FabSwingers.com forum: Boob distraction

By *rummagem OP Man
over a year ago

Bedworth/Nuneaton

I was talking recently in an office work environment to an attractive woman in her 40s who was visiting, and who was blessed with large breasts, and she was wearing a blouse and jacket. I normally ignore it (with difficulty!) However, after politely maintaining eye contact whilst talking for a minute or two, I caved and *had* to look at her breasts. Now, it was only for a second or two, and I immediately re-established eye contact as we talked for the rest of the conversation. She just give an amused look, as we both obviously knew I'd looked, but carried on talking and nothing further was said about it.

What I was wondering was this? Is it acceptable from a woman's point of view for a man to briefly look at her breasts at the start, as long as the man is respectful and maintains eye contact for the rest of the conversation? Is it better to do what I (accidently) did? Or is it safest (and boring!) to pretend to be a eunuch in the office.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a large bust and try to dress appropriately for work. I almost never catch people looking at my cleavage - mainly because I cover up.

When I do catch people looking, it's almost always lecherous old men who would over sexualise any female given the chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a large bust and try to dress appropriately for work. I almost never catch people looking at my cleavage - mainly because I cover up.

When I do catch people looking, it's almost always lecherous old men who would over sexualise any female given the chance. "

And yeah, I don't get offended if it's just a glance. It's normal to look at the entire body of someone. I'd only be irritated if they were solely talking to my tits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of the hardest interviews I ever had was with a woman with nice rack. I maintained eye contact like a motherfucker. She had nice eyes which helped. I actually got that job. Wonder if it was because of the amazing eye contact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind if one takes a quick look and then that's it but if they stare

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By *t3_jalapenoMan
over a year ago

darlo

"I don't mind if one takes a quick look and then that's it but if they stare

Just had a quick stare at yours now lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretend to be a eunuch or you will quickly become one

Personally i wouldn't even notice of someone was trying to get an eyeful at work. I'm there to work not looking for sex.....and i dress appropriately.

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By *rummagem OP Man
over a year ago

Bedworth/Nuneaton

Thanks for the reassuring advice. Yes, I was just a lecherous old man who was over sexualising her...

. Lol

No, seriously, in the workplace, I usually engage with women in a normal & professional manner, and keep sex out of the equation, which is why (for me, anyway), it was noteworthy what happened. Which is why it's stuck with me, I guess.

She smiled warmly as she shook my hand before she left, so if she did notice, she wasn't offended. Luckily!

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