FabSwingers.com forum: can't accommodate

By *r Man. OP Man
over a year ago

London

More and more, when as a single man if i do read someone's profile, it states

"If you can't accommodate do not contact me" basically saying we are all lying cheating bastards,

That isn't an issue with me, but what I do find intriguing is that they don't accommodate either.

So people please explain the logic behind this, and i do know about people having choices

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"More and more, when as a single man if i do read someone's profile, it states

"If you can't accommodate do not contact me" basically saying we are all lying cheating bastards,

That isn't an issue with me, but what I do find intriguing is that they don't accommodate either.

So people please explain the logic behind this, and i do know about people having choices

I have often thought this along with the ones that say no pic no reply without a pic themselves.

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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle

"More and more, when as a single man if i do read someone's profile, it states

"If you can't accommodate do not contact me" basically saying we are all lying cheating bastards,

That isn't an issue with me, but what I do find intriguing is that they don't accommodate either.

So people please explain the logic behind this, and i do know about people having choices

Maybe they simply need someone who can accom because they can't!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ones that make me chuckle are those who can neither travel or accommodate.

I do wonder how on earth they expect to have any meets - and where

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"More and more, when as a single man if i do read someone's profile, it states

"If you can't accommodate do not contact me" basically saying we are all lying cheating bastards,

That isn't an issue with me, but what I do find intriguing is that they don't accommodate either.

So people please explain the logic behind this, and i do know about people having choices

Maybe they simply need someone who can accom because they can't!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they cant accom because there cheating aswell

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"The ones that make me chuckle are those who can neither travel or accommodate.

I do wonder how on earth they expect to have any meets - and where

That's me.

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Maybe cos single mum's tend to have the kids at home? So difficult to accommodate? True for me. I can but it needs arranging. And is sometimes short notice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The ones that make me chuckle are those who can neither travel or accommodate.

I do wonder how on earth they expect to have any meets - and where

Hotel just around the corner perhaps ?

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

"The ones that make me chuckle are those who can neither travel or accommodate.

I do wonder how on earth they expect to have any meets - and where

i have previously gone to meet the girl in her town...even if it is a 3hr journey. things guys do

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By *r Man. OP Man
over a year ago

London

"More and more, when as a single man if i do read someone's profile, it states

"If you can't accommodate do not contact me" basically saying we are all lying cheating bastards,

That isn't an issue with me, but what I do find intriguing is that they don't accommodate either.

So people please explain the logic behind this, and i do know about people having choices

Maybe they simply need someone who can accom because they can't!

Also no lodge, Inn or car parks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The ones that make me chuckle are those who can neither travel or accommodate.

I do wonder how on earth they expect to have any meets - and where

Clubs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Orgy at my place then yeah... Bring m some women though lool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"More and more, when as a single man if i do read someone's profile, it states

"If you can't accommodate do not contact me" basically saying we are all lying cheating bastards,

That isn't an issue with me, but what I do find intriguing is that they don't accommodate either.

So people please explain the logic behind this, and i do know about people having choices

They cant accom.

So want somone who can.

Damn that was hard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"More and more, when as a single man if i do read someone's profile, it states

"If you can't accommodate do not contact me" basically saying we are all lying cheating bastards,

That isn't an issue with me, but what I do find intriguing is that they don't accommodate either.

So people please explain the logic behind this, and i do know about people having choices

Well if you both can'tachometer it makes it more difficult.

Generally women can't accommodate because of children, rather than wives though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"More and more, when as a single man if i do read someone's profile, it states

"If you can't accommodate do not contact me" basically saying we are all lying cheating bastards,

That isn't an issue with me, but what I do find intriguing is that they don't accommodate either.

So people please explain the logic behind this, and i do know about people having choices

While not fail safe it is a good way to eliminate cheats, most won't accommodate in their own home.

Obviously this also eliminates an awful lot of people who can't accommodate for other reasons too

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By *awtynNiceCouple
over a year ago

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When we could accommodate we did so and didn't care if others could or not as we know that in todays climate their inability to accommodate could be for a number of reasons not simply an unaware partner as many assume. For some time due to various reasons we cant accommodate so the logical thing to do is to look for people who can, otherwise its hotels, parties or clubs; but its cheaper to meet at someone's house.

