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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just Reading a great thread then the OP disappears in a poof of smoke. Why post then disappear? I know it's their right to do that but seems pointless

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By *ornwall-maleMan
over a year ago

newquay

perhaps mummy caught them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they were banned, but in the great scheme of things, who gives a shit ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

May be the OP got caught red-handed by his/her partner, and is not as single as he/she claimed to be?

Or he/she/they have received a lot of negativity since posting in a very short time?

Who knows?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

probably because they posted what they seemed to think was a good question and got shot down but then they shouldnt post without liking the answers as we all very well know

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"Just Reading a great thread then the OP disappears in a poof of smoke. Why post then disappear? I know it's their right to do that but seems pointless"

It's maybe the type of answers some threads get that makes the OP think this really isn't worth the hassle?

I just wonder how many others would like it too if folk kept just having a go at them just because they didn't like or agree with the subject of the thread!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It helps to have a really thick skin in order to enjoy/survive the forums IMHO!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"probably because they posted what they seemed to think was a good question and got shot down but then they shouldnt post without liking the answers as we all very well know "

I agree,but as the person had not been on fab that long and was his 1st time to post in the forum i do think he should have been given a break,it seemed to me that he was only trying to get known in the forums.

No wonder some people dont want to post in the forums

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thick skin is a must you need to take the rough with the smooth on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reminds me of an Elvis Presley song ..... 'Only the Strong Survive'

You pop your head out of cloud 9 then expect someone to have a shot at you - it's the way of the world, like it or not

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"Thick skin is a must you need to take the rough with the smooth on here. "

I disagree, others need to stop giving out the "rough" just because they don't like the subject of threads or it's contents.

PS - "others" is not directed at anyone in particular.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thick skin is a must you need to take the rough with the smooth on here. "

Why?

People should be able to post what they want without fear of being put down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"probably because they posted what they seemed to think was a good question and got shot down but then they shouldnt post without liking the answers as we all very well know

I agree,but as the person had not been on fab that long and was his 1st time to post in the forum i do think he should have been given a break,it seemed to me that he was only trying to get known in the forums.

No wonder some people dont want to post in the forums"

and that is what i was getting at in my own round about way you said it so much better than i could ever have done thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thick skin is a must you need to take the rough with the smooth on here.

Why?

People should be able to post what they want without fear of being put down."

I agree with you there sweets everyone as a right to post on here and have their say but not everyone will have the same _iew as an OPs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"probably because they posted what they seemed to think was a good question and got shot down but then they shouldnt post without liking the answers as we all very well know

I agree,but as the person had not been on fab that long and was his 1st time to post in the forum i do think he should have been given a break,it seemed to me that he was only trying to get known in the forums.

No wonder some people dont want to post in the forums

and that is what i was getting at in my own round about way you said it so much better than i could ever have done thank you "

and im sorry about my roundabout ways but ive never ever felt the need to worry about how i say something as i do in the forums so have to think really hard about how i put things for fear of the bloody big gun

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

most of the posts,were tongue in cheek,nothing malicious.

sometimes people put up a post.that's never going to be,taken seriously.

then take offence,when it's not taken seriously.

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

And, out of the blue, here come the 'holier than thou' brigade.

The guy wanted to bring his mahoosive cock to peoples attention and get compliments on the generous size of his manhood.

It was an odd post to put up, and he got sarcasm in return.

What did he expect, the entire site to bow down to the magnificence of his penis?

Frankly, bugger that.

If he wants to advertise the fact that he has a big cock, that's down to him & I have no problem with it.

But in response, i'm going to advertise the fact that i'm much quicker witted, have a sharper mind and more to offer on a meet than my just my penis.

He does it his way, I do it my way.

He gets his meets, I get mine.

Nobody deleted his profile but him.

So in essence, the OP needed to either 'man up' to the responses he got on the forums, or get out.

He chose the latter.

His choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People should be able to post what they want without fear of being put down."

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Agree, however, some peeps cannot handle the slightly disagreement to their _iews/opinions, or cannot take criticism/sarcasm well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thick skin is a must you need to take the rough with the smooth on here. "
your right xx i am getting better , xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

At the end of the day my point is I wouldn't leave fab because what someone said to me in the forums, why? Cause it would take more than that to get rid of this tranny plus I'm on here to shag my way through all you Srt8 men so my job ain't done yet lol

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

actually I have never been slow at apologising if I do wrong.

to the previous OP, if I offended in any way... sorry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"actually I have never been slow at apologising if I do wrong.

to the previous OP, if I offended in any way... sorry.

"
ooo you are lovely xx i could eat you up , lol xx

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Thick skin is a must you need to take the rough with the smooth on here.

