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Cutting my nose off...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

...to spite my face

Don't know whats wrong with me tonight but I am really telling it like it is, even to guys I would give my right arm for, had 3 messages tonight from guys who have either ignored a message from me or turned me down within the last month, telling me they have read my profile and I seem really interesting and sexy blah blah blah, so I've been pointing out to them that only a couple of weeks ago I wasn't suitable and basically to bugger off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah !

Why should you have ANY fun Simone.

Yeah !

You keep tellin em to get lost xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think cutting your nose off would do more than spite...it would fookin hurt!

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

if you werent good enough afew weeks or months back why would you wanna meet em now anyway hun ?? would of thought you would of said no before to people like that, not just tonite . plenty of decent folks who do make effort and not only message when they havent got a better offer ,ur worth more than that x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"if you werent good enough afew weeks or months back why would you wanna meet em now anyway hun ?? would of thought you would of said no before to people like that, not just tonite . plenty of decent folks who do make effort and not only message when they havent got a better offer ,ur worth more than that x"

Thanks Hun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if you werent good enough afew weeks or months back why would you wanna meet em now anyway hun ?? would of thought you would of said no before to people like that, not just tonite . plenty of decent folks who do make effort and not only message when they havent got a better offer ,ur worth more than that x"

Agree 100%!

Don't understand this post at all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if you werent good enough afew weeks or months back why would you wanna meet em now anyway hun ?? would of thought you would of said no before to people like that, not just tonite . plenty of decent folks who do make effort and not only message when they havent got a better offer ,ur worth more than that x

Agree 100%!

Don't understand this post at all! "

Perhaps she is expressing her crossness/confusion as opposed to kicking the cat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had someone like that, who turned me down after a few messages to say he was not into chunkier ladies, for him to contact me a few months later to say he has changed his mind.

I informed him of his previous rejection, and he asked for a second chance, citing it would be the kind/generous thing to do etc...

And I said no, no second chance in my book, and I am not a generous or kind person!

That shut him up. No skin off my little nose!

Simples!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I would be the same as Simone I have to admit. If a guy messaged to say sorry you're not my type and then a few weeks later messaged to say hey Id like to meet after all I'd tell him where to go - and probably with the words "you cheeky bastard" somewhere in the text

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By *eaboMan
over a year ago

marden

if you weren't good enough a few weeks ago girl then the only reason i can think is that they are getting deperate for a shag and anyone will do. tell them where to go and walk away with your head high. just because they are desperate doesn't mean you need to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if you weren't good enough a few weeks ago girl then the only reason i can think is that they are getting deperate for a shag and anyone will do. tell them where to go and walk away with your head high. just because they are desperate doesn't mean you need to be."

That's my point.

If someone turned me down, then after a few weeks on site realised that they weren't getting the supermodel types they craved, but their hard on wasn't going away and contacted me, with a "oh, go on then, I'll lower my standards for a shag" type message, why would that be seen as cutting off your nose to spite your face?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...to spite my face

Don't know whats wrong with me tonight but I am really telling it like it is, even to guys I would give my right arm for, had 3 messages tonight from guys who have either ignored a message from me or turned me down within the last month, telling me they have read my profile and I seem really interesting and sexy blah blah blah, so I've been pointing out to them that only a couple of weeks ago I wasn't suitable and basically to bugger off"

ive been the same in chat and really straight to the point x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with being straight to the point, I am the same, and diplomacy has never been my strong point.

Being cheery and optimistic, and don't dwell on negativity are my better points!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing wrong with being straight to the point, I am the same, and diplomacy has never been my strong point.

Being cheery and optimistic, and don't dwell on negativity are my better points! "

i get told off all the time for tact and bluntless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing wrong with being straight to the point, I am the same, and diplomacy has never been my strong point.

Being cheery and optimistic, and don't dwell on negativity are my better points!

i get told off all the time for tact and bluntless "

.

Same here!

However, it is usually by those who cannot handle the truth, like managers who got to their positions by major arse-licking or worse rather than on their own merrits.

And to those managers, I give them my one finger salute!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing wrong with being straight to the point, I am the same, and diplomacy has never been my strong point.

Being cheery and optimistic, and don't dwell on negativity are my better points!

i get told off all the time for tact and bluntless

.

Same here!

However, it is usually by those who cannot handle the truth, like managers who got to their positions by major arse-licking or worse rather than on their own merrits.

And to those managers, I give them my one finger salute!

"

Oh pearl!

ur really having a crap time of it!!

Hope this next week at work is better than last week for ya

Keep yer chin up hun

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh pearl!

ur really having a crap time of it!!

Hope this next week at work is better than last week for ya

Keep yer chin up hun

xxx"

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Nah, I am having fun at my current place, as I am a pleb without management responsibilities! I was referring to some of my peers in my last place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...to spite my face

Don't know whats wrong with me tonight but I am really telling it like it is, even to guys I would give my right arm for, had 3 messages tonight from guys who have either ignored a message from me or turned me down within the last month, telling me they have read my profile and I seem really interesting and sexy blah blah blah, so I've been pointing out to them that only a couple of weeks ago I wasn't suitable and basically to bugger off"

yes

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