Just spat my cocoa, you do play hard to get granny... I will have to nick your teeth again

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

No point in asking advice if you just call people rude when they don't say what you wanna hear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well that was an entertaining read.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

There's been a much publicised case recently in this area of inappropriate behaviour among staff in a care home. There was video evidence and several people will probably find it difficult to get work of any sort for a long time.

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon

Come on people, ease up on the boy. The woman has a MUG and it says SEXY on it it, and her HUSBAND gave it to her with the express wish she'd take it to work so all the boys half her age would know she was up for it! We all know it's one of the accepted signals in the swinging world. Plus she bent over in front of him...oh yes she'd say she was just helping one of the residents but we all know it was an invitation aimed at him.

Go for it young fella, after all if you get caught you can always list all these signs that she gave you as your defence at the tribunal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, don't listen to these guys, I think you should make a move on this fictional woman in this fictional scenario...

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"I actually love my job and I'm good at it just can't shake that feeling off."

No you're not good at your job you have no sense of professionalism or what is appropriate in a work environment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They say Justin Timberlake brought sexy back but he's blatantly got fuck all on this woman....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're infatuated with this lady and that can be hard to resist but you have to remember you are there to do your job and not make a move on a colleague.

I am both married and a swinger and I would not welcome someone making a move on me at work. They are very seperate aspects of my life.

Regardless of wether this lady is a swinger or not, it doesn't then give you permission to touch her inappropriately at her work place.

If you really feel she could be interested in you why not create a situation you could flirt such as a works night out with a group of you? You'll have more opportunity to talk.

Good luck x

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Your little brain is reading more into it than there is. You assume you can read her mind. But her words are clear - she's happily married and you're too young.

Stop looking at her ass and listen to her words. If you decide to grab her as you say you could be up on an assault charge.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Find someone on Fab.

Don't subject a woman who you work in close and intimate proximity to, to any pressures that are sexual. She depends upon ger job and the scenarios you refer to op would leave many in despair.

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By *unloversCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

I personally think you have been watching to much porn and you are now slavering over the lady at work

Not everyone is a swinger and even if she was....what makes you think she wants a 22 year old

She might be happy with what she has and is just flirting with you cos she finds it funny and she probably knows if you touch her she can have you fired

How much do you like your job and is she really worth the embarrassment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP don't do anything. She might be a swinger BUT you might be totally misreading the 'signs'. In which case you'd be up for sexual assault.

Watch out for a thread from a woman telling this story from her point of view. She's flirting with a guy at work and wants to fuck him.

Imagine what the replies would be on that thread.........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just enjoy the sight of her ass and save it for the wank bank.

I see woman all day that I would dealy love to just reach out and grab thier asses but would never conpromise myself or them.

Work is work and if it aall goes wrong it will follow you through every job interview you go to.

Flirt ahve a bit of fun thats fine but would leave things be if I were you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your little brain is reading more into it than there is. You assume you can read her mind. "
this! And it a bit scary that he think he can read minds
"No point in asking advice if you just call people rude when they don't say what you wanna hear "
And this, scary too how he immediately justifies that people who don't agree with him have ulterior motives.

Overall, scary insight in someone's way of thinking, I MUCH hope it is ONLY a question of a momentary immaturity!

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"

There are so many women here who are married. So you are saying I should just move on just because they are married. That's what swinging is all about love.

"

Actually just to clear up, that's not "what swinging is all about".

Swinging is "all about" sharing, swapping, exploring and experiencing new things. If it's deceitful, secretive, coercive or destructive... then that's something completely different.

Also, for many who do not partake in this lifestyle, being "accused" of being a swinger would cause considerable offence.

If you need to put it out there, I would just tell her that "you" are a member of a swinging site and that "you" partake in the swinging lifestyle. She may admit to you that her and hubby do too... or she may be disgusted by your "deviant behaviour".

Also, if she "is" a swinger, then she might want to introduce you to her husband.

