FabSwingers.com forum: Ladies send a Fancy a Fuck Message

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We did this a week ago and it seemed to go well. Let's keep it light-hearted, Sunday's are chill day.

Sign up here by adding your post and then send your fancy a fuck message to the desired bloke. Guys state how choosy you are or if you will accept any

fancy a fuck demand upon you.

Sarah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go on then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go on then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll risk it for a biscuit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys state how choosy you are or if you will accept any

fancy a fuck demand upon you.

As a guy can j be the first to say I'm not gonna turn this down!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Biscuits you say?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in!

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Blows dust of inbox and waits..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is have to be a fool not to at least put my name in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This was so much fun last time

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

"Guys state how choosy you are or if you will accept any

fancy a fuck demand upon you.

Sarah

I doubt there are many of those.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dare you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm waiting. X

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By *kgeminiMan
over a year ago

Southampton

I would love a message or two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Waits in lustful hopefulness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm for some fun and entertainment x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Guys state how choosy you are or if you will accept any

fancy a fuck demand upon you.

Sarah

I doubt there are many of those.

They can be picky sometimes.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I'd love a fancy a fuck message.

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By *rSuave88Man
over a year ago

Mirfield

Dont disappoint me ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive just cleared the inbox out ready.

Took me ages to delete those two messages

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By *kgeminiMan
over a year ago

Southampton

"Guys state how choosy you are or if you will accept any

fancy a fuck demand upon you.

Sarah

I doubt there are many of those.

They can be picky sometimes.

I am very picky.

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By *rmag3ddonMan
over a year ago

East lothian

No one will probably message me but whatever cant get anything if you don't try.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nom nom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In it to win it lol

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By *ent57Man
over a year ago

... where the streets have no name!

I've never received (or sent) a 'fancy a fuck message' - go on .... make my day...lol

I'm quite fussy tho'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do I have to unblock single guys pretending to be women for this to work?

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By *ullbackbuttMan
over a year ago

Purton

Go on then I shall allow myself to be treated like a piece of meat and used by any women on FAB.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

This worked out well last week, even if I did tweak the rules.

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Wonders how many men are looking for an envelope icon to appear..

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I'm waiting to pounce

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sits and waits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooooh not ever had one of them

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Had fun with this last week

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By *uperock99Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

I'm in lol

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By *kgeminiMan
over a year ago

Southampton

"This worked out well last week, even if I did tweak the rules.

How do you tweak the rules?

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By *ullbackbuttMan
over a year ago

Purton

"I'm waiting to pounce

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

Send me a Fancy a Fuck message and I'll block you!

Only jocking - send me as many as you like, let's see if I can get my messages for the last seven days into single figures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy to join in

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ooooh not ever had one of them

Is your nose growing ?

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Now then let me see who's on this thread.......

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Well we had one off a man our first ever but op said ladies send it

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By *lappyMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I'm in

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By *ervent_fervourMan
over a year ago

Halifax

My inbox is always open..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh go on then.

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By *p4funCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

"I'll risk it for a biscuit!

There's biscuits ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

Mmm message sent

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By *lectricSensationMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

I wanna play x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Size 18+ Ladies only please

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By *lllllMan
over a year ago

I can't wait

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By *erdita Von TeaseWoman
over a year ago

nottingham

In and done

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By *ingdong91Man
over a year ago

shropshire

Any women for me, I'm sweet and genuine

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I play?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll wait for my inbox to be bombarded

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By *ed cjMan
over a year ago

oldham

I'm free but won't hold my breath lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can I play?

Yep couples too.

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By *ecretgamesMan
over a year ago

the moon

Well if someone wants to brighten up my day feel free !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh go on then...

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By *ingdong91Man
over a year ago

shropshire

"I'll risk it for a biscuit!

Some one has been watching fired up lol

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

i sent one,i may send more..who knows...due to filters youll just haveto express lust on the thread if you really need to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In game. Confident, sexy ladies welcome day or night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well this thread soon got crowded

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By *enuine lad2Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

I'm in for fancy a fuck message

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By *iforfun999Man
over a year ago

Haverfordwest

Thank you, Sarah for offering this facility on here, especially as it's a Sunday and you're probably busy, getting ready for church or running a bath for a nice, relaxing soak.

So, sign me up, please and if there's a free cute and collectible toy too, I'm up for cuddling a 3rd in bed too.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Do I send a "gizzashagyabitch" to anyone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do me

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By *ndrew1972Man
over a year ago

Roscrea

Oh go on then for a laugh. Feel free to send me a message ladies.

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

I'm in, although I have never, yet, sent a fancy a fuck myself!

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

I might be picky....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just messaged myself and didn't make it through my filters.... can I block myself, is that even possible, I attached a wang pic and everything!!

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By *arksMan
over a year ago

in the centre

"We did this a week ago and it seemed to go well. Let's keep it light-hearted, Sunday's are chill day.

Sign up here by adding your post and then send your fancy a fuck message to the desired bloke. Guys state how choosy you are or if you will accept any

fancy a fuck demand upon you.

Sarah

how rude

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By *uperock99Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Oh I do like a quiet sunday watching the tumble s go by

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something new and exciting.. I'm in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I am so in on this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in

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By *onbons_xxMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Where do I sign

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We did this a week ago and it seemed to go well. Let's keep it light-hearted, Sunday's are chill day.

Sign up here by adding your post and then send your fancy a fuck message to the desired bloke. Guys state how choosy you are or if you will accept any

fancy a fuck demand upon you.

Sarah

how rude

Does that mean you're in?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Where do I sign

Hold on, I'll just undo my bra.

Sarah

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Has anyone had one yet? Still waiting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy to receive from the right woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Count me in!

