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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Are you put off with over the top verifications or do you like to see them in depth with a by by account of all that happened?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

They don't bother me at all.

I don't read them

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By *eighleedsMan
over a year ago

leeds


"Are you put off with over the top verifications or do you like to see them in depth with a by by account of all that happened? "
All i want to see is nice person, was as pics / description. turned up on time, etc

dont need a blow by blow account of what they got up to, thats betwwen themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whilst verifications are used to, err verify that someone is genuine, they are also an appreciative message to the parties concerned. I dont have any thoughts on it particularly as the verifications are written for the people concerned and not for me

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Generally I am not fussed as I don't value them...but the later puts me off if anything.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I meant blow by blow account fingers ain't working tonight

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"Are you put off with over the top verifications or do you like to see them in depth with a by by account of all that happened? "

Oh Janelle how could someone go over the top for a person as warm, wonder, sexy and funny as you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are you put off with over the top verifications or do you like to see them in depth with a by by account of all that happened?

Oh Janelle how could someone go over the top for a person as warm, wonder, sexy and funny as you "

Cheeky mare but remember you didn't have to say how many times you fingered my ass lol

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By *eppersCouple
over a year ago

telford

Do i detect a note of sarcasm there yvonne, so unlike you. pmsl

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

Verifications for us do nothing other than confirm the couple may well exist, if we do look at a verification, we do it as a guidance only, then again, we've yet to notice a negative verification

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think a graphic blow-by-blow account is really necessary ... a verification is supposed to be just that - something saying the person is genuine and everything they state they are.

I've read some veris that are sickeningly sycophantic and, quite frankly, I find them offputting.

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By *eppersCouple
over a year ago

telford

Buy1get1 take it from me you don't wanna go there, i made that mistake once and got well spanked for my efforts .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, nothing puts us off, we take people at face value, we think we are reasonably intelligent and make our own minds up about people.

A veri is a veri - a few lines of text placed on a website by people we don't know and probaly will never know

so on a 'worthlessness' scale of 1 - 10, a veri struggles to reach 3

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"Buy1get1 take it from me you don't wanna go there"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, I find it off putting. If you meet for sex I get it, I don't need a blow by blow (pun intended) account of the meet. I also find 101 verifications from the same female off putting: talk about territory marking!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its the webcam ones that i dont get. You can't really say a lot from them so why bother.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I do sometimes chuckle at the ones which sound more like they are placing an add to sell the person or a secondhand camper van.

What can I say fellas... she does x,y and z and gives great head. Can't fault her a, b and c and with a bit of encouragement she'll do k and j. Sexy underwear, comfy bed and you get breakfast thrown in... don't miss out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to admit, although i seem to be in the minority on here, i actually like reading veris.

yes its a valid point that multiple veris from the same person is off putting.

And i like to think im intelligent enough to make up my own mind.

But when i get the initial message from someone, they do help me to make my mind up if i want to start chatting with that person with a _iew to a later meet!

And sometimes u can read around what is put in a veri.

I dont need a blow by blow account, but if its a glowing recommend then i would be more interested!

I guess im that shallow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Copied this from the Scotland forum, my reply to similar question. xxx

Reading some people's verifications is like reading their own personal sex diary, every lick suck and splash is noted and written about...repeatedly.

I mean what's the deal with veri after veri by the same person for the same person?

Like a who's fucked who for those who check veri's regularly.

When I see a guy and girl or two couples who constantly verify each other every single meet, I read POSSESSIVE.

I don't like to see too sexually explicit veri's...

I prefer to make up my own mind, and when reading verifications innuendo is so much more sexy than a blow by blow-job account.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Copied this from the Scotland forum, my reply to similar question. xxx

Reading some people's verifications is like reading their own personal sex diary, every lick suck and splash is noted and written about...repeatedly.

I mean what's the deal with veri after veri by the same person for the same person?

Like a who's fucked who for those who check veri's regularly.

When I see a guy and girl or two couples who constantly verify each other every single meet, I read POSSESSIVE.

I don't like to see too sexually explicit veri's...

I prefer to make up my own mind, and when reading verifications innuendo is so much more sexy than a blow by blow-job account."

*Nods in agreement*

My _iew too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the "ad" type ones, they do make me smile. I find ours really amusing. The not to be missed particularly makes me smile. Thats why I put our verifications on our profile, they make me and Chris smile, and fun is what its all about. I dont really expect other people to read them or study them in depth though, it should be enough to just look, think oh yeah they're verified and thats it move on.

Though the abundance of verifications on a guys profile from the same woman does make me smile too - I dont ever read the content, I dont need to, just seeing the name constantly popping up speaks volumes doesnt it

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I think it's funnier when 2 or 3 names keep popping up and it becomes 'Verification Wars'.... who can make their meet sound better than the others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have seen some cringingly long verifications, essays in fact, and I thought WTF?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i find it difficult though if someone leaves you a veri then i feel it would be rude not to show it but i'm not keen on the blow by blow ones yet have no control over wat is put

tough one

so i tend not to judge the person the veri is about as they have no control over wat is put

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"i find it difficult though if someone leaves you a veri then i feel it would be rude not to show it"

We show publicly verifications from those we've met socially, those we've met for sex has nothing to do with anyone else

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Are you put off with over the top verifications or do you like to see them in depth with a by by account of all that happened? "
Im not really arsed, but i dont see the point of veris by webcam or phone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i find it difficult though if someone leaves you a veri then i feel it would be rude not to show it

We show publicly verifications from those we've met socially, those we've met for sex has nothing to do with anyone else "

fair comment might be something i would consider with hindsight

will mull over n maybe delete n in future ask any that leave to make it more subtle

see thats y i like forums gives insight

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)

They are all ok if they are genuine. However from what i have heard there are some who will verify anyone even if they haven,t seen, spoken or met them. I would rather see a genuine graphic one than some fake shit if i am honest.

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"Do i detect a note of sarcasm there yvonne, so unlike you. pmsl"

Who, me, never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Generally I am not fussed as I don't value them...but the later puts me off if anything.

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*SAME*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tried to write my own, it wouldn't let me.

I would of been bloody fantastic though lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Verifications for us do nothing other than confirm the couple may well exist, if we do look at a verification, we do it as a guidance only, then again, we've yet to notice a negative verification "

Dont know what would be sadder....

The ones who write a negative one (if you have nothing nice to say...shut up) lol...OR the ones who publish them to profile (Hellooooooo)lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tried to write my own, it wouldn't let me.

I would of been bloody fantastic though lol"

Mine would be.....

"yeah well, she was ok I suppose...had better"...lol

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Haven't got any yet, still working on that but my target is 4. 1 man 1 woman 1 couple 1 tv/ts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i like veri's as i like to see who knows who and who has been were!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im in two minds about them. I like to know the couple really exists, but I remember two instances that puts doubt in my mind... One was from a couple at a party saying how great the night was and how much fun the hosts were - the only trouble was that the first couple had stayed fully dressed in the kitchen and the hosts had a fight and kicked everyone out! The second was from a party we attended but had to leave early, we still had a verification saying how much fun we had been - but hubby hadnt even taken his clothes off and we had to leave before the buffet had even been eaten! I think quite a few people use it as the Fabs equivalent of friend count on Facebook!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont give them and i dont like it on mine, dont want a blow by blow account; whats good for one is not for another and is off-putting

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By *ashful BazMan
over a year ago

poole dorset

I think for a single man on this site, it's nice to have at least one.

The two I had put up for me, the Ladies have since left the site, so I am right up, shit creek now! Lol

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