Hope that helps x

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By *ali 69Man
over a year ago

jersey

"The ones that make me chuckle are those who can neither travel or accommodate.

I do wonder how on earth they expect to have any meets - and where

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Behind a skip ?

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By *r Man. OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Maybe cos single mum's tend to have the kids at home? So difficult to accommodate? True for me. I can but it needs arranging. And is sometimes short notice. "

I appreciate that, on my profile it clearly states that for me, but then again, if I can understand your predicament, why can't they understand mine,

Just saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's call choice - right? We live in the free world.

https://youtu.be/xsHly9UuQ-A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe cos single mum's tend to have the kids at home? So difficult to accommodate? True for me. I can but it needs arranging. And is sometimes short notice.

I appreciate that, on my profile it clearly states that for me, but then again, if I can understand your predicament, why can't they understand mine,

Just saying

Because you have a cock

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Maybe cos single mum's tend to have the kids at home? So difficult to accommodate? True for me. I can but it needs arranging. And is sometimes short notice.

I appreciate that, on my profile it clearly states that for me, but then again, if I can understand your predicament, why can't they understand mine,

Just saying

Darling, you're a man. There are so many of you on here we don't have to understand you let alone accommodate your reasons for not being able to accommodate.

I know one man who does have that he can accommodate on his profile but he means that he will do so at a hotel.

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By *uvesmuffinCouple
over a year ago

Barking

We always meet in the kitchen at parties

Him

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By *r Man. OP Man
over a year ago

London

"More and more, when as a single man if i do read someone's profile, it states

"If you can't accommodate do not contact me" basically saying we are all lying cheating bastards,

That isn't an issue with me, but what I do find intriguing is that they don't accommodate either.

So people please explain the logic behind this, and i do know about people having choices

They cant accom.

So want somone who can.

Damn that was hard."

I asked for an explanation, and up came the brightest spark in the vacuum.

So want somone (someone)who can.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"More and more, when as a single man if i do read someone's profile, it states

"If you can't accommodate do not contact me" basically saying we are all lying cheating bastards,

That isn't an issue with me, but what I do find intriguing is that they don't accommodate either.

So people please explain the logic behind this, and i do know about people having choices

Actually, no. I don't assume men that can't accommodate are lying cheating bastards. About 99% of meets were done at mine, so I didn't care if they accommodated or not.

My daughter was coming home from uni and I mentioned to my playmate that our next meet would have to be at his (we'd been meeting for about eighteen months, always at mine ). We were in my bed and he turned, looked at me aghast and said "I don't let people I meet off the internet into my home, it's not a knocking shop!"

After chucking him out of my home I changed who I met. I don't ask anyone to justify why they can't accommodate, I don't care. I take it they see their home as sacrosanct whilst mine is a knocking shop so only meet those who accommodate.

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By *r Man. OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Maybe cos single mum's tend to have the kids at home? So difficult to accommodate? True for me. I can but it needs arranging. And is sometimes short notice.

I appreciate that, on my profile it clearly states that for me, but then again, if I can understand your predicament, why can't they understand mine,

Just saying

Darling, you're a man. There are so many of you on here we don't have to understand you let alone accommodate your reasons for not being able to accommodate.

I know one man who does have that he can accommodate on his profile but he means that he will do so at a hotel.

Honey, I'm a realist, I know what your saying is the truth, on the scene, but please don't crush my thread

Mwah!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"More and more, when as a single man if i do read someone's profile, it states

"If you can't accommodate do not contact me" basically saying we are all lying cheating bastards,

That isn't an issue with me, but what I do find intriguing is that they don't accommodate either.

So people please explain the logic behind this, and i do know about people having choices

They cant accom.

So want somone who can.

Damn that was hard.

I asked for an explanation, and up came the brightest spark in the vacuum.

So want somone (someone)who can.

Well it's a pretty reasonable explanation isn't it?

It's why I only meet people who accom.

