FabSwingers.com forum: WTF

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

i have had the crapest message of all tonight from some muppet it said and i quote

FAT MESS

why do i bother wouldnt have minded but i replied thanks but no thanks

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)

There is lot of it going on right now. Fab has a few doing this and worse on right now from what i can gather. Shame really as there is no need for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Report, that's abuse

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon

"i have had the crapest message of all tonight from some muppet it said and i quote

FAT MESS

why do i bother wouldnt have minded but i replied thanks but no thanks "

I think it was a typo, he obviously meant to say "Thanks for letting me know. Have fun. Bye"

Easy mistake to make really.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

usually i wouldnt have replied but i sent a message back even tho he wasnt waht i was looking for at all oh well reort it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't even give it a second thought hun, I've had a few like that of late but it just makes me laugh now especially as they can't think of anything more original for us big girls...obviously can't take the rejection no matter how polite we are xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

well thats what makes me laugh his only verifacation is from a larger lady so really stumped why he thinks it funny well hes reported so hopefully end of that lol

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon

Not that I'm suggesting you are a fat mess, but if you were, would you have been a fat mess when he sent you the message hoping to meet you, or did you suddenly become more fatter-and-messier in between the time he sent you the mail and you replied saying "thanks but no thanks"?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

im a big girl not a fat mess and it doesnt matter whether i was a size 0 when he first messaged me and i put on 20 stones he has no right to call me names

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon

"im a big girl not a fat mess and it doesnt matter whether i was a size 0 when he first messaged me and i put on 20 stones he has no right to call me names "

Sorry, I think my post wasn't perhaps very clear.

I wasn't implying you are a "fat mess" (although I have no idea what that's even supposed to mean).

My point was that he contacted you first not the other way round. I was highlighting that someone who does that sort of thing is a hypocritical twunt.

You did the right thing by reporting him, as abusive messages are against the rules.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

sorry i think i have my prickly bitch face on lol wasnt having a go x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

LOL gotta laugh at the people on here who cant handle rejection!!!!

Just ignore and block anyone like that in future....they not even worth a reply!!!

xXXx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The trouble is...if some man gets a 'thrill' from being abusive to women in private messages...writing this thread will have delighted him if he reads it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block them and move on. There will always be rude people and they are not worth bothering with.

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)

"Block them and move on. There will always be rude people and they are not worth bothering with. "

Thats ok till you get the saddos who then put up another profile to send more abuse with. Some rel sad lonley buggers about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Report, that's abuse"
2nd that as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send a second mail saying ....

"awwww so you dont wanna meet then" ???

Bet he suddenly changes his mind.......

Kin merchant bankers everywhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Send a second mail saying ....

"awwww so you dont wanna meet then" ???

Bet he suddenly changes his mind.......

Kin merchant bankers everywhere

Awww be fair peeps... You gotta spare a thought for a poor 2@ who cant spell "Fit Miss" without a spellchecker...

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Some men don't take rejection very well, it isn't a new thing on these type of sites and it probably won't be the last time a nasty mail is sent.

REPORT it from the PM or the profile and block.

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