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By *enuinedanny OP   Man
over a year ago

walsall

Hello to you all I am danny. I am studying to be a midwife. How ever I have been told that it's not as good idea as a lot of ladies don't like to have males as midwifes this has and will not put me off as its my dream and I will follow it just wondering what you thoughts are if yah or nah or if you've had one what was you experience like. Nice to meet you all I am sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope it's not your dream for sexual reasons, and that you genuinely want to help women.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

There's a male midwife on One Born Every Minute. He seems to do OK.

I wouldn't have cared if my daughter was midwifed by wolves, as long as she came out healthy (she did).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a male midwife when I was in labour, on 2 different occasions, to me it was no different to the male doctor who eventually delivered my 2nd via c-section, all midwives do a fantastic job, male or female

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

To be honest once I was in full Labour I wouldn't have cared if a Martian had been looking after me as long as they had gas and air and knew how to deliver my baby safely.

You might get women who want to be attended by another woman for cultural reasons and women who wouldn't feel comfortable with a man...after all its pretty full on but there are quite a few male midwives now

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I can understand why some women would find a male midwife an comfortable issue but most gynaecologists are male in my experience so it really wouldn't bother me.

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By *enuinedanny OP   Man
over a year ago

walsall

A genuine want to help to help bring new life in to the world

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By *enuinedanny OP   Man
over a year ago

walsall


"To be honest once I was in full Labour I wouldn't have cared if a Martian had been looking after me as long as they had gas and air and knew how to deliver my baby safely.

You might get women who want to be attended by another woman for cultural reasons and women who wouldn't feel comfortable with a man...after all its pretty full on but there are quite a few male midwives now "

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

I don't understand anyone refusing medical assistance off any qualified professional

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"A genuine want to help to help bring new life in to the world "

Bringing new life in this world is only a tiny part of midwifery do do know that don't you?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

We had a male midwife!!!!

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol


"A genuine want to help to help bring new life in to the world

Bringing new life in this world is only a tiny part of midwifery do do know that don't you? "

I would imagine as he's studying it that they will have touched upon that

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I don't understand anyone refusing medical assistance off any qualified professional "

I've refused to see a certain doctor.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't understand anyone refusing medical assistance off any qualified professional "

EVEN Harold Shipman?

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"A genuine want to help to help bring new life in to the world

Bringing new life in this world is only a tiny part of midwifery do do know that don't you? "

...whereas record-keeping is a huge part.

You sound like the voice of experience, like me x

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By *enuinedanny OP   Man
over a year ago

walsall

Yes I no it only a small part part of it the process is fascinating and theirs no much better than be their for people who need you

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By *enuinedanny OP   Man
over a year ago

walsall


"A genuine want to help to help bring new life in to the world

Bringing new life in this world is only a tiny part of midwifery do do know that don't you?

...whereas record-keeping is a huge part.

You sound like the voice of experience, like me x"

recored keeping is hell for anyone work in anyfrom of care and its always getting worse

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

I would also urge you to excersise caution when posting pics etc. on here. Remember the Code.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Surely it's midhusband.......

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I would also urge you to excersise caution when posting pics etc. on here. Remember the Code."

Stop at the kerb

Look Right

Look Left

Look Right again.

If nothing is coming you've stepped back in time.

Go to the pelican crossing.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"Surely it's midhusband....... "

Mid-wif = Middle ages English meaning 'with woman/wife'.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"I would also urge you to excersise caution when posting pics etc. on here. Remember the Code.

Stop at the kerb

Look Right

Look Left

Look Right

If nothing is coming you've stepped back in time.

Go to the pelican crossing.

"

Ha!

Danny should know about the Code.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think men and younger women are usually the best midwives. They listen instead of demanding they know best all the time. My best experiences have been with either male or newish female midwives xx

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By *enuinedanny OP   Man
over a year ago

walsall


"I would also urge you to excersise caution when posting pics etc. on here. Remember the Code.

Stop at the kerb

Look Right

Look Left

Look Right again.

If nothing is coming you've stepped back in time.

Go to the pelican crossing."

I remember that my privet life is my own and if I was judged by an employer on the fact I had any kind of pictures on here would be discrimination surley I wont hide my self

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Surely it's midhusband.......

Mid-wif = Middle ages English meaning 'with woman/wife'."

Coo .... thanks.. I always thought the wife referred to the nursie.... well I never.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I would also urge you to excersise caution when posting pics etc. on here. Remember the Code.

Stop at the kerb

Look Right

Look Left

Look Right again.

If nothing is coming you've stepped back in time.

Go to the pelican crossing. I remember that my privet life is my own and if I was judged by an employer on the fact I had any kind of pictures on here would be discrimination surley I wont hide my self "

Read your code of conduct. It's not your choice.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

It is not about discrimination. It is about promoting professionalism.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"I would also urge you to excersise caution when posting pics etc. on here. Remember the Code.

Stop at the kerb

Look Right

Look Left

Look Right again.

If nothing is coming you've stepped back in time.

Go to the pelican crossing. I remember that my privet life is my own and if I was judged by an employer on the fact I had any kind of pictures on here would be discrimination surley I wont hide my self

Read your code of conduct. It's not your choice. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't bother me in the slightest. When your in full blown labour you don't care who is in the room lol

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By *enuinedanny OP   Man
over a year ago

walsall


"It is not about discrimination. It is about promoting professionalism."
I get that and when I am at work or I am doing anything to do with work I am professional though out I use the site in my own time now if like I read some time e.g have a cheeky wank under the desk that it unprofessional all leave your home life at home anyway thankyou all snookers calling sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wouldn't bother me in the slightest. When your in full blown labour you don't care who is in the room lol "

That you don't, I had 12 people in the room when my youngest was born, but the poor student doctor almost passed out lol. His first day on labor and delivery and he got me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hope it's not your dream for sexual reasons, and that you genuinely want to help women. "

Oooh,cynical.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"It is not about discrimination. It is about promoting professionalism. I get that and when I am at work or I am doing anything to do with work I am professional though out I use the site in my own time now if like I read some time e.g have a cheeky wank under the desk that it unprofessional all leave your home life at home anyway thankyou all snookers calling sorry "

That's easy for you to say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wouldn't bother me in the slightest. When your in full blown labour you don't care who is in the room lol

That you don't, I had 12 people in the room when my youngest was born, but the poor student doctor almost passed out lol. His first day on labor and delivery and he got me "

I had a few students when I had my first baby. Some were men and the doctor who checked my stitches after was sexy.

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By *otblondewife hornyMrCouple
over a year ago

Cambuslang


"I hope it's not your dream for sexual reasons, and that you genuinely want to help women. "

Would you question a woman who wants to be a midwife?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I delivered a pickney in a war zone once and the mother was most grateful. Pursue your dreams, tis a noble and fulfilling profession.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hope it's not your dream for sexual reasons, and that you genuinely want to help women. "
There are several articles written about exaclty this. Male student nurses, midwife nurses, and nurses and midwifes will be met with the prejudice that they are:

a) in it for sexual gratification,

b) in it because they are homosexual.

It depends if you are a critical thinker, good at choosing your own way, but I daren't say that you should be prepared to go in to it to challenge other people's prejudices.

You should do it because it interests you, just like everyone else choose their career paths!

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as you are qualified to do the job it wouldn't bother me. In my area a lot of the top OBGYN consultants are men & I've found them to be professional,courteous & gentle!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id prefer a female..

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

I had a male midwife with my last one he was the best one I've ever encountered so attentive to both me during labour and my daughter afterwards which really helped since I went into labour pre-term and my birthing partner was in Spain at the time so I was going through it all alone, the day we was due to leave hospital was his day off and he still came in to see us of and wish us well he's a credit to the maternity department

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello to you all I am danny. I am studying to be a midwife. How ever I have been told that it's not as good idea as a lot of ladies don't like to have males as midwifes this has and will not put me off as its my dream and I will follow it just wondering what you thoughts are if yah or nah or if you've had one what was you experience like. Nice to meet you all I am sure"

I had a male midwife induce me and thru early labour n my obstro consultant was male. If they good at thier job i dont care what gender they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not if you have big hands - sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would also urge you to excersise caution when posting pics etc. on here. Remember the Code.

Stop at the kerb

Look Right

Look Left

Look Right again.

If nothing is coming you've stepped back in time.

Go to the pelican crossing. I remember that my privet life is my own and if I was judged by an employer on the fact I had any kind of pictures on here would be discrimination surley I wont hide my self "

I wouldn't want my baby delivered by you

Haven't you heard of discretion!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find this creepy. The profile pic the fact that there isn't any sort of professionalism about it. No you wouldn't be coming round any child of mine mate.

Separate your personal from professional life.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I was 22 when I had my first child in a women only hospital. By the time number 4 came along I was 31 and didn't care about the gender of my delivery team. They looked, sounded and acted professionally.

On that note op, I wouldn't want you anywhere near me.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I don't understand anyone refusing medical assistance off any qualified professional "

I have on several occasions as I didn't understand a word they were saying so didn’t feel comfortable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find this creepy. The profile pic the fact that there isn't any sort of professionalism about it. No you wouldn't be coming round any child of mine mate.

Separate your personal from professional life. "

yes I read this and found it all a bit odd. Certainly... Like it or not I think it a big mistake to talk about a job like this ..really any job but more so this type....on a sex site forum. I think the OP is very misguided if he thinks that having his face etc on here and doing that type of work for the NHS are compatible... And that it wouldn't bother people and the employer.right at the beginning of the thread someone said....hope you are doing the job for the right reasons...!....that's what worries me on this....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a male midwife Paul he was amazing x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I no it only a small part part of it the process is fascinating and theirs no much better than be their for people who need you"

I'd also work on your English mate...

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I would also urge you to excersise caution when posting pics etc. on here. Remember the Code.

Stop at the kerb

Look Right

Look Left

Look Right again.

If nothing is coming you've stepped back in time.

Go to the pelican crossing. I remember that my privet life is my own and if I was judged by an employer on the fact I had any kind of pictures on here would be discrimination surley I wont hide my self "

I work for a trade union: employment law is my speciality. The amount of people I see who mistakenly think what they do/say in private doesn't impact on their work life keeps me gainfully employed.

