FabSwingers.com forum: verifications

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Does any other ladies agree here? Wen u read verifies from other ladies that men have met and it reads 'hands off ladies hes mine' or "dont want to share" i find that if you meet men with verifies like that. Chances are they wont verify you in case of getting hassle from the woman.i never meet guys with verifies like that. Why even show them?

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By *tep121Man
over a year ago

manchester

Makes them look like gods gift....

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Lamppost marking is laughable, we're all on here for the same thing surely? I never give intimate veris nor would I expect one. What happens between me and a meet stays in the bedroom

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I've not noticed that connection but have certainly seen the type of verifications you refer to op - they're notorious on Fab.

Maybe it is reflecting more about the users who display them, than the user who wrote the veri.

But if you've found a number of men unwilling to leave a veri for you op, I wonder if you have asked if they would leave one for you, or whether you're disappointed that they haven't as well as stuck guessing why they haven't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think for 99% of people its just a little friendly joke/cliché.

It doesn't mean any harm or anything sinister but people often want to seem to belive the worst in others.

If men you meet are not verifying you i think it's a stretch to blame it on thier past verifications

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I've never understood the obsession with other people's veris. Don't like them? Click off them and move on.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

A verification is an indication that the person is real, turned up, looks like their profile description etc. Nothing more. Don't take much notice of them myself. Including mine that say I'm better than a wank and a shit shag.

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

I can honestly say I take absolutely no notice what they say. I'd rather view the summery over the verifications.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I veried a meet a couple of months ago and he then deleted and recreated his profile to get rid of the new veri to prevent aggro from another female fabber.

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

but are they actualy being serious when they say that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does any other ladies agree here? Wen u read verifies from other ladies that men have met and it reads 'hands off ladies hes mine' or "dont want to share" i find that if you meet men with verifies like that. Chances are they wont verify you in case of getting hassle from the woman.i never meet guys with verifies like that. Why even show them?"

I've got a verification like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Verifications are notches. Don't do notches...

Disclaimer: I respect other people's right to verify and be verified.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never understood the obsession with other people's veris. Don't like them? Click off them and move on. "

Exactly this. Most seem to big the person up, probably in the hope of another meet and some make me cringe they are so graphic. To me, they just say the person is who they say they are, not a sexual performance review! I never read them and prefer to make my own mind up about someone and because of my filters, I cannot receive any which is fine with me, I never display them anyway, its no one's business who I meet. Some people seem obsessed with them.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"but are they actualy being serious when they say that."

If you mean mine, no, they are joke ones. It was making the point that we don't take veris very seriously.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"but are they actualy being serious when they say that.

If you mean mine, no, they are joke ones. It was making the point that we don't take veris very seriously. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"but are they actualy being serious when they say that."

I think if it's one of a few veri's from the same person then there may be an underlying tone to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"but are they actualy being serious when they say that.

If you mean mine, no, they are joke ones. It was making the point that we don't take veris very seriously. "

You might not do & according to any regular forum poster they don't either. I'm pretty sure though there's a big middle ground of people that do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"but are they actualy being serious when they say that.

If you mean mine, no, they are joke ones. It was making the point that we don't take veris very seriously.

You might not do & according to any regular forum poster they don't either. I'm pretty sure though there's a big middle ground of people that do."

Lots of people won't meet me because I don't have verifications.. I am cool with that, I don't really base a meet on if someone has a verification (though I like to know there is a photo verification). So I miss out. But I do exist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Verifications are notches. Don't do notches...

Disclaimer: I respect other people's right to verify and be verified. "

For some they do seem to be, but for us and many others they are proof of being genuine and not time wasters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Verifications are notches. Don't do notches...

Disclaimer: I respect other people's right to verify and be verified.

For some they do seem to be, but for us and many others they are proof of being genuine and not time wasters

I've had my time wasted and been let down in the past by verified people and I'm sure I'm not the only one. Just because they met others doesn't mean they'll meet you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Verifications are notches. Don't do notches...

Disclaimer: I respect other people's right to verify and be verified.

For some they do seem to be, but for us and many others they are proof of being genuine and not time wasters

As I say. I respect your views and see a purpose for them. Most of my no shows have been verified.... but that's just my experiences... it doesn't count for much. I usually do a social first, so that helps filter out the dreamers

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By *erdita Von TeaseWoman
over a year ago

nottingham

We'll I hope my verifications don't make people cringe too much or induce too much eye rolling. The people who wrote them didn't seen to write anything horrendous, yes there's one or two out there that make my eyes widen a little but if it's making them feel good about themselves and giving them a little confidence then why not, tis only words after all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Verifications are notches. Don't do notches...

Disclaimer: I respect other people's right to verify and be verified.

For some they do seem to be, but for us and many others they are proof of being genuine and not time wasters

I've had my time wasted and been let down in the past by verified people and I'm sure I'm not the only one. Just because they met others doesn't mean they'll meet you."

True, but not all verified people are like that, "swings n roundabouts"

The main thing I was saying is that veri's are not always "notches" to most, they are what they are, proof of being genuine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Verifications are notches. Don't do notches...

Disclaimer: I respect other people's right to verify and be verified.

For some they do seem to be, but for us and many others they are proof of being genuine and not time wasters

I've had my time wasted and been let down in the past by verified people and I'm sure I'm not the only one. Just because they met others doesn't mean they'll meet you.

True, but not all verified people are like that, "swings n roundabouts"

The main thing I was saying is that veri's are not always "notches" to most, they are what they are, proof of being genuine

I agree, I see them as proof the person is who they claim to be in their profile, ie; they are the person in they photos and nothing more.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"but are they actualy being serious when they say that.

If you mean mine, no, they are joke ones. It was making the point that we don't take veris very seriously.

