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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do people have problems with meeting married men behind there partners back or is it a turn on?

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Married men are my favourite flavour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some do some don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they had a problem, they wouldn't meet, simples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not February 2nd - again - is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't say what the exact split is but from reading of the forums I would 80/90% take issue with it and the balance don't.

The competition as a single male is already fierce and therefore the prospect of you getting a meet when married will just reduce further.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a word yes

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"Do people have problems with meeting married men behind there partners back or is it a turn on?"

Your on here over a year ,had meets and are married so think you answered your own question op .

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"In a word yes "

That's 4

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In a word yes

That's 4

"

smart arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do people have problems with meeting married men behind there partners back or is it a turn on?"

you seem to be doing ok so why should you worry OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do people have problems with meeting married men behind there partners back or is it a turn on?"

I have no problem with married people. I do have a problem with married men who proudly proclaim that they are married.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We meet in clubs mainly and couldn't care two hoots who or what they are as long as what we are all doing is good fun and putting a smile on our faces. We do this to fuck and have fun never to judge

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

does no one know how to use the search option in this place.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Some do some don't. Some say they never meet married ppl but if haven't said your married how would they know?

Some prefer honesty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am married and have always told the people I talk to on here that I am so they can make the choice whether to chat or not. I have lost the chance to meet as well but that is their decision and I respect that

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

No, we wouldn't knowingly meet a married man, that makes him a deceitful person, but there are obviously people who do, as OP has found out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet Married Women so why not Married men lol hhehehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't bother us to be honest.

People stray for a number of reasons. We don't judge.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

I love meeting married men who cheat,they're my fav,huge turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wouldn't bother us to be honest.

People stray for a number of reasons. We don't judge."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love meeting married men who cheat,they're my fav,huge turn on "

You just become my fav lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love meeting married men who cheat,they're my fav,huge turn on "

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Ok I may be telling porkies,I just thought I would change my response on these threads and try and be positive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok I may be telling porkies,I just thought I would change my response on these threads and try and be positive "

booo lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok I may be telling porkies,I just thought I would change my response on these threads and try and be positive "

Sad face, but your cute so I'll let you off lol

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Ok I may be telling porkies,I just thought I would change my response on these threads and try and be positive

Sad face, but your cute so I'll let you off lol "

Thanks

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Do people have problems with meeting married men behind there partners back or is it a turn on?"

No problem with it I just don't do it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why cant none off you be closer so we can meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Id rather be honest

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

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By *elly39devonCouple
over a year ago

tavistock

I wouldn't meet a married man if I knew

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Id rather be honest"

Honest with who, OP? That is the usual crap. You're not being honest with your partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try to avoid it. Not because I am being moralistic - I've come to understand that some married people have their reasons, and unless we experience their lives, we cannot judge. I avoid married men for practical reasons. Because I would rather have a regular lover, I've found that this is easier to find in a single man who can do what he wants when he wants. After all swinging is supposed to be uncomplicated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look at the person not their marital status.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I chat to married men and women on the forum. I meet them at socials and one to one for socials. I'm sure their partners would think ill of me for that much.

I'd always rather know and make an informed choice. I know married people who do this with consent. I also know everyone has their reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't fuck a cheater. I think it's a scummy thing to do to someone, by both parties, and I don't want to be scummy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am as they say a married man! And it is seemingly a big problem! My wife is only my wife because we live together, with our children.. That's all! Why else would I be here!!

If you are gorgeous and want to meet me please message me. I am very eager to please you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We meet in clubs mainly and couldn't care two hoots who or what they are as long as what we are all doing is good fun and putting a smile on our faces. We do this to fuck and have fun never to judge"
I agree. And it's for this reason:
"I've come to understand that some married people have their reasons, and unless we experience their lives, we cannot judge. "

But to the OP's question, do I find it a turn on in itself, no, why would it be?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Makes me laugh the "we don't judge" brigade: good for you.

That said I don't have to put "single" in my profile as I don't invite anyone into my home who doesn't invite me to theirs and I don't play nice! Hard to explain where your pubes went, the wax in your chest hair and the "property of Miss Vee" temporary tattoo on your arse!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Id rather be honest

Honest with who, OP? That is the usual crap. You're not being honest with your partner."

Well said !! This site is called fabSWINGERS not fabadulterers isn't swinging something you do with your partner and with consent ?? . Honest my arse !! Love the respect you have fir your wife she's a very lucky woman (not )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm married, my wife is married (lol), we both have single profiles on here and we have a couple profile. There's no deceit whatsoever, I don't proclaim from the rooftops I'm married but I don't hide it either. Those who oppose married men meets usually have it on their profile and so I don't message them.

Had one woman message me who I found attractive, she had no attached men on her profile so I told her I was married and that was that. Shame but people want what they want and you have to accept it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Id rather be honest

Honest with who, OP? That is the usual crap. You're not being honest with your partner.

Well said !! This site is called fabSWINGERS not fabadulterers isn't swinging something you do with your partner and with consent ?? . Honest my arse !! Love the respect you have fir your wife she's a very lucky woman (not )"

This is the kind of attitude though that makes people not want to be honest with others on here about their marital status.

Resulting in numerous threads about why don't attached / cheaters come clean......

It maybe called fabswingers but it's evolved from maybe it's original intentions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This site is called fabSWINGERS not fabadulterers isn't swinging something you do with your partner? "

Ever met a single person privately or in a club?

Do you think all people here chuck their keys in a bowl or is there room for a variety of people, circumstances and preferences?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Id rather be honest"

Seriously? You'd rather be honest?

