Join us FREE, we're FREE to use
Web's largest swingers site since 2006.
Already registered?
Login here
Back to forum list |
Back to The Lounge |
Jump to newest |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I had mine done 9 years ago when I was 24 and they looked bigger back then cos they were on my size 6 body. I was with my ex then as well so didn't really notice extra looks from guys and I've always dressed quite tomboy ish in hoodies and joggers or leggings, only time I got them out was if I was on a night out but again I was with my ex and only had eyes for him so didn't notice other guys. " That's a good point. Thanks. Yeah I don't normally wear low cut stuff. In fact I do but that's just to try and give some sort of shape to my body that's basically straight up and down otherwise. How much bigger did you go and did it take a while to get used to it? | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"You'll be fine! Big tits small tits ? Fat thin ? Most blokes in here don't care what you look like really. As long as blokes in here think they have a chance to dump their spunk in you or over you etc they are happy. " | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"You'll be fine! Big tits small tits ? Fat thin ? Most blokes in here don't care what you look like really. As long as blokes in here think they have a chance to dump their spunk in you or over you etc they are happy. " When fellas say "moat blokes" do they exclude themselves?.... | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"You'll be fine! Big tits small tits ? Fat thin ? Most blokes in here don't care what you look like really. As long as blokes in here think they have a chance to dump their spunk in you or over you etc they are happy. When fellas say "moat blokes" do they exclude themselves?.... " Yes as I don't live in a Moat | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"You'll be fine! Big tits small tits ? Fat thin ? Most blokes in here don't care what you look like really. As long as blokes in here think they have a chance to dump their spunk in you or over you etc they are happy. When fellas say "moat blokes" do they exclude themselves?.... " When fellas say most blokes what they mean is "that's what i really think but daren't say" | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I had mine done 9 years ago when I was 24 and they looked bigger back then cos they were on my size 6 body. I was with my ex then as well so didn't really notice extra looks from guys and I've always dressed quite tomboy ish in hoodies and joggers or leggings, only time I got them out was if I was on a night out but again I was with my ex and only had eyes for him so didn't notice other guys. That's a good point. Thanks. Yeah I don't normally wear low cut stuff. In fact I do but that's just to try and give some sort of shape to my body that's basically straight up and down otherwise. How much bigger did you go and did it take a while to get used to it?" I went from a 32AA to a 32D, had sub muscular implants (behind the chest muscle) Was weird waking up after and seeing these big lumps bandaged up but it didn't take long to get used to them. They went down quite a but after a few weeks so I wanted to go bigger again but the implants needed to be in at least a year to stretch you before they can put a bigger implant in, I got pregnant and had a child then and now my finances would never allow a 2nd op. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"You'll be fine! Big tits small tits ? Fat thin ? Most blokes in here don't care what you look like really. As long as blokes in here think they have a chance to dump their spunk in you or over you etc they are happy. " Could you be any more crass? | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"You'll be fine! Big tits small tits ? Fat thin ? Most blokes in here don't care what you look like really. As long as blokes in here think they have a chance to dump their spunk in you or over you etc they are happy. Could you be any more crass? " Oh don't say that, he might take it as a challenge | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"You'll be fine! Big tits small tits ? Fat thin ? Most blokes in here don't care what you look like really. As long as blokes in here think they have a chance to dump their spunk in you or over you etc they are happy. " Charming! I hope that isn't actually the case... | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"You'll be fine! Big tits small tits ? Fat thin ? Most blokes in here don't care what you look like really. As long as blokes in here think they have a chance to dump their spunk in you or over you etc they are happy. Could you be any more crass? " Of course | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"What I have noticed on fab is that a lot of guys prefer real boobs and are turned off by fake boobs. This is something I have never experienced in the real world. " This. But I have a friend who has fake ones. I never knew they were fake until she told me! She gets a LOT of attention. It's only seeing hers and realising how natural they can be that's got me tempted. I've got the name of her surgeon. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"OP can I ask what you're getting done? If its done correctly the augmentation should 'fit' your body shape, the net result will be for you to feel happier and sexier " No idea. It'll be a year or two off most likely. And then I'll have to update all my pics! | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"You'll be fine! Big tits small tits ? Fat thin ? Most blokes in here don't care what you look like really. As long as blokes in here think they have a chance to dump their spunk in you or over you etc they are happy. When fellas say "moat blokes" do they exclude themselves?.... Yes as I don't live in a Moat " I thought everyone had a moat? Must just be me then. Happy Friday. I have somewhere I need to be | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Ok. I'm randomly pondering. If/when I eventually get a boob job, do you think it's going to feel insulting or annoying when a completely different set of guys are suddenly interested in me? " You get used to it | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"What I have noticed on fab is that a lot of guys prefer real boobs and are turned off by fake boobs. This is something I have never experienced in the real world. " Me personally don't care if a woman's boobies are fake or real. As long as she's happy with herself then that's what matters most in my opinion | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Ok. I'm randomly pondering. If/when I eventually get a boob job, do you think it's going to feel insulting or annoying when a completely different set of guys are suddenly interested in me? You get used to it " WHY didn't I think of coming to talk to you in the first place. I'm having a "Doh!" kinda day. