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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What's the deal with rude people on here you send a message just being friendly and get abuse back what's that about thought this was ment to be fun ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's the deal with rude people on here you send a message just being friendly and get abuse back what's that about thought this was ment to be fun ??"

I always try to reply to at least someone's first message to me, and I always try to be polite when declining their interest. But I can totally understand why recipients are rude in their replies at times....

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

lucky you.. they don't even send me abuse back.. just ignore my message

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Just block them and forget it,you need to be thick skinned on here as there are lots of rude people.Its easy to be so online.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What's the deal with rude people on here you send a message just being friendly and get abuse back what's that about thought this was ment to be fun ??

I always try to reply to at least someone's first message to me, and I always try to be polite when declining their interest. But I can totally

understand why recipients are rude in their replies at times.... "

Fair point and I know not everyone is everyone's cup of tea that's life and can understand if someone's bombarded with messages it maybe a bit of a joke replying to all of them so I get that x

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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Just block them and forget it,you need to be thick skinned on here as there are lots of rude people.Its easy to be so online."

This...unfortunate but true

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just block them and forget it,you need to be thick skinned on here as there are lots of rude people.Its easy to be so online."

Learning that lol thanks for the advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rudeness is uncalled for but I don't understand why men message those who's profile they don't fit what that person is looking for, just for a chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lucky you.. they don't even send me abuse back.. just ignore my message "

Lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Worse when the bastards block you before you can reply back

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Op - there is absolutely no reason for you to be treated with anything other than respect. This includes rejecting someone.

Please report the users to admin. And don't feel that it's normal or accepted here. If you're adhering to peoples preferences for contacting them then there's no reason for them to be even mildly bothered. Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems you can't do right for doing wrong do times

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"Op - there is absolutely no reason for you to be treated with anything other than respect. This includes rejecting someone.

Please report the users to admin. And don't feel that it's normal or accepted here. If you're adhering to peoples preferences for contacting them then there's no reason for them to be even mildly bothered. Good luck!"

You're so sensible, Sophie.

I'd've just written "Fuck off" or something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had someone go nuts just because I fab a pictures they just put up, I just laugh and block them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Op - there is absolutely no reason for you to be treated with anything other than respect. This includes rejecting someone.

Please report the users to admin. And don't feel that it's normal or accepted here. If you're adhering to peoples preferences for contacting them then there's no reason for them to be even mildly bothered. Good luck!

You're so sensible, Sophie.

I'd've just written "Fuck off" or something."

Was tempting but didn't think they were worth retaliating to ??

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Op- I've gabbed a couple of your photos, in the hope that it brings you some interest and luck.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Op - there is absolutely no reason for you to be treated with anything other than respect. This includes rejecting someone.

Please report the users to admin. And don't feel that it's normal or accepted here. If you're adhering to peoples preferences for contacting them then there's no reason for them to be even mildly bothered. Good luck!

You're so sensible, Sophie.

I'd've just written "Fuck off" or something."

They can report you if you do that though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had someone go nuts just because I fab a pictures they just put up, I just laugh and block them "

If they don't want them fabbed then they need to adjust their settings! There's some mad people on here !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's the deal with rude people on here you send a message just being friendly and get abuse back what's that about thought this was ment to be fun ??"

If this is really a regular occurrence I do wonder what you are saying.

I've been here for several years and never had abuse in response to a first message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's the deal with rude people on here you send a message just being friendly and get abuse back what's that about thought this was ment to be fun ??

If this is really a regular occurrence I do wonder what you are saying.

I've been here for several years and never had abuse in response to a first message "

Would you like some?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What's the deal with rude people on here you send a message just being friendly and get abuse back what's that about thought this was ment to be fun ??

If this is really a regular occurrence I do wonder what you are saying.

I've been here for several years and never had abuse in response to a first message "

Was literally hello nice profile and pics hope you're good then got abuse

Back and blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Report abusive messages. It's not accepted by admin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's the deal with rude people on here you send a message just being friendly and get abuse back what's that about thought this was ment to be fun ??

If this is really a regular occurrence I do wonder what you are saying.

I've been here for several years and never had abuse in response to a first message

Was literally hello nice profile and pics hope you're good then got abuse

Back and blocked "

Maybe they were having a bad day

No thanks is usually seen as abuse by a few thou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've never been rude to anyone even though we've had messages that could quite easily make us be . Not all mail from single guys comes across as very nice even so no point being rude just say nothing delete and block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's the deal with rude people on here you send a message just being friendly and get abuse back what's that about thought this was ment to be fun ??"

After being on here for a couple of weeks with the wife, at first all we got was cock pics and one line messages, quite rude ones too!

Now I think people are reading what we are BOTH looking for, some still slip through the net, but we are getting through to the males now

If we receive a polite message from a single male, they at least get a polite decline.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's the deal with rude people on here you send a message just being friendly and get abuse back what's that about thought this was ment to be fun ??

If this is really a regular occurrence I do wonder what you are saying.

I've been here for several years and never had abuse in response to a first message "

After several years of being him I'm surprised you're wondering how this could happen. Surely by now you have realised there are a lot of abusive women on here. I'm not going to speculate as to why he received abuse after sending a polite message; there could be any number of reasons. I've rarely received abuse from saying no thank you to men,yet women say they get it often.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are rude people in all walks of life, not just here. Its just words on a screen from a keyboard warrior, ignore, report and block them. No point lowering yourself to their level and being abusive back, I was always extra nice to anyone sending abuse. Its nice people show their true colours early so you can exit swiftly and move on.

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By *heffmMan
over a year ago

sheffield

The reply and block option to messages could possibly encourage the abuse, if it was removed you might just get ignorance

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What's the deal with rude people on here you send a message just being friendly and get abuse back what's that about thought this was ment to be fun ??

If this is really a regular occurrence I do wonder what you are saying.

I've been here for several years and never had abuse in response to a first message

After several years of being him I'm surprised you're wondering how this could happen. Surely by now you have realised there are a lot of abusive women on here. I'm not going to speculate as to why he received abuse after sending a polite message; there could be any number of reasons. I've rarely received abuse from saying no thank you to men,yet women say they get it often. "

Thanks for the advice it's appreciated ?? X

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Daz - you can find some wonderful people here as friends, so that you don't potentially feel isolated, should things not be great. You'll spot some gems in the forums too

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