Your profile states you're married( yup I get it that's being honest) but what about your poor wife?(who you clearly say doesn't know you're here) .Now that's far from honest . Poor woman!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would avoid married men because I want someone who I can booty call at any time!

On another note, why do so many married men show face pics on here!? Its that a bit risky if the missus doesn't know!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (she) have no issue chatting with attached men but I am sitting on the fence about meeting up. He however will not meet with the attached.

D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would avoid married men because I want someone who I can booty call at any time!

On another note, why do so many married men show face pics on here!? Its that a bit risky if the missus doesn't know!?"

In a strange twist, I think some pretend to be in relationships. It suits their way of meeting so they can dip in and out of being available.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would avoid married men because I want someone who I can booty call at any time!

On another note, why do so many married men show face pics on here!? Its that a bit risky if the missus doesn't know!?

In a strange twist, I think some pretend to be in relationships. It suits their way of meeting so they can dip in and out of being available.

"

you got me!!! No,joking I am actually in a long term relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a choice, personally I would never knowingly go with a married or attached male. I much prefer single as I don't want some other woman's man and all the baggage that comes with married or attached as other half tends to find out at somepoint and I really don't want to be the cause of someone else's pain if I can help it.......

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By *elaxedcouple6669Couple
over a year ago

Norwich


"I try to avoid it. Not because I am being moralistic - I've come to understand that some married people have their reasons, and unless we experience their lives, we cannot judge. I avoid married men for practical reasons. Because I would rather have a regular lover, I've found that this is easier to find in a single man who can do what he wants when he wants. After all swinging is supposed to be uncomplicated."

My thoughts exactly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We won't meet married people, we prefer people with some sort of morals. And if we were to find someone we knew cheating I would tell their other half immediately.

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Married men are boring ...always checking the time ... and have to get home for a certain time ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm married and my wife is fully aware of me being here, she has her own profile too, thinking of setting up a couples profile again, purely for single males for our 3somes, we had a couples profile when we first joined but got rid of it cause trying to meet couples where we all gelled was impossible

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

We are both married and it seems to work out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I meet Married Women so why not Married men lol hhehehe "

Exactly this. I'm a single guy but I do and have, many times, met married women who play alone. Some with hubby's knowledge, some without.

I don't judge...that is their call to make not mine.

I do, however, think there isn't the same treatment of guys and women. Maybe because of the numbers here, women can afford to turn married guys down more easily than the other way around?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When my wife & I were meeting for 3sums we ended up just choosing married.

My wife was concerned about their partners finding out & causing them trouble but I personally believed it safer to pick someone that's married for a few reasons.

Also we were seeking someone for regular meets that we could build a friendship with also.

We still keep in contact & meet socially even though Mrs karshe lost interest in the sex side of things when she started going through the menopause

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not if they're at a club or party with their own wife, no issues at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When my wife & I were meeting for 3sums we ended up just choosing married.

My wife was concerned about their partners finding out & causing them trouble but I personally believed it safer to pick someone that's married for a few reasons.

Also we were seeking someone for regular meets that we could build a friendship with also.

We still keep in contact & meet socially even though Mrs karshe lost interest in the sex side of things when she started going through the menopause

"

We've managed to meet married men too, the problem we had was the availability, clock watching, Mrs won't meet married men alone cause of all the obvious problems that could happen.

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By *hats_in_a_usernameMan
over a year ago

Southampton

I'm married, but she's on here too and we have a couples profile as well. We've both had a few meets, though she gets a lot more interest than I do obviously!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a choice, personally I would never knowingly go with a married or attached male. I much prefer single as I don't want some other woman's man and all the baggage that comes with married or attached as other half tends to find out at somepoint and I really don't want to be the cause of someone else's pain if I can help it......."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm married, but she's on here too and we have a couples profile as well. We've both had a few meets, though she gets a lot more interest than I do obviously! "

You're not alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would meet married men who play with their partner's permission, I think that's a different thing altogether.

It might seem hypocritical but I'd be tempted to meet a married woman, I think because I'd be giving her something different to what she could get at home if that makes sense!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When my wife & I were meeting for 3sums we ended up just choosing married.

My wife was concerned about their partners finding out & causing them trouble but I personally believed it safer to pick someone that's married for a few reasons.

Also we were seeking someone for regular meets that we could build a friendship with also.

We still keep in contact & meet socially even though Mrs karshe lost interest in the sex side of things when she started going through the menopause

"

That's interesting you say that. I have found married men more reliable, more straightforward to communicate with, and more likely to be on our wavelength when it comes to diary planning. The flip side is that it is harder to pin them down to when we want to see them, so generally I avoid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When my wife & I were meeting for 3sums we ended up just choosing married.

My wife was concerned about their partners finding out & causing them trouble but I personally believed it safer to pick someone that's married for a few reasons.

Also we were seeking someone for regular meets that we could build a friendship with also.

We still keep in contact & meet socially even though Mrs karshe lost interest in the sex side of things when she started going through the menopause

We've managed to meet married men too, the problem we had was the availability, clock watching, Mrs won't meet married men alone cause of all the obvious problems that could happen."

What's the obvious problems, I've never encountered any including the clock watching.

Then again all my meets are planned with like minded men & not spontaneous.

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By *hats_in_a_usernameMan
over a year ago

Southampton


"I'm married, but she's on here too and we have a couples profile as well. We've both had a few meets, though she gets a lot more interest than I do obviously!

You're not alone "

It's a tough life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When my wife & I were meeting for 3sums we ended up just choosing married.

My wife was concerned about their partners finding out & causing them trouble but I personally believed it safer to pick someone that's married for a few reasons.

Also we were seeking someone for regular meets that we could build a friendship with also.