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By *enuinedanny OP   Man
over a year ago

walsall

Thank you for your thoughts even though I did not ask for your opinions on my personal or professional life. Nor at any point did I mention my job merely asked for opinions on male midwifes.

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By *enuinedanny OP   Man
over a year ago

walsall


"Yes I no it only a small part part of it the process is fascinating and theirs no much better than be their for people who need you

I'd also work on your English mate..."

I no my written English is not great I do work on it sometimes my phone does not help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I no it only a small part part of it the process is fascinating and theirs no much better than be their for people who need you

I'd also work on your English mate...

I no my written English is not great I do work on it sometimes my phone does not help "

Nothing to do with your phone pal, none of your posts any full stops

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By *lack rose 100Couple
over a year ago

consett

I've had four kids and my first was born aboard in army hospital so my midwife was a man and they was great sane with my second one. The other two had in England and was women and I was still very well looked after. So to me I see nothing wrong in a man doing this job. So go for your dream hun. It great once you get there all the best x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I no it only a small part part of it the process is fascinating and theirs no much better than be their for people who need you

I'd also work on your English mate...

I no my written English is not great I do work on it sometimes my phone does not help

Nothing to do with your phone pal, none of your posts any full stops"

*have...oh the irony

To be honest mate, you give me the creeps. I'd request a new midwife if I were in a situation that you were mine

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By *enuinedanny OP   Man
over a year ago

walsall


"Yes I no it only a small part part of it the process is fascinating and theirs no much better than be their for people who need you

I'd also work on your English mate...

I no my written English is not great I do work on it sometimes my phone does not help

Nothing to do with your phone pal, none of your posts any full stops

*have...oh the irony

To be honest mate, you give me the creeps. I'd request a new midwife if I were in a situation that you were mine"

that's fine. I was referring to my phone in regards to spelling errors. Yes I have a blind spot when it comes to Grammer of any kind but I try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hope it's not your dream for sexual reasons, and that you genuinely want to help women. "

what a very strange reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is not about discrimination. It is about promoting professionalism."

Is this why people have professional on their profile?

To show they are upholding the code.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can understand why some women would find a male midwife an comfortable issue but most gynaecologists are male in my experience so it really wouldn't bother me."

Ive had a male midwife and he did an amazing job. Wouldn't matter what job people do as long as they did them properly.

I completely agree with the above

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Yes I no it only a small part part of it the process is fascinating and theirs no much better than be their for people who need you

I'd also work on your English mate...

I no my written English is not great I do work on it sometimes my phone does not help

Nothing to do with your phone pal, none of your posts any full stops

*have...oh the irony

To be honest mate, you give me the creeps. I'd request a new midwife if I were in a situation that you were mine"

You also missed the full stop yourself, tut tut.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I no it only a small part part of it the process is fascinating and theirs no much better than be their for people who need you

I'd also work on your English mate...

I no my written English is not great I do work on it sometimes my phone does not help

Nothing to do with your phone pal, none of your posts any full stops

*have...oh the irony

To be honest mate, you give me the creeps. I'd request a new midwife if I were in a situation that you were mine

You also missed the full stop yourself, tut tut. "

I didn't mean at the end of the sentence smartarse. I was pointing out to the OP that all his posts are one long sentence

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Yes I no it only a small part part of it the process is fascinating and theirs no much better than be their for people who need you

I'd also work on your English mate...

I no my written English is not great I do work on it sometimes my phone does not help

Nothing to do with your phone pal, none of your posts any full stops

*have...oh the irony

To be honest mate, you give me the creeps. I'd request a new midwife if I were in a situation that you were mine

You also missed the full stop yourself, tut tut.

I didn't mean at the end of the sentence smartarse. I was pointing out to the OP that all his posts are one long sentence "

His OP contained full stops and therefore individual sentences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I no it only a small part part of it the process is fascinating and theirs no much better than be their for people who need you

I'd also work on your English mate...

I no my written English is not great I do work on it sometimes my phone does not help

Nothing to do with your phone pal, none of your posts any full stops

*have...oh the irony

To be honest mate, you give me the creeps. I'd request a new midwife if I were in a situation that you were mine

You also missed the full stop yourself, tut tut.

I didn't mean at the end of the sentence smartarse. I was pointing out to the OP that all his posts are one long sentence

His OP contained full stops and therefore individual sentences"

You think that post is a carefully crafted one? You genuinely can't see the need for further punctuation, either in that one or any of his subsequent posts?

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Yes I no it only a small part part of it the process is fascinating and theirs no much better than be their for people who need you

I'd also work on your English mate...

I no my written English is not great I do work on it sometimes my phone does not help

Nothing to do with your phone pal, none of your posts any full stops

*have...oh the irony

To be honest mate, you give me the creeps. I'd request a new midwife if I were in a situation that you were mine

You also missed the full stop yourself, tut tut.

I didn't mean at the end of the sentence smartarse. I was pointing out to the OP that all his posts are one long sentence

His OP contained full stops and therefore individual sentences

You think that post is a carefully crafted one? You genuinely can't see the need for further punctuation, either in that one or any of his subsequent posts? "

I never said it was but it wasn't as bad as your pulling him apart for, whilst making grammatical errors of your own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I no it only a small part part of it the process is fascinating and theirs no much better than be their for people who need you

I'd also work on your English mate...

I no my written English is not great I do work on it sometimes my phone does not help

Nothing to do with your phone pal, none of your posts any full stops

*have...oh the irony

To be honest mate, you give me the creeps. I'd request a new midwife if I were in a situation that you were mine

You also missed the full stop yourself, tut tut.

I didn't mean at the end of the sentence smartarse. I was pointing out to the OP that all his posts are one long sentence

His OP contained full stops and therefore individual sentences

You think that post is a carefully crafted one? You genuinely can't see the need for further punctuation, either in that one or any of his subsequent posts?

I never said it was but it wasn't as bad as your pulling him apart for, whilst making grammatical errors of your own "

Oh the irony strikes again...poorly worded sentence attacking me there

It was questioned whether the OP was indeed studying midwifery. I suggested he would need to improve his English. The example I provided was a lack of full stops to his posts, meaning they became one giant sentence.

Are you that sensitive that you see that as an insult?

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By *enuinedanny OP   Man
over a year ago

walsall


"Yes I no it only a small part part of it the process is fascinating and theirs no much better than be their for people who need you

I'd also work on your English mate...

I no my written English is not great I do work on it sometimes my phone does not help

Nothing to do with your phone pal, none of your posts any full stops

*have...oh the irony

To be honest mate, you give me the creeps. I'd request a new midwife if I were in a situation that you were mine

You also missed the full stop yourself, tut tut.

I didn't mean at the end of the sentence smartarse. I was pointing out to the OP that all his posts are one long sentence

His OP contained full stops and therefore individual sentences

You think that post is a carefully crafted one? You genuinely can't see the need for further punctuation, either in that one or any of his subsequent posts?

I never said it was but it wasn't as bad as your pulling him apart for, whilst making grammatical errors of your own

Oh the irony strikes again...poorly worded sentence attacking me there

It was questioned whether the OP was indeed studying midwifery. I suggested he would need to improve his English. The example I provided was a lack of full stops to his posts, meaning they became one giant sentence.

Are you that sensitive that you see that as an insult?"

fine my grammer is rubbish. I took you comemments on board as I always do. I make mistakes I am human I am sure you are not perfect either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I no it only a small part part of it the process is fascinating and theirs no much better than be their for people who need you

I'd also work on your English mate...

I no my written English is not great I do work on it sometimes my phone does not help

Nothing to do with your phone pal, none of your posts any full stops

*have...oh the irony

To be honest mate, you give me the creeps. I'd request a new midwife if I were in a situation that you were mine

You also missed the full stop yourself, tut tut.

I didn't mean at the end of the sentence smartarse. I was pointing out to the OP that all his posts are one long sentence

His OP contained full stops and therefore individual sentences

You think that post is a carefully crafted one? You genuinely can't see the need for further punctuation, either in that one or any of his subsequent posts?

I never said it was but it wasn't as bad as your pulling him apart for, whilst making grammatical errors of your own

Oh the irony strikes again...poorly worded sentence attacking me there

It was questioned whether the OP was indeed studying midwifery. I suggested he would need to improve his English. The example I provided was a lack of full stops to his posts, meaning they became one giant sentence.

Are you that sensitive that you see that as an insult?

fine my grammer is rubbish. I took you comemments on board as I always do. I make mistakes I am human I am sure you are not perfect either."

Never said I was Pal, just helpful advise

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By *enuinedanny OP   Man
over a year ago

walsall


"Yes I no it only a small part part of it the process is fascinating and theirs no much better than be their for people who need you

I'd also work on your English mate...

I no my written English is not great I do work on it sometimes my phone does not help

Nothing to do with your phone pal, none of your posts any full stops

*have...oh the irony

To be honest mate, you give me the creeps. I'd request a new midwife if I were in a situation that you were mine

You also missed the full stop yourself, tut tut.

I didn't mean at the end of the sentence smartarse. I was pointing out to the OP that all his posts are one long sentence

His OP contained full stops and therefore individual sentences

You think that post is a carefully crafted one? You genuinely can't see the need for further punctuation, either in that one or any of his subsequent posts?

I never said it was but it wasn't as bad as your pulling him apart for, whilst making grammatical errors of your own

Oh the irony strikes again...poorly worded sentence attacking me there

It was questioned whether the OP was indeed studying midwifery. I suggested he would need to improve his English. The example I provided was a lack of full stops to his posts, meaning they became one giant sentence.

Are you that sensitive that you see that as an insult?

fine my grammer is rubbish. I took you comemments on board as I always do. I make mistakes I am human I am sure you are not perfect either.

Never said I was Pal, just helpful advise "

and I thank you for it .

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry


"Yes I no it only a small part part of it the process is fascinating and theirs no much better than be their for people who need you

I'd also work on your English mate...

I no my written English is not great I do work on it sometimes my phone does not help

Nothing to do with your phone pal, none of your posts any full stops

*have...oh the irony

To be honest mate, you give me the creeps. I'd request a new midwife if I were in a situation that you were mine

You also missed the full stop yourself, tut tut.

