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"I've started to learn more even if it currently has little relevance and I've also started to say no a lot more." so you have improved your learning...which is always good to have knowledge 
Assertiveness. ...thats confidence well done for being assertive | |||
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"A lot of personal growth. I understand myself better now. Leaving it at that, don't wanna explain anything more." | |||
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"Moved house, changed career and learnt to ski" moving house an changeing a career can be stressful. ... well done on moving home an changing your career
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"I'm fitter than I was but I don't think it's affected my stamina at all "thats good . its also healthy too to keep fit an esp with stamina. ..esp where its needed in the bedroom lol | |||
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"Started exercising a lot more. took up sports I gave up on a few years ago and fell in love with them again. this last week alone I've started a new diet and lost half a stone. Feeling much happier already!" congrats on your weightloss an diet
i had to give up the gym as it was speeding up my weight loss an i was loseing too much weight
Im on a low fat diet an im now 7 stone 13 lbs
im now a size 10...or a size 8 depending on clothes sizes in shops...i used to be a size 16.. | |||
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"Congratulations op on your weight loss. I exercise differently now due to getting a different job. Unfortunately I have gained weight due to getting the different job "Thanks
i gained weight in 2014...an was a size 18 then dropped to a size 16 an now im a size 10...
so i know what u mean..,as i gained weight a few years ago now ive lost the weight due to a health condition i have gall stones an have to have a low fat diet. ..less than 5 % fat....hence my weightloss
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"Started exercising a lot more. took up sports I gave up on a few years ago and fell in love with them again. this last week alone I've started a new diet and lost half a stone. Feeling much happier already! congrats on your weightloss an diet
i had to give up the gym as it was speeding up my weight loss an i was loseing too much weight
Im on a low fat diet an im now 7 stone 13 lbs
im now a size 10...or a size 8 depending on clothes sizes in shops...i used to be a size 16.."That's great. What happened when you lost weight too quick? Did you suffer any side effects? I'm literally just eating less. Fasting two days in a row, twice a week. I'm finding I'm not really hungry at all, but I'm craving flavour more than anything. | |||
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are you Glad you havnt tonsills any more ?"Not sure, only been a few days and on a codine high | |||
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"Started exercising a lot more. took up sports I gave up on a few years ago and fell in love with them again. this last week alone I've started a new diet and lost half a stone. Feeling much happier already! congrats on your weightloss an diet
i had to give up the gym as it was speeding up my weight loss an i was loseing too much weight
Im on a low fat diet an im now 7 stone 13 lbs
im now a size 10...or a size 8 depending on clothes sizes in shops...i used to be a size 16..
That's great. What happened when you lost weight too quick? Did you suffer any side effects?
I'm literally just eating less. Fasting two days in a row, twice a week. I'm finding I'm not really hungry at all, but I'm craving flavour more than anything. "im on a low fat diet due to my health condition i have gall stones. ..so im eating foods that are less than 5% fat content to lessen gall stone attacks. .. im eating regular an eating 6 smaller meals a day an breaking it down from 3 big meals a day... If you fast an dont eat...you may get gall stones...as its not good to skip meals. .. 
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"Got my health back after my 3rd operation in 3 years. Changed career and managed to recently start a job at a company that is really hard to get a job at. I originally thought I had messed up my inter_iew but it turned out OK. Plus I have started riding my horses again after an accident last year that knocked my confidence. I wasn't sure whether I would ever get back on "well done to getting back to rideing horses
it takes a lot of courage to do that after an accident
i know what u mean i had an illness last nov an was in hospital 11 days.. it knocked me about an my confidence...an also my major weightloss made me loose confidence for a bit. .but now back | |||
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"Started exercising a lot more. took up sports I gave up on a few years ago and fell in love with them again. this last week alone I've started a new diet and lost half a stone. Feeling much happier already! congrats on your weightloss an diet
i had to give up the gym as it was speeding up my weight loss an i was loseing too much weight
Im on a low fat diet an im now 7 stone 13 lbs
im now a size 10...or a size 8 depending on clothes sizes in shops...i used to be a size 16..
That's great. What happened when you lost weight too quick? Did you suffer any side effects?