You might not do & according to any regular forum poster they don't either. I'm pretty sure though there's a big middle ground of people that do."

I'm confident enough not to worry about it. If people take what they read as gospel without even messaging to ask anything, then they are not for me. I don't have sex with drones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Verifications are notches. Don't do notches...

Disclaimer: I respect other people's right to verify and be verified.

For some they do seem to be, but for us and many others they are proof of being genuine and not time wasters

I've had my time wasted and been let down in the past by verified people and I'm sure I'm not the only one. Just because they met others doesn't mean they'll meet you.

True, but not all verified people are like that, "swings n roundabouts"

The main thing I was saying is that veri's are not always "notches" to most, they are what they are, proof of being genuine

I agree, I see them as proof the person is who they claim to be in their profile, ie; they are the person in they photos and nothing more. "

We are definitely reading from the same page on this one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think verifications in general are a good indication of what a person is like, I do like them and I always will send one back I just think it's polite to.

I think the terms mentions are just a lil bit or humour, I don't think there's anything it is at all. However any issues address would be between the two parties. To be honest if you don't feel that you should meet the person in question that has those types of verifications then don't. Just move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*the things mentioned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Verifications are notches. Don't do notches...

Disclaimer: I respect other people's right to verify and be verified.

For some they do seem to be, but for us and many others they are proof of being genuine and not time wasters

I've had my time wasted and been let down in the past by verified people and I'm sure I'm not the only one. Just because they met others doesn't mean they'll meet you.

True, but not all verified people are like that, "swings n roundabouts"

The main thing I was saying is that veri's are not always "notches" to most, they are what they are, proof of being genuine

I agree, I see them as proof the person is who they claim to be in their profile, ie; they are the person in they photos and nothing more.

We are definitely reading from the same page on this one!

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Indeed but I don't see them as 100% proof the person will meet you. As I said earlier, just because they met other people doesn't mean they will meet you or not muck you about or waste your time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"but are they actualy being serious when they say that.

If you mean mine, no, they are joke ones. It was making the point that we don't take veris very seriously.

You might not do & according to any regular forum poster they don't either. I'm pretty sure though there's a big middle ground of people that do.

I'm confident enough not to worry about it. If people take what they read as gospel without even messaging to ask anything, then they are not for me. I don't have sex with drones. "

Exactly, it can be used as another filter,both ways.

Wasn't really aimed at you I just requoted your comment ~ but what's generally posted on these type of threads & what happens in reality doesn't always tally up.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"but are they actualy being serious when they say that.

If you mean mine, no, they are joke ones. It was making the point that we don't take veris very seriously.

You might not do & according to any regular forum poster they don't either. I'm pretty sure though there's a big middle ground of people that do.

I'm confident enough not to worry about it. If people take what they read as gospel without even messaging to ask anything, then they are not for me. I don't have sex with drones. "

Not even Star Wars ones?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Verifications are notches. Don't do notches...

Disclaimer: I respect other people's right to verify and be verified.

For some they do seem to be, but for us and many others they are proof of being genuine and not time wasters

I've had my time wasted and been let down in the past by verified people and I'm sure I'm not the only one. Just because they met others doesn't mean they'll meet you.

True, but not all verified people are like that, "swings n roundabouts"

The main thing I was saying is that veri's are not always "notches" to most, they are what they are, proof of being genuine

I agree, I see them as proof the person is who they claim to be in their profile, ie; they are the person in they photos and nothing more.

We are definitely reading from the same page on this one!

Indeed but I don't see them as 100% proof the person will meet you. As I said earlier, just because they met other people doesn't mean they will meet you or not muck you about or waste your time."

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"True, but not all verified people are like that, Swings n roundabouts"

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

We decided not to shows ours recently as got fed up with people jumping to all kinds of conclusions from them.

You only have to read the forums to see that. You're wrong if you have too many, too graphic, too lamppost pissing, met the wrong kind of person,use cringeworthy phrases....

We're now virgins!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Verifications are just an ego booster. No one is gonna write they met them and was totally disappointed. Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We decided not to shows ours recently as got fed up with people jumping to all kinds of conclusions from them.

You only have to read the forums to see that. You're wrong if you have too many, too graphic, too lamppost pissing, met the wrong kind of person,use cringeworthy phrases....

We're now virgins!

Not verified is the new black...

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Verifications are just an ego booster. No one is gonna write they met them and was totally disappointed. Lol."

I wouldn't bet on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the end of the day if you don't like what someone has written about you in a verification then don't put it on your profile for everyone to read...

Likewise if you read something you don't like the look of on someone's verification so what? It's not the end of the world! What one person thinks about someone should not cloud your judgement about them... Try making your own mind up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The veris that get me and are the ones that I won't meet a guy over, are the ones from the same woman who has verified about 10 guys or more saying the same thing but in a round about way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Verifications are just an ego booster. No one is gonna write they met them and was totally disappointed. Lol.

I wouldn't bet on it

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but they won't show them lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Verifications are notches. Don't do notches...

Disclaimer: I respect other people's right to verify and be verified.

For some they do seem to be, but for us and many others they are proof of being genuine and not time wasters

I've had my time wasted and been let down in the past by verified people and I'm sure I'm not the only one. Just because they met others doesn't mean they'll meet you.

True, but not all verified people are like that, "swings n roundabouts"

The main thing I was saying is that veri's are not always "notches" to most, they are what they are, proof of being genuine

I agree, I see them as proof the person is who they claim to be in their profile, ie; they are the person in they photos and nothing more.

We are definitely reading from the same page on this one!

Indeed but I don't see them as 100% proof the person will meet you. As I said earlier, just because they met other people doesn't mean they will meet you or not muck you about or waste your time.

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"True, but not all verified people are like that, Swings n roundabouts"

I thought this was fabswingers, not fabroundabouts

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