I disagree, others need to stop giving out the "rough" just because they don't like the subject of threads or it's contents.

PS - "others" is not directed at anyone in particular. "

Yes as you know its lot better than it was six months ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"People should be able to post what they want without fear of being put down.

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Agree, however, some peeps cannot handle the slightly disagreement to their _iews/opinions, or cannot take criticism/sarcasm well. "

Remember alot is said Tongue in cheek on here and not always nasty

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By *ornwall-maleMan
over a year ago

newquay


"At the end of the day my point is I wouldn't leave fab because what someone said to me in the forums, why? Cause it would take more than that to get rid of this tranny plus I'm on here to shag my way through all you Srt8 men so my job ain't done yet lol"

you just get scary jan lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"actually I have never been slow at apologising if I do wrong.

"

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Same here!

I have recently e-mailed my boss and my one over one boss for letting them know I expect and deserve to be disciplined for failing to follow procedures, so that they do not feel bad about having to do it once they have completed the investigations on two recent cock-ups that I have been involved with!

Call me stupid!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh bloody hell, I looked at the thread concerned and there was nothing nasty in it.

All it was was a guy asking a question, advertising his 'big' cock and a few folks took the piss, he flounced .. so what ??

If he couldn't put up with a bit of piss taking then maybe he wasn't adult enough to be on a site such as this in any case.

I've said this 100 times before, looks like this is my 101st - people take things tooooooo seriously and get themselves wound up to easily

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"At the end of the day my point is I wouldn't leave fab because what someone said to me in the forums, why? Cause it would take more than that to get rid of this tranny plus I'm on here to shag my way through all you Srt8 men so my job ain't done yet lol

you just get scary jan lol x"

Your the only srt8 man I've had sweets lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At the end of the day my point is I wouldn't leave fab because what someone said to me in the forums, why? Cause it would take more than that to get rid of this tranny plus I'm on here to shag my way through all you Srt8 men so my job ain't done yet lol"
lol can i be there looking .. xx lolol if i say please .. i would love to see 2 bi men its on me wish list , lol

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Maybe they were banned, but in the great scheme of things, who gives a shit ?"

When it says "user no longer on site" it means they left on their own accord and not by a big boot up their jacksie

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"At the end of the day my point is I wouldn't leave fab because what someone said to me in the forums, why? Cause it would take more than that to get rid of this tranny plus I'm on here to shag my way through all you Srt8 men so my job ain't done yet lol lol can i be there looking .. xx lolol if i say please .. i would love to see 2 bi men its on me wish list , lol"

Your wish is granted Jo x

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"probably because they posted what they seemed to think was a good question and got shot down but then they shouldnt post without liking the answers as we all very well know

I agree,but as the person had not been on fab that long and was his 1st time to post in the forum i do think he should have been given a break,it seemed to me that he was only trying to get known in the forums.

No wonder some people dont want to post in the forums"

* nods *

Even if the man wasn't new, I don't see why people need to ridicule others just because they don't like the subject of the thread.

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By *ornwall-maleMan
over a year ago

newquay


"Maybe they were banned, but in the great scheme of things, who gives a shit ?

When it says "user no longer on site" it means they left on their own accord and not by a big boot up their jacksie"

do you wear big boots rugby lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I want to sharpen my claws and improve my bitching skills, I would come to FAB! MEOW!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sorry but I read the thread no one was being ridiculed little Tongue in cheek but that's all

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

The alternative _iew being that if the members decide to take a particular thread in a particular direction, who's to say that's right or wrong.

There was only one OP, yet several individual posters.

At what point does one poster take priority over other posters?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe they were banned, but in the great scheme of things, who gives a shit ?

When it says "user no longer on site" it means they left on their own accord and not by a big boot up their jacksie

do you wear big boots rugby lol x"

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With steel toe caps I hear!

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Oh bloody hell, I looked at the thread concerned and there was nothing nasty in it.

All it was was a guy asking a question, advertising his 'big' cock and a few folks took the piss, he flounced .. so what ??

If he couldn't put up with a bit of piss taking then maybe he wasn't adult enough to be on a site such as this in any case.

I've said this 100 times before, looks like this is my 101st - people take things tooooooo seriously and get themselves wound up to easily"

Not all posts are still on there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I want to sharpen my claws and improve my bitching skills, I would come to FAB! MEOW! "
thing is i am not very good at all that stuff it go right over my head ,,,,,,, i get letter out of the blue at times from people saying stuff i have not a clue what thay are being nasty about , lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The alternative _iew being that if the members decide to take a particular thread in a particular direction, who's to say that's right or wrong.