I'm literally just eating less. Fasting two days in a row, twice a week. I'm finding I'm not really hungry at all, but I'm craving flavour more than anything.
im on a low fat diet due to my health condition i have gall stones. ..so im eating foods that are less than 5% fat content to lessen gall stone attacks. ..
im eating regular an eating 6 smaller meals a day an breaking it down from 3 big meals a day...
If you fast an dont eat...you may get gall stones...as its not good to skip meals. ..
My body isnt feeling the side affects of smaller meals ...its speeding up weightloss unfortunately "I had a massive ovarian cyst the size of a grapefruit sat on my stomach made it like having a gastric band fitted. It stopped me from eating and I lost 5st in 3 months. Accelerated the growth of the gallstone I had to over 4cms. So had to have my gallbladder removed in January. | |||
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"I no longer have tonsills
are you Glad you havnt tonsills any more ?
Not sure, only been a few days and on a codine high "i was on tramodol so was tired an had no energy im sure eventually you will wonder where they are | |||
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"Started exercising a lot more. took up sports I gave up on a few years ago and fell in love with them again. this last week alone I've started a new diet and lost half a stone. Feeling much happier already! congrats on your weightloss an diet
i had to give up the gym as it was speeding up my weight loss an i was loseing too much weight
Im on a low fat diet an im now 7 stone 13 lbs
im now a size 10...or a size 8 depending on clothes sizes in shops...i used to be a size 16..
That's great. What happened when you lost weight too quick? Did you suffer any side effects?
I'm literally just eating less. Fasting two days in a row, twice a week. I'm finding I'm not really hungry at all, but I'm craving flavour more than anything.
im on a low fat diet due to my health condition i have gall stones. ..so im eating foods that are less than 5% fat content to lessen gall stone attacks. ..
im eating regular an eating 6 smaller meals a day an breaking it down from 3 big meals a day...
If you fast an dont eat...you may get gall stones...as its not good to skip meals. ..
My body isnt feeling the side affects of smaller meals ...its speeding up weightloss unfortunately
I had a massive ovarian cyst the size of a grapefruit sat on my stomach made it like having a gastric band fitted. It stopped me from eating and I lost 5st in 3 months. Accelerated the growth of the gallstone I had to over 4cms. So had to have my gallbladder removed in January. "Sorry to hear that. ..hope you are ok now
i have to have my gall bladder removed. ..i certainly know when i have a gall stone attack. .my stomach is painful an i get a bad back.,
my weightloss is dramatic im eating regular
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"Started exercising a lot more. took up sports I gave up on a few years ago and fell in love with them again. this last week alone I've started a new diet and lost half a stone. Feeling much happier already! congrats on your weightloss an diet
i had to give up the gym as it was speeding up my weight loss an i was loseing too much weight
Im on a low fat diet an im now 7 stone 13 lbs
im now a size 10...or a size 8 depending on clothes sizes in shops...i used to be a size 16..
That's great. What happened when you lost weight too quick? Did you suffer any side effects?
I'm literally just eating less. Fasting two days in a row, twice a week. I'm finding I'm not really hungry at all, but I'm craving flavour more than anything.
im on a low fat diet due to my health condition i have gall stones. ..so im eating foods that are less than 5% fat content to lessen gall stone attacks. ..
im eating regular an eating 6 smaller meals a day an breaking it down from 3 big meals a day...
If you fast an dont eat...you may get gall stones...as its not good to skip meals. ..
My body isnt feeling the side affects of smaller meals ...its speeding up weightloss unfortunately
I had a massive ovarian cyst the size of a grapefruit sat on my stomach made it like having a gastric band fitted. It stopped me from eating and I lost 5st in 3 months. Accelerated the growth of the gallstone I had to over 4cms. So had to have my gallbladder removed in January.
Sorry to hear that. ..hope you are ok now
i have to have my gall bladder removed. ..i certainly know when i have a gall stone attack. .my stomach is painful an i get a bad back.,
my weightloss is dramatic im eating regular
"Best thing ever having it removed. I have suffered with it for over 18 years they thought it was something else so was treating me for that instead. | |||
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"Started exercising a lot more. took up sports I gave up on a few years ago and fell in love with them again. this last week alone I've started a new diet and lost half a stone. Feeling much happier already! congrats on your weightloss an diet
i had to give up the gym as it was speeding up my weight loss an i was loseing too much weight
Im on a low fat diet an im now 7 stone 13 lbs
im now a size 10...or a size 8 depending on clothes sizes in shops...i used to be a size 16..
