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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

why have i lost the Confidence to meet people ?

Once i would not think twice when meeting people for casual fun but now i just don't seem to have the confidence to meet anyone.

What is wrong with me ?

Please be kind if you feel the need to respond.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Maybe it's stress from something else?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its prob just a phase pal stick with it im sure you wil be fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think most of us have been there, you get a knock to your confidence and it can snowball, take some time off, do some stuff you're good at, then come back and take it slow, chat, flirt, be cheeky, and all will fall back into place

Good luck

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Just have a little break maybe,I get like that at times. Have a little chat to people instead and I'm sure your confidence will reappear in time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing is wrong with you, most people lose their mojo at some point.

Try not to worry about it and enjoy the 'break'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing is wrong with you, most people lose their mojo at some point.

Try not to worry about it and enjoy the 'break'. "

Scarlett stars im sure thats the name of a scottish rock band?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP... If you've been out of the dating or social side of things in your life for a while?

Then it's understandable to feel apprehensive and nervous etc.

Try and get yourself back out there taking it slowly at your on pace and you'll soon be back to your old confident self I'm sure .

Good luck

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

As we don't know you personally; it's difficult to say;

I would suggest you sit down and go a bit if self analysis;

Have you changed recently ? Appearance, health, family matters, where you live?

Is this los of confidence just for meets? Or gave you lost confidence elsewhere? With freinds, at work, etc

Is there any incident that might have triggered it?

If you go a " then and now list", you might find a pattern or a reason

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Confidence is a funny old thing, affected by all sorts of outside factors. Has anything changed in your life recently?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Confidence is a funny old thing, affected by all sorts of outside factors. Has anything changed in your life recently?"

His underpants this morning

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