I didn't mean at the end of the sentence smartarse. I was pointing out to the OP that all his posts are one long sentence

His OP contained full stops and therefore individual sentences

You think that post is a carefully crafted one? You genuinely can't see the need for further punctuation, either in that one or any of his subsequent posts?

I never said it was but it wasn't as bad as your pulling him apart for, whilst making grammatical errors of your own

Oh the irony strikes again...poorly worded sentence attacking me there

It was questioned whether the OP was indeed studying midwifery. I suggested he would need to improve his English. The example I provided was a lack of full stops to his posts, meaning they became one giant sentence.

Are you that sensitive that you see that as an insult?

fine my grammer is rubbish. I took you comemments on board as I always do. I make mistakes I am human I am sure you are not perfect either.

Never said I was Pal, just helpful advise "

Given that grammar is so important to you, I should point out that advise is a verb and advice is a noun. The rest of your post also contains several errors. Why don't you take the time to discover them yourself?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ain't studying to be a midwife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would also urge you to excersise caution when posting pics etc. on here. Remember the Code.

Stop at the kerb

Look Right

Look Left

Look Right again.

If nothing is coming you've stepped back in time.

Go to the pelican crossing. I remember that my privet life is my own and if I was judged by an employer on the fact I had any kind of pictures on here would be discrimination surley I wont hide my self

I wouldn't want my baby delivered by you

Haven't you heard of discretion! "

I'm sure he'll correct me if I'm wrong...but...I don't think he's planning on posting any pics of any women while they're delivering

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry


"Yes I no it only a small part part of it the process is fascinating and theirs no much better than be their for people who need you

I'd also work on your English mate...

I no my written English is not great I do work on it sometimes my phone does not help

Nothing to do with your phone pal, none of your posts any full stops

*have...oh the irony

To be honest mate, you give me the creeps. I'd request a new midwife if I were in a situation that you were mine

You also missed the full stop yourself, tut tut.

I didn't mean at the end of the sentence smartarse. I was pointing out to the OP that all his posts are one long sentence

His OP contained full stops and therefore individual sentences

You think that post is a carefully crafted one? You genuinely can't see the need for further punctuation, either in that one or any of his subsequent posts?

I never said it was but it wasn't as bad as your pulling him apart for, whilst making grammatical errors of your own

Oh the irony strikes again...poorly worded sentence attacking me there

It was questioned whether the OP was indeed studying midwifery. I suggested he would need to improve his English. The example I provided was a lack of full stops to his posts, meaning they became one giant sentence.

Are you that sensitive that you see that as an insult?

fine my grammer is rubbish. I took you comemments on board as I always do. I make mistakes I am human I am sure you are not perfect either.

Never said I was Pal, just helpful advise

Given that grammar is so important to you, I should point out that advise is a verb and advice is a noun. The rest of your post also contains several errors. Why don't you take the time to discover them yourself?

I ain't studying to be a midwife "

That is of no relevance whatsoever to your grammar.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

women shaman were the midwives, while i appreciate times have changed..its a woman's right of passage giving birth and i although not against gynecologists/ doctors or nurses being men..midwifery imo should stay woman's medicine, but then its all been institutionalized anyway, women are in fear of their own bodies and people are out of touch to their roots so i guess it will become the norm x

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By *enuinedanny OP   Man
over a year ago

walsall


"Yes I no it only a small part part of it the process is fascinating and theirs no much better than be their for people who need you

I'd also work on your English mate...

I no my written English is not great I do work on it sometimes my phone does not help

Nothing to do with your phone pal, none of your posts any full stops

*have...oh the irony

To be honest mate, you give me the creeps. I'd request a new midwife if I were in a situation that you were mine

You also missed the full stop yourself, tut tut.

I didn't mean at the end of the sentence smartarse. I was pointing out to the OP that all his posts are one long sentence

His OP contained full stops and therefore individual sentences

You think that post is a carefully crafted one? You genuinely can't see the need for further punctuation, either in that one or any of his subsequent posts?

I never said it was but it wasn't as bad as your pulling him apart for, whilst making grammatical errors of your own

Oh the irony strikes again...poorly worded sentence attacking me there

It was questioned whether the OP was indeed studying midwifery. I suggested he would need to improve his English. The example I provided was a lack of full stops to his posts, meaning they became one giant sentence.

Are you that sensitive that you see that as an insult?

fine my grammer is rubbish. I took you comemments on board as I always do. I make mistakes I am human I am sure you are not perfect either.

Never said I was Pal, just helpful advise

Given that grammar is so important to you, I should point out that advise is a verb and advice is a noun. The rest of your post also contains several errors. Why don't you take the time to discover them yourself?

I ain't studying to be a midwife

That is of no relevance whatsoever to your grammar."

this whole post had nothing to do with grammer yet her we are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a male midwife looking after me when I was in having my daughter. He was very nice if I do say so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Strange thread that developed from an innocuous original post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't understand anyone refusing medical assistance off any qualified professional "

That is your opinion. I respect your decision. I would counter that with, I feel differently, and would expect my wishes to be respected.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

When I had my first son I was asked if I minded if a male midwife helped during labour and the birth. I said no but then he came in, the first thing I looked at were his hands. I'm not kidding they were the size of shovels!!! I let him watch but there was no way I was going to let him examine me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a male midwife look after me after I had my first son, he was great just like the females. Go for it that's what I say, you will also probably find it fairly easy to gain employment xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a male midwife look after me after I had my first son, he was great just like the females. Go for it that's what I say, you will also probably find it fairly easy to gain employment xxx"

Was he on fabs and list fisting as a turn on ?

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Yes I no it only a small part part of it the process is fascinating and theirs no much better than be their for people who need you

I'd also work on your English mate...

I no my written English is not great I do work on it sometimes my phone does not help

Nothing to do with your phone pal, none of your posts any full stops

*have...oh the irony

To be honest mate, you give me the creeps. I'd request a new midwife if I were in a situation that you were mine

You also missed the full stop yourself, tut tut.

I didn't mean at the end of the sentence smartarse. I was pointing out to the OP that all his posts are one long sentence

His OP contained full stops and therefore individual sentences

You think that post is a carefully crafted one? You genuinely can't see the need for further punctuation, either in that one or any of his subsequent posts?

I never said it was but it wasn't as bad as your pulling him apart for, whilst making grammatical errors of your own

Oh the irony strikes again...poorly worded sentence attacking me there

It was questioned whether the OP was indeed studying midwifery. I suggested he would need to improve his English. The example I provided was a lack of full stops to his posts, meaning they became one giant sentence.

Are you that sensitive that you see that as an insult?"

Im just suggesting you conduct yourself with some humility in not correcting people, since you're not above making similar flaws in regards to grammar. Of course that could now be said of me now, but I've done it as a way of trying to raise a point.

I also managed to comment in regards to the topic, my sister is a midwife and her written grammar Is far worse than is, so it really as no relevance to the topic

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"I had a male midwife look after me after I had my first son, he was great just like the females. Go for it that's what I say, you will also probably find it fairly easy to gain employment xxx"

This is true the hospital have to meet diversity quotas of staff, you'd be more likely to gain employment because its stereotypically not a male field

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Good luck with your career

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I no it only a small part part of it the process is fascinating and theirs no much better than be their for people who need you

I'd also work on your English mate...

I no my written English is not great I do work on it sometimes my phone does not help

Nothing to do with your phone pal, none of your posts any full stops

*have...oh the irony

To be honest mate, you give me the creeps. I'd request a new midwife if I were in a situation that you were mine

You also missed the full stop yourself, tut tut.

I didn't mean at the end of the sentence smartarse. I was pointing out to the OP that all his posts are one long sentence

His OP contained full stops and therefore individual sentences

You think that post is a carefully crafted one? You genuinely can't see the need for further punctuation, either in that one or any of his subsequent posts?

I never said it was but it wasn't as bad as your pulling him apart for, whilst making grammatical errors of your own

Oh the irony strikes again...poorly worded sentence attacking me there

It was questioned whether the OP was indeed studying midwifery. I suggested he would need to improve his English. The example I provided was a lack of full stops to his posts, meaning they became one giant sentence.

Are you that sensitive that you see that as an insult?

Im just suggesting you conduct yourself with some humility in not correcting people, since you're not above making similar flaws in regards to grammar. Of course that could now be said of me now, but I've done it as a way of trying to raise a point.

I also managed to comment in regards to the topic, my sister is a midwife and her written grammar Is far worse than is, so it really as no relevance to the topic "

I gave advice, you attacked...so who is showing humility there?

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Yes I no it only a small part part of it the process is fascinating and theirs no much better than be their for people who need you

I'd also work on your English mate...

I no my written English is not great I do work on it sometimes my phone does not help

Nothing to do with your phone pal, none of your posts any full stops

*have...oh the irony

To be honest mate, you give me the creeps. I'd request a new midwife if I were in a situation that you were mine

You also missed the full stop yourself, tut tut.

I didn't mean at the end of the sentence smartarse. I was pointing out to the OP that all his posts are one long sentence

His OP contained full stops and therefore individual sentences

You think that post is a carefully crafted one? You genuinely can't see the need for further punctuation, either in that one or any of his subsequent posts?

I never said it was but it wasn't as bad as your pulling him apart for, whilst making grammatical errors of your own

Oh the irony strikes again...poorly worded sentence attacking me there

It was questioned whether the OP was indeed studying midwifery. I suggested he would need to improve his English. The example I provided was a lack of full stops to his posts, meaning they became one giant sentence.

Are you that sensitive that you see that as an insult?

Im just suggesting you conduct yourself with some humility in not correcting people, since you're not above making similar flaws in regards to grammar. Of course that could now be said of me now, but I've done it as a way of trying to raise a point.

I also managed to comment in regards to the topic, my sister is a midwife and her written grammar Is far worse than is, so it really as no relevance to the topic

I gave advice, you attacked...so who is showing humility there? "

You've chose to _iew it as an attack, I was raising a point, one which still appears to have gone over your head.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I no it only a small part part of it the process is fascinating and theirs no much better than be their for people who need you

I'd also work on your English mate...

I no my written English is not great I do work on it sometimes my phone does not help

Nothing to do with your phone pal, none of your posts any full stops

*have...oh the irony

To be honest mate, you give me the creeps. I'd request a new midwife if I were in a situation that you were mine

You also missed the full stop yourself, tut tut.

