Which turns you on more?

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By *aven Queen OP Woman
over a year ago

Putney

I was wondering how many of you out there are 'turned on more' by new meets or existing fwb's?

A 'new meet' (new date) experiencing excitement of the unknown.

I've been told by some that the butterfly's, preparation and will you won't you, is a major turn on.

An 'existing acquaintance' (Fwb) that your hot for. You can't wait to see again knowing the time spent together is going to be exciting and worthwhile.

For some letting your guard down and being more relaxed is perhaps even more of a turn on.

Just a thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They both turn me on in different ways. With new people comes the excitement of the unknown. With people I already know comes the excitement of the familiar, the anticipation of what I already known is good.

I guess I lean towards the familiar because with familiarity comes trust and further exploration, but I don't honestly think one outstrips the other by much.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Depends on the person obviously - I love the familiarity of seeing someone you know inside out, the closeness that only comes with a lot of time spent together.....but there is an obvious excitement about meeting someone new, especially if they have a particular potential, a quality you have been looking for!

I think Peach was right when she said men are more often taken with the 'shiny new fuck' syndrome, but I am not a swinger - I do not need to meet new people all the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

New meets every time .... no doubts at all

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