That's great. What happened when you lost weight too quick? Did you suffer any side effects?
I'm literally just eating less. Fasting two days in a row, twice a week. I'm finding I'm not really hungry at all, but I'm craving flavour more than anything.
im on a low fat diet due to my health condition i have gall stones. ..so im eating foods that are less than 5% fat content to lessen gall stone attacks. ..
im eating regular an eating 6 smaller meals a day an breaking it down from 3 big meals a day...
If you fast an dont eat...you may get gall stones...as its not good to skip meals. ..
My body isnt feeling the side affects of smaller meals ...its speeding up weightloss unfortunately
I had a massive ovarian cyst the size of a grapefruit sat on my stomach made it like having a gastric band fitted. It stopped me from eating and I lost 5st in 3 months. Accelerated the growth of the gallstone I had to over 4cms. So had to have my gallbladder removed in January.
Sorry to hear that. ..hope you are ok now
i have to have my gall bladder removed. ..i certainly know when i have a gall stone attack. .my stomach is painful an i get a bad back.,
my weightloss is dramatic im eating regular
Best thing ever having it removed. I have suffered with it for over 18 years they thought it was something else so was treating me for that instead. "i cant wait to have my gall bladder removed i cant eat fatty foods any more just no chips, no pizzas, no take aways...chocolate, cheese etc...so have to eat rice, pasta. Just a bland diet
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"I've also lost weight and dyed my hair red... great colour for a fox "well done on the weightloss
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"I've changed job and reduced my working hours considerably and taken a pay cut....so massive changes...but hopefully I'm a nicer person to be around and i get to spend more quality time with my family." its always nice to spend time with family | |||
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"Got promoted and got over my ex playmate and his mind games "well done on the promotion
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"I gave up smoking in January
Mrs M"well done Mrs M | |||
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"Got promoted and got over my ex playmate and his mind games
well done on the promotion
good for you to get over an ex playmate
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"Being more confident and making a huge change in July!! Moving to Essex!! G x" well done on your Confidence
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"Got promoted and got over my ex playmate and his mind games
well done on the promotion
good for you to get over an ex playmate
Thank you Shelbee, loving my life " enjoy life to the full life is for liveing | |||
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"Ive had a cpl of changes...one being my huge weightloss im now 7 stone 13lbs. ..an in Nov 7th 2015 i was 10 stone 2 lbs...an this week im just under 8 stone.. so thats one change 2nd change...ive dyed my hair a redish sexy colour What changes have you made this year... "Very well done on the weight loss x I know how hard it can be x I've not really made any changes this year except for actually start to learn to play guitar at last x I met my partner last year when he gave me a guitar lesson and I never left lol x  | |||
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"Ive had a cpl of changes...one being my huge weightloss im now 7 stone 13lbs. ..an in Nov 7th 2015 i was 10 stone 2 lbs...an this week im just under 8 stone.. so thats one change 2nd change...ive dyed my hair a redish sexy colour What changes have you made this year... "well done on the weight loss. My changes are I gave up smoking 18 months ago have lost over half a stone want to lose more. Gone on courses and now learning a lot more | |||
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"Well done on your weight loss hun I was 11 st went to 9st but stress done it for me now gone back up gain now 9st 9 so want to hit goal again get to under 9st if I can" Well you look pretty hot on what ever diet it is you are on just had a sneaky peek at your pics  | |||
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"Well done on your weight loss hun I was 11 st went to 9st but stress done it for me now gone back up gain now 9st 9 so want to hit goal again get to under 9st if I can Well you look pretty hot on what ever diet it is you are on just had a sneaky peek at your pics "thank you | |||
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"Well done Op i realised that i had to stay strong and change my life after the sudden death of my partner a year ago" Thanks
it wasnt easy to achieve but ive done it an stuck to a low fat diet
Sorry to hear of your loss, hugs to you
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"Ive had a cpl of changes...one being my huge weightloss im now 7 stone 13lbs. ..an in Nov 7th 2015 i was 10 stone 2 lbs...an this week im just under 8 stone.. so thats one change 2nd change...ive dyed my hair a redish sexy colour What changes have you made this year... well done on the weight loss.