I didn't mean at the end of the sentence smartarse. I was pointing out to the OP that all his posts are one long sentence

His OP contained full stops and therefore individual sentences

You think that post is a carefully crafted one? You genuinely can't see the need for further punctuation, either in that one or any of his subsequent posts?

I never said it was but it wasn't as bad as your pulling him apart for, whilst making grammatical errors of your own

Oh the irony strikes again...poorly worded sentence attacking me there

It was questioned whether the OP was indeed studying midwifery. I suggested he would need to improve his English. The example I provided was a lack of full stops to his posts, meaning they became one giant sentence.

Are you that sensitive that you see that as an insult?

Im just suggesting you conduct yourself with some humility in not correcting people, since you're not above making similar flaws in regards to grammar. Of course that could now be said of me now, but I've done it as a way of trying to raise a point.

I also managed to comment in regards to the topic, my sister is a midwife and her written grammar Is far worse than is, so it really as no relevance to the topic

I gave advice, you attacked...so who is showing humility there?

You've chose to _iew it as an attack, I was raising a point, one which still appears to have gone over your head. "

It hasn't at all. I merely pointed out to OP that his posts do not contain many full stops. As he is studying I thought this would be helpful advice. To raise a point to me does not improve anything for the OP so really, it's got sweet FA to do with you. however, if you wanna jump in then fine, you irrelevant point has been noted. Enjoy the rest of your weekend

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Yes I no it only a small part part of it the process is fascinating and theirs no much better than be their for people who need you

I'd also work on your English mate...

I no my written English is not great I do work on it sometimes my phone does not help

Nothing to do with your phone pal, none of your posts any full stops

*have...oh the irony

To be honest mate, you give me the creeps. I'd request a new midwife if I were in a situation that you were mine

You also missed the full stop yourself, tut tut.

I didn't mean at the end of the sentence smartarse. I was pointing out to the OP that all his posts are one long sentence

His OP contained full stops and therefore individual sentences

You think that post is a carefully crafted one? You genuinely can't see the need for further punctuation, either in that one or any of his subsequent posts?

I never said it was but it wasn't as bad as your pulling him apart for, whilst making grammatical errors of your own

Oh the irony strikes again...poorly worded sentence attacking me there

It was questioned whether the OP was indeed studying midwifery. I suggested he would need to improve his English. The example I provided was a lack of full stops to his posts, meaning they became one giant sentence.

Are you that sensitive that you see that as an insult?

Im just suggesting you conduct yourself with some humility in not correcting people, since you're not above making similar flaws in regards to grammar. Of course that could now be said of me now, but I've done it as a way of trying to raise a point.

I also managed to comment in regards to the topic, my sister is a midwife and her written grammar Is far worse than is, so it really as no relevance to the topic

I gave advice, you attacked...so who is showing humility there?

You've chose to _iew it as an attack, I was raising a point, one which still appears to have gone over your head.

It hasn't at all. I merely pointed out to OP that his posts do not contain many full stops. As he is studying I thought this would be helpful advice. To raise a point to me does not improve anything for the OP so really, it's got sweet FA to do with you. however, if you wanna jump in then fine, you irrelevant point has been noted. Enjoy the rest of your weekend "

As I've also said my sisters written grammar is worse and she's a qualified midwife, so grammar doesn't have much of a bearing, you only need a basic level of English.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I no it only a small part part of it the process is fascinating and theirs no much better than be their for people who need you

I'd also work on your English mate...

I no my written English is not great I do work on it sometimes my phone does not help

Nothing to do with your phone pal, none of your posts any full stops

*have...oh the irony

To be honest mate, you give me the creeps. I'd request a new midwife if I were in a situation that you were mine

You also missed the full stop yourself, tut tut.

I didn't mean at the end of the sentence smartarse. I was pointing out to the OP that all his posts are one long sentence

His OP contained full stops and therefore individual sentences

You think that post is a carefully crafted one? You genuinely can't see the need for further punctuation, either in that one or any of his subsequent posts?

I never said it was but it wasn't as bad as your pulling him apart for, whilst making grammatical errors of your own

Oh the irony strikes again...poorly worded sentence attacking me there

It was questioned whether the OP was indeed studying midwifery. I suggested he would need to improve his English. The example I provided was a lack of full stops to his posts, meaning they became one giant sentence.

Are you that sensitive that you see that as an insult?

Im just suggesting you conduct yourself with some humility in not correcting people, since you're not above making similar flaws in regards to grammar. Of course that could now be said of me now, but I've done it as a way of trying to raise a point.

I also managed to comment in regards to the topic, my sister is a midwife and her written grammar Is far worse than is, so it really as no relevance to the topic

I gave advice, you attacked...so who is showing humility there?

You've chose to _iew it as an attack, I was raising a point, one which still appears to have gone over your head.

It hasn't at all. I merely pointed out to OP that his posts do not contain many full stops. As he is studying I thought this would be helpful advice. To raise a point to me does not improve anything for the OP so really, it's got sweet FA to do with you. however, if you wanna jump in then fine, you irrelevant point has been noted. Enjoy the rest of your weekend

As I've also said my sisters written grammar is worse and she's a qualified midwife, so grammar doesn't have much of a bearing, you only need a basic level of English. "

Can't help yourself can you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Off topic, but I thought written English would be almost as important as spoken English for those in the medical industry. It seems important to be coherent in reports?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Off topic, but I thought written English would be almost as important as spoken English for those in the medical industry. It seems important to be coherent in reports?"

My dentist wrote me a prescription that had she not told me what she was prescribing neither I nor the pharmacist would have known what it said. I've also had consultations with doctors who had such strong accents that I struggled to understand what they were saying. It is important to be understood but it isn't always so.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Yes I no it only a small part part of it the process is fascinating and theirs no much better than be their for people who need you

I'd also work on your English mate...

I no my written English is not great I do work on it sometimes my phone does not help

Nothing to do with your phone pal, none of your posts any full stops

*have...oh the irony

To be honest mate, you give me the creeps. I'd request a new midwife if I were in a situation that you were mine

You also missed the full stop yourself, tut tut.

I didn't mean at the end of the sentence smartarse. I was pointing out to the OP that all his posts are one long sentence

His OP contained full stops and therefore individual sentences

You think that post is a carefully crafted one? You genuinely can't see the need for further punctuation, either in that one or any of his subsequent posts?

I never said it was but it wasn't as bad as your pulling him apart for, whilst making grammatical errors of your own

Oh the irony strikes again...poorly worded sentence attacking me there

It was questioned whether the OP was indeed studying midwifery. I suggested he would need to improve his English. The example I provided was a lack of full stops to his posts, meaning they became one giant sentence.

Are you that sensitive that you see that as an insult?

Im just suggesting you conduct yourself with some humility in not correcting people, since you're not above making similar flaws in regards to grammar. Of course that could now be said of me now, but I've done it as a way of trying to raise a point.

I also managed to comment in regards to the topic, my sister is a midwife and her written grammar Is far worse than is, so it really as no relevance to the topic

I gave advice, you attacked...so who is showing humility there?

You've chose to _iew it as an attack, I was raising a point, one which still appears to have gone over your head.

It hasn't at all. I merely pointed out to OP that his posts do not contain many full stops. As he is studying I thought this would be helpful advice. To raise a point to me does not improve anything for the OP so really, it's got sweet FA to do with you. however, if you wanna jump in then fine, you irrelevant point has been noted. Enjoy the rest of your weekend

As I've also said my sisters written grammar is worse and she's a qualified midwife, so grammar doesn't have much of a bearing, you only need a basic level of English.

Can't help yourself can you? "

Neither can you, evidently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does it honestly matter if the midwife is male or female?

I would have thought a safe delivery would be more important.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't want a male midwife, neither would I have a male gynaecologist. Watched hand that rocks the cradle too many times and can't help thinking that the guy would get off on what he's doing.

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst


"I wouldn't want a male midwife, neither would I have a male gynaecologist. Watched hand that rocks the cradle too many times and can't help thinking that the guy would get off on what he's doing. "

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"I wouldn't want a male midwife, neither would I have a male gynaecologist. Watched hand that rocks the cradle too many times and can't help thinking that the guy would get off on what he's doing. "

How would you feel with a lesbian midwife?

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst


"I wouldn't want a male midwife, neither would I have a male gynaecologist. Watched hand that rocks the cradle too many times and can't help thinking that the guy would get off on what he's doing.

How would you feel with a lesbian midwife?"

That wouldn't bother me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't want a male midwife, neither would I have a male gynaecologist. Watched hand that rocks the cradle too many times and can't help thinking that the guy would get off on what he's doing.

How would you feel with a lesbian midwife?"

A lesbian has her own fanny that she would've explored many times, if she wasn't wearing her lesbian sticker that day but for some reason I knew she was a lesbian then I would request a straight female.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does it honestly matter if the midwife is male or female?

I would have thought a safe delivery would be more important. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't want a male midwife, neither would I have a male gynaecologist. Watched hand that rocks the cradle too many times and can't help thinking that the guy would get off on what he's doing. "

It's a job & you are just another vagina to them. My friend did an OBGYN rotation & the experience put him off fannies for ages

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By *hyblueEyesMan
over a year ago

Daventry

I've delivered 2 babies in the last 3 weeks. The women involved really didn't care who was in the room at that point. I think I could have had 3 heads for all the interest they paid lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't want a male midwife, neither would I have a male gynaecologist. Watched hand that rocks the cradle too many times and can't help thinking that the guy would get off on what he's doing.

How would you feel with a lesbian midwife?"

I was just going to ask that

I'm sure there are many lesbian midwife's and gynaecologist's who just see a fanny as another day at the office the same as a man would

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"I wouldn't want a male midwife, neither would I have a male gynaecologist. Watched hand that rocks the cradle too many times and can't help thinking that the guy would get off on what he's doing.

How would you feel with a lesbian midwife?

I was just going to ask that

I'm sure there are many lesbian midwife's and gynaecologist's who just see a fanny as another day at the office the same as a man would "

And gay males. I don't think it's useful to assume that anybody going into areas of medicine that involve the reproductive organs are in it for the thrills, I'm sure a small percentage are but it is always ok to ask for a chaperone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't want a male midwife, neither would I have a male gynaecologist. Watched hand that rocks the cradle too many times and can't help thinking that the guy would get off on what he's doing.

