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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Don't know if I'm reading too much into this or not but to me, when someone asks "is your hubby bi?" And the answer is "no, not in the slightest" the worst response to that would be " can I try sucking him anyway?" WTF??

Would you ask a woman if you could have a go anyway after she said she wasn't interested in your gender? Or is it all OK because it's a guy? You would think a bi guy would be all about gender equality and respecting boundaries but he's obviously still got his caveman mentality firmly in place.

Deep breath, stepping off soap box, it's free now if anyone else wants to borrow it. Happy Friday sexy peeps!

Mrs rsc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why should a bi guy be more respectfull of gender equality more than anyone else?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't know if I'm reading too much into this or not but to me, when someone asks "is your hubby bi?" And the answer is "no, not in the slightest" the worst response to that would be " can I try sucking him anyway?" WTF??

Would you ask a woman if you could have a go anyway after she said she wasn't interested in your gender? Or is it all OK because it's a guy? You would think a bi guy would be all about gender equality and respecting boundaries but he's obviously still got his caveman mentality firmly in place.

Deep breath, stepping off soap box, it's free now if anyone else wants to borrow it. Happy Friday sexy peeps!

Mrs rsc"

I think most people on here would try their luck even after hearing no initially. It's the equivalent of a child begging for chocolate before dinner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bi or straight some people are just twats

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"Why should a bi guy be more respectfull of gender equality more than anyone else?"

What does that mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am sure if they read your profile they will know not to contact you,

you ever thought some guys with no hair don't like being called baldies, same as larger built people don't like being called fatties, same thing!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't know if I'm reading too much into this or not but to me, when someone asks "is your hubby bi?" And the answer is "no, not in the slightest" the worst response to that would be " can I try sucking him anyway?" WTF??

Would you ask a woman if you could have a go anyway after she said she wasn't interested in your gender? Or is it all OK because it's a guy? You would think a bi guy would be all about gender equality and respecting boundaries but he's obviously still got his caveman mentality firmly in place.

Deep breath, stepping off soap box, it's free now if anyone else wants to borrow it. Happy Friday sexy peeps!

Mrs rsc

I think most people on here would try their luck even after hearing no initially. It's the equivalent of a child begging for chocolate before dinner. "

Maybe it's just the Domme in me that has had it ingrained that if anyone (without a safe word in place) says no, you step off immediately, no "but I want to" or "pleeeease" about it. If they don't take no for an answer over an email I worry for anyone who meets them face to face :-/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't know if I'm reading too much into this or not but to me, when someone asks "is your hubby bi?" And the answer is "no, not in the slightest" the worst response to that would be " can I try sucking him anyway?" WTF??

Would you ask a woman if you could have a go anyway after she said she wasn't interested in your gender? Or is it all OK because it's a guy? You would think a bi guy would be all about gender equality and respecting boundaries but he's obviously still got his caveman mentality firmly in place.

Deep breath, stepping off soap box, it's free now if anyone else wants to borrow it. Happy Friday sexy peeps!

Mrs rsc

I think most people on here would try their luck even after hearing no initially. It's the equivalent of a child begging for chocolate before dinner.

Maybe it's just the Domme in me that has had it ingrained that if anyone (without a safe word in place) says no, you step off immediately, no "but I want to" or "pleeeease" about it. If they don't take no for an answer over an email I worry for anyone who meets them face to face :-/"

I think if you expect strangers who message you to have similar standards as yourself, you'll just get stressed out. Best to acknowledge people are going to be disrespectful and just move on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am sure if they read your profile they will know not to contact you,

you ever thought some guys with no hair don't like being called baldies, same as larger built people don't like being called fatties, same thing!"

No I hadn't actually, none of my shaven headed or folically challenged friends have ever been anything other than proud of what they've got (or not) but thankyou for pointing it out, I shall remedy our profile

Mrs rsc

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't know if I'm reading too much into this or not but to me, when someone asks "is your hubby bi?" And the answer is "no, not in the slightest" the worst response to that would be " can I try sucking him anyway?" WTF??

Would you ask a woman if you could have a go anyway after she said she wasn't interested in your gender? Or is it all OK because it's a guy? You would think a bi guy would be all about gender equality and respecting boundaries but he's obviously still got his caveman mentality firmly in place.

Deep breath, stepping off soap box, it's free now if anyone else wants to borrow it. Happy Friday sexy peeps!

Mrs rsc

I think most people on here would try their luck even after hearing no initially. It's the equivalent of a child begging for chocolate before dinner.

Maybe it's just the Domme in me that has had it ingrained that if anyone (without a safe word in place) says no, you step off immediately, no "but I want to" or "pleeeease" about it. If they don't take no for an answer over an email I worry for anyone who meets them face to face :-/

I think if you expect strangers who message you to have similar standards as yourself, you'll just get stressed out. Best to acknowledge people are going to be disrespectful and just move on. "

Yes I've found my happy place again now. * smile and block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's probably just the same as a woman saying "Sorry, you're not my type."

And a guy saying "But give me a chance? Why don't I get a chance?"

Which happens an awful lot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never understand why people don't just take no for an answer and move on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's probably just the same as a woman saying "Sorry, you're not my type."

And a guy saying "But give me a chance? Why don't I get a chance?"

Which happens an awful lot."

It's more like the guy saying " doesn't matter if I'm not your type, I just want to get off, close your eyes and pretend I'm someone else"

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never understand why people don't just take no for an answer and move on."

Never changed your mind before? Never thought "fuck it, yes".

What about compromise? Saying "not like that, but I'd do this instead"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's probably just the same as a woman saying "Sorry, you're not my type."

And a guy saying "But give me a chance? Why don't I get a chance?"

Which happens an awful lot.

It's more like the guy saying " doesn't matter if I'm not your type, I just want to get off, close your eyes and pretend I'm someone else"

Mrs x"

Also some people are so in love with themselves they really can't see why you would turn down such a good thing, I find that to be the biggest turn off of them all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't know if I'm reading too much into this or not but to me, when someone asks "is your hubby bi?" And the answer is "no, not in the slightest" the worst response to that would be " can I try sucking him anyway?" WTF??

Would you ask a woman if you could have a go anyway after she said she wasn't interested in your gender? Or is it all OK because it's a guy? You would think a bi guy would be all about gender equality and respecting boundaries but he's obviously still got his caveman mentality firmly in place.

Deep breath, stepping off soap box, it's free now if anyone else wants to borrow it. Happy Friday sexy peeps!

Mrs rsc

I think most people on here would try their luck even after hearing no initially. It's the equivalent of a child begging for chocolate before dinner.

Maybe it's just the Domme in me that has had it ingrained that if anyone (without a safe word in place) says no, you step off immediately, no "but I want to" or "pleeeease" about it. If they don't take no for an answer over an email I worry for anyone who meets them face to face :-/

I think if you expect strangers who message you to have similar standards as yourself, you'll just get stressed out. Best to acknowledge people are going to be disrespectful and just move on.

Yes I've found my happy place again now. * smile and block "

That's the best way, I've found.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Respect should go without saying and consent must always be given. But sometimes people do try stuff with others, even if a partner might assume that they would not like it.

Otherwise this may have absolutely nothing to do with orientation and gender ans solely be reflective of people here and elsewhere who don't interpret a response that they dislike as being the final answer.

When users gere haven't immediately blocked someone they have received attention from there has been a long history of this kind of behaviour.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

My tired eyes aren't picking up on autocorrect anomalies today, my dears

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