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Ok. I'm randomly pondering. If/when I eventually get a boob job, do you think it's going to feel insulting or annoying when a completely different set of guys are suddenly interested in me? Will I cry if I get even less messages than usual?" What? | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Ok. I'm randomly pondering. If/when I eventually get a boob job, do you think it's going to feel insulting or annoying when a completely different set of guys are suddenly interested in me? Will I cry if I get even less messages than usual? What?" Which word doesn't make sense? | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I'm quite fond of small petite boobies I also like all the other shapes and sizes too as long as they are not like spaniels ears or deflated balloons " You're such a charmer | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Ok. I'm randomly pondering. If/when I eventually get a boob job, do you think it's going to feel insulting or annoying when a completely different set of guys are suddenly interested in me? Will I cry if I get even less messages than usual? Ar the end of the day, I think we all accept Fab is strongly looks based (or no one would ask for photos) although personality often seals the deal for me, and I'm guessing for others. And everyone is attracted to different people. But the girls with nice boobs understandably get a lot more attention. I am guessing I need to state that I'd be getting it done for no one other than me (it'd be nice to be able to buy underwear that fits for once!). But I'm wondering what it would be like? Would I get wolf whistled in the street for the first time ever? Would guys talk to my cleavage and not to me? (No guy has ever stared at my tits instead of me before so that would be weird.) Guys, would you get a cock extension if you could?" No i would not get a cock extension even though it's less than five inches. If people don't like me for who i am then it's their problem not mine. I had self confidence issues must of my life but there is a lot more to people then a pretty picture. Lots of men like me adore natural breasts especially small ones but above all natural ones You are beautiful. Do not become another pair of oversized bag of silicone the same as the bimbos in porn films. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"If you don't think you'll like the kind of guys that give you attention when you've had the procedure done, then maybe it's worth reconsidering? Personally, I've said before that breast implants are a bit of a kryptonite for me, but there is a definite trend in the kind of guy that goes for them.If this doesn't bother you and if you'd feel genuinely happier (not just prettier) with a larger cup, then go for it!" . Just say it lol.... You mean manchavs | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"You'll be fine! Big tits small tits ? Fat thin ? Most blokes in here don't care what you look like really. As long as blokes in here think they have a chance to dump their spunk in you or over you etc they are happy. " Oh how charmingly put! Maybe you are not speaking for ALL blokes? | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"You'll be fine! Big tits small tits ? Fat thin ? Most blokes in here don't care what you look like really. As long as blokes in here think they have a chance to dump their spunk in you or over you etc they are happy. " Some of us actually want women with a personality nit just a pussy | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"If you don't think you'll like the kind of guys that give you attention when you've had the procedure done, then maybe it's worth reconsidering? Personally, I've said before that breast implants are a bit of a kryptonite for me, but there is a definite trend in the kind of guy that goes for them.If this doesn't bother you and if you'd feel genuinely happier (not just prettier) with a larger cup, then go for it!. Just say it lol.... You mean manchavs " haha, and guys who can't touch their sides with their elbows. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"From a 'big boobs' perspective, I can't comment on how having small boobs may make you feel but, I can say that big boobs aren't always great. Even on vanilla dating sites, very often I'll get messages from guys just saying "nice tits", which, you know, isn't actually that great as compliments go - I am more than just a vehicle for transporting tits for your delectation... It can feel (and this is quite likely some of my own insecurity) that a guy might only be interested in my boobs and not in me as a human being. Also, I've definitely had strangers just grab me, male and female, and even had a total stranger grab my shoulders and motorboat me in a night club. I deliberately don't wear low cut or revealing tops, mainly as a result of the above, but I know other women who don't have the same feelings about their boobs. However, if you've thought about it, you can afford it, and you want it, go for it!!! (Your current boobs look lovely, as does the rest of your figure, to me, but hey, the grass is always greener! )" And to add to my woes, my stupid overly heavy boobs have just broken