FabSwingers.com forum: Ex's fella

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I does come as a surprise and shock when you see a pic of your ex's ...separated wife that is....pic and new partner pop up on your phone on WhatsApp and see how ugly he is. Make no mistake ..I'm an ordinary guy...tho I have my qualities... But hell...!!!...what should I make it ...if anything....!!! Not upset....just surprised....must be love....lol...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it makes u feel good enjoy op xxxxxxx

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

Maybe your ex just isn’t shallow?

Maybe what she finds attractive is different to what you find attractive?

Maybe she likes him because he's the complete OPPOSITE of you?

The possibilities are endless.

My first ex had the same opinion of my last ex (as he so publicly proclaimed on Facefuck) yet, personally, I thought my last ex was much more attractive than my first one... _

- Amy. x

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

Personally, I think it's something people do/say just to make themselves feel better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder!

I would much rather be with a funny charming guy than someone that thinks they are gods gift and should be the next milk tray man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex of two years has been single since we split.

I tell him that's because he knows he will never meet anyone as wonderful as me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Maybe your ex just isn’t shallow?

Maybe what she finds attractive is different to what you find attractive?

Maybe she likes him because he's the complete OPPOSITE of you?

The possibilities are endless.

My first ex had the same opinion of my last ex (as he so publicly proclaimed on Facefuck) yet, personally, I thought my last ex was much more attractive than my first one... _

- Amy. x"
he is certainly different to me....asyou say endless possibilities. I am not remotely shallow...perhaps he is....lol. He could be a nice guy...not met him...can't judge... But I am nice to use a poor word....she chose not to love me...her prerogative of course...

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

When you find the person that makes you feel whole it doesn't matter what they look like.

I remember when I felt that pang meeting an ex's new partner and finding that I deemed her less attractive than me. I came to realise that she didn't have to be attractive to me - he found her attractive and that's all that mattered.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My ex of two years has been single since we split.

I tell him that's because he knows he will never meet anyone as wonderful as me

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you may well be right....I think my ex made a bad call....as we all do at times....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without wishing to sound rude, what concern is it of yours ?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Lol you ain't bitter are you OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ugly than you was he the elephant man ?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I does come as a surprise and shock when you see a pic of your ex's ...separated wife that is....pic and new partner pop up on your phone on WhatsApp and see how ugly he is. Make no mistake ..I'm an ordinary guy...tho I have my qualities... But hell...!!!...what should I make it ...if anything....!!! Not upset....just surprised....must be love....lol... "

Make of it what you will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My ex of two years has been single since we split.

I tell him that's because he knows he will never meet anyone as wonderful as me

you may well be right....I think my ex made a bad call....as we all do at times...."

Luckily my ex knows I'm only joking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Know the feeling all too well. Find it very Strange when you see someone you loved with someone else and they look; well let's just say not how you'd expect. To the point that you say WTF is she thinking!!!

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

"Maybe your ex just isn’t shallow?

Maybe what she finds attractive is different to what you find attractive?

Maybe she likes him because he's the complete OPPOSITE of you?

The possibilities are endless.

My first ex had the same opinion of my last ex (as he so publicly proclaimed on Facefuck) yet, personally, I thought my last ex was much more attractive than my first one... _

- Amy. x

he is certainly different to me....as you say endless possibilities. I am not remotely shallow...perhaps he is....lol. He could be a nice guy...not met him...can't judge... But I am nice to use a poor word....she chose not to love me...her prerogative of course..."

I didn't say YOU were shallow. I'm just saying maybe she doesn't care what he looks like or, again, maybe what floats her boat doesn't float your's.

She can't FORCE herself to love you and she doesn't deserve punishment or spite for it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Without wishing to sound rude, what concern is it of yours ? "
none...at all...

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Hopefully OP you can now move on (with a wry smile)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This seasons wine will be made of sour grapes....

...it has a punchy bouquet, with mild undertones of unhappiness and melancholy. The connoisseur will notice a hint of loneliness and regret.....

shit..... I am in the wrong thread again....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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exactly.... I'm not bitter at all..marvellous woman that I care about and love.....all be it differently.... Just got a surprise...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She's in your past. Why care if she's with an millionaire Adonis with a massive cock or Quasimodo?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"This seasons wine will be made of sour grapes....

...it has a punchy bouquet, with mild undertones of unhappiness and melancholy. The connoisseur will notice a hint of loneliness and regret.....

shit..... I am in the wrong thread again...."

Is it a red or white?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maibe he is jelous he got her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We'll show you what we can do, with a load of balls and a snooker cue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This post says so much about you. And sadly non of it's good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Without wishing to sound rude, what concern is it of yours ? none...at all..."

Why bring it here if it doesn't bother you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think maybe op is still holding a candle for his ex.

My ex has a new girlfriend and I'm happy for them both. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This seasons wine will be made of sour grapes....

...it has a punchy bouquet, with mild undertones of unhappiness and melancholy. The connoisseur will notice a hint of loneliness and regret.....

shit..... I am in the wrong thread again....

