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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you think swinging sites are anti single male?

As a single male do you feel on here your never given a break?

This is your time to be heard

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Nope... If you are a good guy you can do very well.

If you behave like a knob... You won't.

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"This is your time to be heard "

*Puts slippers on, pulls up chair, grabs popcorn*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its down to how you speak to people really . An not send msgs says can i fuck your wife ?

An try building friendships with people on the forums or in the chat rooms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope... If you are a good guy you can do very well.

If you behave like a knob... You won't.

"

Nods

But, think that some people think it's acceptable to mail 'want a shag' and can't understand why they don't get meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think its down to how you speak to people really . An not send msgs says can i fuck your wife ?

An try building friendships with people on the forums or in the chat rooms"

give the guy a star

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a single male, but to answer your question, in my opinion it's purely down to supply and demand.

The good guys seem to do ok, but the ones that winge are usually the ones that don't put the time or effort into promoting themselves.

There are loads of opportunities to have fun here, you just need to see the chance and take it.

But life is full of missed opportunities

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think they're anti single men. There's just fecking loads of us!!

Supply and demand and the supply is outstripping the demand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great minds Jack!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks pingi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When there are lots (single males) to choose from and there are no price tags attached (well at least there shouldn't be) ladies and couples can afford to be choosy.

You aren't going to race down to poundland if every single shop/dept. store announces they are giving away freebies tomorrow are you???

....you'll find me in Ann Summers btw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope... If you are a good guy you can do very well.

If you behave like a knob... You won't.

"

I completely agree!! I LOVE the single good guys!!! x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I love the single guys too but I do think alot don't know how to approach women so find it easier to say fancy a fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope... If you are a good guy you can do very well.

If you behave like a knob... You won't.

I completely agree!! I LOVE the single good guys!!! x "

And i second that belles

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love the single guys too but I do think alot don't know how to approach women so find it easier to say fancy a fuck "

and going by your previous posts jan, they know even less how to approach you babe!!

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alot of the knob heads do spoil it for the other guys tho i think cause you can as nice as pie 2 one person an still get ignored

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Alot of the knob heads do spoil it for the other guys tho i think cause you can as nice as pie 2 one person an still get ignored"
yes i agree with you there, lots of great guys on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Alot of the knob heads do spoil it for the other guys tho i think cause you can as nice as pie 2 one person an still get ignored"

I'll be honest if someone sends me a message and it's nice well written even if they don't float my boat I'll reply back and say no thanks I'm not always rude honest x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I love the single guys too but I do think alot don't know how to approach women so find it easier to say fancy a fuck

and going by your previous posts jan, they know even less how to approach you babe!!

xxx"

You said it oral I usually get "fancy a fuck ya slag" don't no one say please anymore?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its nice to see some honesty as well

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By *eighleedsMan
over a year ago

leeds

A lot of single males see swinger sites as (lets put it bluntly) an easy shag

truth is it is not

those of us that now how it works get somewhere (damn i started in the day before the net and and swinging if you did not know people in the scene was done by buying a magazine, replying to an add (with a SAE) and hoping you got a reply and it took weeks to get an answer

The internet has changed all that, as has todays society everyone wants everything right now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love the single guys too but I do think alot don't know how to approach women so find it easier to say fancy a fuck

and going by your previous posts jan, they know even less how to approach you babe!!

xxx

You said it oral I usually get "fancy a fuck ya slag" don't no one say please anymore? "

fancy a fuck ya slag? Please

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

See, she got a result by saying please. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like single men The "I wanna fuck you" ones I ignore, those with a little more refinement, I always answer at least

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"See, she got a result by saying please. Lol"

does that mean i've pulled?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Your right there Leigh they think it's easy and we are easy and they are mistaken.

We all know from posts on here how hard it is t get a meet x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think us guys can get a bit of grief sometimes but you have to remember that couples and single ladies get inundated. I remember this and move on. I'm never rude. Politeness pays

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"See, she got a result by saying please. Lol

does that mean i've pulled? "

I'd shag you even if you didn't say please. It's those legs they are so inviting x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not enough to just be a nice guy though.

The ladies have to fancy you, and if you are approaching couples, you need to befriend the husband too, because if he doesn't like you, you wont get anywhere either.

It's like looking for gold sometimes.

But it does happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we get there

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Think us guys can get a bit of grief sometimes but you have to remember that couples and single ladies get inundated. I remember this and move on. I'm never rude. Politeness pays"

Great profile too single guys out there having problems this is the profile you need. Plenty of pics and a great written profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think us guys can get a bit of grief sometimes but you have to remember that couples and single ladies get inundated. I remember this and move on. I'm never rude. Politeness pays

Great profile too single guys out there having problems this is the profile you need. Plenty of pics and a great written profile"

Thanks. Yours is good too. Plenty of pics always helps

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That's the thing they put up a cock shot and think we are so desperate to see it for real.

Had one today 8 shots of the same cock at diiferent angles.

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"Think us guys can get a bit of grief sometimes but you have to remember that couples and single ladies get inundated. I remember this and move on. I'm never rude. Politeness pays

Great profile too single guys out there having problems this is the profile you need. Plenty of pics and a great written profile"

No it isn't always the above as my profile proves to a degree!

I've not changed my profile text since joining and it has served me well so far and as for plenty of pics..... my "Guiness Pants" pic does ok for me too!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Give me guinness pants over slightly grey pants anyday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's the thing they put up a cock shot and think we are so desperate to see it for real.

