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By *ittle_brat_evie!! OP   Woman
over a year ago

evesham

are the directly proportionate to how hot the other person is???

been trying to arrange a meet with a very hot guy for ages now, first time i had to cancel for nature reasons, second time he got called into work, tonight we were messaging about him comin over up to about 5 mins before when all of a sudden....car problems.

thing is he is frigging HOT!!!! but i dont want to look like a muppet that will let him screw me around just cos i want him to screw me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh...the car problems...new thread about to be posted!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

he could genuinely have car problems - have you tried to re-arrange? x

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon

I'd like to be able to say I'm not that fickle but the truth is the opposite... I'd give someone I was crazy about just as many second chances as they wanted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i wonder if the fact that he is hot, also makes him popular, and so he isnt as desperate or keen to keep a meet date??

Dont worry, just cos he looks hot, doesnt make him good in bed??

Plenty more fish as they say

xxx

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)


"are the directly proportionate to how hot the other person is???

been trying to arrange a meet with a very hot guy for ages now, first time i had to cancel for nature reasons, second time he got called into work, tonight we were messaging about him comin over up to about 5 mins before when all of a sudden....car problems.

thing is he is frigging HOT!!!! but i dont want to look like a muppet that will let him screw me around just cos i want him to screw me "

Tell him that's two strikes and you don't give him three but do it in a jokey way. Or ask him if he is really serious.

The thing we don't know is if he is a bit shy as that might be a contributing factor for a newbie.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!! OP   Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"are the directly proportionate to how hot the other person is???

been trying to arrange a meet with a very hot guy for ages now, first time i had to cancel for nature reasons, second time he got called into work, tonight we were messaging about him comin over up to about 5 mins before when all of a sudden....car problems.

thing is he is frigging HOT!!!! but i dont want to look like a muppet that will let him screw me around just cos i want him to screw me

Tell him that's two strikes and you don't give him three but do it in a jokey way. Or ask him if he is really serious.

The thing we don't know is if he is a bit shy as that might be a contributing factor for a newbie."

i've met him before, and its always him wanting to rearrange etc

maybe it is genuine bad luck, who knows

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Sometimes you get a gut instint whether someone is genuine in their reasoning for cancelling a meet. It was you that cancelled the first so if i was you i would give him one last chance and then thats it.

2 of my most long term guys took ages to actually meet as we had to both keep posponing before we actually met but 5 years on for one and 3 years on for the other and im still seeing them both

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

I ever gave one second chance and i didnt do it again after that...if they didnt make the meet as arranged it was block n delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a cow and have yet to give a second chance to anyone.

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