We still keep in contact & meet socially even though Mrs karshe lost interest in the sex side of things when she started going through the menopause

We've managed to meet married men too, the problem we had was the availability, clock watching, Mrs won't meet married men alone cause of all the obvious problems that could happen.

What's the obvious problems, I've never encountered any including the clock watching.

Then again all my meets are planned with like minded men & not spontaneous."

One guys wife called him while he was at ours, he'd told his Mrs he was at a mates, we don't do spontaneous either, our meets our usually planned about a week in advance. Another guy had his phone looked at by his Mrs and came across the conversation my Mrs had had with him, not heard from him again and has since left the site, those type of problems.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive said many times before that you will mostly never find out if anybody is married or not no matter what they say - come on and accept it for what it is adults consenting to have a lot of sexy fun together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When my wife & I were meeting for 3sums we ended up just choosing married.

My wife was concerned about their partners finding out & causing them trouble but I personally believed it safer to pick someone that's married for a few reasons.

Also we were seeking someone for regular meets that we could build a friendship with also.

We still keep in contact & meet socially even though Mrs karshe lost interest in the sex side of things when she started going through the menopause

We've managed to meet married men too, the problem we had was the availability, clock watching, Mrs won't meet married men alone cause of all the obvious problems that could happen.

What's the obvious problems, I've never encountered any including the clock watching.

Then again all my meets are planned with like minded men & not spontaneous.

One guys wife called him while he was at ours, he'd told his Mrs he was at a mates, we don't do spontaneous either, our meets our usually planned about a week in advance. Another guy had his phone looked at by his Mrs and came across the conversation my Mrs had had with him, not heard from him again and has since left the site, those type of problems."

Ah I see.

I don't meet in the same way as you do. If I meet attached men they are not local to me, they are usually away on business or I am, so no need to take phone calls from partners checking up.

In this day & age though you don't really need to give out your phone number, all can be arranged through IM apps. Might be the safer option for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When my wife & I were meeting for 3sums we ended up just choosing married.

My wife was concerned about their partners finding out & causing them trouble but I personally believed it safer to pick someone that's married for a few reasons.

Also we were seeking someone for regular meets that we could build a friendship with also.

We still keep in contact & meet socially even though Mrs karshe lost interest in the sex side of things when she started going through the menopause

We've managed to meet married men too, the problem we had was the availability, clock watching, Mrs won't meet married men alone cause of all the obvious problems that could happen.

What's the obvious problems, I've never encountered any including the clock watching.

Then again all my meets are planned with like minded men & not spontaneous.

One guys wife called him while he was at ours, he'd told his Mrs he was at a mates, we don't do spontaneous either, our meets our usually planned about a week in advance. Another guy had his phone looked at by his Mrs and came across the conversation my Mrs had had with him, not heard from him again and has since left the site, those type of problems.

Ah I see.

I don't meet in the same way as you do. If I meet attached men they are not local to me, they are usually away on business or I am, so no need to take phone calls from partners checking up.

In this day & age though you don't really need to give out your phone number, all can be arranged through IM apps. Might be the safer option for you."

It's not me that has to be safe, as I said, my Mrs knows I'm here, it's the guys who are on here without their partners knowledge that have to be more careful I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When my wife & I were meeting for 3sums we ended up just choosing married.

My wife was concerned about their partners finding out & causing them trouble but I personally believed it safer to pick someone that's married for a few reasons.

Also we were seeking someone for regular meets that we could build a friendship with also.

We still keep in contact & meet socially even though Mrs karshe lost interest in the sex side of things when she started going through the menopause

We've managed to meet married men too, the problem we had was the availability, clock watching, Mrs won't meet married men alone cause of all the obvious problems that could happen.

What's the obvious problems, I've never encountered any including the clock watching.

Then again all my meets are planned with like minded men & not spontaneous.

One guys wife called him while he was at ours, he'd told his Mrs he was at a mates, we don't do spontaneous either, our meets our usually planned about a week in advance. Another guy had his phone looked at by his Mrs and came across the conversation my Mrs had had with him, not heard from him again and has since left the site, those type of problems.

Ah I see.

I don't meet in the same way as you do. If I meet attached men they are not local to me, they are usually away on business or I am, so no need to take phone calls from partners checking up.

In this day & age though you don't really need to give out your phone number, all can be arranged through IM apps. Might be the safer option for you.

It's not me that has to be safe, as I said, my Mrs knows I'm here, it's the guys who are on here without their partners knowledge that have to be more careful I guess."

Yeah that's what I meant by 'you' ~ so you / wife don't have any comeback with careless people leaving their phones unlocked!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When my wife & I were meeting for 3sums we ended up just choosing married.

My wife was concerned about their partners finding out & causing them trouble but I personally believed it safer to pick someone that's married for a few reasons.

Also we were seeking someone for regular meets that we could build a friendship with also.

We still keep in contact & meet socially even though Mrs karshe lost interest in the sex side of things when she started going through the menopause

We've managed to meet married men too, the problem we had was the availability, clock watching, Mrs won't meet married men alone cause of all the obvious problems that could happen.

What's the obvious problems, I've never encountered any including the clock watching.

Then again all my meets are planned with like minded men & not spontaneous.

One guys wife called him while he was at ours, he'd told his Mrs he was at a mates, we don't do spontaneous either, our meets our usually planned about a week in advance. Another guy had his phone looked at by his Mrs and came across the conversation my Mrs had had with him, not heard from him again and has since left the site, those type of problems.

Ah I see.

I don't meet in the same way as you do. If I meet attached men they are not local to me, they are usually away on business or I am, so no need to take phone calls from partners checking up.