my favourite bra!!! The bloody underwire has just poked through the gore!!! | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Ok. I'm randomly pondering. If/when I eventually get a boob job, do you think it's going to feel insulting or annoying when a completely different set of guys are suddenly interested in me? Will I cry if I get even less messages than usual? Ar the end of the day, I think we all accept Fab is strongly looks based (or no one would ask for photos) although personality often seals the deal for me, and I'm guessing for others. And everyone is attracted to different people. But the girls with nice boobs understandably get a lot more attention. I am guessing I need to state that I'd be getting it done for no one other than me (it'd be nice to be able to buy underwear that fits for once!). But I'm wondering what it would be like? Would I get wolf whistled in the street for the first time ever? Would guys talk to my cleavage and not to me? (No guy has ever stared at my tits instead of me before so that would be weird.) Guys, would you get a cock extension if you could? No i would not get a cock extension even though it's less than five inches. If people don't like me for who i am then it's their problem not mine. I had self confidence issues must of my life but there is a lot more to people then a pretty picture. Lots of men like me adore natural breasts especially small ones but above all natural ones You are beautiful. Do not become another pair of oversized bag of silicone the same as the bimbos in porn films." It's not so much a confidence thing. I am a (tiny bit of) an attention seeker. I get a buzz off walking into a room with a short slutty dress and having people stare at me. For all I know they are thinking "look at the state of that" and "haha look she just tripped over in her heels!" but I just like it. I'd be an exhibitionist if I wasn't terrified of getting caught. In reality beauty is (and should be) personality based and the things we do for people. But I find it fun to dress up and be glamorous. To get into shape. And the fitter I get, the more these A cups will turn into no cups at all. And I liked what another poster said, chuck a loose tshirt on (like I often do) and jeans and really no one is going to notice much difference. I don't want to go huge. Just proportional would be nice. And thanks for everyone's comments. It's nice to have lots of different opinions. (I used to be seriously anti-boob jobs, and couldn't understand why anyone would risk surgery for their looks! Since having mates who've had it done, it's changed my perspective 180 degrees to know people who've been through it.) You only have one body and one life. Sometimes it's nice to do something just for you. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Ok. I'm randomly pondering. If/when I eventually get a boob job, do you think it's going to feel insulting or annoying when a completely different set of guys are suddenly interested in me? Will I cry if I get even less messages than usual? Ar the end of the day, I think we all accept Fab is strongly looks based (or no one would ask for photos) although personality often seals the deal for me, and I'm guessing for others. And everyone is attracted to different people. But the girls with nice boobs understandably get a lot more attention. I am guessing I need to state that I'd be getting it done for no one other than me (it'd be nice to be able to buy underwear that fits for once!). But I'm wondering what it would be like? Would I get wolf whistled in the street for the first time ever? Would guys talk to my cleavage and not to me? (No guy has ever stared at my tits instead of me before so that would be weird.) Guys, would you get a cock extension if you could?" * fewer messages, darling, not less | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"From a 'big boobs' perspective, I can't comment on how having small boobs may make you feel but, I can say that big boobs aren't always great. Even on vanilla dating sites, very often I'll get messages from guys just saying "nice tits", which, you know, isn't actually that great as compliments go - I am more than just a vehicle for transporting tits for your delectation... It can feel (and this is quite likely some of my own insecurity) that a guy might only be interested in my boobs and not in me as a human being. Also, I've definitely had strangers just grab me, male and female, and even had a total stranger grab my shoulders and motorboat me in a night club. I deliberately don't wear low cut or revealing tops, mainly as a result of the above, but I know other women who don't have the same feelings about their boobs. However, if you've thought about it, you can afford it, and you want it, go for it!!! (Your current boobs look lovely, as does the rest of your figure, to me, but hey, the grass is always greener! )" I get "nice tits" as well a fair bit in here. So it's not just you! Yes that's exactly what I wondered, would I feel like a guy was more interested in my boobs than me? (You worded it so much better than I did.) Would I feel like a guy was meeting me for my boobs and not me? And does it really matter when it's a NSA shag anyway? I had a photo of me here on my last time on Fab that was a side view. As I always point out, my stomach is always bigger than my boobs, from side on. I could be a size 10 or a size 20 (I've been both) and my stomach is ALWAYS sticking out more than my boobs. That does bug me. I'm trying to see if I can get a really flat stomach from exercise but I know my boobs will go altogether. So I will be just straight up and down. I've had bigger proportional boobs when I was breastfeeding my kids, and it was nice to feel, well a bit more female? I didn't realise it would look as good or feel as comfortable as it did. It's not a decision I'm making lightly. And I have some saving to do. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
