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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As the title says really. Do people just go on a couple of dates or do are you happy with NSA fun?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can do both at the same time. Surely it depends on what people want with each individual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go with the flow!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yea I guess so. Just curious as to other peoples views really. Cheers.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

I date some people, have NSA with others. All good

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

I'd like to date a lot more people here but NSA is more sought after.

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By *ee92Man
over a year ago

manchester

nsa all the way unless u find one werth dating

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'd love to date. Maybe a relationship but keep it open. If that makes sense.

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

I prefer to get to know the woman a bit before jumping in the bed.

So more FWB rather than NSA.

I think knowing the other person adds a layer of excitement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer to get to know the woman a bit before jumping in the bed.

So more FWB rather than NSA.

I think knowing the other person adds a layer of excitement"

Yeah I'm the same, I won't jump into bed with a complete stranger and atleast give whoever some moral respect and dignity not just use em like a piece of meat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dunno if i'm honest.

i like NSA and not having the hassle of a relationship but i want to feel respected. only guys who are amazing in bed and have good aftercare can get away with NSA really. the ones who fuck off as soon as they've cum are awful (and rare thank god) and i don't even class them as NSA, they're users.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As the title says really. Do people just go on a couple of dates or do are you happy with NSA fun? "

Very happy with nsa sex meets thanks

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I have no interest in dating or relationships so NSA for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no interest in dating anyone, I have Marc for that.

But I do like to get to know the people we meet and repeat meets are preferable. So I'm cool with nsa, but I would prefer a bit of friendship with the sex

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Go with the flow! "

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

The last three dates I went on ended up in bed.

What's a date?

It's a prelude to fucking. Or have I got that wrong...?

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I've made no secret that I'd like a lady in my life, I'm on a couple of dating sites as well as here at the moment nsa doesn't have the same appeal...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's a date? One person may say a social is a date but the other may say it's a social.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"The last three dates I went on ended up in bed.

What's a date?

It's a prelude to fucking. Or have I got that wrong...?"

It's supposed to be a prelude to a relationship - which may well include fucking!!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I've made no secret that I'd like a lady in my life, I'm on a couple of dating sites as well as here at the moment nsa doesn't have the same appeal... "

Yes, I'm lucky to have fb/fwb 'meanwhile', but I would like a relationship so I may have to endure some dating lol!!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Just looking for NSA and people who want the same - it keeps the possibility of dating to a minimum. It can happen but I prefer to be on the lookout for it.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I would like a guy in my life but I need a kinky guy...I have a tendency to get bored in relationships not saying sex is the main bit of it I just need someone to keep me on my toes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think you should have sex with someone who you wouldn't consider dating even if you aren't looking to date, I mean standards should be the same whether dating or NSA.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I don't think you should have sex with someone who you wouldn't consider dating even if you aren't looking to date, I mean standards should be the same whether dating or NSA. "

I don't tend to arrange meets with someone I wouldn't date I thought I was weird doing this X

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I don't think you should have sex with someone who you wouldn't consider dating even if you aren't looking to date, I mean standards should be the same whether dating or NSA. "

It's not just standards though - I sometimes meet gorgeous young men for instance, but I would not date them.

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London


"I don't think you should have sex with someone who you wouldn't consider dating even if you aren't looking to date, I mean standards should be the same whether dating or NSA.

It's not just standards though - I sometimes meet gorgeous young men for instance, but I would not date them. "

you don't have to date them, but at least just be able to get along and have a laugh...otherwise it's just a "cum and go" lol

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I only meet folk I'm attracted to,. If I'm not comfortable in a social setting with the lady.. I'm going to feel very awkward if and when we're nude...

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I don't think you should have sex with someone who you wouldn't consider dating even if you aren't looking to date, I mean standards should be the same whether dating or NSA.

It's not just standards though - I sometimes meet gorgeous young men for instance, but I would not date them.

you don't have to date them, but at least just be able to get along and have a laugh...otherwise it's just a "cum and go" lol"

Exactly, and I'm not interested in that. I'm just saying there's plenty of reasons you might meet with someone who you would not date without them being 'below' your normal standards somehow. Horses for courses.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I only meet folk I'm attracted to,. If I'm not comfortable in a social setting with the lady.. I'm going to feel very awkward if and when we're nude... "

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