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Why is it really that hard to get a meet nowadays

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Any one know why it has become so hard to get to meet nowadays

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no problems getting a meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Different area though mate nice dick btw

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

there's about 10 threads a day asking the same question everyday. Maybe you should all hook up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all on how you message and come across. First impressions and all that

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By *northernsoulMan
over a year ago

Manchester

It's hard to answer that without knowing who you're approaching, and how you're approaching them.

Just continue to make the effort, be patient and be respectful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Effort in = reward out.

I won't offer profile advice as you haven't explicitly asked for it, but would you meet yourself based purely on your profile...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's hard to answer that without knowing who you're approaching, and how you're approaching them.

Just continue to make the effort, be patient and be respectful. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Okay before everyone continues is this:

1. An esoteric question?

2. A request to comment on your profile?

3. A statement of swinging in its current form?

4 A strange rhetorical question?

5. A look at me post?

6. Or because the search function is bust?

If you want my opinion, its because of the rampant sarcasm....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"there's about 10 threads a day asking the same question everyday. Maybe you should all hook up"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends where you live, some areas are more fab active than others, for example, if someone living in the shetland islands, they would have less people there than someone living in north england, which seems to be the most popular area.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was looking for a social the other day and yes im a woman but it was non existant only had offers if it ended in play and the reason for a social to me is so we can see if there is a genuine attraction xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any one know why it has become so hard to get to meet nowadays"

You have to be more specific.

Generally I find it's a combination of factors, but if you have a deep enough well of people you're attracted to, it makes sense you're going to get with at least a few of them. My well sadly seems to be almost dry, and I can't guarantee that even the ones I want, want me in return, so perhaps it'll soon be time to move on with my life, and leave swinging behind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any one know why it has become so hard to get to meet nowadays"

I don't know about you but my problem is I'm too fussy

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Folk are meeting, they have no problems.

Your question might ha 've been better if it asked

Why is it so hard for me to get a meet?.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any one know why it has become so hard to get to meet nowadays

I don't know about you but my problem is I'm too fussy "

That's the reason I like to give as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Effort in = reward out.

I won't offer profile advice as you haven't explicitly asked for it, but would you meet yourself based purely on your profile...?"

that's like saying I wont give profile advice as you haven't asked for it....but I will anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"there's about 10 threads a day asking the same question everyday. Maybe you should all hook up"

Hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any one know why it has become so hard to get to meet nowadays

I don't know about you but my problem is I'm too fussy

That's the reason I like to give as well

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home

I've got 2 arrange for this week and maybe 2 more. So no. It's not difficult

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Effort in = reward out.

I won't offer profile advice as you haven't explicitly asked for it, but would you meet yourself based purely on your profile...?

that's like saying I wont give profile advice as you haven't asked for it....but I will anyway "

Shush.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any one know why it has become so hard to get to meet nowadays"

do you mean for you personally?

there is one glaringly obvious reason on your profile as to why not...but you need to figure that out yourself

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By *ustCurious9966Man
over a year ago

cambridge


"Effort in = reward out.

I won't offer profile advice as you haven't explicitly asked for it, but would you meet yourself based purely on your profile...?"

Great advice. Or is that a nice way of saying go f'ck yourself?! Off to check out if I'd meet myself...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any one know why it has become so hard to get to meet nowadays"

Even with 'not meeting' on my profile, I still get messages asking to meet. If I took that down I could get shagged from morning to night.

I'm fussy too though, so I don't. But I don't have a problem getting meets when I want them.

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By *ongtalljonMan
over a year ago

North Wales

It always was difficult to get a meet...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put some more full body photos up and see if that works. Everyone is different but I rarely look further if only public photos are cocks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Effort in = reward out.

I won't offer profile advice as you haven't explicitly asked for it, but would you meet yourself based purely on your profile...?

that's like saying I wont give profile advice as you haven't asked for it....but I will anyway

Shush. "

nope

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Any one know why it has become so hard to get to meet nowadays"

It isn't.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

You're right, it's frightfully difficulty.

Fortunately I have a time-machine so I can revisit my favourite meets at any point. It's jolly handy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Statistics .......perhaps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read this thread and have a real think about why you might be finding it difficult.

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/495340

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