How would you feel with a lesbian midwife?

A lesbian has her own fanny that she would've explored many times, if she wasn't wearing her lesbian sticker that day but for some reason I knew she was a lesbian then I would request a straight female. "

Do you really believe that people in the medical profession get off on naked bodies?

When you spend all day looking at men's and women bits and bobs its no different to looking at an arm or a leg, I catheterise men almost on a daily basis but I have never looked at a penis at work and got turned on buy it, I've also done many prostate examination and never seen it as sexual

The hand that rocks the cradle isnt a documentary you know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't want a male midwife, neither would I have a male gynaecologist. Watched hand that rocks the cradle too many times and can't help thinking that the guy would get off on what he's doing.

How would you feel with a lesbian midwife?

I was just going to ask that

I'm sure there are many lesbian midwife's and gynaecologist's who just see a fanny as another day at the office the same as a man would

And gay males. I don't think it's useful to assume that anybody going into areas of medicine that involve the reproductive organs are in it for the thrills, I'm sure a small percentage are but it is always ok to ask for a chaperone."

Plus is may pay to remember that even if they are male or lesbians you may not even be their type

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"I've delivered 2 babies in the last 3 weeks. The women involved really didn't care who was in the room at that point. I think I could have had 3 heads for all the interest they paid lol"

I haven't delivered any babies for a while in my current role, but it is about the person that counts. The ladies I look after want kindness, compassion and professional competence.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"I wouldn't want a male midwife, neither would I have a male gynaecologist. Watched hand that rocks the cradle too many times and can't help thinking that the guy would get off on what he's doing.

How would you feel with a lesbian midwife?

I was just going to ask that

I'm sure there are many lesbian midwife's and gynaecologist's who just see a fanny as another day at the office the same as a man would

And gay males. I don't think it's useful to assume that anybody going into areas of medicine that involve the reproductive organs are in it for the thrills, I'm sure a small percentage are but it is always ok to ask for a chaperone.

Plus is may pay to remember that even if they are male or lesbians you may not even be their type "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's a male midwife on One Born Every Minute. He seems to do OK.

I wouldn't have cared if my daughter was midwifed by wolves, as long as she came out healthy (she did)."

And I think that about sums it up for most of us, when your in labour surely your main concern is that your child is delivered safely? Who's going to piss about asking for another midwife to be found on a busy maternity ward risking their and their child's health while your unsupervised because you won't let a man near you and no women are free and your child's on its way

Plus who's actually seen a baby being born? It's not a pretty sight I can't imagine many guys saving that one for the wank bank

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"There's a male midwife on One Born Every Minute. He seems to do OK.

I wouldn't have cared if my daughter was midwifed by wolves, as long as she came out healthy (she did).

And I think that about sums it up for most of us, when your in labour surely your main concern is that your child is delivered safely? Who's going to piss about asking for another midwife to be found on a busy maternity ward risking their and their child's health while your unsupervised because you won't let a man near you and no women are free and your child's on its way

Plus who's actually seen a baby being born? It's not a pretty sight I can't imagine many guys saving that one for the wank bank "

And if you haven't had time for an enema...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still wouldn't have wanted a male midwife. It was actually a man that delivered my daughter but I was in theatre and he was a surgeon as I almost had to have an emergency c section but was ventouse delivery instead. Wouldn't have wanted it to be a guy that was checking me and seeing how dilated I was through the early stages.

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

Some of them like seeing a woman in pain, though its not something they are likely to admit too, its a subconscious thing, some of them don't like women.

A doctor actualy told me this, its not really that surprising.

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By *enuinedanny OP   Man
over a year ago

walsall


"Yes I no it only a small part part of it the process is fascinating and theirs no much better than be their for people who need you

I'd also work on your English mate...

I no my written English is not great I do work on it sometimes my phone does not help

Nothing to do with your phone pal, none of your posts any full stops

*have...oh the irony

To be honest mate, you give me the creeps. I'd request a new midwife if I were in a situation that you were mine

You also missed the full stop yourself, tut tut.

I didn't mean at the end of the sentence smartarse. I was pointing out to the OP that all his posts are one long sentence

His OP contained full stops and therefore individual sentences

You think that post is a carefully crafted one? You genuinely can't see the need for further punctuation, either in that one or any of his subsequent posts?

I never said it was but it wasn't as bad as your pulling him apart for, whilst making grammatical errors of your own

Oh the irony strikes again...poorly worded sentence attacking me there

It was questioned whether the OP was indeed studying midwifery. I suggested he would need to improve his English. The example I provided was a lack of full stops to his posts, meaning they became one giant sentence.

Are you that sensitive that you see that as an insult?

Im just suggesting you conduct yourself with some humility in not correcting people, since you're not above making similar flaws in regards to grammar. Of course that could now be said of me now, but I've done it as a way of trying to raise a point.

I also managed to comment in regards to the topic, my sister is a midwife and her written grammar Is far worse than is, so it really as no relevance to the topic

I gave advice, you attacked...so who is showing humility there?

You've chose to _iew it as an attack, I was raising a point, one which still appears to have gone over your head.

It hasn't at all. I merely pointed out to OP that his posts do not contain many full stops. As he is studying I thought this would be helpful advice. To raise a point to me does not improve anything for the OP so really, it's got sweet FA to do with you. however, if you wanna jump in then fine, you irrelevant point has been noted. Enjoy the rest of your weekend

As I've also said my sisters written grammar is worse and she's a qualified midwife, so grammar doesn't have much of a bearing, you only need a basic level of English.

Can't help yourself can you? "

I am happy to bring it back to this thread I did not attack you on that thread. mearly as you so seem to like to do pointed out the irony of your comment. I did not search the comment out but stumbled across attack as much as you like because my self esteem in wrapped in this I couldn't careless so gd luck and gd bye as your now blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I no it only a small part part of it the process is fascinating and theirs no much better than be their for people who need you

I'd also work on your English mate...

I no my written English is not great I do work on it sometimes my phone does not help

Nothing to do with your phone pal, none of your posts any full stops

*have...oh the irony

To be honest mate, you give me the creeps. I'd request a new midwife if I were in a situation that you were mine

You also missed the full stop yourself, tut tut.

I didn't mean at the end of the sentence smartarse. I was pointing out to the OP that all his posts are one long sentence

His OP contained full stops and therefore individual sentences

You think that post is a carefully crafted one? You genuinely can't see the need for further punctuation, either in that one or any of his subsequent posts?

I never said it was but it wasn't as bad as your pulling him apart for, whilst making grammatical errors of your own

Oh the irony strikes again...poorly worded sentence attacking me there

It was questioned whether the OP was indeed studying midwifery. I suggested he would need to improve his English. The example I provided was a lack of full stops to his posts, meaning they became one giant sentence.

Are you that sensitive that you see that as an insult?

Im just suggesting you conduct yourself with some humility in not correcting people, since you're not above making similar flaws in regards to grammar. Of course that could now be said of me now, but I've done it as a way of trying to raise a point.

I also managed to comment in regards to the topic, my sister is a midwife and her written grammar Is far worse than is, so it really as no relevance to the topic

I gave advice, you attacked...so who is showing humility there?

You've chose to _iew it as an attack, I was raising a point, one which still appears to have gone over your head.

It hasn't at all. I merely pointed out to OP that his posts do not contain many full stops. As he is studying I thought this would be helpful advice. To raise a point to me does not improve anything for the OP so really, it's got sweet FA to do with you. however, if you wanna jump in then fine, you irrelevant point has been noted. Enjoy the rest of your weekend

As I've also said my sisters written grammar is worse and she's a qualified midwife, so grammar doesn't have much of a bearing, you only need a basic level of English.

Can't help yourself can you?

I am happy to bring it back to this thread I did not attack you on that thread. mearly as you so seem to like to do pointed out the irony of your comment. I did not search the comment out but stumbled across attack as much as you like because my self esteem in wrapped in this I couldn't careless so gd luck and gd bye as your now blocked"

Jesus, at what point did I say you had attacked me?!! Neither have I searched for a comment, hilarious. The forum is a big place of course I will read other threads

Also, I'm a straight guy and have made no personal contact with you (nor would I) so feel smug in blocking me but I'm not sure what you hope to achieve with that?!

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

Op you have to abide by the NMC code of conduct in both professional and personal life. Being on a sex site naked whilst identifying yourself as a midwife/student will not go down well. It is bringing the profession into disrepute and potentially you at risk of blackmail. Hence why most nurses etc do not identify themselves as such.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Op you have to abide by the NMC code of conduct in both professional and personal life. Being on a sex site naked whilst identifying yourself as a midwife/student will not go down well. It is bringing the profession into disrepute and potentially you at risk of blackmail. Hence why most nurses etc do not identify themselves as such."

Good advice Dr kitty

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By *enuinedanny OP   Man
over a year ago

walsall


"Op you have to abide by the NMC code of conduct in both professional and personal life. Being on a sex site naked whilst identifying yourself as a midwife/student will not go down well. It is bringing the profession into disrepute and potentially you at risk of blackmail. Hence why most nurses etc do not identifythemselves as such.

Good advice Dr kitty "

indeed thank you I will take action to change my profile its appreciated

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Yes I no it only a small part part of it the process is fascinating and theirs no much better than be their for people who need you

I'd also work on your English mate...

I no my written English is not great I do work on it sometimes my phone does not help

Nothing to do with your phone pal, none of your posts any full stops

*have...oh the irony

To be honest mate, you give me the creeps. I'd request a new midwife if I were in a situation that you were mine

You also missed the full stop yourself, tut tut.

I didn't mean at the end of the sentence smartarse. I was pointing out to the OP that all his posts are one long sentence

His OP contained full stops and therefore individual sentences

You think that post is a carefully crafted one? You genuinely can't see the need for further punctuation, either in that one or any of his subsequent posts?

I never said it was but it wasn't as bad as your pulling him apart for, whilst making grammatical errors of your own

Oh the irony strikes again...poorly worded sentence attacking me there

It was questioned whether the OP was indeed studying midwifery. I suggested he would need to improve his English. The example I provided was a lack of full stops to his posts, meaning they became one giant sentence.

Are you that sensitive that you see that as an insult?