Had one today 8 shots of the same cock at diiferent angles. "

How do you know it was the same cock! LOL x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there a difference between attraction and promotion ....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That's the thing they put up a cock shot and think we are so desperate to see it for real.

Had one today 8 shots of the same cock at diiferent angles.

How do you know it was the same cock! LOL x"

I tineyed the lot of them no porn cocks on there

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is there a difference between attraction and promotion ...."

You need to promote yourself 1st with a nice profile then a great message then the attraction comes in x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there a difference between attraction and promotion ...."

Not if you're short sighted, just take your glasses off and then everybody will be attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Alot of the knob heads do spoil it for the other guys tho i think cause you can as nice as pie 2 one person an still get ignored"

Disagree! How one unsavoury man acts has no bearing on the next man. Each man is taken on his own merit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there a difference between attraction and promotion ....

You need to promote yourself 1st with a nice profile then a great message then the attraction comes in x"

I`m not going to say wether I think thats right or wrong ...

I would say if I was a single male ...I would try and make myself attractive ....just like real life ... ....that does of course mean understanding what people find attractive ...

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

I luvs the single males - bring em on!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for the single guys who send really crude almost abusive messages....do u think it crosses their minds that us girls (inc jan)will want to meet with a guy who treats us like that in a message?

makes me worry what they'd treat me like on the meet!!

no respect in a message = no respect on a meet!

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston


"Is there a difference between attraction and promotion ....

Not if you're short sighted, just take your glasses off and then everybody will be attractive "

you are looking especially appealling tonight jack xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there a difference between attraction and promotion ....

Not if you're short sighted, just take your glasses off and then everybody will be attractive "

haha...yeah ...some seem shortsighted alright...there`s an old saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"for the single guys who send really crude almost abusive messages....do u think it crosses their minds that us girls (inc jan)will want to meet with a guy who treats us like that in a message?

makes me worry what they'd treat me like on the meet!!

no respect in a message = no respect on a meet! "

Agreed!!!!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I love single guys and the ones i know have never compained about being given a hard time (unless its by me)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never had a problem on here being a single male.

I behave as I would in 'normal life'- be courteous, be respectful, don't take it all so seriously, have fun in the forums and most of all ... be yourself! It's worked for me and I've made some truly wonderful friends and had some equally amazing experiences!

It's all good from my side of the bed!

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon


"Think us guys can get a bit of grief sometimes but you have to remember that couples and single ladies get inundated. I remember this and move on. I'm never rude. Politeness pays

Great profile too single guys out there having problems this is the profile you need. Plenty of pics and a great written profile"

Agreed - that IS a very good profile. Hats off to you, Mike.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

I don't think I would have been here for so long if the site was "anti single male"...

I still you make of the site what you make of it.... nice guys will do well, treat people the way you would like to be treated and good things will come your way...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think us guys can get a bit of grief sometimes but you have to remember that couples and single ladies get inundated. I remember this and move on. I'm never rude. Politeness pays

Great profile too single guys out there having problems this is the profile you need. Plenty of pics and a great written profile

Agreed - that IS a very good profile. Hats off to you, Mike."

Cheers _arambar. Its evolved into what it is now. Seems to work...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe survival for the fittest on FAB and other similar sites.

Hence I no longer give advice on profiles etc., as I believe those who are worth it would be self-sufficient enough to write a decent profile without help!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope... If you are a good guy you can do very well.

If you behave like a knob... You won't.

"

It's that simple!

Sadly, some don't take the time to separate the two.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some lovely singles here some lovely couples here ..... you have to take the good with the bad in both .... its like a candy shop ..pick and mix ....no one like the same thing. Do singles get a bad time on sites like this no more then some couples. Its Down to luck really ... if a person likes the look of you and read the profile and it ticks there boxers.

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"I believe survival for the fittest on FAB and other similar sites.

Hence I no longer give advice on profiles etc., as I believe those who are worth it would be self-sufficient enough to write a decent profile without help! "

oh does this lady speak the truth

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)

People struggle due to their personality, attitude and the way they present them selves rather than what they have or haven't in their pants. Why worry just get inventive and it works.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Im very much loving the men today, but then i do everyday. But today more so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im very much loving the men today, but then i do everyday. But today more so"
why you horny , lol xx

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Im very much loving the men today, but then i do everyday. But today more sowhy you horny , lol xx "

No more than normal, but some of my gentleman callers have been extra nice to me the last couple of days, especially today. Must be something in the air

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

There are single guys on this site???

I like what some of the guys have put and they may well live by what they have typed, but I suspect that some guys on here (the site) know what to do, but it is too much like hard work! We no longer meet singles (unless we already know them) but if we found the right one at the right time, could work for all of us. But what we need is for some of the guys to act (type) and follow through on what has been typed above!

In answer to the op... No, this site is not anti singles, but I really think they could do with a cull..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is hard as there are so many single males on here and as previously stated by another user that they can afford to be picky.

It can be frustrating trying to get a reply on chat, but what you've got to remember there are probably 100's of other uses trying for a response.

I think this is when single males get desperate and send 'wanna fuck'.

Be patient guys!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had more success as a single guy than we've ever had as a couple. It seems to be much more difficult to find 4 people who all fancy each other than it does for a single guy to find suitable playmates.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes the nice guy wins

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