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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

i made contact with friend on here, then when she fond out i was attached, she goot all huffy, when i told her it was on my profile, does any one else get this treatment?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well that's what comes of not reading profiles fully and a lot dont xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I cant see it anywhere on your profile. Maybe I have gone blind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had that with a couple who started chatting to me and they asked me if I was a couple and I said no and it clearly stated that on my profile they promptly blocked me. Yet they meet single guys?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I cant see it anywhere on your profile. Maybe I have gone blind. "

Mmm i never looked lol but ya right i cant see it either xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I cant see it anywhere on your profile. Maybe I have gone blind.

Mmm i never looked lol but ya right i cant see it either xx

And there I was thinking I was going blind!!!!! Glad I'm not x

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

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"i made contact with friend on here, then when she fond out i was attached, she goot all huffy, when i told her it was on my profile, does any one else get this treatment?

Where is it on your profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I cant see it anywhere on your profile. Maybe I have gone blind.

Mmm i never looked lol but ya right i cant see it either xx

That's what you get from not reading profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I cant see it anywhere on your profile. Maybe I have gone blind.

Mmm i never looked lol but ya right i cant see it either xx

And there I was thinking I was going blind!!!!! Glad I'm not x"

No you're not going blind as I can't see it either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i made contact with friend on here, then when she fond out i was attached, she goot all huffy, when i told her it was on my profile, does any one else get this treatment?

its not on your profile that I can so maybe you should correct that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I cant see it anywhere on your profile. Maybe I have gone blind.

Mmm i never looked lol but ya right i cant see it either xx

And there I was thinking I was going blind!!!!! Glad I'm not x"

It's stated clearly in the cannot accommodate bit!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I cant see it anywhere on your profile. Maybe I have gone blind.

Mmm i never looked lol but ya right i cant see it either xx

That's what you get from not reading profiles

xx"

Lol thats different and ya knows it ya bugger

I took his word fa it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I cant see it anywhere on your profile. Maybe I have gone blind.

Mmm i never looked lol but ya right i cant see it either xx

And there I was thinking I was going blind!!!!! Glad I'm not x"

Nope nothing there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I cant see it anywhere on your profile. Maybe I have gone blind.

Mmm i never looked lol but ya right i cant see it either xx

And there I was thinking I was going blind!!!!! Glad I'm not x

It's stated clearly in the cannot accommodate bit!!!"

ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I cant see it anywhere on your profile. Maybe I have gone blind.

Mmm i never looked lol but ya right i cant see it either xx

And there I was thinking I was going blind!!!!! Glad I'm not x

It's stated clearly in the cannot accommodate bit!!!"

Nope it just says he cannot accomodate. There are lots of reasons why people cant do that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

when i filled details i put attached, so you thimk it would show up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"when i filled details i put attached, so you thimk it would show up"

yeah you'd think, put it in your profile that way you'll get contacted by those who don't mind meeting attached peeps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I cant see it anywhere on your profile. Maybe I have gone blind.

Mmm i never looked lol but ya right i cant see it either xx

And there I was thinking I was going blind!!!!! Glad I'm not x

It's stated clearly in the cannot accommodate bit!!!

Nope it just says he cannot accomodate. There are lots of reasons why people cant do that.

I was using the lowest form of wit

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

edited peofile now, so lets see what happens,guys and gals

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ok, while we're discussing your profile, lose the cocks shots, keep them as private for those who wish to see them, very off putting otherwise. maybe some body shots instead if you dont want to show your face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats better lol

Good luck xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

im getting pix on soon, body shots cud be scary!!! lol, but will do, ta

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"when i filled details i put attached, so you thimk it would show up

yeah you'd think, put it in your profile that way you'll get contacted by those who don't mind meeting attached peeps

Agrees... you need to edit the wording to make it clear. We don't play with attached singles but we would have missed the fact that you are attached!!!

As said before, people can't accommodate for all sorts of reasons and that was the only clue!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ok, while we're discussing your profile, lose the cocks shots, keep them as private for those who wish to see them, very off putting otherwise. maybe some body shots instead if you dont want to show your face."