In this day & age though you don't really need to give out your phone number, all can be arranged through IM apps. Might be the safer option for you.

It's not me that has to be safe, as I said, my Mrs knows I'm here, it's the guys who are on here without their partners knowledge that have to be more careful I guess.

Yeah that's what I meant by 'you' ~ so you / wife don't have any comeback with careless people leaving their phones unlocked!"

Ah get ya now sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I meet Married Women so why not Married men lol hhehehe "

You are right. If a married woman ask for having sex, hundred will jump into it.

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

I have absolutely no issues. If I'm attracted to him, I don't care if he's married, that's between him and his wife. This site has some mega judgemental people who like to be the moral police of the world for some odd reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have absolutely no issues. If I'm attracted to him, I don't care if he's married, that's between him and his wife. This site has some mega judgemental people who like to be the moral police of the world for some odd reason."

Exactly. I've had a 'date' (ie a non fab vanilla meet) on the same night as my wife had a meet with a guy. He turned out to be not at all like his pics so she didn't go through with it. She offered to walk around Asda for as long as I needed with my date so I could have fun lol bless her. I didn't though, I sent my date home and she was very understanding about it too (she knew the score).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have absolutely no issues. If I'm attracted to him, I don't care if he's married, that's between him and his wife. This site has some mega judgemental people who like to be the moral police of the world for some odd reason.

Exactly. I've had a 'date' (ie a non fab vanilla meet) on the same night as my wife had a meet with a guy. He turned out to be not at all like his pics so she didn't go through with it. She offered to walk around Asda for as long as I needed with my date so I could have fun lol bless her. I didn't though, I sent my date home and she was very understanding about it too (she knew the score)."

I'm Tony's wife (my profile is based in Dudley as I go there for work courses sometimes and like the idea of hotel meets).

It wasn't my husband's fault the guy I was meeting was nothing like his photos at all, and I mean nothing like. He'd travelled all the way from Wales too, about 300 miles...So yes I'd have walked round Asda for my husband to have fun. Some couples fully support each other playing, it's not for everyone but it works for us. Not that we have that many meets, I enjoy posting pics mostly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have absolutely no issues. If I'm attracted to him, I don't care if he's married, that's between him and his wife. This site has some mega judgemental people who like to be the moral police of the world for some odd reason.

Exactly. I've had a 'date' (ie a non fab vanilla meet) on the same night as my wife had a meet with a guy. He turned out to be not at all like his pics so she didn't go through with it. She offered to walk around Asda for as long as I needed with my date so I could have fun lol bless her. I didn't though, I sent my date home and she was very understanding about it too (she knew the score).

I'm Tony's wife (my profile is based in Dudley as I go there for work courses sometimes and like the idea of hotel meets).

It wasn't my husband's fault the guy I was meeting was nothing like his photos at all, and I mean nothing like. He'd travelled all the way from Wales too, about 300 miles...So yes I'd have walked round Asda for my husband to have fun. Some couples fully support each other playing, it's not for everyone but it works for us. Not that we have that many meets, I enjoy posting pics mostly."

Good to know we're not the only couple that do this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't meet married men... HOWEVER, I prefer it when they say on their profiles that they are married. I'd rather not be "the other woman" and get involved in another relationship's problems.

I don't judge married people on here as I don't know what circumstances brought them to cheat on their partners and it's quite frankly none of my business.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My reservations about married men are:- have they been honest from the start? Can they meet at weekends? As the answer to the latter is usually no, I tend not to meet them.

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

I don't ask about martial status

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"Id rather be honest

Honest with who, OP? That is the usual crap. You're not being honest with your partner.

Well said !! This site is called fabSWINGERS not fabadulterers isn't swinging something you do with your partner and with consent ?? . Honest my arse !! Love the respect you have fir your wife she's a very lucky woman (not )"

And as we can see from some of the above posts, they cannot even manage honesty by putting that they are married even on their profiles............honesty is such a flip word to some of these people.......

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By *rank n BettyCouple
over a year ago

Not meeting

Not something we would do we are here for fun and enjoyment , and not to be labelled home wreckers.

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By *im le2Man
over a year ago

AYLESTONE

Most of the men I meet are married . Nothing wrong with it. They know its only sex . And all go back to the wife after..

What about meeting married woman is that ok or not .

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton


"My reservations about married men are:- have they been honest from the start? Can they meet at weekends? As the answer to the latter is usually no, I tend not to meet them. "

Mine meets me on a Saturday

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

We don't ask, we're not here to judge. If we fancy someone and they fancy us great, we'll have a good time. If not then keep looking, we can always have fun on our own if we have to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not something we would do we are here for fun and enjoyment , and not to be labelled home wreckers. "

Do you not draw a distinction between married people playing with knowledge and permission from their partners from people chancing it behind their partner's back?

The thing about 'rules' is people don't fall into the categories, there are plenty of people on this thread and on fab that are married and play quite happily with their partner's consent.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"Not something we would do we are here for fun and enjoyment , and not to be labelled home wreckers.

Do you not draw a distinction between married people playing with knowledge and permission from their partners from people chancing it behind their partner's back

The thing about 'rules' is people don't fall into the categories, there are plenty of people on this thread and on fab that are married and play quite happily with their partner's consent."