There was only one OP, yet several individual posters.

At what point does one poster take priority over other posters?"

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I believe thread hijacking is an inherrent part of any discussion board!

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Sorry but I read the thread no one was being ridiculed little Tongue in cheek but that's all"

Sorry but I disagree.

You did mention up there that people need a thick skin....so a question for you...if thats the case, why do you say you report so much that you say people do to you?

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"Maybe they were banned, but in the great scheme of things, who gives a shit ?"

Indeed. 22 minutes and a few replies... the world does not revolve around the forum... new posters have had at least seven days to piss people off elsewhere on the site.

I am sure the forum replies are generally more reserved than some of the PM's poeople get sent.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Maybe they were banned, but in the great scheme of things, who gives a shit ?

When it says "user no longer on site" it means they left on their own accord and not by a big boot up their jacksie

do you wear big boots rugby lol x"

I do yeah, thigh length ones, but only for playing in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry but I read the thread no one was being ridiculed little Tongue in cheek but that's all"

For the very 1st time, I find myself agreeing with you.

Like I said, some folks get themselves wound up and offended far to easily

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh bloody hell, I looked at the thread concerned and there was nothing nasty in it.

All it was was a guy asking a question, advertising his 'big' cock and a few folks took the piss, he flounced .. so what ??

If he couldn't put up with a bit of piss taking then maybe he wasn't adult enough to be on a site such as this in any case.

I've said this 100 times before, looks like this is my 101st - people take things tooooooo seriously and get themselves wound up to easily

Not all posts are still on there.

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They were as I was reading the thread

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry but I read the thread no one was being ridiculed little Tongue in cheek but that's all

Sorry but I disagree.

You did mention up there that people need a thick skin....so a question for you...if thats the case, why do you say you report so much that you say people do to you?

"

Because there's sarcasam on the threads that does nowt to me then there nastiness in messages like homophobic nastiness etc there's a differance.

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By *ummy mummyWoman
over a year ago

southampton-ish

I am confused...how do you know for sure he deleted his account because of the forum posts?maybe he got reported for fake pics...or for something else....or for a bazillion other reasons...lol

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Sorry but I read the thread no one was being ridiculed little Tongue in cheek but that's all

Sorry but I disagree.

You did mention up there that people need a thick skin....so a question for you...if thats the case, why do you say you report so much that you say people do to you?

Because there's sarcasam on the threads that does nowt to me then there nastiness in messages like homophobic nastiness etc there's a differance. "

Then having a thick skin isn't what you have.

I am not saying you shouldn't report abusive or nasty mails, but you also can't say others should have a thick skin when you don't as you wouldn't be reporting any mails if you truly had that thick skin?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am confused...how do you know for sure he deleted his account because of the forum posts?maybe he got reported for fake pics...or for something else....or for a bazillion other reasons...lol"

It wasn't really about that thread that was an example really

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Actually........

the thread was opened with a heading and nothing in the first posting box but a big smile..

if I had thought he wanted an intellectual debate on the 'size issue' I may have joined/ I may not..

but I saw the and thought

he was having a laugh.

He joined in with it's HUGE..

I have apologised if I got it wrong..

xx

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"I am confused...how do you know for sure he deleted his account because of the forum posts?maybe he got reported for fake pics...or for something else....or for a bazillion other reasons...lol"

He may well have been posting as a last five minutes on the site, it could have been a member with two profiles who fancied seeing if someone would respond badly so he can get them banned.....who knows...it could be lots of reason.

But, it could also be he didn't like the way the thread went and thought with this amount of negative attention he may as well leave and start a new profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

But rugby no one on the forums as abused me, I've been called a freakshow and I laughed it off.

But when someone messages me and say I decline them they get nasty and very personal just cause I don't want to suck their cock. To me theirs a differance I get negative comments on the forums for a reason I say what I think and deserve some of it but when someone messages me that's differance. They don't get their way so they get nasty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ding Ding - round 2

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"But rugby no one on the forums as abused me, I've been called a freakshow and I laughed it off.

But when someone messages me and say I decline them they get nasty and very personal just cause I don't want to suck their cock. To me theirs a differance I get negative comments on the forums for a reason I say what I think and deserve some of it but when someone messages me that's differance. They don't get their way so they get nasty. "

The point I trying to make is...we all have our own levels of thick skin.

You have yours, I have mine. We can't really keep telling people to get a grip because their thinner skin didn't take too well to a negative post....

Shouldn't we all be respecting other people and what they are like without saying " it is tongue in cheek" or grow a thicker skin?

We are not all the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The point I trying to make is...we all have our own levels of thick skin.

