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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How many of you have declined someone but then passed on the details of someone they have met previously?

Bit like amazon....if you have tried this, you may also like......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not done that. But someone I met told a couple who were looking for a single female to contact me. They were totally not what I was looking for, sent me messages so full of text speak that they were almost unintelligable and couldn't take no for an answer.

Can't say I was pleased!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When politely declining ( and yes can be polite...sometimes) I have had people say 'Well, do you know of any of your friends that would be interested?'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How crass! Wouldn't dream of it, and would trust anyone I've met wouldn't contemplate such a thing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never done it, don't suppose we ever will either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have people who i talk to

say i have bi female who might like to play and im like WTF!!!!!!

some people think that women will play with anyone and the assume stuff i get so pissed off bou tit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A female friend met with one guy for a coffee, told him I'd be perfect for him, she also told me the same.

He and I met for coffee, progressed to more....she was so right.

That's friends who know you well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How crass! Wouldn't dream of it, and would trust anyone I've met wouldn't contemplate such a thing! "

Have to agree with you there that's an awful thing why would I let my nice friends play with someone I didn't like. Says alot about what I think about my friends

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By *inky24big35Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

nope but i once went out with a so called friend of mine and her step dad was there, she left me alone with her step dad because as she so kindly put it 'she knows what i do', so she wud think that coz i swing i would sleep with anyone just to cheer them up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have not done that yet, possibly because I feel it would be an intrusion to another person's privacy, and that I don't know that many FABsters that well to be able to do it.

I did recommend someone whom I have played with and liked to someone else though.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I have introduced playmates to friends if I think they'll get on.... I wouldn't bother passing on details of someone I didn't know or even like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive had a few people mail me because i have been verified by someone they have mer

never get why they think i would want to meet them just becayse we have met the same person lol

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

I have had it the opposite way round... where people i have met have passed on my profile onto other people and have then decided they want to meet me... which is really flattering....

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

well heres one for you guys went to friends party got talking to one of the single guys ,told him my profile name would you believe it he checked my profile then told the cpls on my verifications hes a mate could he meet with them now that is a cheek

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We hide our verifications because someone contacted the people on it saying we had recommended them.

The very first couple that we ever met told me that they passed on our details to another couple and that they wanted to meet us. I wrote to them, but they said "no thanks", lol.

So, no, we don't pass on anyones details

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By *eighleedsMan
over a year ago

leeds

would not dream of doing it, who i play with is my business no one elses

Once whilst spending teh weekend witrh a FB from another siste we was looking for a Bi male to join us, and was looking in the chat rooms, a couple we are friends with suggested someone, and did we want them to eamil him to see if it was ok to give us his profile, he said yes

and we had a damn great night, but thats slightly different i think as the 3rd party asked us all if we wanted each others details

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"How crass! Wouldn't dream of it, and would trust anyone I've met wouldn't contemplate such a thing! "

Funny... I mentioned you to someone last week cause I thought he'd probably like you... does that count?

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By *inktherapyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

I've had someone email me for a same day meet that I'd had no previous contact with but we'd been chatting to the same bi-male. I didn't meet them that day, but did 2 days later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How crass! Wouldn't dream of it, and would trust anyone I've met wouldn't contemplate such a thing!

Funny... I mentioned you to someone last week cause I thought he'd probably like you... does that count? "

Now that's different!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its the only way we get to meet other couples - how else would you achieve variety if you don't communicate with other like minded in your 'group' who have met those outside of it and had a damned good time and want to recommend. Usually we meet in someones house and the new people are there so we are aware but it isn't cast in stone we have to 'get together'. I just see it as socialising same as if we were all keen photographers or bird watchers.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Used to always recommend friends to each other as they did me to people, one of my friends and i are very alike and usually like the same type of guy and if a guy tends to like one of us he might like the other. Always worked out really well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont think I would, not on a one to one. I have been recommended by a couple to attend a party that another couple were organising and they did invite us and we had a great time, but it was a party invite which felt different because a few couples were invited.

I might say that such and such were really nice people but I wouldnt say, ooo yeah he does this.. you wanna try him and i wouldnt like to be thought of as a commodity myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have had people mail or come up to see me asking what a person is like as see them on my feedback , lol xx

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