So why not be honest and put married on your profile and playing with permission, then people looking can choose to message or reply ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't say as I'm in the same boat and still awaiting my first meet on my own keeping fingers crossed for that

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Can't say as I'm in the same boat and still awaiting my first meet on my own keeping fingers crossed for that"

Did the meet from the other site happen?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

someone being married/attached is a huge turn off for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guess that's a case of each to their own some will some won't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guess that's a case of each to their own some will some won't "

Indeed. I've updated my profile text to be fully clear about it. In fact I'm delighted to avoid women who don't want to meet with married men, as surely they're looking for more than NSA.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guess that's a case of each to their own some will some won't

Indeed. I've updated my profile text to be fully clear about it. In fact I'm delighted to avoid women who don't want to meet with married men, as surely they're looking for more than NSA."

we have usually been cheated on and left feeling like shit because of it and don't want any part of making another person feel the way we did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't meet a married man or woman x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guess that's a case of each to their own some will some won't

Indeed. I've updated my profile text to be fully clear about it. In fact I'm delighted to avoid women who don't want to meet with married men, as surely they're looking for more than NSA.

we have usually been cheated on and left feeling like shit because of it and don't want any part of making another person feel the way we did."

So you avoid men who play with their wife's knowledge and consent preferring instead to play with men who are lying about it. Makes sense

My wife has even told me she doesn't mind me hiding it, taking off my ring etc. My ring stays where it is. I have a great cock and know how to use it. I also have honour and abide by the vow I made. If people don't understand that it's their problem not mine.

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

We all make our own choices

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By *rank n BettyCouple
over a year ago

Not meeting


"Guess that's a case of each to their own some will some won't

Indeed. I've updated my profile text to be fully clear about it. In fact I'm delighted to avoid women who don't want to meet with married men, as surely they're looking for more than NSA.

we have usually been cheated on and left feeling like shit because of it and don't want any part of making another person feel the way we did."

^^ this. I would never want another women to end up the way I did because of a cheating husband/partner. My children witnessed me fall apart & it effected them badly. You can ever be 100% sure anyone is playing with permission so just easier to avoid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can [n]ever be 100% sure anyone is playing with permission so just easier to avoid. "

If the guy's wife was willing to attend socials, answer phone calls, message from their single profile on fab ... you'd consider that less of a percentage than trusting someone who 'said' they're single?

There's a film quote, goes along the lines of "Wow, all I gotta say is wow....just wow".

Each to their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's the difference between someone saying they're single or married but play with partner's permission? Isn't this the same level of trust? Yet people tend to believe people are single just because they said so, but a married person playing with permission is not believed instantly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really at the end of the day does it really matter if your a married on single male this is a swinging site and all the people on it are here for one reason only to have sex , ok some it can be argued are it on it to find a partner but for the majority we're here for fun only

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By *mojeeCouple
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Doesn't bother us in the slightest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know more married women (hubby doesnt know) on here than married men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A huge % of you have played with a married person , you just don't know it.

To me it makes no difference but I'd prefer to know. I'm married and my husband knows I am on here. I have my own reason for being on here so I don't judge as the majority of people I've spoken to are in exactly the same boat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A huge % of you have played with a married person , you just don't know it.

To me it makes no difference but I'd prefer to know. I'm married and my husband knows I am on here. I have my own reason for being on here so I don't judge as the majority of people I've spoken to are in exactly the same boat. "

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Really at the end of the day does it really matter if your a married on single male this is a swinging site and all the people on it are here for one reason only to have sex , ok some it can be argued are it on it to find a partner but for the majority we're here for fun only "

I have to respect a man to have sex with him,infidelity is not a turn on for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A huge % of you have played with a married person , you just don't know it.

To me it makes no difference but I'd prefer to know. I'm married and my husband knows I am on here. I have my own reason for being on here so I don't judge as the majority of people I've spoken to are in exactly the same boat. "

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By *anaduABCMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I wouldnt meet a married man under any circumtances...thats cos im straight- -. Married woman?...no problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see it two ways ...

There's the people that are having their cake and eating it and just can't get enough of filling their boots.

And people that are on here to find something their current relationship doesn't have anymore for various reasons.

Probably get hammered for this but hey .

The first I see as destructive and greedy. Will do it just because they can.

The second I see as a possible benefit to a dead sexual relationship. Filling the needs that for whatever reason are no longer there in their relationship. These people tend to want a fb rather than lots of random people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really at the end of the day does it really matter if your a married on single male this is a swinging site and all the people on it are here for one reason only to have sex , ok some it can be argued are it on it to find a partner but for the majority we're here for fun only

I have to respect a man to have sex with him,infidelity is not a turn on for me."

even with consent ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see it two ways ...

There's the people that are having their cake and eating it and just can't get enough of filling their boots.

And people that are on here to find something their current relationship doesn't have anymore for various reasons.

Probably get hammered for this but hey .

The first I see as destructive and greedy. Will do it just because they can.

The second I see as a possible benefit to a dead sexual relationship. Filling the needs that for whatever reason are no longer there in their relationship. These people tend to want a fb rather than lots of random people."

Im here to find a regular playmate but out of lets say for narrative means as my wife as the same, her playmate sees her about once a week and me I get all the juicy details.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see it two ways ...

There's the people that are having their cake and eating it and just can't get enough of filling their boots.

And people that are on here to find something their current relationship doesn't have anymore for various reasons.

Probably get hammered for this but hey .

The first I see as destructive and greedy. Will do it just because they can.

The second I see as a possible benefit to a dead sexual relationship. Filling the needs that for whatever reason are no longer there in their relationship. These people tend to want a fb rather than lots of random people."

My was because my wife is disabled, I say was because I am not looking to meet now, there is only so many times you can be told no before you give up so now I just use the forums for something to do when it's slow at work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see it two ways ...

There's the people that are having their cake and eating it and just can't get enough of filling their boots.

And people that are on here to find something their current relationship doesn't have anymore for various reasons.

who were you told no by ?

