FabSwingers.com forum: Why Be Rude

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ive just the 2nd abusive message of the night,

why do ppl have to be so nasty.ive never lied about being a bigger lady and am always potile and friendly when chatting to ppl... but these messages were really nasty and very abusive and has now seriously made me think of leaving and giving up swinging all together .....

cant even report them as stupidly deleted them grrr

dee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ignore the tossers hun.xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont the abuse turn u on? it does me, i wank over the emails then reply thanking them hahaha

ignore the fuckwits hun dont let anyone ever make u leave

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place

"Ive just the 2nd abusive message of the night,

cant even report them as stupidly deleted them grrr

dee

DONT let these tossers stop your lifestyle you done nothing wrong ...ignore em ,.,,move on and forget ...

have fun babes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some just use this site 2 vent off hidden anger and take the piss..dont let it spoil it 4 u some good ones on here honest xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take no notice at all.. easier said than done but it says more about them than it does you eh...

why care about some half wit who is just there to be an arse...

Be you.. be lovely, move on... mwah xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive just the 2nd abusive message of the night,

cant even report them as stupidly deleted them grrr

dee

I've found the only time they get abusive is when I politely reply.

Just delete and forget about them.

Estee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

honestly, you should see the ones I get...from moans about changing my profile... posts on the forum...to racist ones for my avatar...they amuse me, HOwever don't let anyone let you get to the stage where you want to leave. They are not worth it and a small minority.xxxx

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By *achaCouple
over a year ago

manchester

so you're going to stop swinging because of some random messages on a free internet site? strange.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wank on their face that will show them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"so you're going to stop swinging because of some random messages on a free internet site? strange."

Why strange??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

thank you guys

dee x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"so you're going to stop swinging because of some random messages on a free internet site? strange."

why is it strange.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"so you're going to stop swinging because of some random messages on a free internet site? strange.

why is it strange. "

its not dont worry, its just feelings init

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Starnge you have feelings... Strange your human and give a damn maybe... Dunno, strange they think it strange lol...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"so you're going to stop swinging because of some random messages on a free internet site? strange.

why is it strange.

its not dont worry, its just feelings init"

Thats what I said... but in English pmsl xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like strange, and feeling strange strangely enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like strange, and feeling strange strangely enough.

Its strange you find it strange that they said its strange as we all think its strange they found it strange too...

Strange that eh...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive just the 2nd abusive message of the night,

cant even report them as stupidly deleted them grrr

dee

They're ignorant and stupid and not deserving of your time. You are clearly better than them so move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive just the 2nd abusive message of the night,

cant even report them as stupidly deleted them grrr

dee

I'm not what you'd call slim either and have unwanted comments in the past but all I say in reply is: "I can always lose weight whereas you'll ALWAYS be a twat." (I actually use the c**t word but I thought I'd be polite on here lol)

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By *teve_SoleilCouple
over a year ago

Malaysia

Why the abusive messages? If they aren't interested, then why?...some of these people gets off on these...maybe they have a forced submissive lifestyle...which makes them feel a lil bit dominant....really sad...

anyway...I think you can still report them from their profile page even if you have delete the message...I am sure site owner can check the offender sent messages for the abusive messages....

It's okay to feel hurt by words of complete stranger....but just don't let it take over your life...:D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think its strange.

Its not nice to open your messages and read nasty things .. no matter whether who the message is from.

Everybody (well most people) like to be liked.

I've had one tonight....

Wanna come to my house??? I said "No Thank you".

Reply - "Good 'cos I don't want you to come you fat bitch!"

And the TW*T managed to block me before I could reply.... with a suitable one word response

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place

"I don't think its strange.

Its not nice to open your messages and read nasty things .. no matter whether who the message is from.

Everybody (well most people) like to be liked.

I've had one tonight....

Wanna come to my house??? I said "No Thank you".

Reply - "Good 'cos I don't want you to come you fat bitch!"