You have yours, I have mine. We can't really keep telling people to get a grip because their thinner skin didn't take too well to a negative post....

Shouldn't we all be respecting other people and what they are like without saying " it is tongue in cheek" or grow a thicker skin?

We are not all the same."

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Glad that I said in my post "it helps" to have a thick skin to enjoy/survive the forums, not "a must"!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No we are not all the same but we all know what forums are it's a place to discuss issues now if you've got one point and someone disagrees sometimes it gets out of hand.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well mines a thickish wrinkly skin

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"

We are not all the same."

We're not.

But the OP could not reasonably expect to walk into any other public place seeking compliments on the size of his manhood and expect anything other than a mixed reaction.

And would certainly have to take the reaction he was given.

So why should the forum be any different?

Also, it perplexes me why it's always threads like the OP's that seem to bring on the most opprobrium from certain sections of the site.

Have a wander around the threads and you have people gleefully offering to execute "peedos" personally, yet nobody takes issue with the direction or content of the thread in the same way as one where a guy with a big cock gets a ribbing/slagging/slaughtering(delete as applicable for your own level of self-righteousness).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ding Ding - round 2 "
lol... do make me smile here love the forum and people... I am taking lessons here .. my mum say i am too soft and people walk all over me .. maybe i can learn to get this thick skin ... x

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Oh don't get me wrong Pearl, I do think the same, I personally think everyone could do with a thick skin to use the net never mind the forums..... I was just trying to say that it isn't compulsory to and not all people have the same level of thick skin....so sometimes it is better to back off rather than know you are upsetting someone and carrying on.

( not meaning anyone in particular, just general comment)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Damn blast I missed this big cock

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"I am confused...how do you know for sure he deleted his account because of the forum posts?maybe he got reported for fake pics...or for something else....or for a bazillion other reasons...lol

He may well have been posting as a last five minutes on the site, it could have been a member with two profiles who fancied seeing if someone would respond badly so he can get them banned.....who knows...it could be lots of reason.

But, it could also be he didn't like the way the thread went and thought with this amount of negative attention he may as well leave and start a new profile."

Or it could have been (as often is with two line profiles who use the phrase 'isn't this a sex site') that he had the expectation he'd be having to fight off the pussy offers... after having no joy via pm and at the end of his frustrated tether, posted expecting a rush of women melting at the crotch at the sight of a hard cock. The strike of reality that it's not that easy could well have made him decide to give up; as he wasn't prepared to put any effort in and would sooner pay £50 to bonk a Polish student than actually type something longer than the Countdown conundrum to get a free hump.

But I guess we'll never know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well mines a thickish wrinkly skin "
OIL OF olay x lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thinks tongue in cheek can sometimes be used as a get out clause oops i said something that may upset belittle or come across as just plain bullying but hey put tongue in cheek after it and its all ok

now im off to find a disclaimer that i can put up after everytime i post on forums just to be safe

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ding Ding - round 2 lol... do make me smile here love the forum and people... I am taking lessons here .. my mum say i am too soft and people walk all over me .. maybe i can learn to get this thick skin ... x"

Just get out in the sun it will soon leather up lol

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Ding Ding - round 2 "

I find it HIGHLY offensive that you're not taking this seriously.

*tut tuts*

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"

We are not all the same.

We're not.

But the OP could not reasonably expect to walk into any other public place seeking compliments on the size of his manhood and expect anything other than a mixed reaction.

And would certainly have to take the reaction he was given.

So why should the forum be any different?

Also, it perplexes me why it's always threads like the OP's that seem to bring on the most opprobrium from certain sections of the site.

Have a wander around the threads and you have people gleefully offering to execute "peedos" personally, yet nobody takes issue with the direction or content of the thread in the same way as one where a guy with a big cock gets a ribbing/slagging/slaughtering(delete as applicable for your own level of self-righteousness).

"

Janelle said it was a general question and not just about one thread, and what I was commenting on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No we are not all the same but we all know what forums are it's a place to discuss issues now if you've got one point and someone disagrees sometimes it gets out of hand. "

Much the same as a 'discussion' in a pub.

Then there's only one way to decide ..

Fight!! Fight!! Fight!!

Aww ffs, who kept putting those words in the forums not so long ago ?? pmsl ..

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"thinks tongue in cheek can sometimes be used as a get out clause oops i said something that may upset belittle or come across as just plain bullying but hey put tongue in cheek after it and its all ok

now im off to find a disclaimer that i can put up after everytime i post on forums just to be safe "

* nods *

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"

But I guess we'll never know."

Not that it will stop endless speculation about him being bullied off the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ding Ding - round 2

I find it HIGHLY offensive that you're not taking this seriously.