Hotels are far too much hassle for initial meets especialy when there are plenty of people who can accom.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"More and more, when as a single man if i do read someone's profile, it states

"If you can't accommodate do not contact me" basically saying we are all lying cheating bastards,

That isn't an issue with me, but what I do find intriguing is that they don't accommodate either.

So people please explain the logic behind this, and i do know about people having choices

Actually, no. I don't assume men that can't accommodate are lying cheating bastards. About 99% of meets were done at mine, so I didn't care if they accommodated or not.

I used to accommodate but one of the reasons I stopped was because there was an assumption that it was my responsibility/role to accommodate.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"Maybe cos single mum's tend to have the kids at home? So difficult to accommodate? True for me. I can but it needs arranging. And is sometimes short notice.

I appreciate that, on my profile it clearly states that for me, but then again, if I can understand your predicament, why can't they understand mine,

Just saying

If you can't accommodate why would you contact someone that also can't surely that's doomed for failure from the start?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"More and more, when as a single man if i do read someone's profile, it states

"If you can't accommodate do not contact me" basically saying we are all lying cheating bastards,

That isn't an issue with me, but what I do find intriguing is that they don't accommodate either.

So people please explain the logic behind this, and i do know about people having choices

While not fail safe it is a good way to eliminate cheats, most won't accommodate in their own home.

Obviously this also eliminates an awful lot of people who can't accommodate for other reasons too"

shit that's me uncovered feck I can accom and travel but yet ....

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Maybe cos single mum's tend to have the kids at home? So difficult to accommodate? True for me. I can but it needs arranging. And is sometimes short notice.

I appreciate that, on my profile it clearly states that for me, but then again, if I can understand your predicament, why can't they understand mine,

Just saying

Darling, you're a man. There are so many of you on here we don't have to understand you let alone accommodate your reasons for not being able to accommodate.

I know one man who does have that he can accommodate on his profile but he means that he will do so at a hotel.

Honey, I'm a realist, I know what your saying is the truth, on the scene, but please don't crush my thread

Mwah!"

Sorry hubby.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

In my experience, single women who can't accomodate often can't do so because they have children and are willing to get a sitter.....

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By *r Man. OP Man
over a year ago

London

"More and more, when as a single man if i do read someone's profile, it states

"If you can't accommodate do not contact me" basically saying we are all lying cheating bastards,

That isn't an issue with me, but what I do find intriguing is that they don't accommodate either.

So people please explain the logic behind this, and i do know about people having choices

Actually, no. I don't assume men that can't accommodate are lying cheating bastards. About 99% of meets were done at mine, so I didn't care if they accommodated or not.

I don't blame you for taking the stance you have.

If you can accommodate and for what ver reason the man cant accommodate you have all rights to say not in my name,

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Maybe cos single mum's tend to have the kids at home? So difficult to accommodate? True for me. I can but it needs arranging. And is sometimes short notice.

I appreciate that, on my profile it clearly states that for me, but then again, if I can understand your predicament, why can't they understand mine,

Just saying

If you can't accommodate why would you contact someone that also can't surely that's doomed for failure from the start? "

Exactly - perhaps the OP is simply assuming judgement when there is none?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't want men who can't accommodate to contact me. I can't either. That leaves us in a bit of an awkward position.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The ones that make me chuckle are those who can neither travel or accommodate.

I do wonder how on earth they expect to have any meets - and where

That's me.

And me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In my experience, single women who can't accomodate often can't do so because they have children and are willing to get a sitter....."

I can't get anyone to babysit my son. Probably because he's 30 and 6ft 4.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

State that you can accommodate and book a nice hotel on the snide

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By *r Man. OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Maybe cos single mum's tend to have the kids at home? So difficult to accommodate? True for me. I can but it needs arranging. And is sometimes short notice.

I appreciate that, on my profile it clearly states that for me, but then again, if I can understand your predicament, why can't they understand mine,

Just saying

If you can't accommodate why would you contact someone that also can't surely that's doomed for failure from the start? "

No far from it, most of my friends don't accommodate, but we seem to manage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe cos single mum's tend to have the kids at home? So difficult to accommodate? True for me. I can but it needs arranging. And is sometimes short notice.