And the TW*T managed to block me before I could reply.... with a suitable one word response

did you report it ....?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ah well am now feeling well and truely neglected and left out. i have never had an abusive message sent to me yet....i just get all the abuse on the forums off the doris's like deputy doris rob....and grumpy bastard pd doris.....so i suppose that more than makes up for it

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place

"ah well am now feeling well and truely neglected and left out. i have never had an abusive message sent to me yet....i just get all the abuse on the forums off the doris's like deputy doris rob....and grumpy bastard pd doris.....so i suppose that more than makes up for it"

ooooyyyyy first thing we dont have ranks in the brotherhood ...second there is no way i am grumpy ....got too much fun in my life for that

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By *igBunnyWoman
over a year ago

My Town

I have felt like that too.

I don't get many messages anyway. I am a big girl and don't care anyway what people think of me.

(have a few lovely men friends on here though)

Ignore the tossers. That's all they do anyway, toss themselves off at the thought of upsetting you.

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By *resh freddieMan
over a year ago

Penistone

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By *resh freddieMan
over a year ago

Penistone

If people have no manners then its there loss. You smile and walk away with your dignity while they crawl about in the gutter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ooooyyyyy first thing we dont have ranks in the brotherhood ...second there is no way i am grumpy ....got too much fun in my life for that

ok ok calm down calm down....promise not to steal your wheel trims for now....but you can still continue to call me princess gash hotlips

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have felt like that too.

I don't get many messages anyway. I am a big girl and don't care anyway what people think of me.

(have a few lovely men friends on here though)

Ignore the tossers. That's all they do anyway, toss themselves off at the thought of upsetting you."

do you think thats why you and i come on here then hun coz we need to feel abused at times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sticks and stones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"sticks and stones "

mmmh good idea....another thing for my wish list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"sticks and stones

mmmh good idea....another thing for my wish list"
you going nowhere near your wish list til firemen been round babe xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah ditto to all of the above, just don't let the idiots think they've chased you out. And don't give them the benefit of letting them think they've got power over you (easier said than done though). Be strong.

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By *igBunnyWoman
over a year ago

My Town

"I have felt like that too.

I don't get many messages anyway. I am a big girl and don't care anyway what people think of me.

(have a few lovely men friends on here though)

Ignore the tossers. That's all they do anyway, toss themselves off at the thought of upsetting you.

do you think thats why you and i come on here then hun coz we need to feel abused at times"

Oh no. i block any nasty men.

Get enough crap in real life and don't want it here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't think its strange.

Its not nice to open your messages and read nasty things .. no matter whether who the message is from.

Everybody (well most people) like to be liked.

I've had one tonight....

Wanna come to my house??? I said "No Thank you".

Reply - "Good 'cos I don't want you to come you fat bitch!"

And the TW*T managed to block me before I could reply.... with a suitable one word response

did you report it ....?"

I know its a bit of a negative attitude but whats the point??

There have been loads of threds on here saying it doesn't make any difference.

They can't message me .... end of!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

thanks everyone your all right. not going to let the idiots win ...

great big hugs to you all. thanks for helping me see sense .. why should i stop having fun ...

dee xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"thanks everyone your all right. not going to let the idiots win ...

great big hugs to you all. thanks for helping me see sense .. why should i stop having fun ...

dee xxxx "

Exactly dont let the minority of idiots on here spoil it 4 u xx

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By *resh freddieMan
over a year ago

Penistone

"thanks everyone your all right. not going to let the idiots win ...

great big hugs to you all. thanks for helping me see sense .. why should i stop having fun ...

dee xxxx "

Maybe there should be a "display rude message" button for a separate area here.

Click it and it displays. Lots would think twice if all could see how rude they are!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't think its strange.

Its not nice to open your messages and read nasty things .. no matter whether who the message is from.

Everybody (well most people) like to be liked.

I've had one tonight....

Wanna come to my house??? I said "No Thank you".

Reply - "Good 'cos I don't want you to come you fat bitch!"

