FabSwingers.com forum: Life partner or not

By *BlueToo OP Man
over a year ago

eskbank

I have been single for some time and although been dating now and again. It seems those I have dated have a low sex drive or not bothered about sex.

So, who thinks FabSwingers is the place to find a life partner?

Discuss please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It has happened here. It can happen anywhere.

Sarah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah it can happen here. I've met a few ladies on here who admit to wanting a relationship. I obviously got my Nike's and run away as fast as possible.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Yeah that would be good!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women are mental on here. I'd never consider a relationship with any of the FAB fruitbars

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The Forums are a huge mental hostpital......I should know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be open to finding one, not straight away but if that's how things developed then great.

Was recently seeing someone who seems reaaally vanilla and I didn't feel like I could tell her about this side of me.

I certainly wouldn't want this to be everything in the relationship but life's too short for me to live a traditional lifestyle.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Met my other half on here. Wasn't looking and he had a find em, fuck em and forget em approach.

Going on three years we've been together. Do I see him as a life partner? No.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I have been single for some time and although been dating now and again. It seems those I have dated have a low sex drive or not bothered about sex.

So, who thinks FabSwingers is the place to find a life partner?

Discuss please "

It's a myth that all women on fab have a high sex drive, there are frequent threads saying the opposite. It's quite possible to find a life partner anywhere, look at the women who marry men on death row

but just because you find them in a certain place doesn't mean they'll possess the qualities you're after.

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Well im looking .... you never know ....

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Not looking for a life partner but, if we are generalising here, most Fab men are a lot less clingy than RL men. And that's why I like them.

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!

Never say never. I avoid relationships like the plague but if the right one came along then who knows eh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been single for some time and although been dating now and again. It seems those I have dated have a low sex drive or not bothered about sex.

So, who thinks FabSwingers is the place to find a life partner?

Discuss please "

Yeah, why not

Could be a match made in heaven!

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

My partner is in for life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don'the know about for 'life' but I seem to have found a like-minded "partner in crime".

I suppose finding someone with a similar attitude to relationships and sex is more likely here, there is less artifice about intention than, say, a "dating" site?

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

"The Forums are a huge mental hostpital......I should know

We met on here, but not on the forums as I think there are more singles here who like to broadcast every facet of their relationship. It is possible to meet someone of a like mind here, but things don't happen overnight. Obviously a couple would have to have loads more in common than just the attitude to sex for it to work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been single for some time and although been dating now and again. It seems those I have dated have a low sex drive or not bothered about sex.

So, who thinks FabSwingers is the place to find a life partner?

Discuss please "

We met on fab and become a couple....neither of us were looking it just happened and pleased to say so far so good

Fears and frustrations exist on both sides of the relationship but we talk openly about these to one another which helps!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Good god no.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"Good god no."

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

"I have been single for some time and although been dating now and again. It seems those I have dated have a low sex drive or not bothered about sex.

So, who thinks FabSwingers is the place to find a life partner?

Discuss please

We met on fab and become a couple....neither of us were looking it just happened and pleased to say so far so good

Fears and frustrations exist on both sides of the relationship but we talk openly about these to one another which helps!

Similar for us too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The Forums are a huge mental hostpital.."
SNAP!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Not on here but met my partner through swinging no chats about hangups or insecurities.

In fact its just part of us a small part hes never asked me not to do anything and me him either. But we do have unwritten rules and yes over 10 years later he is my life partner. Well until one of us pops our clogs

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

"I have been single for some time and although been dating now and again. It seems those I have dated have a low sex drive or not bothered about sex.

So, who thinks FabSwingers is the place to find a life partner?

Discuss please "

definite yes for me but hasn't happened yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met on here, like many couples on fab it seems. Hopefully it's for life but I'm obviously aware that things happen and people can change. Right now we're very happy and that's all that matters.

Nell

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By *istressZoeTV/TS
over a year ago

cheshire

I think it's a great place to meet like minded individuals x maybe even more x

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

"I have been single for some time and although been dating now and again. It seems those I have dated have a low sex drive or not bothered about sex.

