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By *teven788 OP   Man
over a year ago

chester

Guess it's time to give up I'm just no good at fab !!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

It takes time but if you're not enjoying it then go and enjoy yourself away from here. There's lots of fun to be had away from Fab.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As Lickety says lots of fun to be had, also socials and clubs to enjoy of you haven't already but definitely not instashag. Join in the forums and have fun, that's what I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

#smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is the key

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

ttfn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, you need to have patience

You've only been here 4 months.

Given that single men vastly outnumber women and couples here, you are up against some tough competition.

Most single guys wait at least six months to get their first meet.

I think it took me about 8 months - and even as a seasoned, long-ish term, verified member, I still struggle at times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guess it's time to give up I'm just no good at fab !!"

ok ...bye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Patience is the key"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm still waiting for my first meet with someone but I don't give up, theres always someone out there who will one day send me that message. I know I'm not exactly the most fantastic looking guy on here or with a chiselled body but I do my best and I am who I am so I sit patiently waiting. I've been knocked back quite severely to the point where I thought am I that bad?.

Nice guys finish last op that's how I look at it. One day you'll get that meet and they won't know what's hit em in all the positive and right ways. Stick it out and one day you'll be grinning like the Cheshire Cat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm still waiting for my first meet with someone but I don't give up, theres always someone out there who will one day send me that message. I know I'm not exactly the most fantastic looking guy on here or with a chiselled body but I do my best and I am who I am so I sit patiently waiting. I've been knocked back quite severely to the point where I thought am I that bad?.

Nice guys finish last op that's how I look at it. One day you'll get that meet and they won't know what's hit em in all the positive and right ways. Stick it out and one day you'll be grinning like the Cheshire Cat "

If you're sitting back waiting for someone to message you, i'm afraid you're likely to be in for a very long wait. Ladies and couples tend to receive many messages and so are less likely to have to go searching for men for potential meets - and let's face it, why should they ignore all the messages from those who have made the effort, to go looking for someone who hasn't got in touch with them?

I'm afraid that single guys on here need to be more pro-active about getting meets here.

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By *acLe0dMan
over a year ago

Preston


"I'm still waiting for my first meet with someone but I don't give up, theres always someone out there who will one day send me that message. I know I'm not exactly the most fantastic looking guy on here or with a chiselled body but I do my best and I am who I am so I sit patiently waiting. I've been knocked back quite severely to the point where I thought am I that bad?.

Nice guys finish last op that's how I look at it. One day you'll get that meet and they won't know what's hit em in all the positive and right ways. Stick it out and one day you'll be grinning like the Cheshire Cat "

As you say all it takes is that one person for you to click with. For some it comes sooner than others. I's also easier for some than others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm still waiting for my first meet with someone but I don't give up, theres always someone out there who will one day send me that message. I know I'm not exactly the most fantastic looking guy on here or with a chiselled body but I do my best and I am who I am so I sit patiently waiting. I've been knocked back quite severely to the point where I thought am I that bad?.

Nice guys finish last op that's how I look at it. One day you'll get that meet and they won't know what's hit em in all the positive and right ways. Stick it out and one day you'll be grinning like the Cheshire Cat

If you're sitting back waiting for someone to message you, i'm afraid you're likely to be in for a very long wait. Ladies and couples tend to receive many messages and so are less likely to have to go searching for men for potential meets - and let's face it, why should they ignore all the messages from those who have made the effort, to go looking for someone who hasn't got in touch with them?

I'm afraid that single guys on here need to be more pro-active about getting meets here."

In order to find someone then you have to go looking. My whole day I'm surrounded by you lot from 9am in the morning until 4am at night at the weekends. I'm forthcoming and make the effort and let them know that I'm very genuine and not just after a shag and go. It's a struggle and god knows how many messages and comments I've made on here to other females. Some just don't even read the message and just delete it, some read it the. Delete it. Some leave it unread for a while then i delete it. So sitting back isn't really in terms of doing nothing. I mean take it easy and don't be so pushy and not come across desperate. Major turn off for women I know that much lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm still waiting for my first meet with someone but I don't give up, theres always someone out there who will one day send me that message. I know I'm not exactly the most fantastic looking guy on here or with a chiselled body but I do my best and I am who I am so I sit patiently waiting. I've been knocked back quite severely to the point where I thought am I that bad?.

Nice guys finish last op that's how I look at it. One day you'll get that meet and they won't know what's hit em in all the positive and right ways. Stick it out and one day you'll be grinning like the Cheshire Cat

If you're sitting back waiting for someone to message you, i'm afraid you're likely to be in for a very long wait. Ladies and couples tend to receive many messages and so are less likely to have to go searching for men for potential meets - and let's face it, why should they ignore all the messages from those who have made the effort, to go looking for someone who hasn't got in touch with them?

I'm afraid that single guys on here need to be more pro-active about getting meets here.

In order to find someone then you have to go looking. My whole day I'm surrounded by you lot from 9am in the morning until 4am at night at the weekends. I'm forthcoming and make the effort and let them know that I'm very genuine and not just after a shag and go. It's a struggle and god knows how many messages and comments I've made on here to other females. Some just don't even read the message and just delete it, some read it the. Delete it. Some leave it unread for a while then i delete it. So sitting back isn't really in terms of doing nothing. I mean take it easy and don't be so pushy and not come across desperate. Major turn off for women I know that much lol "

Note the first word of my response - 'If'. I wasn't actually making a criticism or aiming my comment directly at you, but more using it to help make a point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm still waiting for my first meet with someone but I don't give up, theres always someone out there who will one day send me that message. I know I'm not exactly the most fantastic looking guy on here or with a chiselled body but I do my best and I am who I am so I sit patiently waiting. I've been knocked back quite severely to the point where I thought am I that bad?.

Nice guys finish last op that's how I look at it. One day you'll get that meet and they won't know what's hit em in all the positive and right ways. Stick it out and one day you'll be grinning like the Cheshire Cat

If you're sitting back waiting for someone to message you, i'm afraid you're likely to be in for a very long wait. Ladies and couples tend to receive many messages and so are less likely to have to go searching for men for potential meets - and let's face it, why should they ignore all the messages from those who have made the effort, to go looking for someone who hasn't got in touch with them?

I'm afraid that single guys on here need to be more pro-active about getting meets here.

In order to find someone then you have to go looking. My whole day I'm surrounded by you lot from 9am in the morning until 4am at night at the weekends. I'm forthcoming and make the effort and let them know that I'm very genuine and not just after a shag and go. It's a struggle and god knows how many messages and comments I've made on here to other females. Some just don't even read the message and just delete it, some read it the. Delete it. Some leave it unread for a while then i delete it. So sitting back isn't really in terms of doing nothing. I mean take it easy and don't be so pushy and not come across desperate. Major turn off for women I know that much lol

Note the first word of my response - 'If'. I wasn't actually making a criticism or aiming my comment directly at you, but more using it to help make a point. "

I realise that D and there's no harm done buddy. I'm a lover not a hater, been there myself and not got replies or bad replies and I speak for anyone who has it a bit tough sometimes. We've all been there. Working around it and seeing it every day I can speak from both sides. The one trying and the one watching people trying. God loves them...Atleast that's what they say lol

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