My changes are I gave up smoking 18 months ago have lost over half a stone want to lose more.
Gone on courses and now learning a lot more "well done on giving up smoking
ive never smoked...i bet you feel a lot healthier
well done on your weightloss too
always nice to improve learning an education | |||
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"Ive had a cpl of changes...one being my huge weightloss im now 7 stone 13lbs. ..an in Nov 7th 2015 i was 10 stone 2 lbs...an this week im just under 8 stone.. so thats one change 2nd change...ive dyed my hair a redish sexy colour What changes have you made this year... well done on the weight loss.
My changes are I gave up smoking 18 months ago have lost over half a stone want to lose more.
Gone on courses and now learning a lot more
well done on giving up smoking
ive never smoked...i bet you feel a lot healthier
well done on your weightloss too
always nice to improve learning an education "I am now a learning rep for the union I am in | |||
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"Well done on your weight loss hun I was 11 st went to 9st but stress done it for me now gone back up gain now 9st 9 so want to hit goal again get to under 9st if I can" Thanks,
To achieve my weightloss i eat under 5% fat, cut out sweets, biscuits, fizzy pop, pizzas an eat 6 small meals a day...have fruit in my diet ..im on a low fat diet due to my condition i have gall stones an have to have no fat in my diet...its weight loss by accident
You will get there, im sure you will get to your goal ideal weight u want to achieve. ... | |||
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"Ive had a cpl of changes...one being my huge weightloss im now 7 stone 13lbs. ..an in Nov 7th 2015 i was 10 stone 2 lbs...an this week im just under 8 stone.. so thats one change 2nd change...ive dyed my hair a redish sexy colour What changes have you made this year... well done on the weight loss.
My changes are I gave up smoking 18 months ago have lost over half a stone want to lose more.
Gone on courses and now learning a lot more
well done on giving up smoking
ive never smoked...i bet you feel a lot healthier
well done on your weightloss too
always nice to improve learning an education
I am now a learning rep for the union I am in "thats good another change for you
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"Ive had a cpl of changes...one being my huge weightloss im now 7 stone 13lbs. ..an in Nov 7th 2015 i was 10 stone 2 lbs...an this week im just under 8 stone.. so thats one change 2nd change...ive dyed my hair a redish sexy colour What changes have you made this year... well done on the weight loss.
My changes are I gave up smoking 18 months ago have lost over half a stone want to lose more.
Gone on courses and now learning a lot more
well done on giving up smoking
ive never smoked...i bet you feel a lot healthier
well done on your weightloss too
always nice to improve learning an education
I am now a learning rep for the union I am in
thats good another change for you
well done "Congratulations on your weight loss too | |||
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"Ive had a cpl of changes...one being my huge weightloss im now 7 stone 13lbs. ..an in Nov 7th 2015 i was 10 stone 2 lbs...an this week im just under 8 stone.. so thats one change 2nd change...ive dyed my hair a redish sexy colour What changes have you made this year...
Very well done on the weight loss x I know how hard it can be x
I've not really made any changes this year except for actually start to learn to play guitar at last x I met my partner last year when he gave me a guitar lesson and I never left lol x "Thanks its hard not to fall of the rails an be tempted by sweet things like chocolate etc but ive cut them out...
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"Lost weight feeling much healthier too "well done on your weightloss yes i feel healthier too an more energy | |||
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"Lost weight feeling much healthier too
well done on your weightloss yes i feel healthier too an more energy "I may have only started in august but I've gone from 18st 4lb to 16st  | |||
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"Lost weight feeling much healthier too
well done on your weightloss yes i feel healthier too an more energy
I may have only started in august but I've gone from 18st 4lb to 16st "thats an achievement, well done. Just over 2 stone...thats really good... when i started my low fat diet i was 10 stone 2lbs that was on November 8th 2015 an this week i weighed myself im now 7 stone 13lbs. .. | |||
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"I don't drink fizzy pop or loads biscuits it's dam chocolate so cut most thing out now do walk alot started eatting fruit agaij. " i cut out fizzy pop out in Nov ..2015 i have water, skinny latte, an low fat cordial i eat bananas, strawberrie , raspberries, blueberries i replace the chocolate with a piece of fruit an substitute it... so i dont eat chocolate no more | |||
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"Lost weight feeling much healthier too
well done on your weightloss yes i feel healthier too an more energy
I may have only started in august but I've gone from 18st 4lb to 16st
thats an achievement, well done. Just over 2 stone...thats really good...