Im just suggesting you conduct yourself with some humility in not correcting people, since you're not above making similar flaws in regards to grammar. Of course that could now be said of me now, but I've done it as a way of trying to raise a point.

I also managed to comment in regards to the topic, my sister is a midwife and her written grammar Is far worse than is, so it really as no relevance to the topic

I gave advice, you attacked...so who is showing humility there?

You've chose to _iew it as an attack, I was raising a point, one which still appears to have gone over your head.

It hasn't at all. I merely pointed out to OP that his posts do not contain many full stops. As he is studying I thought this would be helpful advice. To raise a point to me does not improve anything for the OP so really, it's got sweet FA to do with you. however, if you wanna jump in then fine, you irrelevant point has been noted. Enjoy the rest of your weekend

As I've also said my sisters written grammar is worse and she's a qualified midwife, so grammar doesn't have much of a bearing, you only need a basic level of English.

Can't help yourself can you?

I am happy to bring it back to this thread I did not attack you on that thread. mearly as you so seem to like to do pointed out the irony of your comment. I did not search the comment out but stumbled across attack as much as you like because my self esteem in wrapped in this I couldn't careless so gd luck and gd bye as your now blocked

Jesus, at what point did I say you had attacked me?!! Neither have I searched for a comment, hilarious. The forum is a big place of course I will read other threads

Also, I'm a straight guy and have made no personal contact with you (nor would I) so feel smug in blocking me but I'm not sure what you hope to achieve with that?! "

If he's blocked you you've just breached forum rules in continuing conversing with him around the related issues

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I no it only a small part part of it the process is fascinating and theirs no much better than be their for people who need you

I'd also work on your English mate...

I no my written English is not great I do work on it sometimes my phone does not help

Nothing to do with your phone pal, none of your posts any full stops

*have...oh the irony

To be honest mate, you give me the creeps. I'd request a new midwife if I were in a situation that you were mine

You also missed the full stop yourself, tut tut.

I didn't mean at the end of the sentence smartarse. I was pointing out to the OP that all his posts are one long sentence

His OP contained full stops and therefore individual sentences

You think that post is a carefully crafted one? You genuinely can't see the need for further punctuation, either in that one or any of his subsequent posts?

I never said it was but it wasn't as bad as your pulling him apart for, whilst making grammatical errors of your own

Oh the irony strikes again...poorly worded sentence attacking me there

It was questioned whether the OP was indeed studying midwifery. I suggested he would need to improve his English. The example I provided was a lack of full stops to his posts, meaning they became one giant sentence.

Are you that sensitive that you see that as an insult?

Im just suggesting you conduct yourself with some humility in not correcting people, since you're not above making similar flaws in regards to grammar. Of course that could now be said of me now, but I've done it as a way of trying to raise a point.

I also managed to comment in regards to the topic, my sister is a midwife and her written grammar Is far worse than is, so it really as no relevance to the topic

I gave advice, you attacked...so who is showing humility there?

You've chose to _iew it as an attack, I was raising a point, one which still appears to have gone over your head.

It hasn't at all. I merely pointed out to OP that his posts do not contain many full stops. As he is studying I thought this would be helpful advice. To raise a point to me does not improve anything for the OP so really, it's got sweet FA to do with you. however, if you wanna jump in then fine, you irrelevant point has been noted. Enjoy the rest of your weekend

As I've also said my sisters written grammar is worse and she's a qualified midwife, so grammar doesn't have much of a bearing, you only need a basic level of English.

Can't help yourself can you?

I am happy to bring it back to this thread I did not attack you on that thread. mearly as you so seem to like to do pointed out the irony of your comment. I did not search the comment out but stumbled across attack as much as you like because my self esteem in wrapped in this I couldn't careless so gd luck and gd bye as your now blocked

Jesus, at what point did I say you had attacked me?!! Neither have I searched for a comment, hilarious. The forum is a big place of course I will read other threads

Also, I'm a straight guy and have made no personal contact with you (nor would I) so feel smug in blocking me but I'm not sure what you hope to achieve with that?!

If he's blocked you you've just breached forum rules in continuing conversing with him around the related issues

"

You're obsessed yet I'm the stalker? Hilarious

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop


"Op you have to abide by the NMC code of conduct in both professional and personal life. Being on a sex site naked whilst identifying yourself as a midwife/student will not go down well. It is bringing the profession into disrepute and potentially you at risk of blackmail. Hence why most nurses etc do not identify themselves as such.

Good advice Dr kitty "

Why thank you

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop


"Op you have to abide by the NMC code of conduct in both professional and personal life. Being on a sex site naked whilst identifying yourself as a midwife/student will not go down well. It is bringing the profession into disrepute and potentially you at risk of blackmail. Hence why most nurses etc do not identifythemselves as such.

Good advice Dr kitty

indeed thank you I will take action to change my profile its appreciated"

Excellent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't want a male midwife, neither would I have a male gynaecologist. Watched hand that rocks the cradle too many times and can't help thinking that the guy would get off on what he's doing. "

Would it be illegal in these days of sexual equality to request another midwife because of their gender?

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop


"I wouldn't want a male midwife, neither would I have a male gynaecologist. Watched hand that rocks the cradle too many times and can't help thinking that the guy would get off on what he's doing.

Would it be illegal in these days of sexual equality to request another midwife because of their gender?"

No I don't think it is, not in health care

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't want a male midwife, neither would I have a male gynaecologist. Watched hand that rocks the cradle too many times and can't help thinking that the guy would get off on what he's doing.

Would it be illegal in these days of sexual equality to request another midwife because of their gender?"

Not really. The patient can request same sex doctors etc (as some cultures require it). It would be illegal to be turned down a position based on gender but not patient preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apologies if "patient" isn't the right word you know what I mean tho

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Yes I no it only a small part part of it the process is fascinating and theirs no much better than be their for people who need you

I'd also work on your English mate...

I no my written English is not great I do work on it sometimes my phone does not help

Nothing to do with your phone pal, none of your posts any full stops

*have...oh the irony

To be honest mate, you give me the creeps. I'd request a new midwife if I were in a situation that you were mine

You also missed the full stop yourself, tut tut.

I didn't mean at the end of the sentence smartarse. I was pointing out to the OP that all his posts are one long sentence

His OP contained full stops and therefore individual sentences

You think that post is a carefully crafted one? You genuinely can't see the need for further punctuation, either in that one or any of his subsequent posts?

I never said it was but it wasn't as bad as your pulling him apart for, whilst making grammatical errors of your own

Oh the irony strikes again...poorly worded sentence attacking me there

It was questioned whether the OP was indeed studying midwifery. I suggested he would need to improve his English. The example I provided was a lack of full stops to his posts, meaning they became one giant sentence.

Are you that sensitive that you see that as an insult?

Im just suggesting you conduct yourself with some humility in not correcting people, since you're not above making similar flaws in regards to grammar. Of course that could now be said of me now, but I've done it as a way of trying to raise a point.

I also managed to comment in regards to the topic, my sister is a midwife and her written grammar Is far worse than is, so it really as no relevance to the topic

I gave advice, you attacked...so who is showing humility there?

You've chose to _iew it as an attack, I was raising a point, one which still appears to have gone over your head.

It hasn't at all. I merely pointed out to OP that his posts do not contain many full stops. As he is studying I thought this would be helpful advice. To raise a point to me does not improve anything for the OP so really, it's got sweet FA to do with you. however, if you wanna jump in then fine, you irrelevant point has been noted. Enjoy the rest of your weekend

As I've also said my sisters written grammar is worse and she's a qualified midwife, so grammar doesn't have much of a bearing, you only need a basic level of English.

Can't help yourself can you?

I am happy to bring it back to this thread I did not attack you on that thread. mearly as you so seem to like to do pointed out the irony of your comment. I did not search the comment out but stumbled across attack as much as you like because my self esteem in wrapped in this I couldn't careless so gd luck and gd bye as your now blocked

Jesus, at what point did I say you had attacked me?!! Neither have I searched for a comment, hilarious. The forum is a big place of course I will read other threads

Also, I'm a straight guy and have made no personal contact with you (nor would I) so feel smug in blocking me but I'm not sure what you hope to achieve with that?!

If he's blocked you you've just breached forum rules in continuing conversing with him around the related issues

You're obsessed yet I'm the stalker? Hilarious"

I was just informing you of a forum rule you clearly weren't aware of I was trying to be helpful, irregardless of previous circumstances

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I no it only a small part part of it the process is fascinating and theirs no much better than be their for people who need you

I'd also work on your English mate...

I no my written English is not great I do work on it sometimes my phone does not help

Nothing to do with your phone pal, none of your posts any full stops

*have...oh the irony

To be honest mate, you give me the creeps. I'd request a new midwife if I were in a situation that you were mine

You also missed the full stop yourself, tut tut.

I didn't mean at the end of the sentence smartarse. I was pointing out to the OP that all his posts are one long sentence

His OP contained full stops and therefore individual sentences

You think that post is a carefully crafted one? You genuinely can't see the need for further punctuation, either in that one or any of his subsequent posts?

I never said it was but it wasn't as bad as your pulling him apart for, whilst making grammatical errors of your own

Oh the irony strikes again...poorly worded sentence attacking me there

It was questioned whether the OP was indeed studying midwifery. I suggested he would need to improve his English. The example I provided was a lack of full stops to his posts, meaning they became one giant sentence.

Are you that sensitive that you see that as an insult?

Im just suggesting you conduct yourself with some humility in not correcting people, since you're not above making similar flaws in regards to grammar. Of course that could now be said of me now, but I've done it as a way of trying to raise a point.

I also managed to comment in regards to the topic, my sister is a midwife and her written grammar Is far worse than is, so it really as no relevance to the topic

I gave advice, you attacked...so who is showing humility there?

You've chose to _iew it as an attack, I was raising a point, one which still appears to have gone over your head.

It hasn't at all. I merely pointed out to OP that his posts do not contain many full stops. As he is studying I thought this would be helpful advice. To raise a point to me does not improve anything for the OP so really, it's got sweet FA to do with you. however, if you wanna jump in then fine, you irrelevant point has been noted. Enjoy the rest of your weekend

As I've also said my sisters written grammar is worse and she's a qualified midwife, so grammar doesn't have much of a bearing, you only need a basic level of English.

