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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When you find someone who is everything you are looking for in their profile and pics and then they can't hold a conversation or just reply with one worded answers.

Frustrating especially as they are the ones who initiated the chat !!??..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delete and move on OP..... plenty more to choose from

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's more frustrating is you engage in conversation and think things are going well..... Then silence!

Like your invisible!

But onwards and upwards as they say

Clearly not worth your time or effort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you find someone who is everything you are looking for in their profile and pics and then they can't hold a conversation or just reply with one worded answers.

Frustrating especially as they are the ones who initiated the chat !!??..

"

Yep had this one, told me she liked me etc but the conversation was awful from her, felt like I was interviewing her rather than chatting to her, and just thought stuff it and blocked her.

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By *xoticloverMan
over a year ago

newcastle


"Delete and move on OP..... plenty more to choose from "

Joys of being a girl...

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you find someone who is everything you are looking for in their profile and pics and then they can't hold a conversation or just reply with one worded answers.

Frustrating especially as they are the ones who initiated the chat !!??..

Yep had this one, told me she liked me etc but the conversation was awful from her, felt like I was interviewing her rather than chatting to her, and just thought stuff it and blocked her."

That's the spirit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you find someone who is everything you are looking for in their profile and pics and then they can't hold a conversation or just reply with one worded answers.

Frustrating especially as they are the ones who initiated the chat !!??..

"

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Delete and move on OP..... plenty more to choose from

Joys of being a girl... "

Haha there's little joy in here for single girls, don't listen to the hype! Lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you find someone who is everything you are looking for in their profile and pics and then they can't hold a conversation or just reply with one worded answers.

Frustrating especially as they are the ones who initiated the chat !!??..

"

Quite frustrating esp if they initiate the chat

I just delete or ignore, if they can't put in a little effort aswell it probably will be a crap meet

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By *xoticloverMan
over a year ago

newcastle


"Delete and move on OP..... plenty more to choose from

Joys of being a girl...

Haha there's little joy in here for single girls, don't listen to the hype! Lol x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ask her if she wants to skip the convo and get straight down to business

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose it depends on what they are doing at the time or what mood they are in, Friends do the same on here and in real life, I find it worse when the conversation is going good and for whatever reason they don't reply to your last message and you lose that little connection you feel you have built up, You just can't get it back when they reply days later

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hahaha love the one worded posts.

Yea I agree, I give it a few messages before I delete and ignore them if they cannot fully communicate and reply with an interesting message constructed of more than just 3 or 4 words

Also woman you do have a lot more to choose from, so don't lie !much easier for you..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must admit, I do quiet if the chat turns sexual.

It just bores the shit out of me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hahaha love the one worded posts.

Yea I agree, I give it a few messages before I delete and ignore them if they cannot fully communicate and reply with an interesting message constructed of more than just 3 or 4 words

Also woman you do have a lot more to choose from, so don't lie !much easier for you.."

Ah you see though that's not necessarily a good thing. Too much choice, spending more time deleting and saying sorry but no thanks, blocking abusive people, and whenever we are online / add a pic / post in a forum there's a new flurry of messages we have to sift through. The site isn't perfect for anyone haha!

Sorry to hear about your 'troubles' though..... you're hot so there'll be another one along in a minute hehe

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I never bring up sex ! Not right away anyway..not until I get to know them better.

Hornyminxx...thank you ! And you are rather nice yourself.

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"Clearly not worth your time or effort "

It's probable they had that thought too.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've had 3 veris in two months. That's what most single guys on here would kill for.

I can see why you get a lot of interest from your photos. Very nice.

Hang in there. I'm sure your inbox is fairly full after this post.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"When you find someone who is everything you are looking for in their profile and pics and then they can't hold a conversation or just reply with one worded answers.

Frustrating especially as they are the ones who initiated the chat !!??..

"

Welcome to my world!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You've had 3 veris in two months. That's what most single guys on here would kill for.

I can see why you get a lot of interest from your photos. Very nice.

Hang in there. I'm sure your inbox is fairly full after this post. "

Haha thank you. But it's far from full lol.

One of the verifications was actually a good friend I have known for years who I had a thing with..surprised me when she joined fab !!

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