Cal

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford


"Come on people, ease up on the boy. The woman has a MUG and it says SEXY on it it, and her HUSBAND gave it to her with the express wish she'd take it to work so all the boys half her age would know she was up for it! We all know it's one of the accepted signals in the swinging world. Plus she bent over in front of him...oh yes she'd say she was just helping one of the residents but we all know it was an invitation aimed at him.

Go for it young fella, after all if you get caught you can always list all these signs that she gave you as your defence at the tribunal."

. Having a mug with sexy on it means exactly that , it does not mean that she is a swinger . If she was a swinger she would keep it private and would hardly tell her work colleagues . As someone else mentioned care work is hard physical work and thus will involve bending over on many occasions .

The OP poster is living in fantasy world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A friendly sexy Women who flirts with people all the time a possible swinger ?

In that case I know hundreds of them,

If you get on well with her why not tell her what you do, Over a few days/weeks tell her about your life/lifestyle and see where it goes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I read the opening post I was going to post that she's a lady who knows she is hot and possibly enjoys teasing an immature little boy who thinks he is the big man and probably goes home and laughs about him.

But I thought that was probably harsh. And then I read the rest of the tread and I realised I was probably being kind on the OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're I fantasy land mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a mug made up with "Swinger" printed on it and leave it next to hers, and see what she has to say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She says she's happily married. Respect her wishes and move on. Also, you need to mature a little and realise people mean what they say.

I have not asked whether or not she's a swinger. I don't know.

She might be or she might not be. She hasn't told me anything yet.

That's the Dilemma"

You've had some great advice, but seems like you just don't like the answer.

Drop the denial and forget about it. A swinger can still make a sexual harassment in the workplace complaint!

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By *ogamuffinMan
over a year ago

slough


"I personally would keep work and sex separate..."

Don't dip your pen in company ink, lol.

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By *oredShitlessxxxCouple
over a year ago

luton

Almost choked on my coffee, it was like you was describing Mrs A, then I realised you OP are from Stoke on Trent lol...

However, I would advise that you mention little bits about your liking for swinging etc it may prompt her to divulge information about her being a swinger also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I actually love my job and I'm good at it just can't shake that feeling off.

No you're not good at your job you have no sense of professionalism or what is appropriate in a work environment "

I'm so glad you said that as I was just about to post the same thing...quite apart from the thought that people entrust their nearest and dearest to someone who thinks it's appropriate to bunk up with a colleague while on duty instead of taking care of the people they're paid to look after...

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

I look forward to seeing what happens at the works Christmas party

OP. You are in the caring profession. Stop being a complete nudity !

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"I actually love my job and I'm good at it just can't shake that feeling off.

No you're not good at your job you have no sense of professionalism or what is appropriate in a work environment

I'm so glad you said that as I was just about to post the same thing...quite apart from the thought that people entrust their nearest and dearest to someone who thinks it's appropriate to bunk up with a colleague while on duty instead of taking care of the people they're paid to look after..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has anyone checked the OP is actually awake?

Otherwise it might get a little sticky around here....

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

She's a flirt, nothing more. Learn to deal with it and leave her be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Sometimes when we are in the rooms I honestly feel like just grabbing her butt and deal with the consequences later. Its that tempting."

You know that's sexual assault, right?

You'd almost certainly lose your job. You might well get a criminal record.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Miss read signs by a horny immature lad only seeing what he wants to see! Swinger or not if you tried that with me at work you'd get a swift kick to the balls! Then il let the bf know what's gone on...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Miss read signs by a horny immature lad only seeing what he wants to see! Swinger or not if you tried that with me at work you'd get a swift kick to the balls! Then il let the bf know what's gone on... "

Maybe he's into that sort of thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Miss read signs by a horny immature lad only seeing what he wants to see! Swinger or not if you tried that with me at work you'd get a swift kick to the balls! Then il let the bf know what's gone on...

Maybe he's into that sort of thing "

Maybe! Probably spur him on even more haha

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