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By *ervent_fervourMan
over a year ago

Halifax

"Has anyone had one yet? Still waiting!"

A fuck or a message?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We did this a week ago and it seemed to go well. Let's keep it light-hearted, Sunday's are chill day.

Sign up here by adding your post and then send your fancy a fuck message to the desired bloke. Guys state how choosy you are or if you will accept any

fancy a fuck demand upon you.

Sarah

Im not fussy. Ive it a go

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I've pounced

There are a few I would message tbh but they are too far away.

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By *uperock99Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Meet the gang cause the boys are here, the boys to entertain you ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In and sent

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By *oby BestMan
over a year ago

the shires

Oh if I have too ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has anyone had one yet? Still waiting!"

Yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Three offers! Who knew

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like this. I'm in, send away, happy to hear from anyone on a Sunday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in. Be interesting to see if any thing happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah well, if I must

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oooooh! Spoiled for choice...

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

Well there is someone who I would welcome a message from

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

There are a fair few I would message,but I've been gardening all day and I'm lying in the bath my arms are pooped (tired!) so I'll just pretend for now I've messaged

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

in and sending......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds fun

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By *ubtleDominationMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Large and in charge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has anyone had one yet? Still waiting!"

I'm blushing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I managed to join the last fancy a fuck message thread at post 173, which explains why I didn't get any.

That's my story and I'm sticking to it.

I'm in.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I got one! I got one!

From a real woman and everything!

Not only that but she is HOT!!

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home

We're in

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good man Vine!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Ooh I've scored more than once - does that mean I'm a swinger now??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had one too...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ooh I've scored more than once - does that mean I'm a swinger now??

Can you do the special handshake ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let me see....

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By *onbons_xxMan
over a year ago

Bolton

"Ooh I've scored more than once - does that mean I'm a swinger now??

Can you do the special handshake ?

Does it involve shaking hands!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

everyone is miles away from me...

but its nice to know someone would...given half the chance

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Ooh I've scored more than once - does that mean I'm a swinger now??

Can you do the special handshake ?

I'm willing to be shown

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok, I'm not doing anything this evening, I'm in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am choosy, and who shouldn't be

But all offers are carefully considered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in eagerly awaiting a message of any description

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By *km45Man
over a year ago

UTTOXETER

I'm in. Happy to receive messages from lovely ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

**pops in looks around** ohhhh nice thread OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In and sent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sent

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

Perfect result :

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*fans himself*

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By *ung_Irishman26Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

I'm in if anyone's brave..

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Ok, I'm not doing anything this evening, I'm in"

Haha, that might be a trifle optimistic even for fabs forum!

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"Ooh I've scored more than once - does that mean I'm a swinger now??

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By *aximum7Man
over a year ago

london

Haha that was a good read

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ladies aren't playing fair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need to go and lay down in a darkened room... Who's with me?

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By *erdita Von TeaseWoman
over a year ago

nottingham

"I need to go and lay down in a darkened room... Who's with me?

Will there be cheese after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sure why not ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you ladies & thank you OP

You're all very appreciated xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've pounced

There are a few I would message tbh but they are too far away. "

Distance makes the lust even greater Lady Lick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I need to go and lay down in a darkened room... Who's with me?

Will there be cheese after

Only the stinkiest for you Miss T

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

"In and sent

There's no way you're innocent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We did this a week ago and it seemed to go well. Let's keep it light-hearted, Sunday's are chill day.

Sign up here by adding your post and then send your fancy a fuck message to the desired bloke. Guys state how choosy you are or if you will accept any

fancy a fuck demand upon you.

What a naughty sexy thread OP! Marvellous

Sarah

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

Oh yes, still in and had 1 FaF message already

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By *outhfulPowerMan
over a year ago

Hemel

Bring it on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Been bowed over by a hot offer.

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By *obwithkiltMan
over a year ago

Belton

Oooo yes please

I'm in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pick me pick me

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By *km45Man
over a year ago

UTTOXETER

Think I might bake a cake and offer a slice per message

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By *elkinMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire

I'm in, hope I'm not too late.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just an offer to share some body heat would be just as good. I'm freezing my tits off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ormalguy71Man
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells

Oh go on I'm in, I enjoy getting no mails lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couldn't refuse an offer like this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I've accidentally hit the "use invisible font" button again.

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London

I'm in, but will not just accept any offer tho

(If i get any that is)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been bowed over by a hot offer.

Damn. I'm too late.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just an offer to share some body heat would be just as good. I'm freezing my tits off. "
you can share some body heat

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By *asy247888Man
over a year ago

Kent

I'm in

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By *hite bull 9Man
over a year ago

walsall

Great thread.

Yes, I'm in.

All female offers welcomed and accepted.

No single males.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know WHAT single guys complain about. My very first fancy a fuck message worked!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't know WHAT single guys complain about. My very first fancy a fuck message worked!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Malteser anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always in, send away ladies

I doubt any of your are brave enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How on earth have I missed this?

lol

It's near thread capacity but I'll still join in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in, I'll sit eagerly watching my empty mail box

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By *ackett1962Man
over a year ago

harrow

I'm in for a laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't dream of sending such a message ....

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By *ullbackbuttMan
over a year ago

Purton

Has anyone reported the technical problem with the messagiing system. Or is it just my inbox which seems to be on the blink. I have recieved one message from this thread and considering the amount of ladies who are saying they sent I cant understand why my inbox is not bursting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Okay go on then

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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago

Reading

I am in, normally only messages saying fancy a fuck I get are from males

so would be nice to get from a female or couple lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In

Do I have a inbox?? Where??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has anyone had one yet? Still waiting!"
No, not yet lol

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By *lappyMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Im still waiting too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tis a bit rude

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