I appreciate that, on my profile it clearly states that for me, but then again, if I can understand your predicament, why can't they understand mine,

Just saying

If you can't accommodate why would you contact someone that also can't surely that's doomed for failure from the start?

No far from it, most of my friends don't accommodate, but we seem to manage

Behind a bush?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"State that you can accommodate and book a nice hotel on the snide

Some men do accommodate in a hotel,even though they live alone. I don't mind that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's not a chance in hell that I'd have anyone from this site at my house and not a chance in hell I'd go to anyone's house either.

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By *r Man. OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Maybe cos single mum's tend to have the kids at home? So difficult to accommodate? True for me. I can but it needs arranging. And is sometimes short notice.

I appreciate that, on my profile it clearly states that for me, but then again, if I can understand your predicament, why can't they understand mine,

Just saying

If you can't accommodate why would you contact someone that also can't surely that's doomed for failure from the start?

No far from it, most of my friends don't accommodate, but we seem to manage

Behind a bush?"

Come on I don't know you and you me, I've got class.

Morrison car park

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lmfao

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By *r Man. OP Man
over a year ago

London

"State that you can accommodate and book a nice hotel on the snide

Some men do accommodate in a hotel,even though they live alone. I don't mind that. "

So that's ok then,

He accommodates!

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over a year ago

"State that you can accommodate and book a nice hotel on the snide

Some men do accommodate in a hotel,even though they live alone. I don't mind that.

So that's ok then,

He accommodates!

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or I will accom and just bring me some women as your entrance fee

lool

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By *r Man. OP Man
over a year ago

London

"State that you can accommodate and book a nice hotel on the snide

Some men do accommodate in a hotel,even though they live alone. I don't mind that.

So that's ok then,

He accommodates!

Exactly

Right! I'm changing my states saying I can accommodate because I live in the Lodge

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By *rixi DevineWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

"The ones that make me chuckle are those who can neither travel or accommodate.

I do wonder how on earth they expect to have any meets - and where

oh, no worries there....

they're still meeting; one way or another....

where there's a will & all that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe cos single mum's tend to have the kids at home? So difficult to accommodate? True for me. I can but it needs arranging. And is sometimes short notice.

I appreciate that, on my profile it clearly states that for me, but then again, if I can understand your predicament, why can't they understand mine,

Just saying

If you can't accommodate why would you contact someone that also can't surely that's doomed for failure from the start?

No far from it, most of my friends don't accommodate, but we seem to manage

Behind a bush?

Come on I don't know you and you me, I've got class.

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After it closes?

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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago

You Dont Need to Know, right now

I can accommodate, but I won't, for reasons of personal safety. Having had a stalker from another site, I won't tell people where I live. Hence, a first meet is always 'social only', and if we agree that we want to meet again to play, I would expect to go halves on a room in a Premier Inn/Travelodge.

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By *rixi DevineWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

"More and more, when as a single man if i do read someone's profile, it states

"If you can't accommodate do not contact me" basically saying we are all lying cheating bastards,

That isn't an issue with me, but what I do find intriguing is that they don't accommodate either.

So people please explain the logic behind this, and i do know about people having choices

i always state that i can't accommodate!

ive found that if your profile says you can, some guys get even more pushy & demanding

they assume that as you have a bed & a roof over your head then you absolutely must be able to accommodate them at a moments notice

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't accommodate as I don't want strangers in the same home as my daughter. Even if she is not here, it's her home too. Why would I let a stranger into our sanctuary?

If I lived alone the situation might be different.

I respect my daughters space.

I only meet people who can accommodate. Pointless otherwise.

Just my opinion.

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By *r Man. OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Maybe cos single mum's tend to have the kids at home? So difficult to accommodate? True for me. I can but it needs arranging. And is sometimes short notice.

I appreciate that, on my profile it clearly states that for me, but then again, if I can understand your predicament, why can't they understand mine,

Just saying

If you can't accommodate why would you contact someone that also can't surely that's doomed for failure from the start?

No far from it, most of my friends don't accommodate, but we seem to manage

Behind a bush?

Come on I don't know you and you me, I've got class.

Morrison car park

After it closes?"