Can't help yourself can you?

I am happy to bring it back to this thread I did not attack you on that thread. mearly as you so seem to like to do pointed out the irony of your comment. I did not search the comment out but stumbled across attack as much as you like because my self esteem in wrapped in this I couldn't careless so gd luck and gd bye as your now blocked

Jesus, at what point did I say you had attacked me?!! Neither have I searched for a comment, hilarious. The forum is a big place of course I will read other threads

Also, I'm a straight guy and have made no personal contact with you (nor would I) so feel smug in blocking me but I'm not sure what you hope to achieve with that?!

If he's blocked you you've just breached forum rules in continuing conversing with him around the related issues

You're obsessed yet I'm the stalker? Hilarious

I was just informing you of a forum rule you clearly weren't aware of I was trying to be helpful, irregardless of previous circumstances "

The conversation has moved on...I suggest you do the same

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"I wouldn't want a male midwife, neither would I have a male gynaecologist. Watched hand that rocks the cradle too many times and can't help thinking that the guy would get off on what he's doing.

Would it be illegal in these days of sexual equality to request another midwife because of their gender?"

.

The only thing you may find is there would still need to be a female member of staff present during treatment unless the laboriong woman consents otherwise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't want a male midwife, neither would I have a male gynaecologist. Watched hand that rocks the cradle too many times and can't help thinking that the guy would get off on what he's doing.

Would it be illegal in these days of sexual equality to request another midwife because of their gender?.

The only thing you may find is there would still need to be a female member of staff present during treatment unless the laboriong woman consents otherwise "

I'm no expert but I always assumed the midwife was associated to the birth quite early on. It's not as if the lady turns up about to give birth and a bloke walks in and they panic? Or am I wrong?

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"I wouldn't want a male midwife, neither would I have a male gynaecologist. Watched hand that rocks the cradle too many times and can't help thinking that the guy would get off on what he's doing.

Would it be illegal in these days of sexual equality to request another midwife because of their gender?.

The only thing you may find is there would still need to be a female member of staff present during treatment unless the laboriong woman consents otherwise

I'm no expert but I always assumed the midwife was associated to the birth quite early on. It's not as if the lady turns up about to give birth and a bloke walks in and they panic? Or am I wrong?"

You have a set community midwife during pregnancy and after discharge from hospital, once on the in labour on a ward/delivery suite depends whose on shift at the time

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"I wouldn't want a male midwife, neither would I have a male gynaecologist. Watched hand that rocks the cradle too many times and can't help thinking that the guy would get off on what he's doing.

Would it be illegal in these days of sexual equality to request another midwife because of their gender?.

The only thing you may find is there would still need to be a female member of staff present during treatment unless the laboriong woman consents otherwise

I'm no expert but I always assumed the midwife was associated to the birth quite early on. It's not as if the lady turns up about to give birth and a bloke walks in and they panic? Or am I wrong?

You have a set community midwife during pregnancy and after discharge from hospital, once on the in labour on a ward/delivery suite depends whose on shift at the time "

Even your community midwife can change I only saw my official midwife once in my last pregnancy

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

No babies coming out of me but that's fantastic.

You go for it and screw the naysayers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't want a male midwife, neither would I have a male gynaecologist. Watched hand that rocks the cradle too many times and can't help thinking that the guy would get off on what he's doing.

Would it be illegal in these days of sexual equality to request another midwife because of their gender?.

The only thing you may find is there would still need to be a female member of staff present during treatment unless the laboriong woman consents otherwise

I'm no expert but I always assumed the midwife was associated to the birth quite early on. It's not as if the lady turns up about to give birth and a bloke walks in and they panic? Or am I wrong?

You have a set community midwife during pregnancy and after discharge from hospital, once on the in labour on a ward/delivery suite depends whose on shift at the time "

Makes sense I guess, learn something new everyday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex and I had a male community midwife after the birth of our last child and he was brilliant; highly professional, which I assume was because he was male and had to deal with some peoples preconceived ideas.

I wish you all the best and hope you achieve your dream

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is not about discrimination. It is about promoting professionalism. I get that and when I am at work or I am doing anything to do with work I am professional though out I use the site in my own time now if like I read some time e.g have a cheeky wank under the desk that it unprofessional all leave your home life at home anyway thankyou all snookers calling sorry "

Why are you talking about professionalism and then in the next sentence mention having a cheeky wank under the desk?

I watched the fine staff of Walsall Manor hospital fight to resuscitate my father when he died last year. Their professionalism was outstanding, somehow doubt they were having a cheeky wank under the desk at any point.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"I wouldn't want a male midwife, neither would I have a male gynaecologist. Watched hand that rocks the cradle too many times and can't help thinking that the guy would get off on what he's doing.

Would it be illegal in these days of sexual equality to request another midwife because of their gender?.

The only thing you may find is there would still need to be a female member of staff present during treatment unless the laboriong woman consents otherwise

I'm no expert but I always assumed the midwife was associated to the birth quite early on. It's not as if the lady turns up about to give birth and a bloke walks in and they panic? Or am I wrong?

You have a set community midwife during pregnancy and after discharge from hospital, once on the in labour on a ward/delivery suite depends whose on shift at the time

Makes sense I guess, learn something new everyday. "

Unless your over due or risk factor so having a planned pre booked induction or c-section it really is the luck of the draw on who you get, that's the downside of labour being a spontaneous occurance, due dates are only ever guidelines

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Back to the original question

Why is this your dream ?

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area


"A genuine want to help to help bring new life in to the world

Bringing new life in this world is only a tiny part of midwifery do do know that don't you? "

Im sure he knows this ....

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop


"It is not about discrimination. It is about promoting professionalism. I get that and when I am at work or I am doing anything to do with work I am professional though out I use the site in my own time now if like I read some time e.g have a cheeky wank under the desk that it unprofessional all leave your home life at home anyway thankyou all snookers calling sorry

Why are you talking about professionalism and then in the next sentence mention having a cheeky wank under the desk?

I watched the fine staff of Walsall Manor hospital fight to resuscitate my father when he died last year. Their professionalism was outstanding, somehow doubt they were having a cheeky wank under the desk at any point.

"

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By *havedbearMan
over a year ago

UK


"Hello to you all I am danny. I am studying to be a midwife. How ever I have been told that it's not as good idea as a lot of ladies don't like to have males as midwifes this has and will not put me off as its my dream and I will follow it just wondering what you thoughts are if yah or nah or if you've had one what was you experience like. Nice to meet you all I am sure"

Yay! Definitely following your dream shouldn't be frowned on. It's a good profession with high standards and fucking hard exams. I know as a mates wife studied for four years and failed by a few points on her finally exam. Would have meant going back two years to try again don't give up and don't worry what any one else say. Good luck for the future to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't want a male midwife, neither would I have a male gynaecologist. Watched hand that rocks the cradle too many times and can't help thinking that the guy would get off on what he's doing.

Would it be illegal in these days of sexual equality to request another midwife because of their gender?.

The only thing you may find is there would still need to be a female member of staff present during treatment unless the laboriong woman consents otherwise

I'm no expert but I always assumed the midwife was associated to the birth quite early on. It's not as if the lady turns up about to give birth and a bloke walks in and they panic? Or am I wrong?

You have a set community midwife during pregnancy and after discharge from hospital, once on the in labour on a ward/delivery suite depends whose on shift at the time

Makes sense I guess, learn something new everyday.

Unless your over due or risk factor so having a planned pre booked induction or c-section it really is the luck of the draw on who you get, that's the downside of labour being a spontaneous occurance, due dates are only ever guidelines"

Well I'm glad we can now be civil to each other

With regards to other comments on the thread, I don't think people are dismissing male midwives as a career choice, more the intentions of the OP due to some of the disturbing things he has said and not really satisfied with a response

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By *enuinedanny OP   Man
over a year ago

walsall


"I wouldn't want a male midwife, neither would I have a male gynaecologist. Watched hand that rocks the cradle too many times and can't help thinking that the guy would get off on what he's doing.

Would it be illegal in these days of sexual equality to request another midwife because of their

The only thing you may find is there would still need to be a female member of staff present during treatment unless the laboriong woman consents otherwise

I'm no expert but I always assumed the midwife was associated to the birth quite early on. It's not as if the lady turns up about to give birth and a bloke walks in and they panic? Or am I wrong?

You have a set community midwife during pregnancy and after discharge from hospital, once on the in labour on a ward/delivery suite depends whose on shift at the time

Makes sense I guess, learn something new everyday.

Unless your over due or risk factor so having a planned pre booked induction or c-section it really is the luck of the draw on who you get, that's the downside of labour being a spontaneous occurance, due dates are only ever guidelines

Well I'm glad we can now be civil to each other

With regards to other comments on the thread, I don't think people are dismissing male midwives as a career choice, more the intentions of the OP due to some of the disturbing things he has said and not really satisfied with a response"

I have been satisfied with all the responses I have had with the exception of yours. I dont believe I have said anything disturbing would be happy to be corrected on that by any one but you. its gd to know you find me creepy and disturbing with out even knowing me. And to all those that have responeded I would like to say thank and also apologise for this happening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is not about discrimination. It is about promoting professionalism. I get that and when I am at work or I am doing anything to do with work I am professional though out I use the site in my own time now if like I read some time e.g have a cheeky wank under the desk that it unprofessional all leave your home life at home anyway thankyou all snookers calling sorry "

Creepy and disturbing

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By *enuinedanny OP   Man
over a year ago

walsall

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By *enuinedanny OP   Man
over a year ago

walsall


"It is not about discrimination. It is about promoting professionalism. I get that and when I am at work or I am doing anything to do with work I am professional though out I use the site in my own time now if like I read some time e.g have a cheeky wank under the desk that it unprofessional all leave your home life at home anyway thankyou all snookers calling sorry

Creepy and disturbing"

Yet again an opinion I didn't ask for but thank you any how

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop


"It is not about discrimination. It is about promoting professionalism. I get that and when I am at work or I am doing anything to do with work I am professional though out I use the site in my own time now if like I read some time e.g have a cheeky wank under the desk that it unprofessional all leave your home life at home anyway thankyou all snookers calling sorry

Creepy and disturbing

Yet again an opinion I didn't ask for but thank you any how "