" I get "nice tits" as well a fair bit in here. So it's not just you! Yes that's exactly what I wondered, would I feel like a guy was more interested in my boobs than me? (You worded it so much better than I did.) Would I feel like a guy was meeting me for my boobs and not me? And does it really matter when it's a NSA shag anyway? I had a photo of me here on my last time on Fab that was a side view. As I always point out, my stomach is always bigger than my boobs, from side on. I could be a size 10 or a size 20 (I've been both) and my stomach is ALWAYS sticking out more than my boobs. That does bug me. I'm trying to see if I can get a really flat stomach from exercise but I know my boobs will go altogether. So I will be just straight up and down. I've had bigger proportional boobs when I was breastfeeding my kids, and it was nice to feel, well a bit more female? I didn't realise it would look as good or feel as comfortable as it did. It's not a decision I'm making lightly. And I have some saving to do. " Having big boobs and looking feminine aren't one and the same thing. You can be flat up and down and still look incredibly sexy and feminine. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"From a 'big boobs' perspective, I can't comment on how having small boobs may make you feel [...] (Your current boobs look lovely, as does the rest of your figure, to me, but hey, the grass is always greener! ) I get "nice tits" as well a fair bit in here. So it's not just you! Yes that's exactly what I wondered, would I feel like a guy was more interested in my boobs than me? (You worded it so much better than I did.) Would I feel like a guy was meeting me for my boobs and not me? And does it really matter when it's a NSA shag anyway? I had a photo of me here on my last time on Fab that was a side view. As I always point out, my stomach is always bigger than my boobs, from side on. I could be a size 10 or a size 20 (I've been both) and my stomach is ALWAYS sticking out more than my boobs. That does bug me. I'm trying to see if I can get a really flat stomach from exercise but I know my boobs will go altogether. So I will be just straight up and down. I've had bigger proportional boobs when I was breastfeeding my kids, and it was nice to feel, well a bit more female? I didn't realise it would look as good or feel as comfortable as it did. It's not a decision I'm making lightly. And I have some saving to do. " Boobs can be great... I've definitely used mine as a shelf for stuff! I guess part of the difference will be that you already have your partner so, well, if you're after a quick shag and he's only after your boobs.... Does it matter so much. For different reasons, I sometimes have days where I think "I wish I were more feminine" and you're right, it can be miserable so, if it would help change that feeling then absolutely go for it! The sexiest thing is feeling comfortable in your own skin so, do what it takes to get that feeling | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Ok. I'm randomly pondering. If/when I eventually get a boob job, do you think it's going to feel insulting or annoying when a completely different set of guys are suddenly interested in me? Will I cry if I get even less messages than usual? Ar the end of the day, I think we all accept Fab is strongly looks based (or no one would ask for photos) although personality often seals the deal for me, and I'm guessing for others. And everyone is attracted to different people. But the girls with nice boobs understandably get a lot more attention. I am guessing I need to state that I'd be getting it done for no one other than me (it'd be nice to be able to buy underwear that fits for once!). But I'm wondering what it would be like? Would I get wolf whistled in the street for the first time ever? Would guys talk to my cleavage and not to me? (No guy has ever stared at my tits instead of me before so that would be weird.) Guys, would you get a cock extension if you could?" Unless that's mr crazy posting I think your boobs are fine as they are, obviously it's down to you. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Ok. I'm randomly pondering. If/when I eventually get a boob job, do you think it's going to feel insulting or annoying when a completely different set of guys are suddenly interested in me? Will I cry if I get even less messages than usual? Ar the end of the day, I think we all accept Fab is strongly looks based (or no one would ask for photos) although personality often seals the deal for me, and I'm guessing for others. And everyone is attracted to different people. But the girls with nice boobs understandably get a lot more attention. I am guessing I need to state that I'd be getting it done for no one other than me (it'd be nice to be able to buy underwear that fits for once!). But I'm wondering what it would be like? Would I get wolf whistled in the street for the first time ever? Would guys talk to my cleavage and not to me? (No guy has ever stared at my tits instead of me before so that would be weird.) Guys, would you get a cock extension if you could?" Gonna be a journey of self discovery. Probably a pleasurable one, I'd imagine.. I can't imagine blokes who weren't into your breasts(for whatever reason)not being interested in you if you got an enhancement in that particular place. Not sure about the cock enhancement thingy. With my luck I'd end up falling for someone for whom it'd be too bloody big. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Ok. I'm randomly pondering. If/when I eventually get a boob job, do you think it's going to feel insulting or annoying when a completely different set of guys are suddenly interested in me? Will I cry if I get even less messages than usual? " I think it depends on why you're wanting the boob job, to please others? Then yes you may well be displeased with their reactions, either way. To please yourself? then I'd imagine you'd be happy regardless of what others thought. And re messages, I doubt you'd get less as I d expect you'd make your profile more appealing by removing the 'not meeting' tag. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Post new Message to Thread |
back to top |