Pah ha, Oh I am taking it seriously ... I'm in floods of tears with the emotion of it all

*tut tuts*"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"thinks tongue in cheek can sometimes be used as a get out clause oops i said something that may upset belittle or come across as just plain bullying but hey put tongue in cheek after it and its all ok

now im off to find a disclaimer that i can put up after everytime i post on forums just to be safe "

What's an example of bullying on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Opps ! Bad quote

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"Thick skin is a must you need to take the rough with the smooth on here.

I disagree, others need to stop giving out the "rough" just because they don't like the subject of threads or it's contents.

PS - "others" is not directed at anyone in particular. "

I fully agree. Just because something can be said/done, it doesn't mean that it has to be. We should all respond respectfully to others, even if we disagree with them, or what they post. If we need to feel better at the expense of others we need to examine ourselves and sort it out. I probably haven't seen the post in question, but if something doesn't help others, doesn't explicitly demonstrate respect, then it doesn't belong here.

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"

Aww ffs, who kept putting those words in the forums not so long ago ?? pmsl .. "

Oh gawd no.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"I am confused...how do you know for sure he deleted his account because of the forum posts?maybe he got reported for fake pics...or for something else....or for a bazillion other reasons...lol

He may well have been posting as a last five minutes on the site, it could have been a member with two profiles who fancied seeing if someone would respond badly so he can get them banned.....who knows...it could be lots of reason.

But, it could also be he didn't like the way the thread went and thought with this amount of negative attention he may as well leave and start a new profile.

Or it could have been (as often is with two line profiles who use the phrase 'isn't this a sex site') that he had the expectation he'd be having to fight off the pussy offers... after having no joy via pm and at the end of his frustrated tether, posted expecting a rush of women melting at the crotch at the sight of a hard cock. The strike of reality that it's not that easy could well have made him decide to give up; as he wasn't prepared to put any effort in and would sooner pay £50 to bonk a Polish student than actually type something longer than the Countdown conundrum to get a free hump.

But I guess we'll never know."

Yes plus that.

Although I am always amused at people saying it isn't a sex site, when most people are here looking for sex on it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ding Ding - round 2

I find it HIGHLY offensive that you're not taking this seriously.

*tut tuts*"

Just smacked my fakes louis vuitton bag over his head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Damn blast I missed this big cock"

It wasn't that big to be honest ..

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Damn blast I missed this big cock

It wasn't that big to be honest .. "

+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"thinks tongue in cheek can sometimes be used as a get out clause oops i said something that may upset belittle or come across as just plain bullying but hey put tongue in cheek after it and its all ok

now im off to find a disclaimer that i can put up after everytime i post on forums just to be safe

What's an example of bullying on here?

"

been asked this before and i for 1 wouldnt dare mention any of the bullying i have seen on here i value my life too much and am a complete and utter chicken now where is that bloody disclaimer im sure i left it round here somewhere in my opinion i am a complete and utter chicken and would not dare open my mouth but will put my tongue in cheek if that helps there think that will do for now

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There was me thinking it was a monster

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ding Ding - round 2

I find it HIGHLY offensive that you're not taking this seriously.

*tut tuts*

Just smacked my fakes louis vuitton bag over his head "

Ouch !! You bitch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ding Ding - round 2

I find it HIGHLY offensive that you're not taking this seriously.

*tut tuts*

Just smacked my fakes louis vuitton bag over his head

Ouch !! You bitch

"

Oooo Oooo Miss...they just called someone a bitch * points upwards* lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"thinks tongue in cheek can sometimes be used as a get out clause oops i said something that may upset belittle or come across as just plain bullying but hey put tongue in cheek after it and its all ok

now im off to find a disclaimer that i can put up after everytime i post on forums just to be safe

What's an example of bullying on here?

"

Its hard to give examples because some of the nasty bits you have put up have been taken off by the mods. But I remember a number of threads in swingers chat where you targeted one individual from Walsall and acted like a bully.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There was me thinking it was a monster "

Nahhhhh I think he was a legend in his own mind lol Mine is bigger, but I don't boast about it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I'm a bully?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I doubt it was anything to do with his "look at my big knob" thread. I think he probably got adverse PMs because he barebacked, and on the "split condoms" thread posted he didn't use them.

Just saying!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I'm a bully? "

In a word yes.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Personally I doubt it was anything to do with his "look at my big knob" thread. I think he probably got adverse PMs because he barebacked, and on the "split condoms" thread posted he didn't use them.

Just saying! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Damn blast I missed this big cock

It wasn't that big to be honest .. "

.