I also found it bothersome. But for reasons I've outlined above

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I dont believe I have said anything disturbing would be happy to be corrected on that "

So I corrected you...as you asked

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By *enuinedanny OP   Man
over a year ago

walsall


"It is not about discrimination. It is about promoting professionalism. I get that and when I am at work or I am doing anything to do with work I am professional though out I use the site in my own time now if like I read some time e.g have a cheeky wank under the desk that it unprofessional all leave your home life at home anyway thankyou all snookers calling sorry

Creepy and disturbing

Yet again an opinion I didn't ask for but thank you any how

I also found it bothersome. But for reasons I've outlined above"

I take that on bored thank you I should of thought more about it. I was not refering to my self having one but on the fact that I have read posts on hear from people saying they are doing that. And that that is more unprofessional than being on a swingers site no matter what you profession you are in

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By *enuinedanny OP   Man
over a year ago

walsall


" I dont believe I have said anything disturbing would be happy to be corrected on that

So I corrected you...as you asked"

I said by any one but you if you'd of read further but you took it apon your self anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldnt really bother me i had male doctors etc during both my labours x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is not about discrimination. It is about promoting professionalism. I get that and when I am at work or I am doing anything to do with work I am professional though out I use the site in my own time now if like I read some time e.g have a cheeky wank under the desk that it unprofessional all leave your home life at home anyway thankyou all snookers calling sorry

Creepy and disturbing

Yet again an opinion I didn't ask for but thank you any how

I also found it bothersome. But for reasons I've outlined above

I take that on bored thank you I should of thought more about it. I was not refering to my self having one but on the fact that I have read posts on hear from people saying they are doing that. And that that is more unprofessional than being on a swingers site no matter what you profession you are in "

I'm in investment banking, it's kind of expected you are naughty

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By *enuinedanny OP   Man
over a year ago

walsall


"It is not about discrimination. It is about promoting professionalism. I get that and when I am at work or I am doing anything to do with work I am professional though out I use the site in my own time now if like I read some time e.g have a cheeky wank under the desk that it unprofessional all leave your home life at home anyway thankyou all snookers calling sorry

Creepy and disturbing

Yet again an opinion I didn't ask for but thank you any how

I also found it bothersome. But for reasons I've outlined above

I take that on bored thank you I should of thought more about it. I was not refering to my self having one but on the fact that I have read posts on hear from people saying they are doing that. And that that is more unprofessional than being on a swingers site no matter what you profession you are in

I'm in investment banking, it's kind of expected you are naughty "

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My nephew was a breech birth so she had half the hospital watching lol, I don't think she was bothered by their genders

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Asian and traveller ladies and sometimes foreigners of Catholic faith is where you'll find your problem but other than that say goodbye to your bladder and practice eating every meal standing up!!!

Oh and GOOD LUCK xx

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By *enuinedanny OP   Man
over a year ago

walsall


"Asian and traveller ladies and sometimes foreigners of Catholic faith is where you'll find your problem but other than that say goodbye to your bladder and practice eating every meal standing up!!!

Oh and GOOD LUCK xx"

thank you very much think I'll need it

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By *ubbykittenWoman
over a year ago

Kent

OP please follow the advice already given to you about your profile on here.

Despite all the good advice offered, your face is still visible on your profile photos.

Please be smart here. ANY friend or family of the pregnant lady you are on placement helping to care for, could potentially be on here. Even the lady herself. Imagine the scenario if tomorrow you go to the maternity ward and a visitor takes you aside to say his mate saw you on a sex site with naked photos. Would you be OK with that? Your university would not and neither would the NMC.

If someone recognises you - you WILL find yourself in hot water. It is difficult for some not in the health professions to understand just how serious this is.

You may find that unfair but you have chosen to join a profession with a code of conduct that is taken very seriously.Your personal life IS judged I am afraid. It would be breaching the clause regarding bringing the profession into disrepute as already stated by others.

It is your choice. But personally, I would heed a friendly warning and those of others and remove your face from your public photos and be more discrete about your professional identity in future. If others in health professions wish to show their identity so clearly on a swingers site then that is their risk. You are a student. Set your standards of professionalism high now and keep it that way regardless of what others do. Don't be naive.

I say this out of concern for your professional future and personal privacy.

I hope you take this in the spirit intended.

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By *ubbykittenWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Otherwise in answer to your original question, you have no need for concern. Good luck with your studies.

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By *enuinedanny OP   Man
over a year ago

walsall


"OP please follow the advice already given to you about your profile on here.

Despite all the good advice offered, your face is still visible on your profile photos.

Please be smart here. ANY friend or family of the pregnant lady you are on placement helping to care for, could potentially be on here. Even the lady herself. Imagine the scenario if tomorrow you go to the maternity ward and a visitor takes you aside to say his mate saw you on a sex site with naked photos. Would you be OK with that? Your university would not and neither would the NMC.

If someone recognises you - you WILL find yourself in hot water. It is difficult for some not in the health professions to understand just how serious this is.

You may find that unfair but you have chosen to join a profession with a code of conduct that is taken very seriously.Your personal life IS judged I am afraid. It would be breaching the clause regarding bringing the profession into disrepute as already stated by others.

It is your choice. But personally, I would heed a friendly warning and those of others and remove your face from your public photos and be more discrete about your professional identity in future. If others in health professions wish to show their identity so clearly on a swingers site then that is their risk. You are a student. Set your standards of professionalism high now and keep it that way regardless of what others do. Don't be naive.

I say this out of concern for your professional future and personal privacy.

I hope you take this in the spirit intended. "

I have taken the advice that came before and I have removed references to my work from my profile and made any face pics friends only your advice has been great fully excepted and very use full thank you I have also asked for this thread to be removed witch I hope it will

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By *ubbykittenWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"OP please follow the advice already given to you about your profile on here.

Despite all the good advice offered, your face is still visible on your profile photos.

Please be smart here. ANY friend or family of the pregnant lady you are on placement helping to care for, could potentially be on here. Even the lady herself. Imagine the scenario if tomorrow you go to the maternity ward and a visitor takes you aside to say his mate saw you on a sex site with naked photos. Would you be OK with that? Your university would not and neither would the NMC.

If someone recognises you - you WILL find yourself in hot water. It is difficult for some not in the health professions to understand just how serious this is.

You may find that unfair but you have chosen to join a profession with a code of conduct that is taken very seriously.Your personal life IS judged I am afraid. It would be breaching the clause regarding bringing the profession into disrepute as already stated by others.

It is your choice. But personally, I would heed a friendly warning and those of others and remove your face from your public photos and be more discrete about your professional identity in future. If others in health professions wish to show their identity so clearly on a swingers site then that is their risk. You are a student. Set your standards of professionalism high now and keep it that way regardless of what others do. Don't be naive.

I say this out of concern for your professional future and personal privacy.

I hope you take this in the spirit intended.

I have taken the advice that came before and I have removed references to my work from my profile and made any face pics friends only your advice has been great fully excepted and very use full thank you I have also asked for this thread to be removed witch I hope it will"

Your face pics are still on _iew. Go to your photos and tick the 'private' box for all photos you don't on public _iew. Maybe contact admin if you need help?

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By *ubbykittenWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"OP please follow the advice already given to you about your profile on here.

Despite all the good advice offered, your face is still visible on your profile photos.

Please be smart here. ANY friend or family of the pregnant lady you are on placement helping to care for, could potentially be on here. Even the lady herself. Imagine the scenario if tomorrow you go to the maternity ward and a visitor takes you aside to say his mate saw you on a sex site with naked photos. Would you be OK with that? Your university would not and neither would the NMC.

If someone recognises you - you WILL find yourself in hot water. It is difficult for some not in the health professions to understand just how serious this is.

You may find that unfair but you have chosen to join a profession with a code of conduct that is taken very seriously.Your personal life IS judged I am afraid. It would be breaching the clause regarding bringing the profession into disrepute as already stated by others.

It is your choice. But personally, I would heed a friendly warning and those of others and remove your face from your public photos and be more discrete about your professional identity in future. If others in health professions wish to show their identity so clearly on a swingers site then that is their risk. You are a student. Set your standards of professionalism high now and keep it that way regardless of what others do. Don't be naive.

I say this out of concern for your professional future and personal privacy.

I hope you take this in the spirit intended.

I have taken the advice that came before and I have removed references to my work from my profile and made any face pics friends only your advice has been great fully excepted and very use full thank you I have also asked for this thread to be removed witch I hope it will

Your face pics are still on _iew. Go to your photos and tick the 'private' box for all photos you don't on public _iew. Maybe contact admin if you need help?"

Sorry - omitted a word. That was '....all photos don't WANT on public _iew'.

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By *enuinedanny OP   Man
over a year ago

walsall


"OP please follow the advice already given to you about your profile on here.

Despite all the good advice offered, your face is still visible on your profile photos.

Please be smart here. ANY friend or family of the pregnant lady you are on placement helping to care for, could potentially be on here. Even the lady herself. Imagine the scenario if tomorrow you go to the maternity ward and a visitor takes you aside to say his mate saw you on a sex site with naked photos. Would you be OK with that? Your university would not and neither would the NMC.

If someone recognises you - you WILL find yourself in hot water. It is difficult for some not in the health professions to understand just how serious this is.

You may find that unfair but you have chosen to join a profession with a code of conduct that is taken very seriously.Your personal life IS judged I am afraid. It would be breaching the clause regarding bringing the profession into disrepute as already stated by others.

It is your choice. But personally, I would heed a friendly warning and those of others and remove your face from your public photos and be more discrete about your professional identity in future. If others in health professions wish to show their identity so clearly on a swingers site then that is their risk. You are a student. Set your standards of professionalism high now and keep it that way regardless of what others do. Don't be naive.

I say this out of concern for your professional future and personal privacy.

I hope you take this in the spirit intended.

I have taken the advice that came before and I have removed references to my work from my profile and made any face pics friends only your advice has been great fully excepted and very use full thank you I have also asked for this thread to be removed witch I hope it will

Your face pics are still on _iew. Go to your photos and tick the 'private' box for all photos you don't on public _iew. Maybe contact admin if you need help?

Sorry - omitted a word. That was '....all photos don't WANT on public _iew'."

I must not of saved the changes earlier I have done it now thanks for pointing that out to me

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