when i started my low fat diet i was 10 stone 2lbs that was on November 8th 2015 an this week i weighed myself im now 7 stone 13lbs. ..
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"Ive had a cpl of changes...one being my huge weightloss im now 7 stone 13lbs. ..an in Nov 7th 2015 i was 10 stone 2 lbs...an this week im just under 8 stone.. so thats one change 2nd change...ive dyed my hair a redish sexy colour What changes have you made this year...
Very well done on the weight loss x I know how hard it can be x
I've not really made any changes this year except for actually start to learn to play guitar at last x I met my partner last year when he gave me a guitar lesson and I never left lol x
Thanks its hard not to fall of the rails an be tempted by sweet things like chocolate etc but ive cut them out...
always nice to learn a new skill ..an nice you have a partner you met from last year "Since I met him a lot as changed but nothing this year lol x I can happily say things have changed for the better ( swinging aside this is what we have learnt as a couple ) I was in a really bad place in my life especially after a messy break up with the ex n losing my kids to him all because he had money to take me court and I had no where to live because it's was his owned house and all council would offer was a shitty b&b and a b&b with 5 young kids isn't really best idea so I left then with their dad (who is a absolutely brilliant dad). I was ready to jump of a cliff. But somehow my partner made me realise I deserve to be happy and loved x he saved me x and the more time I spent with him the less I wanted to leave. And I'm guessing that because he kept asking me to stay 1 more night he felt the same . X | |||
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"I don't drink fizzy pop or loads biscuits it's dam chocolate so cut most thing out now do walk alot started eatting fruit agaij. i cut out fizzy pop out in Nov ..2015 i have water, skinny latte, an low fat cordial thank for that i eat bananas, strawberrie , raspberries, blueberries i replace the chocolate with a piece of fruit an substitute it... so i dont eat chocolate no more " | |||
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"nothing significant but well done you xxx" Thanks | |||
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"Ive had a cpl of changes...one being my huge weightloss im now 7 stone 13lbs. ..an in Nov 7th 2015 i was 10 stone 2 lbs...an this week im just under 8 stone.. so thats one change 2nd change...ive dyed my hair a redish sexy colour What changes have you made this year... "Congratulations on your weight loss. I've lost almost 2 stone since the beginning of the year by changing to a low fat diet. I didn't think I'd get this far when I started before Christmas. I guess in an odd way the gallstones have been a great tool for keeping me on track. As a result I'm back into most of my size 16s from uncomfortably tight 18-20s. A long way to go but I'm happy with my progress to date. More importantly, I've made time for myself. I've rediscovered a passion for baking and am learning to love myself for who I am. Her | |||
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"Ive had a cpl of changes...one being my huge weightloss im now 7 stone 13lbs. ..an in Nov 7th 2015 i was 10 stone 2 lbs...an this week im just under 8 stone.. so thats one change 2nd change...ive dyed my hair a redish sexy colour What changes have you made this year...
Very well done on the weight loss x I know how hard it can be x
I've not really made any changes this year except for actually start to learn to play guitar at last x I met my partner last year when he gave me a guitar lesson and I never left lol x
Thanks its hard not to fall of the rails an be tempted by sweet things like chocolate etc but ive cut them out...
always nice to learn a new skill ..an nice you have a partner you met from last year
Since I met him a lot as changed but nothing this year lol x
I can happily say things have changed for the better ( swinging aside this is what we have learnt as a couple )
I was in a really bad place in my life especially after a messy break up with the ex n losing my kids to him all because he had money to take me court and I had no where to live because it's was his owned house and all council would offer was a shitty b&b and a b&b with 5 young kids isn't really best idea so I left then with their dad (who is a absolutely brilliant dad).