That's what I said too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I doubt it was anything to do with his "look at my big knob" thread. I think he probably got adverse PMs because he barebacked, and on the "split condoms" thread posted he didn't use them.

Just saying! "

Oh, was that him as well ?? , I read that thread but never put 2+2 together - silly me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So I'm a bully?

In a word yes. "

I wouldn't say I was bully as such I am outspoken I speak the truth and I know not everyone likes that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I doubt it was anything to do with his "look at my big knob" thread. I think he probably got adverse PMs because he barebacked, and on the "split condoms" thread posted he didn't use them.

Just saying!

Oh, was that him as well ?? , I read that thread but never put 2+2 together - silly me "

LOL...yes, that was him too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I'm a bully?

In a word yes.

I wouldn't say I was bully as such I am outspoken I speak the truth and I know not everyone likes that. "

Its pretty sad but predictable using the bullies main shield of I only speak the truth or I only say what I think.

Also I don’t know how many times I have read a comment by a mod pulling you up for something you have posted so its not just me and other users who think that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I'm a bully?

In a word yes.

I wouldn't say I was bully as such I am outspoken I speak the truth and I know not everyone likes that. "

I wouldn't say you were a bully, just nasty at times - but I've told you that! You have a good command of English, I'm sure you know ways of saying something without being offensive but you choose not to.

Your choice, but don't be amazed if people think you're a bully/nasty.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"

But I guess we'll never know.

Not that it will stop endless speculation about him being bullied off the site."

I have no problem admitting I am a sarcastic piss taker... but then there's no real point in me denying it, as the truth is out there and so are my awards

But the people who point the bullying stick willy-nilly are sometimes more annoying than a g-string dipped in honey and coated in sand.

There are people who need to learn the difference between making generalised piss take comments and posting "I hate your posts, why don't you fuck off" (or words to that effect but less likely to result in a ban). There is a difference between summarising your general opinion into one sarcastic comment and posting “You are this that and the other…because I think you are”… or better still going straight to their profile to pick at something totally irrelevant to the subject of the thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I'm a bully?

In a word yes. "
no he is just fun and to brave for his own good at time , lol make us smile here ..i think what next and he come up with all sorts .. never boring. x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As I said before it's a forum and that's your opinion and I've mine.

Remember I'm not the only one that as posts pulled but I'm not spitting feathers over it. I know I go over the top and I'm big enough and uglier enough to admit it.

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"So I'm a bully?

In a word yes.

I wouldn't say I was bully as such I am outspoken I speak the truth and I know not everyone likes that.

Its pretty sad but predictable using the bullies main shield of I only speak the truth or I only say what I think.

Also I don’t know how many times I have read a comment by a mod pulling you up for something you have posted so its not just me and other users who think that way.

"

Define "bully".

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"

But I guess we'll never know.

Not that it will stop endless speculation about him being bullied off the site.

I have no problem admitting I am a sarcastic piss taker... but then there's no real point in me denying it, as the truth is out there and so are my awards

"

I always think a good piss taker is someone who knows when to stop too.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"

Although I am always amused at people saying it isn't a sex site, when most people are here looking for sex on it"

It's all in the context

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

And I've admitted I'm nasty at times and sassy as said it before and I admire her honesty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As I said before it's a forum and that's your opinion and I've mine.

Remember I'm not the only one that as posts pulled but I'm not spitting feathers over it. I know I go over the top and I'm big enough and uglier enough to admit it. "

It is noticeable you get pulled up far more times than others. And still you don't take any notice of what your told. A little respect and less catty remarks wouldn't go a miss. After all if you really said what you thought you would be direct and not use sarcasm.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"

But I guess we'll never know.

Not that it will stop endless speculation about him being bullied off the site.

I have no problem admitting I am a sarcastic piss taker... but then there's no real point in me denying it, as the truth is out there and so are my awards

I always think a good piss taker is someone who knows when to stop too."

I always know when to stop... it's as soon as my finger tips start bleeding on the keyboard.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Ok lets not make this the janelle getting at thread.

He has admitted he cocks up sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

But I guess we'll never know.

Not that it will stop endless speculation about him being bullied off the site.

I have no problem admitting I am a sarcastic piss taker... but then there's no real point in me denying it, as the truth is out there and so are my awards

I always think a good piss taker is someone who knows when to stop too."

That is pretty much what i think. Ok the odd dig happens but when it is over and over again its not pleasant to see.

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By *icksfocusMan
over a year ago

Pontefract


"

But I guess we'll never know.

Not that it will stop endless speculation about him being bullied off the site.