Is it a red or white?

its just whine....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Move on OP.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe your ex just isn’t shallow?

Maybe what she finds attractive is different to what you find attractive?

Maybe she likes him because he's the complete OPPOSITE of you?

The possibilities are endless.

My first ex had the same opinion of my last ex (as he so publicly proclaimed on Facefuck) yet, personally, I thought my last ex was much more attractive than my first one... _

- Amy. x he is certainly different to me....asyou say endless possibilities. I am not remotely shallow...perhaps he is....lol. He could be a nice guy...not met him...can't judge... But I am nice to use a poor word....she chose not to love me...her prerogative of course..."

I;m nice claims the man who started a thread belittling his ex and calling her new fella ugly...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP is currently flicking through cook books for recipes on how to cook Rabbit as we speak

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just seeing what people thought...if they had similar experiences. I wish her well....tho I haven't found the right person...perhaps I will....no axe to grind...we talk and meet as we have kids....and she knows she has a special place despite us not being together.

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By *enuinedannyMan
over a year ago

walsall

"Ugly than you was he the elephant man ?"
not it was me lol not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe your ex just isn’t shallow?

Maybe what she finds attractive is different to what you find attractive?

Maybe she likes him because he's the complete OPPOSITE of you?

The possibilities are endless.

My first ex had the same opinion of my last ex (as he so publicly proclaimed on Facefuck) yet, personally, I thought my last ex was much more attractive than my first one... _

I;m nice claims the man who started a thread belittling his ex and calling her new fella ugly..."

But ain't got the balls to say to the new mans face...

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Beauty comes from within. So does ugliness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would just like to say, I have other qualities, apparently I am sensitive and me and the OP's ex are very happy, I would like it if you all stop discussing me now....

Thank you and what is it you say on here, oh yes..... Happy Swinging

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Beauty comes from within. So does ugliness. "
. I think you are right...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was surprised at how ugly my ex was when i split up with him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my ex was and still is a good looking fella - but he is horrible inside -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally, I think it's something people do/say just to make themselves feel better."

Good job you are here to piss on his bonfire then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP you're brave starting this thread with the forum police around

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I was surprised at how ugly my ex was when i split up with him.

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like that....!!! Good one....my ex isn't..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OP you're brave starting this thread with the forum police around

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. I know....got hauled over the coals a bit....wasn't meant to be a shitty thing to say....even tho it sounded it and most think I'm a shit for saying what I did....my ex is a lovely woman so I hope she has chosen someone who is good and kind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was surprised at how ugly my ex was when i split up with him.

like that....!!! Good one....my ex isn't.."

mine was the most gorgeous guy in the world when i was with him not so much when i saw what he really is.

i have more than one ex also, not all of them went ugly when we split up.

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

"Personally, I think it's something people do/say just to make themselves feel better.

Good job you are here to piss on his bonfire then!

I prefer the term "stop pissing on my fucking rainbow!".

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I was surprised at how ugly my ex was when i split up with him.

like that....!!! Good one....my ex isn't..

mine was the most gorgeous guy in the world when i was with him not so much when i saw what he really is.

i have more than one ex also, not all of them went ugly when we split up.

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I have more than one ex too tho the other one I have no contact with. When I see my ex I don't see her in the way I did....in the vain way of attraction.... But she remains a lovely woman...very kind hearted....even tho she doesn't particularly show that to me. That said..if I needed help... She would do much to help me....and I her...there is a trust and respect that still exists even tho we are not close.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was surprised at how ugly my ex was when i split up with him.

like that....!!! Good one....my ex isn't..

mine was the most gorgeous guy in the world when i was with him not so much when i saw what he really is.

i have more than one ex also, not all of them went ugly when we split up.

I have more than one ex too tho the other one I have no contact with. When I see my ex I don't see her in the way I did....in the vain way of attraction.... But she remains a lovely woman...very kind hearted....even tho she doesn't particularly show that to me. That said..if I needed help... She would do much to help me....and I her...there is a trust and respect that still exists even tho we are not close."

i'm like that with my kids dad that i'm still speaking to. It's better to get on.

some things you just can't forgive and stay friends with people in case they try and take advantage or abuse you again though, sad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But you ask for opinions on Here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"But you ask for opinions on Here."
. Indeed...not moaning...

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Mr N and I have been together for so long that I can barely remember my ex partners but it can come as a surprise when you see who they choose for their next partner. I always thought that they were much more suitable for them than I was

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago

I've never had the urge to head for forums to discuss about ex's and their new partners/bf's pro's, con's, contrasts & comparisons.

I suppose some ex's leave ex's to it as their to busy with themselves and their own lives.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He may be the one who can for fill all of her sexual desires.

There again,he may be shit hot at making homemade chips.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first wife's husband is younger than me, when they first got together there was no doubt that she had traded up, but he has aged horribly, but I think it's the constant worry if his wife's constant health problems, but fair play he has been to hell and back and remained strong throughout, he's a good man, and he deserves a break, if it wasn't so weird I'd take him for a beer myself, there's more to life and love than looks

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