And the TW*T managed to block me before I could reply.... with a suitable one word response

gimme his name i'l wind him up, lol

i know someone on this site, and if one of us gets shit the other winds them up and leads em on, it can be amusing,

revenge can be so fun

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting

"I don't think its strange.

Its not nice to open your messages and read nasty things .. no matter whether who the message is from.

Everybody (well most people) like to be liked.

I've had one tonight....

Wanna come to my house??? I said "No Thank you".

Reply - "Good 'cos I don't want you to come you fat bitch!"

And the TW*T managed to block me before I could reply.... with a suitable one word response

gimme his name i'l wind him up, lol

i know someone on this site, and if one of us gets shit the other winds them up and leads em on, it can be amusing,

revenge can be so fun

Had a very abusive message off a guy 11weeks ago (yeah still got it stored)

I reported it at the time - and guess wha t- nothing was done - not even a message from Admin to say he was warned or anything.

Last week i got a jovial meesage as if i knew him asking how work was etc.

Now i didnt block him , cos after reporting him i thought i may get more abuse - which would give me ammunition to report again - but what he DID do was try and coontact me through another profile, a single bi fem (cos yeah, i get loads of mails from those) and her only verification - was him!!

Stupid twat....lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't think its strange.

Its not nice to open your messages and read nasty things .. no matter whether who the message is from.

Everybody (well most people) like to be liked.

I've had one tonight....

Wanna come to my house??? I said "No Thank you".

Reply - "Good 'cos I don't want you to come you fat bitch!"

And the TW*T managed to block me before I could reply.... with a suitable one word response

gimme his name i'l wind him up, lol

i know someone on this site, and if one of us gets shit the other winds them up and leads em on, it can be amusing,

revenge can be so fun

Had a very abusive message off a guy 11weeks ago (yeah still got it stored)

I reported it at the time - and guess wha t- nothing was done - not even a message from Admin to say he was warned or anything.

Last week i got a jovial meesage as if i knew him asking how work was etc.

Stupid twat....lol"

I'm surprised you didnt take the opportunity to string him along, arrange a meet, make it convincing like only you woman can... and then don't turn up lol... I would have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think that both his profiles need to be reported. That is terrible .

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting

"I don't think its strange.

Its not nice to open your messages and read nasty things .. no matter whether who the message is from.

Everybody (well most people) like to be liked.

I've had one tonight....

Wanna come to my house??? I said "No Thank you".

Reply - "Good 'cos I don't want you to come you fat bitch!"

And the TW*T managed to block me before I could reply.... with a suitable one word response

gimme his name i'l wind him up, lol

i know someone on this site, and if one of us gets shit the other winds them up and leads em on, it can be amusing,

revenge can be so fun

Had a very abusive message off a guy 11weeks ago (yeah still got it stored)

I reported it at the time - and guess wha t- nothing was done - not even a message from Admin to say he was warned or anything.

Last week i got a jovial meesage as if i knew him asking how work was etc.

Stupid twat....lol

I'm surprised you didnt take the opportunity to string him along, arrange a meet, make it convincing like only you woman can... and then don't turn up lol... I would have.

TBH - he was that abusive i was actually quite scared, saying when he see's me about Notts he will be in my face, made out he knew me and where i worked.

Not sure he knows exactly where i work but knew my proffesion - and i just backed off as it actually did affect me.

Luckily - for as long as i been on the site- that twat is the only one who has bothered me, the rest have been delete and block - and the rest of em have been lovely

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting

"i think that both his profiles need to be reported. That is terrible ."

i repprted the HE one, and just blocked the SHE one.

Takes up too much time and if you get drawen in , it just gets upsetting.

Was bad feeling at the time - now i just think he is a toss pot - tho it seems he still gets meets.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i think that both his profiles need to be reported. That is terrible .

i repprted the HE one, and just blocked the SHE one.

Takes up too much time and if you get drawen in , it just gets upsetting.

Was bad feeling at the time - now i just think he is a toss pot - tho it seems he still gets meets....."

i really think that is shameful he threatened you and nothing was done

did you say you still had the post ?

