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Need a verirication to be taken seriously

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've been trying awhile now to get my first verification but it is so hard because anybody genuine requires you to have verifications before they will even look at you. I'm genuine here and looking for that first verification is torturous. Surely I'm not the only person with this problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't need a veri to get a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You don't need a veri to get a meet."

Quite right. Otherwise no one would ever be verified.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As others have said you don't need a verification to get a meet... and to be honest if you are only meeting someone to get a veri, that's a bit

Unless it's a social verification meet type thing....

I don't have any verifications. I am smiling

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I've been trying awhile now to get my first verification but it is so hard because anybody genuine requires you to have verifications before they will even look at you. I'm genuine here and looking for that first verification is torturous. Surely I'm not the only person with this problem"

I have always met people without any veris from time to time - put more into your profile, more pics, more about yourself, get chatting - if you are genuine people will see it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You don't need a veri to get a meet.

Quite right. Otherwise no one would ever be verified."
That is right as many joins.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

While I agree with others above that you don't always need a veri to get a meet it certainly improves your chances as a high percentage of people insist on meeting verified people so I know where you're coming from OP - it took me a while to get off the mark.

The best advice is to get to a club or a local social of you're at all able to - get yourself known that way and hopefully the first veris will come.

If you want to get that first veri from a play meet then I think it's patience that's required - be civil to people and eventually I'm sure someone will meet.

Good luck and I hope you get that first veri soon!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Must just be a way of rejection me so lol cheers will put more into my profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks Dan I know where the others are coming from too, I'm not looking for a meet just to get a verification, I'm looking for a meet to get a verification to increase the chances in the future

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I hear getting fake verifications is very easy in Ireland

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I hear getting fake verifications is very easy in Ireland "

If it is I haven't heard of it haha

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Oh yes - if I keep going on about it Admin will come along and shut this thread

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I don't have any verifications. I am smiling "

Want one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't fret op...it'll come..its only been a fortnite..patience.. meets will come, veris will come..good luck guy. Stay pos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't have any verifications. I am smiling

Want one? "

Lol I might break my rule for you... wyRd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks Dan I know where the others are coming from too, I'm not looking for a meet just to get a verification, I'm looking for a meet to get a verification to increase the chances in the future "

Concentrate on meeting rather than a verification.

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By *r Stagger LeeMan
over a year ago

torquay

I will happen eventually even if you just meet someone socially first.

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

you've only been on 2 weeks, patience is the key!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"you've only been on 2 weeks, patience is the key!"

Yeah I'm just afraid that if I leave it too long people will think oh he's been here awhile and doesn't have a verification what's wrong with him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you've only been on 2 weeks, patience is the key!

Yeah I'm just afraid that if I leave it too long people will think oh he's been here awhile and doesn't have a verification what's wrong with him"

If that worries you op..best thing would be delete profile and then make a new one..after whatever period of time you deem..or just carry on regardless.

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands


"you've only been on 2 weeks, patience is the key!

Yeah I'm just afraid that if I leave it too long people will think oh he's been here awhile and doesn't have a verification what's wrong with him"
they won't at this point, honest. good luck

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By *r Stagger LeeMan
over a year ago

torquay

wouldn't worry too much, you can clearly string a sentence together plus your chatting in the forums and chat rooms will always help.

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

probably helps having a veri ,but i've had meet whilst not verified

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers guys thanks for the advise I will keep trying anyways

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