Probably get hammered for this but hey .

The first I see as destructive and greedy. Will do it just because they can.

The second I see as a possible benefit to a dead sexual relationship. Filling the needs that for whatever reason are no longer there in their relationship. These people tend to want a fb rather than lots of random people.

My was because my wife is disabled, I say was because I am not looking to meet now, there is only so many times you can be told no before you give up so now I just use the forums for something to do when it's slow at work."

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Really at the end of the day does it really matter if your a married on single male this is a swinging site and all the people on it are here for one reason only to have sex , ok some it can be argued are it on it to find a partner but for the majority we're here for fun only

I have to respect a man to have sex with him,infidelity is not a turn on for me.

even with consent ? "

I was personally talking about men that cheat,men that have consent are different if everything is out in the open that's ok with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really at the end of the day does it really matter if your a married on single male this is a swinging site and all the people on it are here for one reason only to have sex , ok some it can be argued are it on it to find a partner but for the majority we're here for fun only

I have to respect a man to have sex with him,infidelity is not a turn on for me.

even with consent ?

I was personally talking about men that cheat,men that have consent are different if everything is out in the open that's ok with me."

shame there isn't more ladies like you on this site the site would a lot better place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't care less about someone's marital status. Their issue, not mine. I'll fuck them if we both want to.

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By *aramelMINXWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Turn off

Plus.... I hate having to meet on their shedule

Talking ... texting. .. meeting when they can...

I like the flexibility of being able to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so married men can be flexible too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do people have problems with meeting married men behind there partners back or is it a turn on?"

Dosent bother me

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

The last 4 men I've met for sex, 3 were non-Fab of which 2 were married. 1 was from Fab and he was married. The four before them, were all single (or so they said, 2 were from Fab)

Did they enjoy themselves? Hope so.

Did I enjoy myself? Definitely.

Did I seek married men out? NO! Just luck of the draw

Did I care about marital status? NO!

Would I sleep with married men again? Sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not something we would do we are here for fun and enjoyment , and not to be labelled home wreckers.

Do you not draw a distinction between married people playing with knowledge and permission from their partners from people chancing it behind their partner's back

The thing about 'rules' is people don't fall into the categories, there are plenty of people on this thread and on fab that are married and play quite happily with their partner's consent.

So why not be honest and put married on your profile and playing with permission, then people looking can choose to message or reply ?"

My profile tells people I'm married, also my wife has her own profile and we also have a couples profile too, don't think we could be anymore open for people to make an informed choice when looking to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guess that's a case of each to their own some will some won't

Indeed. I've updated my profile text to be fully clear about it. In fact I'm delighted to avoid women who don't want to meet with married men, as surely they're looking for more than NSA.

we have usually been cheated on and left feeling like shit because of it and don't want any part of making another person feel the way we did.

So you avoid men who play with their wife's knowledge and consent preferring instead to play with men who are lying about it. Makes sense

My wife has even told me she doesn't mind me hiding it, taking off my ring etc. My ring stays where it is. I have a great cock and know how to use it. I also have honour and abide by the vow I made. If people don't understand that it's their problem not mine. "

i'm not a swinger so i've not got the mindset for playing with married people at all. i'm fine with fucking single guys who fuck other people though, go figure.

there's just something about men in committed relationships that is a turn off for me (mainly down to how i felt when cheated on), it's not a problem for me at all and i'm happy with my way of thinking, just i don't benefit married guys who want to fuck me and seeing as i don't care to fuck them it's not my problem at all, they can leave me alone. they have no entitlement to my body or thoughts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see it two ways ...

There's the people that are having their cake and eating it and just can't get enough of filling their boots.

And people that are on here to find something their current relationship doesn't have anymore for various reasons.

Probably get hammered for this but hey .

The first I see as destructive and greedy. Will do it just because they can.

The second I see as a possible benefit to a dead sexual relationship. Filling the needs that for whatever reason are no longer there in their relationship. These people tend to want a fb rather than lots of random people."

Completely agree with you, and I tend to feel that it's the latter reason more often than not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do people have problems with meeting married men behind there partners back or is it a turn on?

Your on here over a year ,had meets and are married so think you answered your own question op ."

Ding ding. Round one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guess that's a case of each to their own some will some won't

Indeed. I've updated my profile text to be fully clear about it. In fact I'm delighted to avoid women who don't want to meet with married men, as surely they're looking for more than NSA.

we have usually been cheated on and left feeling like shit because of it and don't want any part of making another person feel the way we did.

So you avoid men who play with their wife's knowledge and consent preferring instead to play with men who are lying about it. Makes sense

My wife has even told me she doesn't mind me hiding it, taking off my ring etc. My ring stays where it is. I have a great cock and know how to use it. I also have honour and abide by the vow I made. If people don't understand that it's their problem not mine.

i'm not a swinger so i've not got the mindset for playing with married people at all. i'm fine with fucking single guys who fuck other people though, go figure.

there's just something about men in committed relationships that is a turn off for me (mainly down to how i felt when cheated on), it's not a problem for me at all and i'm happy with my way of thinking, just i don't benefit married guys who want to fuck me and seeing as i don't care to fuck them it's not my problem at all, they can leave me alone. they have no entitlement to my body or thoughts."
if your not a swinger what are you doing on this site ? just saying !!!!

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By *estlands4Man
over a year ago

Sidmouth


"I see it two ways ...

There's the people that are having their cake and eating it and just can't get enough of filling their boots.

And people that are on here to find something their current relationship doesn't have anymore for various reasons.

Probably get hammered for this but hey .

The first I see as destructive and greedy. Will do it just because they can.