I have no problem admitting I am a sarcastic piss taker... but then there's no real point in me denying it, as the truth is out there and so are my awards

I always think a good piss taker is someone who knows when to stop too.

I always know when to stop... it's as soon as my finger tips start bleeding on the keyboard."
nods in agreement and sigh's

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Being opinionated, forthright and sarcastic do not make someone a bully.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being opinionated, forthright and sarcastic do not make someone a bully.

"

No but it gets you banned doesn't it!

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


" I speak the truth ....."

Oooowwww shall I .... shan't I? Nahhhhhhhhhh.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Being opinionated, forthright and sarcastic do not make someone a bully.

No but it gets you banned doesn't it! "

Well there's time out and getting banned now if I really had gone over the top like you said I wouldn't be posting now. Yes I've been told by the mods to tone it down but I'm sure if I was a bully I'd be gone off here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I speak the truth .....

Oooowwww shall I .... shan't I? Nahhhhhhhhhh."

Resist woman...resist...!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have just googled the word bully and can now say that without a shadow of a doubt that i have seen bullying on here even in its most trivial of definations eg nit picking and no not as it them creepy things you get in hair so everyone will now scratch head and go yukk and i will hold my hands up to being a said nit picker which in turn makes me a bully at times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being opinionated, forthright and sarcastic do not make someone a bully.

No but it gets you banned doesn't it!

Well there's time out and getting banned now if I really had gone over the top like you said I wouldn't be posting now. Yes I've been told by the mods to tone it down but I'm sure if I was a bully I'd be gone off here"

Far from it the mods warn you but you only get banned for breaking the rules. You can still bully someone and stick just within the rules. I stand by my words on you being a bully. But i don't use sarcasm i speak straight.

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Being opinionated, forthright and sarcastic do not make someone a bully.

No but it gets you banned doesn't it! "

No it doesnt.

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


" I speak the truth .....

Oooowwww shall I .... shan't I? Nahhhhhhhhhh."

++1

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That's my problem I speak straight too. I give my opinion I say it in my own words. Im too opinionated by I'm no bully. But again this is my opinion and I'm not going to mention this again. Unlike some I can walk away from a thread because this will go round and round in circles if I don't

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

[Removed by poster at 27/02/11 15:34:02]

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"At the end of the day my point is I wouldn't leave fab because what someone said to me in the forums, why? Cause it would take more than that to get rid of this tranny plus I'm on here to shag my way through all you Srt8 men so my job ain't done yet lol"

Without being homophobic I find that comment extremely offensive!

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

49 posts on the original thread.

100+ posts on the thread arguing about the other thread.

Funny as fuck.

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)


"At the end of the day my point is I wouldn't leave fab because what someone said to me in the forums, why? Cause it would take more than that to get rid of this tranny plus I'm on here to shag my way through all you Srt8 men so my job ain't done yet lol

Without being homophobic I find that comment extremely offensive! "

I agree pretty much with that Bobby.

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"

Without being homophobic I find that comment extremely offensive! "

Sorry, but you'll have to let us know whether you were being opinionated, sarcastic or forthright with that comment.

As i'm too stupid to work it out for myself.

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)


"49 posts on the original thread.

100+ posts on the thread arguing about the other thread.

Funny as fuck."

Sensual at times you just fan the flames! I am not impressed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's my problem I speak straight too. I give my opinion I say it in my own words. Im too opinionated by I'm no bully. But again this is my opinion and I'm not going to mention this again. Unlike some I can walk away from a thread because this will go round and round in circles if I don't "
ok BIG ((((((hugs)))))) We like you for you xx straight speaking we all know where we stand like that x

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By *icksfocusMan
over a year ago

Pontefract


"At the end of the day my point is I wouldn't leave fab because what someone said to me in the forums, why? Cause it would take more than that to get rid of this tranny plus I'm on here to shag my way through all you Srt8 men so my job ain't done yet lol

Without being homophobic I find that comment extremely offensive!

I agree pretty much with that Bobby. "
Me too no need for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"49 posts on the original thread.

100+ posts on the thread arguing about the other thread.

Funny as fuck."

Agreed , fuckin hillarious

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"

Without being homophobic I find that comment extremely offensive!

Sorry, but you'll have to let us know whether you were being opinionated, sarcastic or forthright with that comment.

As i'm too stupid to work it out for myself.

"

God must have hated you.... stupid and no big cock to compensate.

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"49 posts on the original thread.

100+ posts on the thread arguing about the other thread.

Funny as fuck."

Hasn't the original thread been closed though?

And if it hadn't been, would this thread have ever appeared?

It's the old chicken or egg question all over again!

