FabSwingers.com forum: Apparently...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've been told I'm a slapper as only sad, fat, ugly, slappers come on sites like this...

This was said by a newbie who sent me a message out of the blue saying that I'm a slapper.... The other stuff is in his profile write up....

Why do men join then feel the need to send horrible messages? I don't get it!!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Cos he's a loser?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been told I'm a slapper as only sad, fat, ugly, slappers come on sites like this...

This was said by a newbie who sent me a message out of the blue saying that I'm a slapper.... The other stuff is in his profile write up....

Why do men join then feel the need to send horrible messages? I don't get it!!

Some blokes are just insane and give the rest of us a bad name. Take no notice

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Report and block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are idiots.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or can't handle no nicely the abuse I've had when I've said no thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they are sad insecure individuals who feel the need to belittle others to make themselves feel better. No one who is happy with their life feels the need to abuse others, its pathetic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because he gets a reaction ? Don't give him the benefit of one. Silence can be much more powerful sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sounds like a real charmer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because he gets a reaction ? Don't give him the benefit of one. Silence can be much more powerful sometimes. "

Bang on

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Cos they just have a plain old ugly inside bless em!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delete and block from us. This is why we don't get emails from newbies or unverifieds, saves the hassle of this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people get a kick out of being pathetic with their own insecurities by trying to upset others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because he gets a reaction ? Don't give him the benefit of one. Silence can be much more powerful sometimes. "

Send a reply along the lines of; get your coat you smooth talking bastard, you've pulled

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Because he obviously isn't getting sex in the real world and as he wouldn't say that to a woman in a bar he's come on here to hide behind his keyboard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because he gets a reaction ? Don't give him the benefit of one. Silence can be much more powerful sometimes.

Send a reply along the lines of; get your coat you smooth talking bastard, you've pulled

Lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive had this many a times from ladies and more recently regular forum users

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've reported him... Just hope admin sort him cos I'm sure he's not here for the right reasons...

I know most men on here are not like that but it is a bit disheartening to read his profile and messages.. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Embrace your slapper status and smack him one with a report to admin xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because he gets a reaction ? Don't give him the benefit of one. Silence can be much more powerful sometimes.

Send a reply along the lines of; get your coat you smooth talking bastard, you've pulled

I like that - reverse psychology!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you think there was any truth in his message?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They can't take rejection x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had something similar the other day from a woman on here

just report it and enjoy your life ignore them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow he sounds like a charmer. What a complete dick!

What's the bet he posts a "why am I not getting any reponses" thread

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you think there was any truth in his message?

I don't think I'm a slapper... Especially when someone reads my profile.... Do you think there is truth in it then?

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"Because he gets a reaction ? Don't give him the benefit of one. Silence can be much more powerful sometimes.

Send a reply along the lines of; get your coat you smooth talking bastard, you've pulled

Sometimes it's amusing to have a play with them,then further down the line tell them to fuck off

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Keyboard warriors abound on the internet unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because he gets a reaction ? Don't give him the benefit of one. Silence can be much more powerful sometimes.

Send a reply along the lines of; get your coat you smooth talking bastard, you've pulled

Sometimes it's amusing to have a play with them,then further down the line tell them to fuck off

Yep, done that loads of times in the past when bored. Most I've turned and they have said actually, you're a top girl. Really, you're a fucktard

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By *ecretgamesMan
over a year ago

the moon

Possibly someone who you turned down on his previous profile? A little sore over it and can't handle the red card maybe. I've come across that a lot.

I can't explain it and I doubt anyone else here can but some guys just seem to think they can throw abuse at who ever they wish. There are those who do believe this is a sex hook up site and every message should be reciprocated with a shag!!! The way I'd look at messages like that is they are doing you a favour ... Now they simple become one less mistake

Certainly never take to heart what's spewed out by these types and if it's any consolation some guys get messages like that too. I'm also fat, ugly and my dick doesn't work apparently. But that only came about after the word No was mentioned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people are just sooooooooo pathetic its actually funny!

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By *-ManMan
over a year ago

Kark

Because he's 14 years old!

Seriously it's jealously, it's always jealously. I'd bet his thinking is that you can have any person on here with a snap of your fingers and he can't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think there was any truth in his message?

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That wasn't very nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been told I'm a slapper as only sad, fat, ugly, slappers come on sites like this...

This was said by a newbie who sent me a message out of the blue saying that I'm a slapper.... The other stuff is in his profile write up....

Why do men join then feel the need to send horrible messages? I don't get it!!

Because some are insecure, immature cock wombles of the highest degree. Most, thankfully are not, however like in the rest of life, they are out there!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been told I'm a slapper as only sad, fat, ugly, slappers come on sites like this...

This was said by a newbie who sent me a message out of the blue saying that I'm a slapper.... The other stuff is in his profile write up....

Why do men join then feel the need to send horrible messages? I don't get it!!

I don't know why some men are like that. I don't send rude messages of any kind as I think it is disrespectful to the person receiving it. I am a great believer in carma

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By *litheroevoyeurMan
over a year ago

Clitheroe

"I've been told I'm a slapper as only sad, fat, ugly, slappers come on sites like this...

This was said by a newbie who sent me a message out of the blue saying that I'm a slapper.... The other stuff is in his profile write up....

Why do men join then feel the need to send horrible messages? I don't get it!!

This site is no different to the real world in that there are some nasty bastards around.

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By *uralRobMan
over a year ago

Ludlow

"Do you think there was any truth in his message?

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. Poeple like these men must lead a very lonely empty life who are frustrated with there own unhappiness and take it out on others. Rise above them ignore and carry on enjoying the genuine friendly people on here . Have fun. !!!!! Rob

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think there was any truth in his message?

. Poeple like these men must lead a very lonely empty life who are frustrated with there own unhappiness and take it out on others. Rise above them ignore and carry on enjoying the genuine friendly people on here . Have fun. !!!!! Rob"

Exactly. I've been accused of projecting my own inadequacies, because I thought he was an arrogant cunt for slagging off the other men in this site. Ironic..

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

As much as they mean nothing from someone who is insignificant to you, it isn't nice getting these types of messages. I've had one or two either for pictures, my profile or verifications and it does make you want to tip their dinner over them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I send nice messages constantly and I've had not a ounce of luck????

Am I doing it wrong?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been told I'm a slapper as only sad, fat, ugly, slappers come on sites like this...

This was said by a newbie who sent me a message out of the blue saying that I'm a slapper.... The other stuff is in his profile write up....

Why do men join then feel the need to send horrible messages? I don't get it!!

The same reason women send them I guess. Ignore them anyway, they probably have to get back to class

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

"Do you think there was any truth in his message?

I don't think I'm a slapper... Especially when someone reads my profile.... Do you think there is truth in it then? "

Lovely there is nothing wrong with enjoying your body and sexuality. These sorts of men hate women, especially women who are confident enough to be on here. Relax and enjoy life.

Karen x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you think there was any truth in his message?

I don't think I'm a slapper... Especially when someone reads my profile.... Do you think there is truth in it then?

Lovely there is nothing wrong with enjoying your body and sexuality. These sorts of men hate women, especially women who are confident enough to be on here. Relax and enjoy life.

Karen x"

Thank you Karen... And all you others...

I'm still shocked that a guy on this thread even asked if there was any truth in it... That wasn't nice!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And thankfully he is gone.... I am assuming admin got hold of him after I reported...

Here's betting he joins again though as he did seem to be on a mission to degrade women in general!

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