I was ready to jump of a cliff. But somehow my partner made me realise I deserve to be happy and loved x he saved me x and the more time I spent with him the less I wanted to leave. And I'm guessing that because he kept asking me to stay 1 more night he felt the same . X"Sorry to hear that...hope life gets better for you at least u found someone nice... | |||
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"Ive had a cpl of changes...one being my huge weightloss im now 7 stone 13lbs. ..an in Nov 7th 2015 i was 10 stone 2 lbs...an this week im just under 8 stone.. so thats one change 2nd change...ive dyed my hair a redish sexy colour What changes have you made this year...
Very well done on the weight loss x I know how hard it can be x
I've not really made any changes this year except for actually start to learn to play guitar at last x I met my partner last year when he gave me a guitar lesson and I never left lol x
Thanks its hard not to fall of the rails an be tempted by sweet things like chocolate etc but ive cut them out...
always nice to learn a new skill ..an nice you have a partner you met from last year
Since I met him a lot as changed but nothing this year lol x
I can happily say things have changed for the better ( swinging aside this is what we have learnt as a couple )
I was in a really bad place in my life especially after a messy break up with the ex n losing my kids to him all because he had money to take me court and I had no where to live because it's was his owned house and all council would offer was a shitty b&b and a b&b with 5 young kids isn't really best idea so I left then with their dad (who is a absolutely brilliant dad).
I was ready to jump of a cliff. But somehow my partner made me realise I deserve to be happy and loved x he saved me x and the more time I spent with him the less I wanted to leave. And I'm guessing that because he kept asking me to stay 1 more night he felt the same . X
Sorry to hear that...hope life gets better for you
at least u found someone nice..."I had never drempt that I would ever be this happy in a relationship xxx | |||
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"Ive had a cpl of changes...one being my huge weightloss im now 7 stone 13lbs. ..an in Nov 7th 2015 i was 10 stone 2 lbs...an this week im just under 8 stone.. so thats one change 2nd change...ive dyed my hair a redish sexy colour What changes have you made this year...
Congratulations on your weight loss.
I've lost almost 2 stone since the beginning of the year by changing to a low fat diet. I didn't think I'd get this far when I started before Christmas. I guess in an odd way the gallstones have been a great tool for keeping me on track. As a result I'm back into most of my size 16s from uncomfortably tight 18-20s. A long way to go but I'm happy with my progress to date.
More importantly, I've made time for myself. I've rediscovered a passion for baking and am learning to love myself for who I am.
Her"well done for your weightloss,
you have gall stones too...its not easy with having gall stones. ..its very painfull
glad you found passion for baking...im not a good cook unfortunately, my interests are tech wise. Computting. An digital photography. An ive always been a sort of geek lol its in my blood lol
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"Ive had a cpl of changes...one being my huge weightloss im now 7 stone 13lbs. ..an in Nov 7th 2015 i was 10 stone 2 lbs...an this week im just under 8 stone.. so thats one change 2nd change...ive dyed my hair a redish sexy colour What changes have you made this year...
Very well done on the weight loss x I know how hard it can be x
I've not really made any changes this year except for actually start to learn to play guitar at last x I met my partner last year when he gave me a guitar lesson and I never left lol x
Thanks its hard not to fall of the rails an be tempted by sweet things like chocolate etc but ive cut them out...
always nice to learn a new skill ..an nice you have a partner you met from last year
Since I met him a lot as changed but nothing this year lol x
I can happily say things have changed for the better ( swinging aside this is what we have learnt as a couple )
I was in a really bad place in my life especially after a messy break up with the ex n losing my kids to him all because he had money to take me court and I had no where to live because it's was his owned house and all council would offer was a shitty b&b and a b&b with 5 young kids isn't really best idea so I left then with their dad (who is a absolutely brilliant dad).
I was ready to jump of a cliff. But somehow my partner made me realise I deserve to be happy and loved x he saved me x and the more time I spent with him the less I wanted to leave. And I'm guessing that because he kept asking me to stay 1 more night he felt the same . X
Sorry to hear that...hope life gets better for you
at least u found someone nice...