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)


"That's my problem I speak straight too. I give my opinion I say it in my own words. Im too opinionated by I'm no bully. But again this is my opinion and I'm not going to mention this again. Unlike some I can walk away from a thread because this will go round and round in circles if I don't "

Right i have been here longer than a lot and often stop out of the bickering threads these days but you you don't talk straight, far from it you use sarcasm and in my opinion you do bully people but your not alone. Sometimes you need to learn to walk away and leave things. Many have done as you do in the past and they now do not have the ability to use the forums.

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"49 posts on the original thread.

100+ posts on the thread arguing about the other thread.

Funny as fuck.

Sensual at times you just fan the flames! I am not impressed! "

But it is funny, hysterically so.

Some guys posts a pic of his cock and doesnt get universal praise on the size of his endowment.

Hardly the end of the world.

but the 'why oh why' thing on here is just unendingly amusing.

There's more bigoted, cutting, pontificating, sweeping generialisations etc on this thread than there were on the thread which is being debated.

In essence, it's about people trying to bully people into not being bullies because they don't like bullying, but having a total inability to see the irony in what they are doing.

And that has to be funny.

The only alternative being that it gets taken seriously.

Or someone walks in through a side door as someone else leaves - then we've got the perfect Neil Simon farce.

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By *icksfocusMan
over a year ago

Pontefract


"49 posts on the original thread.

100+ posts on the thread arguing about the other thread.

Funny as fuck.

Hasn't the original thread been closed though?

And if it hadn't been, would this thread have ever appeared?

It's the old chicken or egg question all over again! "
chicke and an egg were in bed together when the egg lights up a cig. The chicken says well i suppose that answers that question

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My straight talking is sarcasm can't help who I am I'm very much like victor meldrew x

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"

Hasn't the original thread been closed though?

And if it hadn't been, would this thread have ever appeared?

It's the old chicken or egg question all over again! "

Just wait until THIS thread gets pulled.

Then we can have an argument about the argument that got the thread we were arguing on about the original argument on the thread that got pulled.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"My straight talking is sarcasm can't help who I am I'm very much like victor meldrew x"

Fictional?

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By *icksfocusMan
over a year ago

Pontefract


"My straight talking is sarcasm can't help who I am I'm very much like victor meldrew x"
lets leave it now and play nice, you got invite to john and mandy's wedding yet? i haven't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At the end of the day my point is I wouldn't leave fab because what someone said to me in the forums, why? Cause it would take more than that to get rid of this tranny plus I'm on here to shag my way through all you Srt8 men so my job ain't done yet lol"
......* gEts bAcK iN cOFfiN * & nails lid shut -|-

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sarcasm is the lowest form of wit and im as low as they go

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My straight talking is sarcasm can't help who I am I'm very much like victor meldrew x lets leave it now and play nice, you got invite to john and mandy's wedding yet? i haven't "

Not had an invite but been invited via email if that helps x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At the end of the day my point is I wouldn't leave fab because what someone said to me in the forums, why? Cause it would take more than that to get rid of this tranny plus I'm on here to shag my way through all you Srt8 men so my job ain't done yet lol

Without being homophobic I find that comment extremely offensive!

I agree pretty much with that Bobby. Me too no need for that"

Are you all genuinely offended? I have read this comment a few times and I feel that this is a case of tongue in cheek if ever I saw it - I mean the girl by her own admission blocks straight guys and has no intention of shagging them!

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)


"49 posts on the original thread.

100+ posts on the thread arguing about the other thread.

Funny as fuck.

Sensual at times you just fan the flames! I am not impressed!

But it is funny, hysterically so.

Some guys posts a pic of his cock and doesnt get universal praise on the size of his endowment.

Hardly the end of the world.

but the 'why oh why' thing on here is just unendingly amusing.

There's more bigoted, cutting, pontificating, sweeping generialisations etc on this thread than there were on the thread which is being debated.

In essence, it's about people trying to bully people into not being bullies because they don't like bullying, but having a total inability to see the irony in what they are doing.

And that has to be funny.

The only alternative being that it gets taken seriously.

Or someone walks in through a side door as someone else leaves - then we've got the perfect Neil Simon farce.

"

Funny for you maybe but at another's expense?

Bully's! well i could right down a list of those who are on here but hey i don't need to as thoes who are deep down know it. And we have had enough threads about bully's so you really don't need to ask someone to define what one is.

Well i just do not like to see it even if it is someone who i don't like on the receiving end. The thing is from the pm's i get a big part of the forums don't particularly like it too but keep quiet because they don't want to be the next victim.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Disappearing in a poof of smoke is the titleof the thread, and maybe thats how it should go now.

Don't start another thread with the same subject please.

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