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting

"i think that both his profiles need to be reported. That is terrible .

i repprted the HE one, and just blocked the SHE one.

Takes up too much time and if you get drawen in , it just gets upsetting.

Was bad feeling at the time - now i just think he is a toss pot - tho it seems he still gets meets.....

i really think that is shameful he threatened you and nothing was done

did you say you still had the post ?"

Think so - but it was 11 weeks ago now.

I was still very much a newbie and trying to answer all my mail =- learned thats a big NO NO = esp time wise....lol

If it happened again now i would just tell the eeejit to feck off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i think that both his profiles need to be reported. That is terrible .

i repprted the HE one, and just blocked the SHE one.

Takes up too much time and if you get drawen in , it just gets upsetting.

Was bad feeling at the time - now i just think he is a toss pot - tho it seems he still gets meets.....

i really think that is shameful he threatened you and nothing was done

did you say you still had the post ?

Think so - but it was 11 weeks ago now.

I was still very much a newbie and trying to answer all my mail =- learned thats a big NO NO = esp time wise....lol

If it happened again now i would just tell the eeejit to feck off."

You've only been here 11 weeks?.. feels a LOT longer!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

LOL ...you are so funny ....

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting

"i think that both his profiles need to be reported. That is terrible .

i repprted the HE one, and just blocked the SHE one.

Takes up too much time and if you get drawen in , it just gets upsetting.

Was bad feeling at the time - now i just think he is a toss pot - tho it seems he still gets meets.....

i really think that is shameful he threatened you and nothing was done

did you say you still had the post ?

Think so - but it was 11 weeks ago now.

I was still very much a newbie and trying to answer all my mail =- learned thats a big NO NO = esp time wise....lol

If it happened again now i would just tell the eeejit to feck off.

You've only been here 11 weeks?.. feels a LOT longer!!

LOL

Noooooooooooo - the evil message was 11 weeks ago - i been here aobut 16 weeks now!!!

HA A HA HA H HA HA HA HA

As for feels longer.....what exactly feels longer may i ask.....????

Hmm???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i think that both his profiles need to be reported. That is terrible .

i repprted the HE one, and just blocked the SHE one.

Takes up too much time and if you get drawen in , it just gets upsetting.

Was bad feeling at the time - now i just think he is a toss pot - tho it seems he still gets meets.....

i really think that is shameful he threatened you and nothing was done

did you say you still had the post ?

Think so - but it was 11 weeks ago now.

I was still very much a newbie and trying to answer all my mail =- learned thats a big NO NO = esp time wise....lol

If it happened again now i would just tell the eeejit to feck off.

You've only been here 11 weeks?.. feels a LOT longer!!

LOL

Noooooooooooo - the evil message was 11 weeks ago - i been here aobut 16 weeks now!!!

HA A HA HA H HA HA HA HA

As for feels longer.....what exactly feels longer may i ask.....????

Hmm???

Depends on how horny I am? Is it the same for you girls, do you get deeper when ur really fired up? Always wondered bout that lol

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting

"i think that both his profiles need to be reported. That is terrible .

i repprted the HE one, and just blocked the SHE one.

Takes up too much time and if you get drawen in , it just gets upsetting.

Was bad feeling at the time - now i just think he is a toss pot - tho it seems he still gets meets.....

i really think that is shameful he threatened you and nothing was done

did you say you still had the post ?

Think so - but it was 11 weeks ago now.

I was still very much a newbie and trying to answer all my mail =- learned thats a big NO NO = esp time wise....lol

If it happened again now i would just tell the eeejit to feck off.

You've only been here 11 weeks?.. feels a LOT longer!!

LOL

Noooooooooooo - the evil message was 11 weeks ago - i been here aobut 16 weeks now!!!

HA A HA HA H HA HA HA HA

As for feels longer.....what exactly feels longer may i ask.....????

Hmm???

Depends on how horny I am? Is it the same for you girls, do you get deeper when ur really fired up? Always wondered bout that lol

Never measured actually!!!