So, who thinks FabSwingers is the place to find a life partner?

Discuss please "

You are likely to find someone sexually compatible and with an interest in swinging. Whether you are compatible on other levels - you will have to suck it n see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I suppose finding someone with a similar attitude to relationships and sex is more likely here, there is less artifice about intention than, say, a "dating" site?"
Wise words there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been single for some time and although been dating now and again. It seems those I have dated have a low sex drive or not bothered about sex.

So, who thinks FabSwingers is the place to find a life partner?

Discuss please

but just because you find them in a certain place doesn't mean they'll possess the qualities you're after."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is the only place I think I would find a partner, would be a wonderful relationship, not desperate to find one, but would be rather lovely, patiently waiting for that spark

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"The Forums are a huge mental hostpital......I should know

Haha, yeah the psyche ward...

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"I have been single for some time and although been dating now and again. It seems those I have dated have a low sex drive or not bothered about sex.

So, who thinks FabSwingers is the place to find a life partner?

Discuss please

but just because you find them in a certain place doesn't mean they'll possess the qualities you're after."

No indeed. It's not a place I would look, but it obviously happens all the time and I am always open to the possibility, there are plenty of 'people like me' on this site who are just 'here meanwhile'.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"I have been single for some time and although been dating now and again. It seems those I have dated have a low sex drive or not bothered about sex.

So, who thinks FabSwingers is the place to find a life partner?

Discuss please "

its my ideal a D/s relationship with room to play in either swinger or fet scene..one lives in hope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't look on here, but also if I met someone I thought fitted the bill on here I wouldn't force it either.

I'm happy being single taken me a very long time to realise it whilst clicking the yes button on a dating site or two lol.

But i just can't be arsed with it all I'm having too much fun in 'normal' life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From my experience, and taking my own personal circumstances into consideration, I find its very easy to get caught up in the world of fab. Emotions are very easily confused on here so I'd say be careful because you may find yourself feeling very disappointed, or even hurt, when reality kicks in.

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

"Women are mental on here. I'd never consider a relationship with any of the FAB fruitbars

If you think these are bad have seen what they are like outside the asylum?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Sex is part of having a partner most people dont spend 24 hrs a day in bed there are other things to take into account no point being sexually compatable if everything else is shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can happen, one of my friends met her now husband on here, and I know other friends who are together since meeting on here. Just as much chance on here as anywhere else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yea it can happen here and I would like to think I have found my life partner, I know you don't know what's around the corner but we fit in every way possible...found out tonight we share the same love of vienetta both mint and chocolate so I'm in for the long haul!!

G x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sex is part of having a partner most people dont spend 24 hrs a day in bed there are other things to take into account no point being sexually compatable if everything else is shit"

Couldn't agree with more!!

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By *iforfun999Man
over a year ago

Haverfordwest

I found mine on the other side of a narrow car park by a dual carriageway. It hit me like a slap in the face, recognising that he was to be a major part in my life, so I went across and got his number. We didn't meet again because he moved away for a year, but on returning, arranged a meet and to me, everything felt right. To him, he didn't realise yet, but I knew that.

So, 2 years together, then he left and had a new partner in Ireland, both working in Saudi, yet I always knew we would get back. 5 years later, circumstances changed and we got back together. It was like that missing jigsaw piece had been found and completed a puzzle, there was a sense of life falling into place and we have a complete and honest open relationship, so he knows everything about my single profile on here, but it's a single profile, just for me. If we both meet for bisexual meets, I'll set a new couple's profile as well.

So, meeting the right partner can happen anywhere at any time, more likely when you are happy with your life, have a good attitude and not actively looking. Also, accepting that we each have faults, so deal with them and compromise,

Good luck, but in the meantime, have fun and show it too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it can happen here and we are proof that it can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are mental, there is a good chance of meeting someone else who is also mental on here.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"I found mine on the other side of a narrow car park by a dual carriageway. It hit me like a slap in the face, recognising that he was to be a major part in my life, so I went across and got his number. We didn't meet again because he moved away for a year, but on returning, arranged a meet and to me, everything felt right. To him, he didn't realise yet, but I knew that.