No, not exactly, last thing at night just when the trucks are making there delivery of pork pies, when they have their head lamps on, and the light is hitting the car.

Hold on, You've been there, haven't you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"More and more, when as a single man if i do read someone's profile, it states

"If you can't accommodate do not contact me" basically saying we are all lying cheating bastards,

That isn't an issue with me, but what I do find intriguing is that they don't accommodate either.

So people please explain the logic behind this, and i do know about people having choices

I have often thought this along with the ones that say no pic no reply without a pic themselves."

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By *rixi DevineWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

as a single woman on this site, the dangers & downsides to what should be adult fun, for grown-up type people, are sadly far too many to just give out your address!

there's a whole lot of creepy & sometimes all out frightening, guys on here.

im so thankful that ive had 'run-ins' with one or two proper lunatics, only online! changing your mobile number & blocking them on here, is far easier than moving house, to get rid of them! haha

obviously there are a few good guys here but, finding an honestly genuine one, is very hard....

plus, i know guys that have 'can accommodate & travel' on their profile.... but, that's only for show. when in fact, they are just hiding the wife & family at home lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"as a single woman on this site, the dangers & downsides to what should be adult fun, for grown-up type people, are sadly far too many to just give out your address!

there's a whole lot of creepy & sometimes all out frightening, guys on here.

im so thankful that ive had 'run-ins' with one or two proper lunatics, only online! changing your mobile number & blocking them on here, is far easier than moving house, to get rid of them! haha

obviously there are a few good guys here but, finding an honestly genuine one, is very hard....

plus, i know guys that have 'can accommodate & travel' on their profile.... but, that's only for show. when in fact, they are just hiding the wife & family at home lol

Good point tbf.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm suspicious of people who can't accommodate but appreciate people have their reasons and not always just because they're married!

I won't accommodate a stranger so would insist on a social/hotel meet first, I'm wary of who might turn up at my door!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe cos single mum's tend to have the kids at home? So difficult to accommodate? True for me. I can but it needs arranging. And is sometimes short notice.

I appreciate that, on my profile it clearly states that for me, but then again, if I can understand your predicament, why can't they understand mine,

Just saying

If you can't accommodate why would you contact someone that also can't surely that's doomed for failure from the start?

No far from it, most of my friends don't accommodate, but we seem to manage

Behind a bush?

Come on I don't know you and you me, I've got class.

Morrison car park

After it closes?

No, not exactly, last thing at night just when the trucks are making there delivery of pork pies, when they have their head lamps on, and the light is hitting the car.

Hold on, You've been there, haven't you

I'm a regular

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By *razedcatMan
over a year ago

London / Herts

I always wondered what is more daunting for a single woman on Fab - travelling to a single guy's house for a meet, or inviting that same single guy into her own home!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm suspicious of people who can't accommodate but appreciate people have their reasons and not always just because they're married!

I won't accommodate a stranger so would insist on a social/hotel meet first, I'm wary of who might turn up at my door!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always wondered what is more daunting for a single woman on Fab - travelling to a single guy's house for a meet, or inviting that same single guy into her own home!"

I'd be wary of both, always meet in a public place is the first rule of meeting online (I dread the day I'm d*unk and horny and forget all the safety rules!

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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago

You Dont Need to Know, right now

"I always wondered what is more daunting for a single woman on Fab - travelling to a single guy's house for a meet, or inviting that same single guy into her own home!"

Obviously, inviting the guy to her home. If the meet goes wrong, alone at either home is a potentially risky situation for a single woman to be in. But at least, once we've walked away from his home, that's the end of it. If he knows where we live, there is always the risk that he won't walk away and stay away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"More and more, when as a single man if i do read someone's profile, it states

"If you can't accommodate do not contact me" basically saying we are all lying cheating bastards,

That isn't an issue with me, but what I do find intriguing is that they don't accommodate either.