Its not something us girls worry about is it.

But, what if say Me, is only 4 inches deep and meet a man with a 12 inch cock - that makes for some serious uterus bruising.....lol

How would we measure hey hey hey???

And should it be something we should be telling???

Esp if other way round from above scenario???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i think that both his profiles need to be reported. That is terrible .

i repprted the HE one, and just blocked the SHE one.

Takes up too much time and if you get drawen in , it just gets upsetting.

Was bad feeling at the time - now i just think he is a toss pot - tho it seems he still gets meets.....

i really think that is shameful he threatened you and nothing was done

did you say you still had the post ?

Think so - but it was 11 weeks ago now.

I was still very much a newbie and trying to answer all my mail =- learned thats a big NO NO = esp time wise....lol

If it happened again now i would just tell the eeejit to feck off.

You've only been here 11 weeks?.. feels a LOT longer!!

LOL

Noooooooooooo - the evil message was 11 weeks ago - i been here aobut 16 weeks now!!!

HA A HA HA H HA HA HA HA

As for feels longer.....what exactly feels longer may i ask.....????

Hmm???

Depends on how horny I am? Is it the same for you girls, do you get deeper when ur really fired up? Always wondered bout that lol

Never measured actually!!!

Its not something us girls worry about is it.

But, what if say Me, is only 4 inches deep and meet a man with a 12 inch cock - that makes for some serious uterus bruising.....lol

How would we measure hey hey hey???

And should it be something we should be telling???

Esp if other way round from above scenario???

Mrs Two2 knows with a glance what is small, nice, big or potentially painful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never measured actually!!!

Its not something us girls worry about is it.

But, what if say Me, is only 4 inches deep and meet a man with a 12 inch cock - that makes for some serious uterus bruising.....lol

How would we measure hey hey hey???

And should it be something we should be telling???

Esp if other way round from above scenario???

I'm not above average endowed at all but I know in certain positions I'll be hitting the cervix with pretty much every thrust and even though I've been told it hurts, its a nice kinda hurt. Sort of "I've been well and truly fucked and I'm satisfied" sort of hurt. Never been told to stop though. I'm happy enough with what I got lol

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

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"Never measured actually!!!

Its not something us girls worry about is it.

But, what if say Me, is only 4 inches deep and meet a man with a 12 inch cock - that makes for some serious uterus bruising.....lol

How would we measure hey hey hey???

And should it be something we should be telling???

Esp if other way round from above scenario???

Yea, sometimes a bit of hurt is ok.....and us women can ajust ourselves in an oh so slightly diffrent position to make all the difference....hmmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know the ave depth of a woman's pussy is approx 5" and the most sensitive part is 3" on the front inside wall but it amazes me how different you actually are. I was at a party once where I stupidly stated the above 'facts' and two girls said 'yeah? prove it, but you gotta make us cum at the same time.' I thought it would be a doddle, same place, two hands, go for it. Not a fucking hope in hells chance lol.. one girl was so turned on she almost came immediately, the other was determined to prove me wrong... she won that round lol.. but she did say afterwards in the kitchen when we were chatting that she wanted to come sooo much but deliberately held it back. We guys can't do that unless we stop playing altogether. When we 'lock on' a fookin hurricane could blow through here but I'm still gonna cum no matter what! lol

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

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"I know the ave depth of a woman's pussy is approx 5" and the most sensitive part is 3" on the front inside wall but it amazes me how different you actually are. I was at a party once where I stupidly stated the above 'facts' and two girls said 'yeah? prove it, but you gotta make us cum at the same time.' I thought it would be a doddle, same place, two hands, go for it. Not a fucking hope in hells chance lol.. one girl was so turned on she almost came immediately, the other was determined to prove me wrong... she won that round lol.. but she did say afterwards in the kitchen when we were chatting that she wanted to come sooo much but deliberately held it back. We guys can't do that unless we stop playing altogether. When we 'lock on' a fookin hurricane could blow through here but I'm still gonna cum no matter what! lol"

good chat up line tho!!!!

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