I had never drempt that I would ever be this happy in a relationship xxx "glad your happy. In yout relationship. ..
as for me im single...an a lot hapier being single
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"Ive had a cpl of changes...one being my huge weightloss im now 7 stone 13lbs. ..an in Nov 7th 2015 i was 10 stone 2 lbs...an this week im just under 8 stone.. so thats one change 2nd change...ive dyed my hair a redish sexy colour What changes have you made this year...
Very well done on the weight loss x I know how hard it can be x
I've not really made any changes this year except for actually start to learn to play guitar at last x I met my partner last year when he gave me a guitar lesson and I never left lol x
Thanks its hard not to fall of the rails an be tempted by sweet things like chocolate etc but ive cut them out...
always nice to learn a new skill ..an nice you have a partner you met from last year
Since I met him a lot as changed but nothing this year lol x
I can happily say things have changed for the better ( swinging aside this is what we have learnt as a couple )
I was in a really bad place in my life especially after a messy break up with the ex n losing my kids to him all because he had money to take me court and I had no where to live because it's was his owned house and all council would offer was a shitty b&b and a b&b with 5 young kids isn't really best idea so I left then with their dad (who is a absolutely brilliant dad).
I was ready to jump of a cliff. But somehow my partner made me realise I deserve to be happy and loved x he saved me x and the more time I spent with him the less I wanted to leave. And I'm guessing that because he kept asking me to stay 1 more night he felt the same . X
Sorry to hear that...hope life gets better for you
at least u found someone nice...
I had never drempt that I would ever be this happy in a relationship xxx
glad your happy. In yout relationship. ..
as for me im single...an a lot hapier being single
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"Thank you for the praise and yes it's been a struggle at times weight loss is so up and down. I was boarder line diabetic now that I am eating healthy that has gone so lots of changes for the good for me "it is a struggle esp if you have health problems which i have gall stones...esp copeing with it...an thats really good you improved your health well done | |||
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"New Job & New Career Change - started off unsure about it , but love it now... Op you look great "Thanks...
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"Really interesting thread, OP. Some posters, have really opened up about emotional times in their lives and shown another side to themselves (as I have one of these memories where I remember previous posts) and changed my opinions about them .... interesting juxtaposition .... one message about the loss of their children another about wearing short skirts ... sort of puts things in perspective in terms of what we see as important in life. Changes for me ... my partner moved in and we are moving away from swinging as we have so many things going on in our real life, which we are enjoying more. Teenagers growing and beginning to leave the nest, so we are on the cusp of a life which is more about us. I am beginning to see things differently in terms of seeing our children grow into adults and live their own lives, its amazing to see that .... five of them between us." no need for a dig about me looking for short skirts...i have had a major change ive gall srones an a health issue an have to watch what i eat...else i get gall stone attacks. .which are painfull an not nice to go through...an if me coming through it an treating myself to a short skirt ..then why not ive changed my diet, emotionally ive gone through a lot with my illness...an lots of people on here on the thread have gone through a lot of emotions an | |||
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"Really interesting thread, OP. Some posters, have really opened up about emotional times in their lives and shown another side to themselves (as I have one of these memories where I remember previous posts) and changed my opinions about them .... interesting juxtaposition .... one message about the loss of their children another about wearing short skirts ... sort of puts things in perspective in terms of what we see as important in life. Changes for me ... my partner moved in and we are moving away from swinging as we have so many things going on in our real life, which we are enjoying more. Teenagers growing and beginning to leave the nest, so we are on the cusp of a life which is more about us. I am beginning to see things differently in terms of seeing our children grow into adults and live their own lives, its amazing to see that .... five of them between us. no need for a dig about me looking for short skirts...i have had a major change ive gall srones an a health issue an have to watch what i eat...else i get gall stone attacks. .which are painfull an not nice to go through...an if me coming through it an treating myself to a short skirt ..then why not ive changed my diet, emotionally ive gone through a lot with my illness...an lots of people on here on the thread have gone through a lot of emotions an " Its not all about you, its what struck ME as the juxtapositioning of posts and topics. Not good to be so sensitive. I was moved by some of the heartfelt things people were sharing here and expressing that .... if that is okay??? | |||
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