Oh I so agree with this!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"im getting pix on soon, body shots cud be scary!!! lol, but will do, ta

Good luck... use mirror angles if you are struggling x

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

The man didn't ask for advice on his profile.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"im getting pix on soon, body shots cud be scary!!! lol, but will do, ta

Some people like cock pics ( like me) try and appeal to everyone and not just one person xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

its ok, thx every one xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The man didn't ask for advice on his profile."

I know that, but he first claimed that it was on his profile that he was attached so I thought I would offer him some advice on how to improve his profile a bit as the discussion soon got moved to his profile, I'm not having a pop at him, just giving him some helpful tips

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

No nit-picking please

Unless someone specifically asks for their profile to be critiqued or if it's relevant to the thread e.g. someone is wondering why they're not having success, please don't critique their profile or be mean about it. We want the forum to be open and friendly to newbies and everyone starts somewhere.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"when i filled details i put attached, so you thimk it would show up"

Yeah for some reason it doesn't, maybe a new thread in feedback to see if Admin can let it be shown, it might stop a lot of confusion for everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can see on the end of his profile it says attached can't see what the problem is. Least he's honest about his status. Good luck biker boy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i made contact with friend on here, then when she fond out i was attached, she goot all huffy, when i told her it was on my profile, does any one else get this treatment?

You don't always know someone's current situation and how they are feeling. She may have had a recent bad experience with someone who is attached. It does say your attached at the end of your profile and she may have missed it. The best thing is just to move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can see on the end of his profile it says attached can't see what the problem is. Least he's honest about his status. Good luck biker boy x"

He's just added it J...it wasn't there before and his later posts says he'll amend it to show he's attached.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahhh I see well if that's the case then how the heck would we know before he added it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ahhh I see well if that's the case then how the heck would we know before he added it. "

They didn't...hence the comments in the thread!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I cant see it anywhere on your profile. Maybe I have gone blind. "

Its on the bottem line .... i am attached, but seeking that bit extra , can you supply it?..... unless he just added that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He's added it since

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is the trouble when you have a lie in you miss everything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is the trouble when you have a lie in you miss everything"

Jeez J you gotta be up with the cock to catch everything on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know that now but day off so I thought I'd treat me self lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ahhh I see well if that's the case then how the heck would we know before he added it. "

He's added it now so cant see what the problem is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hahahah talk about peer pressure!!! Now that the OP's profile has been changed to 'everyones' satisfaction in answer to his q yes I get odd treatment over a similar situation, because I have 'can accommodate' on my profile. It's seen by some as an open invitation to come round my place from all over the UK. Then they get shirty when I say I don't encourage miles of travel, contradict me by saying they don't see the problem as they're willing to travel. Is there any other social situation where others can just invite themselves to your home and expect you to say yes? I don't think so. I wish there was an 'I accommodate to the invited' checkbox available because if you check 'cannot accommodate' some paranoid people start making up all sorts of assumptions as to why you chose that option....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hahahah talk about peer pressure!!! Now that the OP's profile has been changed to 'everyones' satisfaction in answer to his q yes I get odd treatment over a similar situation, because I have 'can accommodate' on my profile. It's seen by some as an open invitation to come round my place from all over the UK. Then they get shirty when I say I don't encourage miles of travel, contradict me by saying they don't see the problem as they're willing to travel. Is there any other social situation where others can just invite themselves to your home and expect you to say yes? I don't think so. I wish there was an 'I accommodate to the invited' checkbox available because if you check 'cannot accommodate' some paranoid people start making up all sorts of assumptions as to why you chose that option....

The OP started a thread about someone being huffy he was attached when it was on his profile. It wasn't, so we pointed it out to him - he then amended it. Hardly see it as him changing it to suit everyone as he himself thought it was on there but it wasn't!

I try and make things easy for myself as this is fun. I've on my profile "local". If I get a message from someone in Timbuktoo, it takes but a nano second for me to delete without even opening, as I knooooow Timbuktoo isn't a London borough!

The chancers who write via the forums and state they'll be in my neck of the woods next week would I like to meet for fun, also get deleted without me raising one of my perfectly waxed eyebrows.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" If I get a message from someone in Timbuktoo, it takes but a nano second for me to delete without even opening, as I knooooow Timbuktoo isn't a London borough!

Be honest..If you got a mail actually from Timbuktoo wouldn't you be even a little tempted to read it?

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