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By *ustmaybe OP   Man
over a year ago

Northwood

Hi all,

Just wondering why somebody would reply, give more details about themselves, seem interested in chatting further, send a picture...and then when you goto reply, you find you are blocked!

Tad confused.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They probably just changed their mind, don't worry about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or you send a perfectly polite and decent sized message and they don't have the manners to even reply, just delete your message.

Manners cost nothing !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to my world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 14/04/16 13:14:23]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't worry, you get some strange ones here lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's happens, maybe only one half of the couple had seen you profile and the other half said no, who knows really

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By *laskan lovers 1984Couple
over a year ago

West midlands

We had 1 when we started on here months ago

Messaging on here

Then texting

Spoke on fone Pkus to there partner

Then arranged meeting

Time and place and date

Plus

Seen each others photos

Then they went funny .yhen cancelled then blocked

There lose

Move on and your gold will come at end of rainbow soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unless you are telepathic, you'll never know so don't worry your little head about one person on the internet you'll never meet, it happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they block me i just laugh as they have just missed out on my sky remote sized dick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They probably just changed their mind, don't worry about it "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or you send a perfectly polite and decent sized message and they don't have the manners to even reply, just delete your message.

Manners cost nothing !

"

Why is it good manners to reject you in writing, didn't the deletion of your mail tell you everything you needed to know ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or you send a perfectly polite and decent sized message and they don't have the manners to even reply, just delete your message.

Manners cost nothing !

"

Might as well just delete all your sent mail as soon as you've sent it, then there's no angst over what the recipient has done with it, you'll either get a reply or you won't, its life on here.

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By *eMontresMan
over a year ago

Halesowen


"Or you send a perfectly polite and decent sized message and they don't have the manners to even reply, just delete your message.

Manners cost nothing !

"

Or someone joins a site and doesn't even bother to familiarise themselves with the policies and FAQ's

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough


"Or you send a perfectly polite and decent sized message and they don't have the manners to even reply, just delete your message.

Manners cost nothing !

"

You are in Fab now, you have gone through the looking glass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just saying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cause they dont know how to say they arent interested xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or you send a perfectly polite and decent sized message and they don't have the manners to even reply, just delete your message.

Manners cost nothing !

"

But they do, if your time is valued at £60 an hour and you choose to spend 1 second pressing delete or 5 minutes writing a polite no thanks they have cost £5

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Choice...

We all have it.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Or you send a perfectly polite and decent sized message and they don't have the manners to even reply, just delete your message.

Manners cost nothing !

But they do, if your time is valued at £60 an hour and you choose to spend 1 second pressing delete or 5 minutes writing a polite no thanks they have cost £5 "

Hmmm, I may start issuing invoices

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Dear Sir,

I refer you to my recent message within which I stated that I was available for a good fucking this afternoon at your flat.

I regret to inform you that I will not be able to keep our appointment for just as I was about to slip on my shoes and out of the door I recieved a phone call from my daughters school. She has had an extremely bad fall and is , as we speak , en route to hospital.

I know I should be at her side but I simply couldn't leave this house without first affirming my certificate in 'good manners' and not letting you down or giving you a good reason for the no show.

Please understand that I am only blocking you as I don't feel I deserve you and don't want to become a nuisance with the rampant and insessant begging that would ensue on my part.

Once again forgive me. Yours.......... manners maketh the fucker. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or you send a perfectly polite and decent sized message and they don't have the manners to even reply, just delete your message.

Manners cost nothing !

But they do, if your time is valued at £60 an hour and you choose to spend 1 second pressing delete or 5 minutes writing a polite no thanks they have cost £5 "

Ah but its not just the no thanks, then ensues the why, what's your type, you're a fat slag anyway type responses! Some people reply with a no thanks, others don't but it doesn't change the outcome, you're not going to meet them either way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

their loss innit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all,

Just wondering why somebody would reply, give more details about themselves, seem interested in chatting further, send a picture...and then when you goto reply, you find you are blocked!

Tad confused.

"

I had a situation recently where a couple asked for photos, commented they liked the photos and suggested a social. They then said I was not for them.

I suspect either I) they had gone back to my profile and seen something they didn't like or ii) only one half of the couple were responsible for the initial replies. Either way all you can do is move on and forget about it.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We had a situation where we met someone for a social and such was the horror for them they immediately deleted their profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block people that annoy me, continuously messaged me if I don't reply, I don't find attractive or and purely idiots x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delete , smile and move on

Happens to us all. No point in fretting over it

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By *adyboy-DaddyCouple
over a year ago

Andover


"Or you send a perfectly polite and decent sized message and they don't have the manners to even reply, just delete your message.

Manners cost nothing !

"

Sadly in Fab world, manners do cost something. Time, and sometimes lots of it.

It bothers me that we don't reply to all of our messeges so this afternoon while bored at work I responded to every unanswered message in our inbox.

The oldest were about 2 weeks old.

Took me 2 hours.

And my reward? Some lovely thank you messeges which was cool and a load of "why not" messeges which make me wish I hadn't responded in the first place.

It's a dilemma and you can't win.

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