So people please explain the logic behind this, and i do know about people having choices

Maybe it's because they can't accommodate they want who they meet to rather than them thinking your a cheat, some people are just to tight to pay for hotels

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's not a chance in hell that I'd have anyone from this site at my house and not a chance in hell I'd go to anyone's house either. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd much rather meet at a neutral venue. Drinks first. Or a hotel. Or my personal seedy favourite, the sex cinema

I've had stalkers in the past (not from here) so I'm wary of letting someone I met on the internet come to my house without getting to know them.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Choices. Take it or leave it. Not my problemo.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

"The ones that make me chuckle are those who can neither travel or accommodate.

I do wonder how on earth they expect to have any meets - and where

Clubs?"

That is where this can't accom, can't travel gal meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can accom but I can't travel but I sometimes worry about accoming because I'm a single woman. Xx

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

"More and more, when as a single man if i do read someone's profile, it states

"If you can't accommodate do not contact me" basically saying we are all lying cheating bastards,

That isn't an issue with me, but what I do find intriguing is that they don't accommodate either.

So people please explain the logic behind this, and i do know about people having choices

It does not simply mean that.

We cannot accomodate due to family at home we therefore meet those who can accomodate.

You are reading too much into what you read

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By *r Man. OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Maybe cos single mum's tend to have the kids at home? So difficult to accommodate? True for me. I can but it needs arranging. And is sometimes short notice.

I appreciate that, on my profile it clearly states that for me, but then again, if I can understand your predicament, why can't they understand mine,

Just saying

If you can't accommodate why would you contact someone that also can't surely that's doomed for failure from the start?

No far from it, most of my friends don't accommodate, but we seem to manage

Behind a bush?

Come on I don't know you and you me, I've got class.

Morrison car park

After it closes?

No, not exactly, last thing at night just when the trucks are making there delivery of pork pies, when they have their head lamps on, and the light is hitting the car.

Hold on, You've been there, haven't you

I'm a regular

My type of girl, do you fancy a Wimpy

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I don't accommodate as I don't want strangers in the same home as my daughter. Even if she is not here, it's her home too. Why would I let a stranger into our sanctuary?

If I lived alone the situation might be different.

I respect my daughters space.

I only meet people who can accommodate. Pointless otherwise.

Just my opinion."

It's this kind of attitude that made me reevaluate who I met. You can't come to my house but you can have the pleasure of accommodating me in yours.

I...don't...think...so!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I always wondered what is more daunting for a single woman on Fab - travelling to a single guy's house for a meet, or inviting that same single guy into her own home!"

Or turning up at an hotel to be met by several men she didn't know as her meet (who wasn't one of the men in the room) had organised a paid gangbang.

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By *riskygazMan
over a year ago

birmingham

"The ones that make me chuckle are those who can neither travel or accommodate.

I do wonder how on earth they expect to have any meets - and where

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I guess they expect us to be a taxi service, pick them up take them back to are place shag them then give them a lift back home lol

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By *iforfun999Man
over a year ago

Haverfordwest

"The ones that make me chuckle are those who can neither travel or accommodate.

I do wonder how on earth they expect to have any meets - and where

I guess they expect us to be a taxi service, pick them up take them back to are place shag them then give them a lift back home lol"

Not forgetting to stop off at the garage on the way back, to pick up some fags, noting that stopping on the pick up journey wasn't suggested, when they could have picked up some wine as a thank you gift.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"If you can't accommodate do not contact me" basically saying we are all lying cheating bastards,

Or it could be that they are simply using it to filter out the people that are cheating?

That's not saying that the majority of those that can't accommodate are cheats but that a majority of cheats can't accommodate. There is a difference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The ones that make me chuckle are those who can neither travel or accommodate.

I do wonder how on earth they expect to have any meets - and where

"Can't travel" doesn't mean "won't leave the house", it means "won't drive an hour away or sit on a train for 4 days to get to you". They will meet at clubs, hotels, other people who live locally.

Why is this so difficult to grasp? I meet people in my local area, or people who are local to where I'm staying with work. It works just fine, and I don't expect them to accommodate either, as I prefer hotels.

Actually, it makes a great filter... I'm sure someone will be along to say it's because we want a free taxi service because we're all money grabbing bitches, thus revealing what they actually think of women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or is simply because they cant accomodate so they want people that can. Because they dont want to pay for hotels & arent club fans?

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