Good luck, but in the meantime, have fun and show it too. "

That's nice!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been single for some time and although been dating now and again. It seems those I have dated have a low sex drive or not bothered about sex.

So, who thinks FabSwingers is the place to find a life partner?

Discuss please "

I found mine. Met for a social on the Monday. Went on a date on the Tuesday had 7 hours of mind blowing sex and I moved in on the Friday been together 3 years in October x

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

Good God ... 7 hours !!

I would rather do a full shift at work ...and it would be over quicker ...just goes to show ...what floats one persons boat ....!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good God ... 7 hours !!

I would rather do a full shift at work ...and it would be over quicker ...just goes to show ...what floats one persons boat ....!"

We just clicked and nothing had ever felt like that before. So it was well worth it. And believe me I would pick it over working any day lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For everyone who is looking for a life long partner, I wish you well, once found its fantastic and often its when you are not looking that you find that soul mate

I wish everyone well and hope they find the perfect match

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By *iforfun999Man
over a year ago

Haverfordwest

"I have been single for some time and although been dating now and again. It seems those I have dated have a low sex drive or not bothered about sex.

So, who thinks FabSwingers is the place to find a life partner?

Discuss please

I found mine. Met for a social on the Monday. Went on a date on the Tuesday had 7 hours of mind blowing sex and I moved in on the Friday been together 3 years in October x"

I met my first soulmate (discovered years later that I have two) on a Monday evening, went back to my place and had much less than 7 hours of sex, probably an hour) and by Thursday night of the same week, he moved in, where we spent nearly 10 years together. I always knew he would eventually move on, but we are still close.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"For everyone who is looking for a life long partner, I wish you well, once found its fantastic and often its when you are not looking that you find that soul mate

I wish everyone well and hope they find the perfect match

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm having exactly that problem. Would love a relationship. But I'd need it to be sexually fulfilling and I'm not finding that on the dating sites. I've always said fab should run an off shoot dating site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women are mental on here. I'd never consider a relationship with any of the FAB fruitbars

Everything after the 3rd word was not required

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"I'm having exactly that problem. Would love a relationship. But I'd need it to be sexually fulfilling and I'm not finding that on the dating sites. I've always said fab should run an off shoot dating site "

Nope, I had three 'sexy' eves two years on the dating sites and began to wonder if I was ever going to have decent sex again! That's why I finally said yes to a persistent 26 yr old.....

BTW I love your white basquey thing - what make is that??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been single for some time and although been dating now and again. It seems those I have dated have a low sex drive or not bothered about sex.

So, who thinks FabSwingers is the place to find a life partner?

Discuss please "

A lot of the women on here get a low sex drive once they have found a partner

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London

"I have been single for some time and although been dating now and again. It seems those I have dated have a low sex drive or not bothered about sex.

So, who thinks FabSwingers is the place to find a life partner?

Discuss please "

Can be... But I mention this to women I meet on tinder all the time and I'd say it puts 50% off and the other 50% are drawn in.

It's all about positioning, if you introduce it in a relaxed, at their own pace manner, I would say it's pretty easy to find.

They just don't want to feel they are getting thrown to the wolves.

Thing is most guys on tinder will just play the game, feeding anything they want to hear just to get into someone's pants.

I have been quite open and upfront about it and it's surprised me how often it's appreciated and wanted. I only allude to something different sexually at first & I'm constantly asked.

This may take longer than just saying I want 2 kids, a big house, car and a dog and I love country walks, holidays and family bbq's... But it's far more satisfying.

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London

"Sex is part of having a partner most people dont spend 24 hrs a day in bed there are other things to take into account no point being sexually compatable if everything else is shit

Couldn't agree with more!!"

This is true, but I know a huuuuuuge amount of people who have everything else, except the sex they desire and are so getting their fix somewhere else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was on another swinging site and having a great time.

A fella kept sending me messeges asking to meet but i kept saying no cus i thought he was part of a couple and i only met guys. Eventually i met him and although neither of us were looking for a relationship we fell in love very quickly and have lived together for years now and been married for 3 years.

Life is fantastic

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