The second I see as a possible benefit to a dead sexual relationship. Filling the needs that for whatever reason are no longer there in their relationship. These people tend to want a fb rather than lots of random people.

Completely agree with you, and I tend to feel that it's the latter reason more often than not"

I'm the latter although I'm not sure about the fb bit as I don't want an affair and there's always that risk with one fb - my ideal is a few friends, couples preferably (I'm straight) who become friends who meet for sex....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guess that's a case of each to their own some will some won't

Indeed. I've updated my profile text to be fully clear about it. In fact I'm delighted to avoid women who don't want to meet with married men, as surely they're looking for more than NSA.

we have usually been cheated on and left feeling like shit because of it and don't want any part of making another person feel the way we did.

So you avoid men who play with their wife's knowledge and consent preferring instead to play with men who are lying about it. Makes sense

My wife has even told me she doesn't mind me hiding it, taking off my ring etc. My ring stays where it is. I have a great cock and know how to use it. I also have honour and abide by the vow I made. If people don't understand that it's their problem not mine.

i'm not a swinger so i've not got the mindset for playing with married people at all. i'm fine with fucking single guys who fuck other people though, go figure.

there's just something about men in committed relationships that is a turn off for me (mainly down to how i felt when cheated on), it's not a problem for me at all and i'm happy with my way of thinking, just i don't benefit married guys who want to fuck me and seeing as i don't care to fuck them it's not my problem at all, they can leave me alone. they have no entitlement to my body or thoughts.if your not a swinger what are you doing on this site ? just saying !!!!"

I'm not a swinger in the true sense of the word either. I googled NSA sex sites & Google led me here.

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

When at club and you can't tell if guys married or not they take rings off . We have played with guys on several occasions , before letting slip they are married and some guys have been honest up front , it's so hard to tell so we are not worried if not playing with us the would play with someone else either way . If we knew a bloke was blatantly cheating on a nice wife we wouldn't , but then again one of the guys wife has played with has a right bitch of a wife so she has fucked him about 5 times and will be fucking him again soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guess that's a case of each to their own some will some won't

Indeed. I've updated my profile text to be fully clear about it. In fact I'm delighted to avoid women who don't want to meet with married men, as surely they're looking for more than NSA.

we have usually been cheated on and left feeling like shit because of it and don't want any part of making another person feel the way we did.

So you avoid men who play with their wife's knowledge and consent preferring instead to play with men who are lying about it. Makes sense

My wife has even told me she doesn't mind me hiding it, taking off my ring etc. My ring stays where it is. I have a great cock and know how to use it. I also have honour and abide by the vow I made. If people don't understand that it's their problem not mine.

i'm not a swinger so i've not got the mindset for playing with married people at all. i'm fine with fucking single guys who fuck other people though, go figure.

there's just something about men in committed relationships that is a turn off for me (mainly down to how i felt when cheated on), it's not a problem for me at all and i'm happy with my way of thinking, just i don't benefit married guys who want to fuck me and seeing as i don't care to fuck them it's not my problem at all, they can leave me alone. they have no entitlement to my body or thoughts.if your not a swinger what are you doing on this site ? just saying !!!!

I'm not a swinger in the true sense of the word either. I googled NSA sex sites & Google led me here."

There is loads of non swinging nsa fun sex sites might be best suited to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guess that's a case of each to their own some will some won't

Indeed. I've updated my profile text to be fully clear about it. In fact I'm delighted to avoid women who don't want to meet with married men, as surely they're looking for more than NSA.

we have usually been cheated on and left feeling like shit because of it and don't want any part of making another person feel the way we did.

So you avoid men who play with their wife's knowledge and consent preferring instead to play with men who are lying about it. Makes sense

My wife has even told me she doesn't mind me hiding it, taking off my ring etc. My ring stays where it is. I have a great cock and know how to use it. I also have honour and abide by the vow I made. If people don't understand that it's their problem not mine.

i'm not a swinger so i've not got the mindset for playing with married people at all. i'm fine with fucking single guys who fuck other people though, go figure.

there's just something about men in committed relationships that is a turn off for me (mainly down to how i felt when cheated on), it's not a problem for me at all and i'm happy with my way of thinking, just i don't benefit married guys who want to fuck me and seeing as i don't care to fuck them it's not my problem at all, they can leave me alone. they have no entitlement to my body or thoughts.if your not a swinger what are you doing on this site ? just saying !!!!"

What is a 'swinger'?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guess that's a case of each to their own some will some won't

Indeed. I've updated my profile text to be fully clear about it. In fact I'm delighted to avoid women who don't want to meet with married men, as surely they're looking for more than NSA.

we have usually been cheated on and left feeling like shit because of it and don't want any part of making another person feel the way we did.

So you avoid men who play with their wife's knowledge and consent preferring instead to play with men who are lying about it. Makes sense

My wife has even told me she doesn't mind me hiding it, taking off my ring etc. My ring stays where it is. I have a great cock and know how to use it. I also have honour and abide by the vow I made. If people don't understand that it's their problem not mine.

i'm not a swinger so i've not got the mindset for playing with married people at all. i'm fine with fucking single guys who fuck other people though, go figure.

there's just something about men in committed relationships that is a turn off for me (mainly down to how i felt when cheated on), it's not a problem for me at all and i'm happy with my way of thinking, just i don't benefit married guys who want to fuck me and seeing as i don't care to fuck them it's not my problem at all, they can leave me alone. they have no entitlement to my body or thoughts.if your not a swinger what are you doing on this site ? just saying !!!!

What is a 'swinger'?"

Our view od a swinger maybe it right or wrong is someone or people if in couples swap partners whether it be soft swap or full swap and we're recently told by a couple in a club that both partners go out and meet other people to meet on their own to have fun ,like I said this is only our definition . not saying it's right or wrong. People have I guess different perceptions as to what a swinger is some would no doubt say a person who swings both ways some say different it's what you perceive it to be.

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"Guess that's a case of each to their own some will some won't

Indeed. I've updated my profile text to be fully clear about it. In fact I'm delighted to avoid women who don't want to meet with married men, as surely they're looking for more than NSA.

we have usually been cheated on and left feeling like shit because of it and don't want any part of making another person feel the way we did.

So you avoid men who play with their wife's knowledge and consent preferring instead to play with men who are lying about it. Makes sense

My wife has even told me she doesn't mind me hiding it, taking off my ring etc. My ring stays where it is. I have a great cock and know how to use it. I also have honour and abide by the vow I made. If people don't understand that it's their problem not mine.

i'm not a swinger so i've not got the mindset for playing with married people at all. i'm fine with fucking single guys who fuck other people though, go figure.

there's just something about men in committed relationships that is a turn off for me (mainly down to how i felt when cheated on), it's not a problem for me at all and i'm happy with my way of thinking, just i don't benefit married guys who want to fuck me and seeing as i don't care to fuck them it's not my problem at all, they can leave me alone. they have no entitlement to my body or thoughts.if your not a swinger what are you doing on this site ? just saying !!!!

What is a 'swinger'?"

in my eyes it's someone who wife swaps or enjoys the sharing of their partner. i'm selfish and want to be the focus of attention so enjoy neither of those things.

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"Guess that's a case of each to their own some will some won't

Indeed. I've updated my profile text to be fully clear about it. In fact I'm delighted to avoid women who don't want to meet with married men, as surely they're looking for more than NSA.

we have usually been cheated on and left feeling like shit because of it and don't want any part of making another person feel the way we did.

So you avoid men who play with their wife's knowledge and consent preferring instead to play with men who are lying about it. Makes sense

My wife has even told me she doesn't mind me hiding it, taking off my ring etc. My ring stays where it is. I have a great cock and know how to use it. I also have honour and abide by the vow I made. If people don't understand that it's their problem not mine.

i'm not a swinger so i've not got the mindset for playing with married people at all. i'm fine with fucking single guys who fuck other people though, go figure.

there's just something about men in committed relationships that is a turn off for me (mainly down to how i felt when cheated on), it's not a problem for me at all and i'm happy with my way of thinking, just i don't benefit married guys who want to fuck me and seeing as i don't care to fuck them it's not my problem at all, they can leave me alone. they have no entitlement to my body or thoughts.if your not a swinger what are you doing on this site ? just saying !!!!"

check out my profile. i've proof that i've met 23 people off here on this profile. i think that can justify i have the right to be here, seeing as other members are getting what they want and so am i.

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"Guess that's a case of each to their own some will some won't

Indeed. I've updated my profile text to be fully clear about it. In fact I'm delighted to avoid women who don't want to meet with married men, as surely they're looking for more than NSA.

we have usually been cheated on and left feeling like shit because of it and don't want any part of making another person feel the way we did.

So you avoid men who play with their wife's knowledge and consent preferring instead to play with men who are lying about it. Makes sense

My wife has even told me she doesn't mind me hiding it, taking off my ring etc. My ring stays where it is. I have a great cock and know how to use it. I also have honour and abide by the vow I made. If people don't understand that it's their problem not mine.

i'm not a swinger so i've not got the mindset for playing with married people at all. i'm fine with fucking single guys who fuck other people though, go figure.

there's just something about men in committed relationships that is a turn off for me (mainly down to how i felt when cheated on), it's not a problem for me at all and i'm happy with my way of thinking, just i don't benefit married guys who want to fuck me and seeing as i don't care to fuck them it's not my problem at all, they can leave me alone. they have no entitlement to my body or thoughts.if your not a swinger what are you doing on this site ? just saying !!!!

check out my profile. i've proof that i've met 23 people off here on this profile. i think that can justify i have the right to be here, seeing as other members are getting what they want and so am i."

twas you who said you wasn't a swinger hun whether you had 23 meets or not the clue of the site is in the name all I said was if your not or consider your self not to be a swinger why join the site ? tis a fair question

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i never said it was unfair, the way i read it was why you on here, not why you joined.

a single guy i was chatting to on another site asked me to join here coz he wasn't paying to use that site any more and we wouldn't be able to chat any more (i didn't want to give him my number).

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"Guess that's a case of each to their own some will some won't

Indeed. I've updated my profile text to be fully clear about it. In fact I'm delighted to avoid women who don't want to meet with married men, as surely they're looking for more than NSA.

we have usually been cheated on and left feeling like shit because of it and don't want any part of making another person feel the way we did.

So you avoid men who play with their wife's knowledge and consent preferring instead to play with men who are lying about it. Makes sense

My wife has even told me she doesn't mind me hiding it, taking off my ring etc. My ring stays where it is. I have a great cock and know how to use it. I also have honour and abide by the vow I made. If people don't understand that it's their problem not mine.

i'm not a swinger so i've not got the mindset for playing with married people at all. i'm fine with fucking single guys who fuck other people though, go figure.

there's just something about men in committed relationships that is a turn off for me (mainly down to how i felt when cheated on), it's not a problem for me at all and i'm happy with my way of thinking, just i don't benefit married guys who want to fuck me and seeing as i don't care to fuck them it's not my problem at all, they can leave me alone. they have no entitlement to my body or thoughts.if your not a swinger what are you doing on this site ? just saying !!!!"
same as you, meeting people as a single person

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